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5 Successful People Who Got Rich with a Leisurely Lifestyle

5 Successful People Who Got Rich with a Leisurely Lifestyle

I know a very rich woman who insists on travelling on low cost flights to her holiday destinations! Now, that is not my idea of how rich people can enjoy a leisurely lifestyle. I am looking around for some much better examples which will inspire us. How did these people make all that money and do they really enjoy and value a relaxed lifestyle? Wealth is not just about money, you know!

1. Carlos Slim Helu’

With a wealth of around $81 billion, Carlos is regarded as the world’s richest man, and he has held that position for at least three years. So, how did he get rich and does he has a leisurely lifestyle?

He has made his fortune with the telecommunications industry in Mexico and far beyond. But his wealth has penetrated almost every industry and service in Mexico. It is no surprise to hear that his country is now referred to as “Slimlandia.” How did he do it? His fans say that he was successful because he recognizes an undervalued company when he sees it and buys it.

He also has an amazing talent for numbers and that helped him in his decision to buy into Cigatim, one of the largest tobacco companies in Mexico. They were the ones who made Marlboro cigarettes. He has also a great talent at putting companies together into monopolies, and specializing in telecommunications.

He is passionate about fine art and has named the new museum in honor of his late wife Soumaya, which houses a fantastic art collection and the value of the paintings and sculptures there are said to be worth over $400 million. He loves the Rodin sculptures especially.

He loves driving himself around Mexico city although he is surrounded by bodyguards in blacked out 4x4s.

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His idea of leisure is a very practical one. He is advocating that people should only work a 3 day week so that they have more time for entertainment, hobbies and spending time with loved ones. He is also a firm advocate of chasing away negative thoughts which can be toxic.

“Do not allow negative feelings and emotions to control your mind. Emotional harm does not come from others; it is conceived and developed within ourselves.”

—Carlos Slim

2. Larry Ellison

Larry Ellison is brash, very rich and has an inflated ego. He now ranks as the world’s ninth richest person and has a wealth worth around $46 billion. He says that he first used Facebook on a daily basis for three months. While he was doing that he found out what his friends were having for breakfast. He discovered that this was not so interesting! But the Facebook experience convinced him that if you or your company do not move forward with technology, then you are dead in the water. He is fond of quoting Woody Allen on this one.

“A relationship, I think, is like a shark. It has to constantly move forward or it dies.”

—Woody Allen

Larry Ellison always wanted to be rich so that he could always have enough time to go hiking in the Yosemite Valley. He already had his priorities right about a leisurely lifestyle. But he was made acutely aware of the fragility of our human existence in a terrible sailing accident in 1998 when six of his crewmates were killed in a typhoon. He survived and this convinced him of the need to treasure our time on this earth.

“I’ve known for a long time that life is glorious and fragile and short,”

—Larry Ellison

It also made him keenly aware of the need to get his work-life balance right. He always says that the measure of his success is not his actual wealth but how happy he is.

One of the secrets to Ellison’s success is that he has always ignored the critics who thought his ideas were crazy. If there were no factual errors in their criticism, he completely disregarded them. He has always said he used the following criteria in his business decisions:

  • if they are fair
  • if they are morally correct
  • if they work

 3. Amancio Ortega

Imagine building a fashion empire that reaches into over 80 countries. That is what the founder of Zara, Amancio Ortega, has done with incredible success. There are only 46 Zara stores in the US while China has 347! It is no surprise that he is the third wealthiest person on the planet. He is incredibly secretive and there are very few photographs of him available.

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In one rare interview, he revealed the secret of his success. He follows two simple rules. The first is that you give customers what they want. The second is that you deliver it to them faster than anyone else.

In the poor town of La Coruna where he grew up, he spotted an ideal workforce in the fishermen’s wives who were eager to earn extra cash sewing garments. These were organized into sewing cooperatives and so the first optimal supply chain was born. A lot of Zara’s success is due to accurate consumer feedback on what they want to buy plus the fact that Zara stores restock at lightning speed.

