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10 Things People Who Truly Love Their Lives Do Differently

10 Things People Who Truly Love Their Lives Do Differently

To live is to be alive, to be free and honest. People who live their lives differently, accept the opportunities life gives. Life lovers take the best of each moment – give the best to the world and be in love with themselves and life. What does it mean to love life? It is not hiding from the reality, it is not pretending or being in never-ending rush. To love life is to live it, minute by minute, to live it knowingly.

Some people are happier than others. Some people smile all day, live with passion and share it with others. They take each breath as a blessing and don’t look back. It doesn’t mean they don’t have problems or obstacles, but they change their attitude and choose to be happy because they know – joy creates more joy, success creates more success in future.

1. They don’t try to impress other people.

They know who they are and what they want to be. They don’t wait for other peoples’ approval. They don’t pretend, but they choose to be honest.

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2. They do what they want and believe in.

They know what they want to do and they do it. Not because they think they have to do it, but they simply want to do it. They believe in it. Without any doubts or questions. They start each day with positive energy and finish their day with lot of experience.

3. They love their friends but don’t rely on them.

They appreciate each person they have in their lives. They have a lot of inspirational time together, but they don’t wait or ask friends to do something for them. They take responsibility and to it themselves. They can accept help or support but don’t demand it. They take responsibility and live life by their own.

4. They take the best in the moment and create their future.

They live in the moment. With no regrets about past or worries about future. They take each mistake as a lesson and grow within. They create their future, they dream big and take real action to achieve the goals.

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5. They don’t want to change others.

They accept other people as they are, they don’t spend time or energy to change other people but take each person as a mirror of their own inner world.

6. They speak about positive things and events.

They can always choose how to spend energy and time. What to remember and how to fill the given day. They choose to see the positive things and speak about them. If there is nothing to say, they smile and be thankful.

7. They discover something new each day.

No matter what they have achieved, they know that there are no borders or limits in Universe, in themselves and their lives. They stop their daily life and duties to notice something new, to reveal the beauty within and share their light. They travel, they try new food or meet people. They collect beautiful moments and uplift their Soul.

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8. They enjoy nature and are creative.

They know harmony is something we all are looking for. They spend time in nature to renew inner balance and get some inspiration. They are creators and discover their potential and use it. They listen to birds’ songs, they feel the touch of wind and sun. They let nature nourish their souls and reborn in freedom and harmony.

9. They take risks and aren’t afraid to be different.

They are not afraid from failures. They can laugh about themselves and be cheerful and light in every situation.

There is no time to waist or opportunities to miss, just take it, live it and learn from it. They choose to be themselves even if somebody can’t understand them. They are brave enough to be unique and stop hiding and wear masks.

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10. They are thankful for being alive.

They take time to say Thank you and feel gratitude. They appreciate the gift given them. To live is to open the gift of your true being and let it shine and change this moment, next moment and whole world. They are thankful for what they have or don’t have. They are rich within.

Happiness is a choice, it is an attitude to daily things and situations. Your life is how you react on it. You create your own reality. May it be happy, light and full with love to share with.

Featured photo credit: Sunset Poppy/BK via flickr.com

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Last Updated on August 6, 2020

6 Reasons Why You Should Think Before You Speak

6 Reasons Why You Should Think Before You Speak

We’ve all done it. That moment when a series of words slithers from your mouth and the instant regret manifests through blushing and profuse apologies. If you could just think before you speak! It doesn’t have to be like this, and with a bit of practice, it’s actually quite easy to prevent.

“Think twice before you speak, because your words and influence will plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another.” – Napolean Hill

Are we speaking the same language?

My mum recently left me a note thanking me for looking after her dog. She’d signed it with “LOL.” In my world, this means “laugh out loud,” and in her world it means “lots of love.” My kids tell me things are “sick” when they’re good, and ”manck” when they’re bad (when I say “bad,” I don’t mean good!). It’s amazing that we manage to communicate at all.

When speaking, we tend to color our language with words and phrases that have become personal to us, things we’ve picked up from our friends, families and even memes from the internet. These colloquialisms become normal, and we expect the listener (or reader) to understand “what we mean.” If you really want the listener to understand your meaning, try to use words and phrases that they might use.

Am I being lazy?

When you’ve been in a relationship for a while, a strange metamorphosis takes place. People tend to become lazier in the way that they communicate with each other, with less thought for the feelings of their partner. There’s no malice intended; we just reach a “comfort zone” and know that our partners “know what we mean.”

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Here’s an exchange from Psychology Today to demonstrate what I mean:

Early in the relationship:

“Honey, I don’t want you to take this wrong, but I’m noticing that your hair is getting a little thin on top. I know guys are sensitive about losing their hair, but I don’t want someone else to embarrass you without your expecting it.”

When the relationship is established:

“Did you know that you’re losing a lot of hair on the back of your head? You’re combing it funny and it doesn’t help. Wear a baseball cap or something if you feel weird about it. Lots of guys get thin on top. It’s no big deal.”

It’s pretty clear which of these statements is more empathetic and more likely to be received well. Recognizing when we do this can be tricky, but with a little practice it becomes easy.

Have I actually got anything to say?

When I was a kid, my gran used to say to me that if I didn’t have anything good to say, I shouldn’t say anything at all. My gran couldn’t stand gossip, so this makes total sense, but you can take this statement a little further and modify it: “If you don’t have anything to say, then don’t say anything at all.”

A lot of the time, people speak to fill “uncomfortable silences,” or because they believe that saying something, anything, is better than staying quiet. It can even be a cause of anxiety for some people.

When somebody else is speaking, listen. Don’t wait to speak. Listen. Actually hear what that person is saying, think about it, and respond if necessary.

Am I painting an accurate picture?

One of the most common forms of miscommunication is the lack of a “referential index,” a type of generalization that fails to refer to specific nouns. As an example, look at these two simple phrases: “Can you pass me that?” and “Pass me that thing over there!”. How often have you said something similar?

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How is the listener supposed to know what you mean? The person that you’re talking to will start to fill in the gaps with something that may very well be completely different to what you mean. You’re thinking “pass me the salt,” but you get passed the pepper. This can be infuriating for the listener, and more importantly, can create a lack of understanding and ultimately produce conflict.

Before you speak, try to label people, places and objects in a way that it is easy for any listeners to understand.

What words am I using?

It’s well known that our use of nouns and verbs (or lack of them) gives an insight into where we grew up, our education, our thoughts and our feelings.

Less well known is that the use of pronouns offers a critical insight into how we emotionally code our sentences. James Pennebaker’s research in the 1990’s concluded that function words are important keys to someone’s psychological state and reveal much more than content words do.

Starting a sentence with “I think…” demonstrates self-focus rather than empathy with the speaker, whereas asking the speaker to elaborate or quantify what they’re saying clearly shows that you’re listening and have respect even if you disagree.

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Is the map really the territory?

Before speaking, we sometimes construct a scenario that makes us act in a way that isn’t necessarily reflective of the actual situation.

A while ago, John promised to help me out in a big way with a project that I was working on. After an initial meeting and some big promises, we put together a plan and set off on its execution. A week or so went by, and I tried to get a hold of John to see how things were going. After voice mails and emails with no reply and general silence, I tried again a week later and still got no response.

I was frustrated and started to get more than a bit vexed. The project obviously meant more to me than it did to him, and I started to construct all manner of crazy scenarios. I finally got through to John and immediately started a mild rant about making promises you can’t keep. He stopped me in my tracks with the news that his brother had died. If I’d have just thought before I spoke…

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