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The Ultimate Chat-Up Lines Cheat Sheet For Ice-Breaking

The Ultimate Chat-Up Lines Cheat Sheet For Ice-Breaking

Ever used a chat-up line to break the ice? Come near, I’ll teach you some lines that will surely make you successful as an ice breaker. One thing you have to remember is that you are delivering spiels, so the way you deliver them is the biggest factor for the chat-up line to be impactful. Take it from a radio host who handled shows for 18 years.

Here are cheesy chat-up lines you can use to break ice:

NOTE: Remember, its all in the delivery. Be bold and give all you’ve got when you give the spiel.

1. While having a date in a fine dining restaurant:
You may fall from the sky, you may fall from a tree, but the best way to fall… is in love with me.

2. In an open house while checking every corner of the house:
Are you an interior decorator? Because when I saw you, the entire room became beautiful.

3. While roaming around in a photo exhibit:
I’m not a photographer, but I can picture me and you together.

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4. While hanging out on the beach:
Do you have a sunburn, or are you always this hot?

5. While having a drink in a bar:
Did it hurt when you fell out of heaven?

6. While standing in line waiting for your turn on a supermarket cashier:
Is your daddy a Baker? Because you’ve got a nice set of buns!

7. While hanging out with friends in a park:
Are you a camera? Because every time I look at you, I smile.

8. While attending a friend’s party:
I guess you can kiss Heaven goodbye. Because it has got to be a sin to look that good.

9. Anywhere during the yuletide season:
If a fat man puts you in a bag at night, don’t worry I told Santa I wanted you for Christmas.

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10. In a bar while hanging with friends:
My buddies bet me that I wouldn’t be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl in the bar. Wanna buy some drinks with their money?

11. In a restaurant while having a lunch break:
Know what’s on the menu? Me-n-u.

12. While walking in a university campus and the girl you want to chat with is sitting or waiting for her next class:
Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?

13. During a dinner date (while waiting for the food to arrive) in a swanky restaurant:
I will stop loving you when an apple grows from a mango tree on the 30th of February.

14. In the metro while waiting for a cab:
You look cold. Want to use me as a blanket?

15. In a Men’s and Ladies clothing store while shopping for clothes:
Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living?

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16. In an urban area while walking with a crowd:
Can I have directions? [To where?] To your heart.

17. In a bar while enjoying a drink:
I’m not drunk, I’m just intoxicated by YOU.

18. During a seminar break, while waiting for the next session:
I was so enchanted by your beauty that I ran into that wall over there. So I’m going to need your name and number for insurance purposes.

19. While on the beach just walking by the shore:
I must be lost. I thought paradise was further south?

20. While watching a basketball game in a sports arena:
Your body is 65% water and I’m thirsty.

21. On the streets near corporate buildings after parking your car:
Are you a parking ticket? Because you’ve got FINE written all over you.

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22. In a clinic lounge while waiting for your turn to see the doctor.
My doctor says I’m lacking Vitamin U.

23. During the rush hour after work, while walking in the metro:
Can I follow you home? Cause my parents always told me to follow my dreams.

24. During an acquaintance party in a school:
People call me John, but you can call me Tonight!

25. Inside a university canteen while taking a break after class:
You look so familiar… didn’t we take a class together? I could’ve sworn we had chemistry.

Sources: BestChatUpLines.comGotLinesPick Up Lines Galore

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12 Things You Should Remember When Feeling Lost in Life

12 Things You Should Remember When Feeling Lost in Life

Even the most charismatic people you know, whether in person or celebrities of some sort, experience days where they feel lost in life and isolated from everyone else.

While it’s good to know we aren’t alone in this feeling, the question still remains:

What should we do when we feel lost and lonely?

Here are 12 things to remember:

1. Recognize That It’s Okay!

The truth is, there are times you need to be alone. If you’ve always been accustomed to being in contact with people, this may prove difficult.

However, learning how to be alone and comfortable in your own skin will give you confidence and a sense of self reliance.

We cheat ourselves out of the opportunity to become self reliant when we look for constant companionship.

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2. Use Your Lost and Loneliness as a Self-Directing Guide

You’ve most likely heard the expression: “You have to know where you’ve been to know where you’re going.”