Ortega has shunned the celebrity lifestyle. He lives in a house with a sea view in La Coruna and goes to his country residence to enjoy raising chickens and goats and to stay with his family. He loves going on hiking pilgrimages and horse riding. His lifestyle is summed up as “absolute normality.” As he hates flying, he rarely travels so the chances of you meeting him in business class are about zero.

4. Miuccia Prada

“Rich people need to be entertained more and more. And then I think, ‘Let’s not entertain anymore. Let’s be simple.””

—Miuccia Prada

Miuccia Prada’s grandfather ran a leather goods shop in Milan. He probably never thought his granddaughter would have transformed that business into a global fashion empire. She is thought to be the single most important influence in contemporary fashion. Miuccia Prada’s wealth is now estimated at around $13 billion.

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The secret of her success is that she was able to identify what men were prepared to try in fashion. Her plan was to promote much more freedom in men’s clothes. She started by looking at what they were wearing on the golf course and took inspiration from that. She has applied similar ideas to women’s clothes with the overall aim of making women stronger and men more sensitive through what they are wearing. Another secret to her success is the fact that she is intensely competitive and she is also fiercely creative.

As to a leisurely lifestyle, Miuccia Prada treasures some simple pleasures such as playing cards, music, gardening and also watching football. Her home is always full of people and she obviously enjoys company, and has kept up her old school acquaintances. Her secret passion is sailing and she keeps her boat in a southern Italian port but I am not allowed to tell you where it is!

5. Larry Page

Larry Page and Google are household names. The fact that “google” has already become a verb is a tribute to Larry Page’s and Sergey Brin’s success. Page’s wealth is estimated at $31 billion. The first thing that strikes you about Larry Page is his complete commitment to the future because he is passionately interested in biotech and robotics which he hopes will extend the lifespan of human beings. He regularly talks about how life will be in the next century and that many of our problems as human beings on this rather tired planet will, hopefully, be solved.

He advises companies not to concentrate on producing the same things as their competitors with minor improvements. This sort of incremental progress will fail over time. He recommends that companies focus much less on their competitors. He claims that Google has only tackled about 1% of what can be done to make people’s lives better. He advocates that companies be much more adventurous in tackling the 99% of virgin territory out there.

“If you’re not doing some things that are crazy, then you’re doing the wrong things.”

—Larry Page

As for a leisurely lifestyle. Larry Page loves kite boarding and often goes to Richard Branson’s NeckerIsland to fly over the waves there. The private Google jet only seats 50 people whereas it was originally designed for 180. Nobody knows how the interior has been changed. There are rumors that there are hammocks on that plane but I have no reliable source to confirm that!

Featured photo credit: Larry Ellison on Stage/ Oracle PR via flickr.com

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The Science of Setting Goals (And How It Affects Your Brain)

The Science of Setting Goals (And How It Affects Your Brain)

What happens in our heads when we set goals?

Apparently a lot more than you’d think.

Goal setting isn’t quite so simple as deciding on the things you’d like to accomplish and working towards them.

According to the research of psychologists, neurologists, and other scientists, setting a goal invests ourselves into the target as if we’d already accomplished it. That is, by setting something as a goal, however small or large, however near or far in the future, a part of our brain believes that desired outcome is an essential part of who we are – setting up the conditions that drive us to work towards the goals to fulfill the brain’s self-image.

Apparently, the brain cannot distinguish between things we want and things we have. Neurologically, then, our brains treat the failure to achieve our goal the same way as it treats the loss of a valued possession. And up until the moment, the goal is achieved, we have failed to achieve it, setting up a constant tension that the brain seeks to resolve.

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Ideally, this tension is resolved by driving us towards accomplishment. In many cases, though, the brain simply responds to the loss, causing us to feel fear, anxiety, even anguish, depending on the value of the as-yet-unattained goal.

Love, Loss, Dopamine, and Our Dreams

The brains functions are carried out by a stew of chemicals called neurotransmitters. You’ve probably heard of serotonin, which plays a key role in our emotional life – most of the effective anti-depressant medications on the market are serotonin reuptake inhibitors, meaning they regulate serotonin levels in the brain leading to more stable moods.

