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The Ultimate Chat-Up Lines Cheat Sheet For Ice-Breaking

The Ultimate Chat-Up Lines Cheat Sheet For Ice-Breaking

Ever used a chat-up line to break the ice? Come near, I’ll teach you some lines that will surely make you successful as an ice breaker. One thing you have to remember is that you are delivering spiels, so the way you deliver them is the biggest factor for the chat-up line to be impactful. Take it from a radio host who handled shows for 18 years.

Here are cheesy chat-up lines you can use to break ice:

NOTE: Remember, its all in the delivery. Be bold and give all you’ve got when you give the spiel.

1. While having a date in a fine dining restaurant:
You may fall from the sky, you may fall from a tree, but the best way to fall… is in love with me.

2. In an open house while checking every corner of the house:
Are you an interior decorator? Because when I saw you, the entire room became beautiful.

3. While roaming around in a photo exhibit:
I’m not a photographer, but I can picture me and you together.

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4. While hanging out on the beach:
Do you have a sunburn, or are you always this hot?

5. While having a drink in a bar:
Did it hurt when you fell out of heaven?

6. While standing in line waiting for your turn on a supermarket cashier:
Is your daddy a Baker? Because you’ve got a nice set of buns!

7. While hanging out with friends in a park:
Are you a camera? Because every time I look at you, I smile.

8. While attending a friend’s party:
I guess you can kiss Heaven goodbye. Because it has got to be a sin to look that good.

9. Anywhere during the yuletide season:
If a fat man puts you in a bag at night, don’t worry I told Santa I wanted you for Christmas.

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10. In a bar while hanging with friends:
My buddies bet me that I wouldn’t be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl in the bar. Wanna buy some drinks with their money?

11. In a restaurant while having a lunch break:
Know what’s on the menu? Me-n-u.

12. While walking in a university campus and the girl you want to chat with is sitting or waiting for her next class:
Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?

13. During a dinner date (while waiting for the food to arrive) in a swanky restaurant:
I will stop loving you when an apple grows from a mango tree on the 30th of February.

14. In the metro while waiting for a cab:
You look cold. Want to use me as a blanket?

15. In a Men’s and Ladies clothing store while shopping for clothes:
Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living?

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16. In an urban area while walking with a crowd:
Can I have directions? [To where?] To your heart.

17. In a bar while enjoying a drink:
I’m not drunk, I’m just intoxicated by YOU.

18. During a seminar break, while waiting for the next session:
I was so enchanted by your beauty that I ran into that wall over there. So I’m going to need your name and number for insurance purposes.

19. While on the beach just walking by the shore:
I must be lost. I thought paradise was further south?

20. While watching a basketball game in a sports arena:
Your body is 65% water and I’m thirsty.

21. On the streets near corporate buildings after parking your car:
Are you a parking ticket? Because you’ve got FINE written all over you.

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22. In a clinic lounge while waiting for your turn to see the doctor.
My doctor says I’m lacking Vitamin U.

23. During the rush hour after work, while walking in the metro:
Can I follow you home? Cause my parents always told me to follow my dreams.

24. During an acquaintance party in a school:
People call me John, but you can call me Tonight!

25. Inside a university canteen while taking a break after class:
You look so familiar… didn’t we take a class together? I could’ve sworn we had chemistry.

Sources: BestChatUpLines.comGotLinesPick Up Lines Galore

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

An Inspirational Story…

For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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