Loneliness also serves as a life signal to indicate you’re in search of something. It’s when we’re in the midst of solitude that answers come from true soul searching.

Remember, there is more to life than what you’re feeling.

3. Realize Loneliness Helps You Face the Truth

Being in the constant company of others, although comforting sometimes, can often serve as a distraction when we need to face the reality of a situation.

Solitude cuts straight to the chase and forces you to deal with the problem at hand. See it as a blessing that can serve as a catalyst to set things right!

4. Be Aware That You Have More Control Than You Think

Typically, when we see ourselves as being lost or lonely, it gives us an excuse to view everything we come in contact with in a negative light. It lends itself to putting ourselves in the victim mode, when the truth of the matter is that you choose your attitude in every situation.

No one can force a feeling upon you! It is YOU who has the ultimate say as to how you choose to react.

5. Embrace the Freedom That the Feeling of Being Alone Can Offer

Instead of wallowing in self pity, which many are prone to do because of loneliness, try looking at your circumstance as a new-found freedom.

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Most people are in constant need of approval of their viewpoints. Try enjoying the fact that  you don’t need everyone you care about to support your decisions.

6. Acknowledge the Person You Are Now

Perhaps you feel a sense of loneliness and confusion because your life circumstances have taken you away from the persona that others know to be you.

Perhaps the new you differs radically from the old. Realize that life is about change and how we react to that change. It’s okay that you’re not who you used to be.

Take a look at this article and learn to accept your imperfect self: Accept Yourself (Flaws and All): 7 Benefits of Being Vulnerable

7. Keep Striving to Do Your Best

Often those who are feeling isolated and unto themselves will develop a defeatist attitude. They’ll do substandard work because their self esteem is low and they don’t care.

Never let this feeling take away your sense of worth! Do your best always and when you come through this dark time, others will admire how you stayed determined in spite of the obstacles you had to overcome.

And to live your best life, you must do this ONE thing: step out of your comfort zone.

8. Don’t Forget That Time Is Precious

When we’re lost in a sea of loneliness and depression, it’s all too easy to reflect on regrets of past life events. This does nothing but feed negativity and perpetuate the situation.

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Instead of falling prey to this common pitfall, put one foot in front of the other and acknowledge every positive step you take. By doing this, you can celebrate the struggles you overcome at the end of the day.

9. Remember, Things Happen for a Reason

Every circumstance we encounter in our life is designed to teach us and that lesson is in turn passed on to others.

Sometimes we’re fortunate enough to figure out the lesson to be learned, while other times, we simply need to have faith that if the lesson wasn’t meant directly for us to learn from, how we handled it was observed by someone who needed to learn.

Your solitude and feeling of lost, in this instance, although painful possibly, may be teaching someone else.

10. Journal During This Time

Record your thoughts when you’re at the height of loneliness and feeling lost. You’ll be amazed when you reflect back at how you viewed things at the time and how far you’ve come later.

This time (if recorded) can give you a keen insight into who you are and what makes you feel the way you feel.

11. Remember You Aren’t the First to Feel This Way

It’s quite common to feel as if we’re alone and no one else has ever felt this way before. We think this because at the time of our distress, we’re silently observing others around us who are seemingly fine in every way.

The truth is, we can’t possibly know the struggles of those around us unless they elect to share them. We ALL have known this pain!

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Try confiding in someone you trust and ask them how they deal with these feelings when they experienced it. You may be surprised at what you learn.

12. Ask for Help If the Problem Persists

The feeling of being lost and lonely is common to everyone, but typically it will last for a relatively short period of time.

Most people will confess to, at one time or another, being in a “funk.” But if the problem persists longer than you feel it should, don’t ignore it.

When your ability to reason and consider things rationally becomes impaired, do not poo poo the problem away and think it isn’t worthy of attention. Seek medical help.

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Final Thoughts

Loneliness and a sense of feeling lost can in many ways be extremely painful and difficult to deal with at best. However, these feelings can also serve as a catalyst for change in our lives if we acknowledge them and act.

Above anything, cherish your mental well being and don’t underestimate its worth. Seek professional guidance if you’re unable to distinguish between a sense of freedom for yourself and a sense of despair.

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