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35 Amazing Picture Books For Adults That Will Warm Your Heart

35 Amazing Picture Books For Adults That Will Warm Your Heart

Even as an adult, when I read picture books to my young child I smile with delight and joy. Sometimes I even catch myself reading some of our favorite picture books after my daughter goes to sleep. In honor of the pictures books that make us giddy, give us an education and teach us how to become better people, here are 35 amazing picture books for adults that will warm your heart.

1. The Pilot and the Little Prince: The Life of Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, by Peter Sis

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    Sis’s book illuminates the life of French pilot and author Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, creator of The Little Prince. This epic tale of adventure follows Saint-Exupéry as he grows from a fatherless child to pioneer of flight.

    2. The Heart and the Bottle, by Oliver Jeffers

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      For anyone who has ever suffered the loss of a close person, Jeffers’s book captures the journey from loss of innocence to the revitalization of the soul.

      3. LaRue Across America: Post Cards From the Vacation, by Mark Teague

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        Gertrude LaRue and her canine companion, Ike, take a road trip through the heartland of American with two cats in tow. The delightful illustrations give us a fun sense of wonder and show us some of the great landscape and adventures found throughout the United States.

        4. New Big House, by Debi Gliori

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          It is never fun outgrowing a small house. But Gliori’s story guides us through the great adventure of searching for a new house, renovating a small house, and settling into a big, new, wonderful home.

          5. Seasons, by Blexbolex

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            This boldly illustrated book takes the reader through the symphony of the four seasons. It captures the great moments of winter, spring, summer and fall with fascinating simplicity.

            6. MAPS, by Aleksandra Mizielinska and Daniel Mizielinski

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              MAPS is an aesthetically pleasing, antique-type depiction of various countries’ borders and topography. The book also includes interesting information about various countries’ culture

              7. Slim and Miss Prim, by Robert Kinerk, illustrations by Jim Harris

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                Slim, a strong but shy cowboy, is secretly in love with ranch owner Marigold Prim. After both Slim and her cattle are stolen, Miss Prim travels through the majestic imagery of the Wild West to rescue them. After his rescue, Slim gets up the courage to marry Miss Prim.

                8. Bentley and Blueberry, by Randy Houk

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                  Blueberry is a lonely stray dog sitting in a shelter waiting for a family. Bentley is loved but lonely puppy. When the two meet, it brings mayhem and happiness to their owner Ms. Moody’s life. This book is based upon a true story.

                  9. Olivia, by Ian Falconer

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                    Every Olivia book is a delightful journey into the mind of a young girl. With simple but character-filled illustrations, every one of Olivia’s adventures – whether real or imaginary – are fun.

                    10. Polar Bear, Polar Bear, What Do You Hear?, by Bill Martin Jr. and Eric Carle

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                      This poetic tale of a day at the zoo depicts Eric Carle’s amazing creativity, coupled with Bill Martin’s sense of rhyme for an enjoyable exploration through the eyes of animals.

                      11. Corduroy, by Don Freeman

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                        Corduroy – a little bear all alone on a department store shelf – finds the love of a young girl, only to be abandoned because of his broken overalls. Corduroy ventures off his shelf to find a button to fix his overalls, but despite his escapades through the department store, he cannot fix them. In the end, the young girl’s love brings her back to buy the broken bear. This heartwarming tale has been loved by generations.

                        12. Jumanji, by Chris Van Allsburg

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                          Jumanji – the only board game that literally sucks you in – is an amazing jungle adventure that comes to life and symbolizes a son’s conflict with his father and his transformation into adulthood.

                          13. Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, by Roald Dahl

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                            In its 50th year, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory is still celebrating the unlikely friendship between Charlie Bucket – a boy living in abject poverty – and Willy Wonka – the successful chocolatier without a family. This tale of love, triumph and family continues to amaze children from five to 95.

                            14. Give Thanks for Each Day, by Steve Metzger, illustrated by Robert McPhillips

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                              This heartwarming poem illustrates the beauty of giving thanks for the simple things in life.

                              15. Little Bea and the Snowy Day, by Daniel Roode

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                                Little Bea and her friends show us the many ways we can have fun playing on a snowy day.