Somewhat less well-known is another neurotransmitter, dopamine. Among other things, dopamine acts as a motivator, creating a sensation of pleasure when the brain is stimulated by achievement. Dopamine is also involved in maintaining attention – some forms of ADHD are linked to irregular responses to dopamine.[1]

So dopamine plays a key role in keeping us focused on our goals and motivating us to attain them, rewarding our attention and achievement by elevating our mood. That is, we feel good when we work towards our goals.

Dopamine is related to wanting – to desire. The attainment of the object of our desire releases dopamine into our brains and we feel good. Conversely, the frustration of our desires starves us of dopamine, causing anxiety and fear.

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One of the greatest desires is romantic love – the long-lasting, “till death do us part” kind. It’s no surprise, then, that romantic love is sustained, at least in part, through the constant flow of dopamine released in the presence – real or imagined – of our true love. Loss of romantic love cuts off that supply of dopamine, which is why it feels like you’re dying – your brain responds by triggering all sorts of anxiety-related responses.

Herein lies obsession, as we go to ever-increasing lengths in search of that dopamine reward. Stalking specialists warn against any kind of contact with a stalker, positive or negative, because any response at all triggers that reward mechanism. If you let the phone ring 50 times and finally pick up on the 51st ring to tell your stalker off, your stalker gets his or her reward, and learns that all s/he has to do is wait for the phone to ring 51 times.

Romantic love isn’t the only kind of desire that can create this kind of dopamine addiction, though – as Captain Ahab (from Moby Dick) knew well, any suitably important goal can become an obsession once the mind has established ownership.

The Neurology of Ownership

Ownership turns out to be about a lot more than just legal rights. When we own something, we invest a part of ourselves into it – it becomes an extension of ourselves.

In a famous experiment at Cornell University, researchers gave students school logo coffee mugs, and then offered to trade them chocolate bars for the mugs. Very few were willing to make the trade, no matter how much they professed to like chocolate. Big deal, right? Maybe they just really liked those mugs![2]

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But when they reversed the experiment, handing out chocolate and then offering to trade mugs for the candy, they found that now, few students were all that interested in the mugs. Apparently the key thing about the mugs or the chocolate wasn’t whether students valued whatever they had in their possession, but simply that they had it in their possession.

This phenomenon is called the “endowment effect”. In a nutshell, the endowment effect occurs when we take ownership of an object (or idea, or person); in becoming “ours” it becomes integrated with our sense of identity, making us reluctant to part with it (losing it is seen as a loss, which triggers that dopamine shut-off I discussed above).

Interestingly, researchers have found that the endowment effect doesn’t require actual ownership or even possession to come into play. In fact, it’s enough to have a reasonable expectation of future possession for us to start thinking of something as a part of us – as jilted lovers, gambling losers, and 7-year olds denied a toy at the store have all experienced.

The Upshot for Goal-Setters

So what does all this mean for would-be achievers?

On one hand, it’s a warning against setting unreasonable goals. The bigger the potential for positive growth a goal has, the more anxiety and stress your brain is going to create around it’s non-achievement.

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It also suggests that the common wisdom to limit your goals to a small number of reasonable, attainable objectives is good advice. The more goals you have, the more ends your brain thinks it “owns” and therefore the more grief and fear the absence of those ends is going to cause you.

On a more positive note, the fact that the brain rewards our attentiveness by releasing dopamine means that our brain is working with us to direct us to achievement. Paying attention to your goals feels good, encouraging us to spend more time doing it. This may be why outcome visualization — a favorite technique of self-help gurus involving imagining yourself having completed your objectives — has such a poor track record in clinical studies. It effectively tricks our brain into rewarding us for achieving our goals even though we haven’t done it yet!

But ultimately, our brain wants us to achieve our goals, so that it’s a sense of who we are that can be fulfilled. And that’s pretty good news!

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