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An Open Letter To My Future Boyfriend

An Open Letter To My Future Boyfriend

Relationships are aimed to increase the “happiness quotient” in our lives. The first relationship is special to each and every one – the expectations, aspirations, dreams, fantasies, faults, more misunderstandings, etc. However, it tells us who we are and what we practically expect from a relationship. Moreover a break up makes us stronger.

I have seen a lot many of my friends, being more mature after ending up their first relationship. But girls always take longer time to overcome the breakup blues. So I have decided to dedicate this post to the lovely ladies all over the world because I believe that every girl is special and she deserves the man who is the best for her and brings out the best in her. Before thinking of any future relationship, a girl must learn to love herself and the present moment because the key to finding true love is self love.

In an open letter to my future boyfriend I would like to include all the things that make a relationship worthy of lasting till eternity. Here it goes:

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My Dear Future Boyfriend,

I have seen my share of immature first loves and the painful heartbreaks that follow. When I look back now, I feel that I have grown up. I know my priorities in life. I know myself and I am deeply, madly, and passionately in love with myself.

At the moment I don’t want a boyfriend. I don’t want to flaunt among my friends because I already have an awesome life.

But one day in my future I will need someone. Someone who can complete and compliment me. Someone who trusts me. Someone who understands me. Someone who is as strong as the wind to fight for me. Someone who is as soft as the breeze to calm me. Someone who is just there beside me, with unspoken words, with the unsaid promis to have the best talks in silenc. Someone who share my grievances.

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Will you be the one who stays?

I want someone who can forgive me for every fight. Someone who needs me in his life. Someone who can make me run on that road which never ends, which is build out of trust and patience, which has only love and longing to be the best for the best.

I want someone who is daring enough to steal the princess from her own self. Someone who looks beyond the figure and physical appearances and sees my true inner core. Someone who looks me in the eyes and connects with my soul.

Someone who allows me to be stupid and childish. Someone who strengthens me daily before I go to work. Someone who is my friend to support and understand me with my ways. Someone with whom I am free to be my own self.

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Together we will define love.

I want someone who can define love in my life. Love – as pure as the snow, as pious as the divine, as strong as the mountains, as beautiful as the stars twinkling above.

I know if he exists, I will meet him at the perfect time and in the perfect way. And I will change into my true self through him and for him. I will be changed. But what I love most is the irony that he won’t care if I change or stay the same, because he will love me no matter what.


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I am happy with my life and with each passing day. I am learning new ways to love myself. I am enjoying being single because it allows me to dream of you while pursuing my own dreams.

I wish the same accelerates with your entry into my life.

In Love,

Your Future Girlfriend

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Last Updated on December 2, 2018

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

When giving a presentation or speech, you have to engage your audience effectively in order to truly get your point across. Unlike a written editorial or newsletter, your speech is fleeting; once you’ve said everything you set out to say, you don’t get a second chance to have your voice heard in that specific arena.

You need to make sure your audience hangs on to every word you say, from your introduction to your wrap-up. You can do so by:

1. Connecting them with each other

Picture your typical rock concert. What’s the first thing the singer says to the crowd after jumping out on stage? “Hello (insert city name here)!” Just acknowledging that he’s coherent enough to know where he is is enough for the audience to go wild and get into the show.

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It makes each individual feel as if they’re a part of something bigger. The same goes for any public speaking event. When an audience hears, “You’re all here because you care deeply about wildlife preservation,” it gives them a sense that they’re not just there to listen, but they’re there to connect with the like-minded people all around them.

2. Connect with their emotions

Speakers always try to get their audience emotionally involved in whatever topic they’re discussing. There are a variety of ways in which to do this, such as using statistics, stories, pictures or videos that really show the importance of the topic at hand.

For example, showing pictures of the aftermath of an accident related to drunk driving will certainly send a specific message to an audience of teenagers and young adults. While doing so might be emotionally nerve-racking to the crowd, it may be necessary to get your point across and engage them fully.

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3. Keep going back to the beginning

Revisit your theme throughout your presentation. Although you should give your audience the credit they deserve and know that they can follow along, linking back to your initial thesis can act as a subconscious reminder of why what you’re currently telling them is important.

On the other hand, if you simply mention your theme or the point of your speech at the beginning and never mention it again, it gives your audience the impression that it’s not really that important.

4. Link to your audience’s motivation

After you’ve acknowledged your audience’s common interests in being present, discuss their motivation for being there. Be specific. Using the previous example, if your audience clearly cares about wildlife preservation, discuss what can be done to help save endangered species’ from extinction.

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Don’t just give them cold, hard facts; use the facts to make a point that they can use to better themselves or the world in some way.

5. Entertain them

While not all speeches or presentations are meant to be entertaining in a comedic way, audiences will become thoroughly engaged in anecdotes that relate to the overall theme of the speech. We discussed appealing to emotions, and that’s exactly what a speaker sets out to do when he tells a story from his past or that of a well-known historical figure.

Speakers usually tell more than one story in order to show that the first one they told isn’t simply an anomaly, and that whatever outcome they’re attempting to prove will consistently reoccur, given certain circumstances.

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6. Appeal to loyalty

Just like the musician mentioning the town he’s playing in will get the audience ready to rock, speakers need to appeal to their audience’s loyalty to their country, company, product or cause. Show them how important it is that they’re present and listening to your speech by making your words hit home to each individual.

In doing so, the members of your audience will feel as if you’re speaking directly to them while you’re addressing the entire crowd.

7. Tell them the benefits of the presentation

Early on in your presentation, you should tell your audience exactly what they’ll learn, and exactly how they’ll learn it. Don’t expect them to listen if they don’t have clear-cut information to listen for. On the other hand, if they know what to listen for, they’ll be more apt to stay engaged throughout your entire presentation so they don’t miss anything.

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