                                16. A Fine Picnic, by Mary Hoffman, illustrated by Leon Baxter

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                                  When the family picnic gets rained out, Jack’s family doesn’t let the showers spoil their outing. With the picnic basket, thermoses, rain jackets and a bit of imagination, Jack’s family makes their home into a perfect park land for a picnic.

                                  17. The River, by Alessandro Sanna

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                                    The very talented Alessandro Sanna takes us through the seasons with divine watercolor pictorials of each season’s special burst of color and flair.

                                    18. Fox, by Margaret Wild, illustrated by Ron Brooks

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                                      Another amazing illustrated book, this story explores the wonderful side of friendship and the dark side of jealousy.

                                      19. FArTHER, by Grahame Baker-Smith

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                                        FArTHER is a heartwarming story about how the bonds between father and son are hard to break, even when death tears them apart. Yet another amazing illustrated book, the story follows a young man who loses his father during the war and then proceeds to honor his father’s dream of flying.

                                        20. Voices in the Park, by Anthony Browne

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                                          Sometimes seeing the world from another person’s point of view can be difficult. Voices in the Park enlightens adults and children alike on how to see life from another person’s perspective and how to look beyond our own prejudice.

                                          21. The Fantastic Flying Books of Mr. Morris Lessmore, by William Joyce, illustrated with Joe Bluhm

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                                            An amazing book about loving books made for book lovers of all ages.

                                            22. Frankenstein, by Rick Walton, illustrated by Nathan Hale

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                                              Walton’s parody of Ludwig Bemelmans’s Madeline features a not-so-scary Frankenstein encompassing the fun spirit of Halloween.

                                              23. Goodnight iPad: a Parody for the Next Generation, by Ann Droyd

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                                                A parody of Goodnight Moon, Goodnight iPad pokes fun at the human race’s inability to unplug – ever. It’s also a good reason to put down the mobile device and pick up a book.

                                                24. Lights Out!, by John Himmelman

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                                                  Himmelman’s book is for moms, dads and sisters who have always wanted to know what really goes on at Boy Scout Camp, or for Boy Scouts who want to remember the silly stuff that makes camp so memorable.

                                                  25. What Moms Can’t Do, by Douglas Wood, illustrated by Doug Cushman

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                                                    This heartwarming tale is about the everyday tasks that moms can’t seem to accomplish – such as keeping the house clean or hearing herself think – told from a kids’ point of view. But in the end, every kid knows that what mom does best is love them.

                                                    26. The Littlest Pilgrim, by Brandi Dougherty, illustrated by Kirsten Richards

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                                                      Mini the pilgrim is a kind soul looking to help out those she loves, but she cannot seem to find anyone who is in need of her help. Eventually, Mini finds a girl who is in need of her friendship.

                                                      27. When Lucy Goes Out Walking, by Ashley Wolff

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                                                        We follow lovable puppy Lucy through her first year of life, month by month. Each month illustrates not only Lucy’s growth, but also the enjoyable aspects of the month, such as the cool April wind and October’s colorful leaves.

                                                        28. It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown, by Charles Schultz

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                                                          Every year, Linus van Pelt dutifully waits for the Great Pumpkin in the most sinister pumpkin patch, hoping his hero will arrive with lots of toys. And every year, the Great Pumpkin disappoints. But what keeps us in love with this tale is that we get the see the otherwise surly Lucy van Pelt’s love for her brother as she picks him up from the pumpkin patch at four in the morning, puts him to bed and gets extra candy for him while trick or treating.

                                                          29. The Day the Crayons Quit, by Drew Daywalt, illustrated by Oliver Jeffers

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                                                            One day, Duncan goes looking for his crayons only to find out they have left him a list of grievances and they have gone on strike. Duncan must figure out a way to fix each of their grievances before they will work again. Much like real life, Daywalt and Jeffers illustrate the complexity of relationships and how we can work to make them better.

                                                            30. The Snowy Day, by Ezra Jack Keats

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                                                              A simply beautiful story about a young boy named Peter who wakes up to find the delight of the first snow fall of the season. Peter’s adventures of making snow angels and throwing snowballs are reminiscent of the innocence of a snowy day as a child.

