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5 Relationships You Didn’t Realize Were So Important

5 Relationships You Didn’t Realize Were So Important

Relationships are the foundation of our interaction with society. We form them, we break them; some people avoid them, others can barely live without them. Of course, there are some important relationships we may overlook in our day to day lives, so let’s take a look at a few we should keep a closer eye on.

1. The relationship with your boss.

Your boss might be the nicest person you’ve ever met, or they might be a tyrant. Either way, they’re an important person in your life because your job often depends on how they feel about you. On top of ensuring you’re always performing your job to the best of your abilities, make sure to invest time in things that let your boss know you care about your job and that you respect them. This doesn’t require you suck up to them, but it’s always nice to remember their birthday, or even just offer to buy them lunch sometimes. Most importantly, never go behind their back about things, and always be respectful even if you’re being playful. They may be the last person you’d ever spend time with by choice, or they may even be a close friend, but when it comes to work-related things, a sense of professionalism is always important.

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2. The relationship with your co-workers.

Maybe you use the excuse, “I’m not at work to make friends,” to distance yourself from the people you associate with through your job. Maybe your co-workers just aren’t your cup of tea or have hurt you somehow. Still, you spend upwards of 8–12 hours a day with these people (maybe more), so having peace between you is important for your daily mental comfort.

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It’s easy to dismiss co-workers because they aren’t among those you’ve chosen to have in your life, but it’s possible you actually spend more time with them than you do your chosen friends. At worst you should always ensure your relationship with co-workers is civil, but at best, what’s wrong with developing work friendships? No one says you have to go out for dinner after clocking out, but isn’t it nice when someone has your back?

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3. The relationship with your pet.

Cats and dogs have unique manners in which they show affection, but both can offer infinitely rewarding relationships. A close relationship with your feline or canine companion can result in their unconditional love and adoration. This unique companionship defies understanding and can be one of the most meaningful in your life. A dog or cat will never tear you down or make you feel bad about yourself (though they may pester you if you forget to feed them), and most animals are more forgiving of your moments of anger and frustration in a way that humans never could be. So, make sure to treat your animal friend with the same compassion, understanding, and forgiveness that they offer you. That vase Spot knocked over can be replaced—your bond can not.

4. The relationship with your closest confidant.

Everyone has that one person they tell everything to. Maybe it’s a best friend, a pen pal, or even your significant other. Whichever way, ensuring you maintain open communication both ways is pivotal to the long-term success of the relationship. Make sure that if they’re lending you an open ear or a shoulder to cry on, you’re doing the same when they need it. All rewarding relationships come from the work of two people, not one.

5. The relationship with yourself.

In your day-to-day life it’s often easy to neglect your personal needs in favor of doing things for others, but there’s no more important relationship than the one you have with yourself. Take moments to yourself every day, eat something you enjoy, make time for your hobby, get enough sleep at night—wearing yourself too thin can result in you fumbling other relationships in your life. If your life is very busy and hectic it may seem impossible to make this happen, but it’s often vital that you make time, even if it means you might have to make up for it tomorrow.

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What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

Some people just seem to float through life with a relentless sense of happiness – through the toughest of times, they’re unfazed and aloof, stopping to smell the roses and drinking out of a glass half full.

They may not have much to be happy about, but the simplicity behind that fact itself may make them happy.

It’s all a matter of perspective, conscious effort and self-awareness. Listed below are a number of reasons why some people are always happy.

1. They Manage Their Expectations

They’re not crushed when they don’t get what they want – or misled into expecting to get the most out of every situation. They approach every situation pragmatically, hoping for the best but being prepared for the worst.

2. They Don’t Set Unrealistic Standards

Similar to the last point, they don’t live their lives in a constant pursuit towards impossible visions of perfection, only to always find themselves falling short of what they want.

3. They Don’t Take Anything for Granted

Happiness rests with feeling fulfilled – those who fail to stop and appreciate what they have every now and again will never experience true fulfillment.

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4. They’re Not Materialistic

There are arguing viewpoints on whether or not money can really buy happiness; if it can, then we know from experience that we can never be satisfied because there will always be something newer or better that we want. Who has ever had enough money?

5. They Don’t Dwell

They don’t sweat the small things or waste time worrying about things that don’t really matter at the end of the day. They don’t let negative thoughts latch onto them and drain them or distract them. Life’s too short to worry.

6. They Care About Themselves First

They’re independent, care for themselves and understand that they must put their needs first in order to accommodate the needs of others.

They indulge, aim to get what they want, make time for themselves and are extremely self-reliant.

7. They Enjoy the Little Things

They stop to smell the roses. They’re accustomed to find serenity when it’s available, to welcome entertainment or a stimulating discussion with a stranger when it crosses their path. They don’t overlook the small things in life that can be just as important.

8. They Can Adapt

They’re not afraid of change and they work to make the most out of new circumstances, good or bad. They thrive under pressure, are not overwhelmed easily and always embrace a change of pace.

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9. They Experiment

They try new things, experience new flavors and never shy away from something they have yet to experience. They never order twice from the same menu.

10. They Take Their Time

They don’t unnecessarily rush through life. They work on their own schedule to the extent that they can and maneuver through life at their own relaxing pace.

11. They Employ Different Perspectives

They’re not stuck in one perspective; a loss can result in a new opportunity, hitting rock bottom can mean that there’s no where to go but up.

12. They Seek to Learn

Their constant pursuit of knowledge keeps them inspired and interested in life. They cherish information and are on a life-long quest to learn as much as they can.

13. They Always Have a Plan

They don’t find themselves drifting without purpose. When something doesn’t go as planned, they have a plan for every letter in the alphabet to fall back on.

14. They Give Respect to Get It

They are respectful and, in turn, are seen as respectable; the respect they exude earns them the respect they deserve.

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15. They Consider Every Opportunity

They always have their eyes open for a new road, a new avenue worth exploring. They know how to recognize opportune moments and pounce on them to make the most of every situation. Success is inevitable for them.

16. They Always Seek to Improve

Perpetual self-improvement is the key towards their ongoing thirst for success. Whatever it is they do, they take pride in getting better and better, from social interactions to mundane tasks. Their pursuit at being the best eventually materializes.

17. They Don’t Take Life Too Seriously

They’re not ones to get offended easily over-analyze or complicate matters. They laugh at their own faults and misfortunes.

18. They Live in the Moment

They don’t live for tomorrow or dwell on what may have happened yesterday. Every day is a new opportunity, a new chapter. They live in the now, and in doing so, get the most out of every moment.

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19. They Say Yes

Much more often than they say no. They don’t have to be badgered to go out, don’t shy away from new opportunities or anything that may seem inconvenient.

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20. They’re Self-Aware

Most important, they’re wholly aware of themselves. They self-reflect and are conscious of their states of mind. If somethings bothering them, they fix it.

We’re all susceptible to feeling down every now and again, but we are all equipped with the necessary solutions that just have to be discovered.

Lack of confidence, inability to feel fulfilled, and susceptibility to stress are all matters that can be controlled through the way we handle our lives and perceive our circumstances.

Learn about How Self-Reflection Gives You a Happier and More Successful Life.

Final Thoughts

The main philosophy employed by the happiest includes the idea that life’s simply too short: life’s too short to let things get you down, to take things for granted, to pursue absolute and unrealistic perfection.

For some, employing these characteristics is a second nature – they do it without knowing. For others, a conscious effort must be put forth every now and again. Self-Awareness is key.

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