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The Ultimate Chat-Up Lines Cheat Sheet For Ice-Breaking

The Ultimate Chat-Up Lines Cheat Sheet For Ice-Breaking

Ever used a chat-up line to break the ice? Come near, I’ll teach you some lines that will surely make you successful as an ice breaker. One thing you have to remember is that you are delivering spiels, so the way you deliver them is the biggest factor for the chat-up line to be impactful. Take it from a radio host who handled shows for 18 years.

Here are cheesy chat-up lines you can use to break ice:

NOTE: Remember, its all in the delivery. Be bold and give all you’ve got when you give the spiel.

1. While having a date in a fine dining restaurant:
You may fall from the sky, you may fall from a tree, but the best way to fall… is in love with me.

2. In an open house while checking every corner of the house:
Are you an interior decorator? Because when I saw you, the entire room became beautiful.

3. While roaming around in a photo exhibit:
I’m not a photographer, but I can picture me and you together.

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4. While hanging out on the beach:
Do you have a sunburn, or are you always this hot?

5. While having a drink in a bar:
Did it hurt when you fell out of heaven?

6. While standing in line waiting for your turn on a supermarket cashier:
Is your daddy a Baker? Because you’ve got a nice set of buns!

7. While hanging out with friends in a park:
Are you a camera? Because every time I look at you, I smile.

8. While attending a friend’s party:
I guess you can kiss Heaven goodbye. Because it has got to be a sin to look that good.

9. Anywhere during the yuletide season:
If a fat man puts you in a bag at night, don’t worry I told Santa I wanted you for Christmas.

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10. In a bar while hanging with friends:
My buddies bet me that I wouldn’t be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl in the bar. Wanna buy some drinks with their money?

11. In a restaurant while having a lunch break:
Know what’s on the menu? Me-n-u.

12. While walking in a university campus and the girl you want to chat with is sitting or waiting for her next class:
Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?

13. During a dinner date (while waiting for the food to arrive) in a swanky restaurant:
I will stop loving you when an apple grows from a mango tree on the 30th of February.

14. In the metro while waiting for a cab:
You look cold. Want to use me as a blanket?

15. In a Men’s and Ladies clothing store while shopping for clothes:
Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living?

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16. In an urban area while walking with a crowd:
Can I have directions? [To where?] To your heart.

17. In a bar while enjoying a drink:
I’m not drunk, I’m just intoxicated by YOU.

18. During a seminar break, while waiting for the next session:
I was so enchanted by your beauty that I ran into that wall over there. So I’m going to need your name and number for insurance purposes.

19. While on the beach just walking by the shore:
I must be lost. I thought paradise was further south?

20. While watching a basketball game in a sports arena:
Your body is 65% water and I’m thirsty.

21. On the streets near corporate buildings after parking your car:
Are you a parking ticket? Because you’ve got FINE written all over you.

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22. In a clinic lounge while waiting for your turn to see the doctor.
My doctor says I’m lacking Vitamin U.

23. During the rush hour after work, while walking in the metro:
Can I follow you home? Cause my parents always told me to follow my dreams.

24. During an acquaintance party in a school:
People call me John, but you can call me Tonight!

25. Inside a university canteen while taking a break after class:
You look so familiar… didn’t we take a class together? I could’ve sworn we had chemistry.

Sources: BestChatUpLines.comGotLinesPick Up Lines Galore

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

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