                                                              31. The Story of Ferdinand, by Munro Leaf, illustrated by Robert Lawson

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                                                                Ferdinand is a gentle bull who would rather smell flowers than butt heads. Ferdinand’s life of contentment and gentle being reminds us all how to be happy with ourselves – as we are—even if we aren’t the same as others.

                                                                32. The Story about Ping, by Marjorie Flack, illustrated by Kurt Wiese

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                                                                  Ping the duck lives on a boat in the Yangtze River with his family. One night, Ping becomes separated from his family and through some misadventures figures out just how much he loves them. Ping’s genuine love of his family encourages readers to cherish time with their own families.

                                                                  33. The Very Hungry Caterpillar, by Eric Carle

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                                                                    Eric Carle’s classic story follows a caterpillar as he evolves from an egg into a beautiful butterfly. This boldly illustrated story is captivating even as an adult.

                                                                    34. The Runaway Bunny, by Margaret Wise Brown, illustrated by Clement Hurd

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                                                                      The Runaway Bunny’s story is perhaps one of the most symbolic stories of how far a parent’s love will travel to keep a child safe. The simple illustrations make the book whimsical and enchanting.

                                                                      35. The Polar Express, by Chris Van Allsburg

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                                                                        Before Tom Hanks starred in the movie version of this renowned Christmas story, parents and children had been enjoying the tale for over 20 years. This story fills us all with the love and hope of the Christmas season, even if you don’t believe in Santa anymore.

                                                                        Featured photo credit: Books/Marin Resnick via flickr.com

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                                                                        How to Be Confident: 51 Proven Ways to Build Self-Confidence

                                                                        How to Be Confident: 51 Proven Ways to Build Self-Confidence

                                                                        When you learn how to be confident, you can use it in your everyday life to tackle all of your goals and challenges. However, not many people realize that learning how to gain self-confidence is like building a muscle—it grows in response to the level of performance required of it.

                                                                        Here I will give you 51 proven ways to overcome a lack of self-confidence and achieve more.

                                                                        1. Learn Something New

                                                                        Sign up for that evening class and enjoy it. Alternatively, read a book (or take an online course) on a topic you’ve always wanted to learn more about.

                                                                        Learning new things stretches your abilities, keeps your mind active, and most definitely improves your confidence in your ability to do new things.

                                                                        2. Ask Your Partner or a Friend What You Can Do For Them

                                                                        This can be something as easy as helping them with a chore they don’t like or have little time for. Through helping them, you’ll find that you feel better about yourself.

                                                                        3. Hit the Gym

                                                                        The physiological effects of going to the gym will leave you feeling great.

                                                                        Countless studies have shown that regular workouts at the gym can boost not only your sense of well-being, but can increase your self-esteem, too[1].

                                                                        4. Go to a Networking Event

                                                                        Rather than being nervous about your own stuff, focus on how to help others. Instead of going along with the aim of trying to sell yourself to others, why not change your approach and simply go along to see how you can help the people you meet?

                                                                        By doing this, you’ll come across as calm, confident, and someone that people will want to turn to again and again.

                                                                        5. Get Clear on the Things That Matter to You

                                                                        If these things are not in your life, you’ll need to bring them in.

                                                                        For example, if your daily work routine is currently as dull as dishwater—but you’d like it to be fun—then do something about it. Turn data entry into personal speed contests, paper filing into “screen-free” time, and interactions with your colleagues into enjoyable conversations.

                                                                        6. Remove Negativity From Your Life

                                                                        Write a list of the things you’re tolerating and putting up with in your life, then write down how you can remove, minimize, or diminish each one.

                                                                        I personally like to do this with pen and paper as it feels just a little more real and definite than on screen. It’s also a good idea to put the priority items at the top of your list, so you can begin resolving these first.

                                                                        7. Celebrate Your Big and Small Wins

                                                                        Look at the big or small goals you’ve completed, and give yourself credit for your part in it.

                                                                        Recognizing your achievements is not egotistical, it’s healthy.

                                                                        8. Converse With New People

                                                                        Go and have a conversation with someone you don’t know. By doing this, you may be pleasantly surprised by what—or who—you’ll discover.

