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10 Things People Who Truly Love Their Lives Do Differently

10 Things People Who Truly Love Their Lives Do Differently

To live is to be alive, to be free and honest. People who live their lives differently, accept the opportunities life gives. Life lovers take the best of each moment – give the best to the world and be in love with themselves and life. What does it mean to love life? It is not hiding from the reality, it is not pretending or being in never-ending rush. To love life is to live it, minute by minute, to live it knowingly.

Some people are happier than others. Some people smile all day, live with passion and share it with others. They take each breath as a blessing and don’t look back. It doesn’t mean they don’t have problems or obstacles, but they change their attitude and choose to be happy because they know – joy creates more joy, success creates more success in future.

1. They don’t try to impress other people.

They know who they are and what they want to be. They don’t wait for other peoples’ approval. They don’t pretend, but they choose to be honest.

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2. They do what they want and believe in.

They know what they want to do and they do it. Not because they think they have to do it, but they simply want to do it. They believe in it. Without any doubts or questions. They start each day with positive energy and finish their day with lot of experience.

3. They love their friends but don’t rely on them.

They appreciate each person they have in their lives. They have a lot of inspirational time together, but they don’t wait or ask friends to do something for them. They take responsibility and to it themselves. They can accept help or support but don’t demand it. They take responsibility and live life by their own.

4. They take the best in the moment and create their future.

They live in the moment. With no regrets about past or worries about future. They take each mistake as a lesson and grow within. They create their future, they dream big and take real action to achieve the goals.

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5. They don’t want to change others.

They accept other people as they are, they don’t spend time or energy to change other people but take each person as a mirror of their own inner world.

6. They speak about positive things and events.

They can always choose how to spend energy and time. What to remember and how to fill the given day. They choose to see the positive things and speak about them. If there is nothing to say, they smile and be thankful.

7. They discover something new each day.

No matter what they have achieved, they know that there are no borders or limits in Universe, in themselves and their lives. They stop their daily life and duties to notice something new, to reveal the beauty within and share their light. They travel, they try new food or meet people. They collect beautiful moments and uplift their Soul.

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8. They enjoy nature and are creative.

They know harmony is something we all are looking for. They spend time in nature to renew inner balance and get some inspiration. They are creators and discover their potential and use it. They listen to birds’ songs, they feel the touch of wind and sun. They let nature nourish their souls and reborn in freedom and harmony.

9. They take risks and aren’t afraid to be different.

They are not afraid from failures. They can laugh about themselves and be cheerful and light in every situation.

There is no time to waist or opportunities to miss, just take it, live it and learn from it. They choose to be themselves even if somebody can’t understand them. They are brave enough to be unique and stop hiding and wear masks.

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10. They are thankful for being alive.

They take time to say Thank you and feel gratitude. They appreciate the gift given them. To live is to open the gift of your true being and let it shine and change this moment, next moment and whole world. They are thankful for what they have or don’t have. They are rich within.

Happiness is a choice, it is an attitude to daily things and situations. Your life is how you react on it. You create your own reality. May it be happy, light and full with love to share with.

Featured photo credit: Sunset Poppy/BK via flickr.com

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

An Inspirational Story…

For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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