                                                                        You can also extend this trait by breaking outside of your normal social situations at your workplace. This will do wonders when learning how to be confident.

                                                                        9. Do Something You Would Normally Say No to

                                                                        Next time you talk yourself out of doing something (a party invite, a challenging project, etc.), go and do it anyway. This is a great way to boost personal development.

                                                                        10. Do One Thing Each Day That Makes You Smile

                                                                        This could be something as simple as sending a thank you email to a colleague that has been helpful to you, or leaving a surprise present for your partner that they’ll discover when they wake up.

                                                                        Life shouldn’t be drudgery, and we all need to make the effort to keep it light, loving, and fun.

                                                                        11. Give Yourself Good Advice

                                                                        Look for the patterns of thought that take you to a place where you start second-guessing or overthinking.

                                                                        Now imagine that your best friend went through exactly the same thought process and ended up holding themselves back—what would you want to say to them?

                                                                        This is known as Soloman’s Paradox—we’re often quite good at solving others’ problems but not our own. Challenge this and take your own good advice next time[2].

                                                                        12. Ask Someone on a Date

                                                                        If you’re single and have met someone that you’re definitely attracted to—go ahead and ask them out.

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                                                                        Even if they turn you down, it will help you learn how to be confident through the fact that you were decisive and made an effort. What’s the best thing that could happen? They might just say yes!

                                                                        13. Write Down 20 Things That Make You Feel Good

                                                                        Think of this as a gratitude list. Typical things you might include are: your partner, your kids, your parents, your pets, etc.

                                                                        I recommend writing this list at least once a month. And most importantly—make sure you’re giving the 20 things plenty of room in your life.

                                                                        14. Stop Playing Different Roles

                                                                        Stop playing different roles and squeezing yourself into boxes based on what you think people expect of you.

                                                                        Be your authentic self, the one who knows what to do and loves what they do. It’s easy to find this part of yourself as it’s inherent in your hobbies and your close friendships.

                                                                        If you can bring this authenticity into your work life, you’ll be surprised at how positively others will react to you.

                                                                        15. Cultivate a Positive Mindset

                                                                        Learn to catch yourself every time you tell yourself that you can’t have, won’t get, or aren’t good enough to get what you want[3].

                                                                        Talk yourself up when learning how to be confident.

                                                                          Instead, tell yourself that you can have, will get, and are good enough to get what you want. Mindset is everything. Make sure yours is positive and dynamic.

                                                                          16. Take Yourself off Auto-Pilot

                                                                          Make deliberate decisions on what really matters to you.

                                                                          For instance, if you normally work 9 to 5 but find yourself spending hours getting to and from work, why not negotiate with your boss to mix your hours up a bit?

                                                                          You might also suggest a day or two working from home. Sell this to your boss by reminding them that the time and stress lost to commuting can be neatly transferred to productive work hours.

                                                                          17. Listen Carefully to What You Tell Yourself

                                                                          Next time you come up against a risk or a challenge, listen to what you tell yourself, and look for a way to improve your inner dialogue.

                                                                          If you normally find that your inner dialogue is negative, then break out of this by asking yourself questions such as:

                                                                          • What would make this easier?
                                                                          • Is there a different way of doing this?
                                                                          • Could research help?

                                                                          18. Laugh at Yourself

                                                                          Scared of looking silly? It’s no biggie, so don’t let it stop you.

                                                                          Whenever we try something new, there’s a fair chance that we’ll make fools of ourselves. But you’d be a bigger fool to let that stop you. Instead, laugh at your baby steps and watch your confidence soar as you begin to master your chosen activity.

                                                                          19. Listen to Your Doubts

                                                                          Sometimes your doubts are there to let you know what you need to prepare for, so you can use them to your benefit as you move forwards. Other times, they are just doubts.

                                                                          The trick is to quickly determine if your doubts have validity. If they do, use them to shape your decisions.

                                                                          To illustrate this, imagine that you’ve had an enticing job offer, but you doubt whether you’re capable of doing the job. Spend a little time analyzing your doubts to see whether they reflect reality, or whether they are just negative thoughts that are trying to hold you back.

                                                                          20. Recall a Time When You Did a Great Job

                                                                          Think of a time when it felt like a whole bank of switches in your head flicked to the on position, and you were firing on all cylinders. What were you doing, and what’s the reason it felt so great? Can you emulate that passion and drive that you had?

                                                                          21. Tear up Your Rule Book

                                                                          You may not know it, but you’ve almost certainly got a whole bunch of outdated rules that determine what you do and don’t do. These rules limit your thinking and your behavior.

                                                                          It’s time to change them. Tear up this subconscious rule book and toss it in the fire. Once you’ve done this, you’ll immediately notice how free you feel to make challenging and exciting decisions.

                                                                          22. Ask Yourself What You Have Gained When You Lose

                                                                          Do you get annoyed with yourself because you didn’t make the most of something or stepped back from an opportunity?

                                                                          Firstly, don’t beat yourself up because that’s just going to make you feel worse. Instead, be brutally honest and ask yourself what you gained from the situation and what you lost out on.

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                                                                          Based on this win/lose balance, what’s a different choice you can make next time?

                                                                          23. Don’t Let People Put You Down

                                                                          If there’s someone in your life who puts you down or makes you feel small, you owe it to yourself to let them know that you expect something different from now on. 

                                                                          Trust me, once you’ve told them, they’ll change, and you will, too. Inevitably, you’ll boost both your confidence and happiness by taking control of your life in this way.

                                                                          Learn how to get out of toxic relationships in this article.

                                                                          24. Reveal a Little Bit of the Real You

                                                                          Relationships can be difficult. They can also lose their zest and become stale. If this happens in your relationship, then it’s time to add some magic to the mix.

                                                                          Try revealing something interesting about yourself or your past that your partner doesn’t currently know when learning how to be confident. Perhaps you never mentioned to them that you used to play in a rock band—and you still have the recordings to prove it!

                                                                          By adding new things to your relationship, you’ll deepen the bond and keep the spark alive.

                                                                          25. Be Your Own Hero

                                                                          Recognize that you’re more than a match for any situation you might find yourself in—no matter how tough the going gets.

                                                                          We all love movies like Die Hard where ordinary people are driven to super-ordinary feats. But here’s the rub: you can be your own action hero.

                                                                          Whatever the situation, meet it head on and overcome it. Keep in mind the classic phrase: “Where there’s a will, there’s a way.”

                                                                          26. Don’t Give in to the Instant Pay-off

                                                                          If I was to offer you $100 now for a day’s work tomorrow or $110 for the same work, but I won’t pay you for a week, which would you choose? Well, I can’t read your mind, but I do know that studies using a similar question to this have found that most people choose the instant, smaller payment over the latter, bigger payment. It seems that we’re hardwired for instant gratification.

                                                                          However, if you want to be a success in life, always look at the bigger picture. In the example above, if you could have only waited seven more days, you would have been $10 richer!

                                                                          27. Instead of Yelling “I Deserve Better,” Say “I Can Be Better”

                                                                          Too often I hear people complaining about their personal circumstances but refusing to do anything about it. Don’t be like them.

                                                                          If things aren’t going your way, find solutions and implement them. Your boldness and decisiveness will boost your confidence and help you rapidly climb the ladder of success.

                                                                          28. Admit You’re Wrong

                                                                          It may not be easy, but you should always be prepared to hold your hands up and change your mind if things are going south. Not every idea you have will be a winning one. The trick is to know when things are clearly not working out.

                                                                          You can either attempt to get them back on track or kill them off completely (sometimes that’s the best way).

                                                                          29. Trust Your Instincts

                                                                          We all have our gut feelings and intuitions, but many people choose to ignore them and rely only on facts, facts, and more facts! While this may work for many scenarios, there will be other times when you’ll need to rely on your instincts.

                                                                          30. Imagine Your Confident Future Self

                                                                          Imagine you’re visited by a successful, confident, attractive, and vibrant version of you from the future, a version of you who’s everything you hope to be. What do they want to tell you?

                                                                          They might praise your efforts, but they may also criticize your lack of planning and weak goals.

                                                                          Luckily, if you listen closely to what they tell you, you’ll be able to rapidly shift gears in your life and become the you of the future!

                                                                          31. Ask for Help

                                                                          This is a common issue. We take on way too many responsibilities and end up either burning ourselves out or just doing a bad job!

                                                                          The secret is to put the vast majority of your energy and efforts into what you do well. Give the stuff you don’t do well to others who have a gift for it. Sometimes the most confident and effective thing to do is ask for help.

                                                                          32. Be Around People Who Make You Feel Like You

                                                                          Do this by spending more time with the people who support and encourage you and less time with those who undermine you.

                                                                          At work, don’t be ruined by negative, petty people. Instead, make sure you surround yourself with colleagues who make you laugh and feel good about yourself.

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                                                                          33. Participate in the World Around You

                                                                          Ask yourself this question: “What can I participate in that’s important to me?”

                                                                          Typically, this could be your church, a sports club, or even just a weekly get together with your best friend.

                                                                          34. Develop Skills to Work on Things That Matter to You

                                                                          What can you practice that would radically improve your chances of winning?

                                                                          If you want to climb the corporate ladder, for example, then develop the skills needed to do this. These might include: effective project management skills, powerful presentation abilities, and superb goal setting skills.

                                                                          Of course, don’t forget that emulating those who have already achieved your goal is one of the quickest and most reliable ways for you to achieve your aims, too.

                                                                          35. Act Until You Make It

                                                                          The body is a mirror for the mind, so shifting your body language into a confident state can have surprising results.

                                                                          This is all about acting. If you want to come across as tough, act tough. If you want to come across as successful, act successful. And if you want to come across as confident, act confident.

                                                                          Try doing these things, and you’ll be amazed by the results.

                                                                          36. Push Through When You Want to Give up

                                                                          Don’t get disheartened or demotivated when you get to 90% with something you’re working on. Push through, and you’ll see that the last 10% is where the magic happens.

                                                                          37. Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

                                                                          Keep comparing yourself to others? Stop it. If you want to learn how to be confident, don’t try to validate yourself through comparison—you’re just peachy as you are.

                                                                          Social media often makes this difficult. Try stepping away from your Facebook page for a few days and reconnect with the great things in your own life.

                                                                          You can get started with this guide.

                                                                          38. Speak up When You Can Make a Difference

                                                                          Speak up if there’s something you think could be improved or if you have an idea you think has legs.

                                                                          Have you noticed that quiet people at work rarely get the promotions? It’s not that they are incapable or lacking talent, but their abilities are usually overlooked as they don’t know how to engage with others or how to sell themselves.

                                                                          Step out of your comfort zone and be sure that you’re an active player. Speak up in meetings by suggesting ideas and offering constructive criticism.

                                                                          39. Stop Struggling and Start Accepting

                                                                          If there’s something you’ve been struggling to understand for a while, stop trying to understand it. Accept it just as it is, fully and wholly.

                                                                          Life offers endless mysteries. If you try to resolve them all you’ll drive yourself insane. Instead, let some mysteries remain, and keep your mind focused on your goals and dreams.

                                                                          40. It’s Okay to Be Shy

                                                                          There’s nothing wrong with being shy, and it doesn’t mean you’re not a confident person.

                                                                          If you suffer from shyness, you might think it’s a major weakness of yours. However, introverted people have the edge in many ways, such as: they’re first-rate listeners, they have excellent observational skills, and they’re easier to trust[4].

                                                                          41. Clean up Your Environment

                                                                          Your environment directly impacts your self-perception. So, if you’re surrounded by clutter, paperwork, and rubbish, put a morning aside to clean up your stuff and get organized.

                                                                          42. Write a List of Things You Would Love to Do

                                                                          Write yourself a list of the amazing things you’d love to do in your life, and make a start by simply looking into the first one or two things that leap out at you. This will help you get started as you learn how to be confident

                                                                          Even if you don’t currently have the means to live your dreams, you can, at the very least, make a start. The best way to do this is to write out the things you’d love to do. These may include cool stuff, such as travelling the world, learning a new language, or climbing a mountain.

                                                                          Once you’ve added the items to your list, don’t stop there. Begin researching and preparing ways to turn your dreams into realities.

                                                                          43. Make Your Self-Worth Independent From Others’ Validation

                                                                          Don’t make your happiness or self-worth dependent on being in a relationship or being validated by someone else.

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                                                                          While it’s difficult to admit it, we often find ourselves rating our self-esteem by the value other people put on us.

                                                                          For instance, you may have a super-positive boss who is always encouraging and supportive. They make you feel upbeat and confident at all times.

                                                                          However, imagine if they left and your new boss was the complete opposite. They constantly look for faults in your work and regularly criticize you. Would you still feel confident in those circumstances?

                                                                          If you’ve answered no, then you need to reappraise your self-worth, as it shouldn’t be dependent on the validation of others.

                                                                          44. Use Your Strengths

                                                                          We all have our weaknesses, but they only undermine your confidence if you let them.

                                                                          For instance, are you aware that Virgin’s founder Richard Branson suffers from dyslexia? He never let this hold him back or destroy his confidence. Today, he is one of the world’s most successful men, with a net worth of approximately $5 billion[5].

                                                                          45. Complete a To-Do List

                                                                          The longer you leave that big thing on your to-do list, the more it’ll drain you, and the bigger it’ll seem. Get it done and free yourself up.

                                                                          If you have a big goal, break it down into smaller tasks. For instance, instead of trying to write a whole chapter of your book in one go, how about just writing the opening paragraph?

                                                                          46. Treat Your Body Well

                                                                          When learning how to be confident, our body image does matter, because if you have a bad relationship with your body, you won’t feel confident in yourself.

                                                                          What’s one of the first things most of us do when we get up in the morning? We look in the mirror. If we don’t like what we see there, then our day starts off with negative self-talk. If, on the other hand, we look in the mirror and feel proud of our appearance, then we start the day off in an upbeat, positive way.

                                                                          If you’re unhappy with your body and looks, do something to improve them. Exercise, diet, and styling are common ways of improving your body image—and your confidence.

                                                                          47. Learn to Say No

                                                                          Don’t say yes to taking on a task simply because you don’t want to rock the boat. You can politely decline requests you can’t meet without needing to create excuses.

                                                                          While saying yes to everything that comes your way might feel like you’re being helpful and in demand, in the long run, you’ll burn yourself out.

                                                                          48. Learn From Confident People

                                                                          Look at the people you respect who seem confident. Don’t copy them, but identify what it is they do differently that conveys confidence and what you can learn from it.

                                                                          People-watching is not only fun, but it can be informative, too. Look closely at successful people you know, or those being interviewed on TV, and over time you’ll begin to notice common traits, beliefs, and behaviors that they exhibit.

                                                                          49. Follow Through on Your Plans

                                                                          Most people find it easy to write plans. The hard part, of course, is seeing them through. To stand out from the crowd, make sure that you know exactly how to complete your plans.

                                                                          If you need to, write down a step-by-step guide and begin following it. Not only will this drive you towards the completion of your plans—but experiencing the progress will also give you a continuous boost to your self-esteem.

                                                                          50. Shift Your Focus When You Doubt Yourself

                                                                          When you feel yourself focusing inwards and becoming paralyzed with doubt or fear, switch to focusing outwards at what you can engage and interact with.

                                                                          I remember one of my writing tutors telling me that when the words stop flowing, it’s time to take a break— preferably a walk in the park. It’s sound advice as it’s very easy to get caught up with our thoughts and emotions and be unable to make progress.

                                                                          51. Never Beat Yourself up for Failing

                                                                          Life is guaranteed to not always be a barrel of laughs. Instead, it’s much more like a roller coaster. There will be ups and downs, so ride them out.

                                                                          The art of living is to know how to handle whatever comes you way. The best way to achieve this is by developing an iron core that is unhindered by the topsy-turvy outside world.

                                                                          Final Thoughts

                                                                          Here I’ve given you 51 different ways to start building self-confidence Take action on the ways that you’re drawn to.

                                                                          It’s not enough to read about them. For them to work, you must adopt them into your daily life. Do this, and you’ll start to feel your confidence soar.

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