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10 Things Only Healthy Couples Understand

10 Things Only Healthy Couples Understand

Being in a healthy, stable relationship involves work from both sides. Love and respect being the basis of all relationships, there are several other things that go into making a relationship healthy. Below are a list of things only healthy couples will really understand.

1. Communication is second nature.

You are so used to having constant communication with your partner, it has become routine. Communicating in relationship is so important because it’s a constant way of checking in and making sure the two of you are on the same page. This constant communication is what keeps the relationship healthy.

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2. Appreciating each other is a daily habit.

It’s important to feel like you are lucky to have the other person in your life. Healthy couples understand this and therefore never take each other for granted which makes for a happy relationship. They feel thankful for each other and show appreciation for each other for even the littlest things.

3. Compromise is an important tool.

It may seem redundant to hear that compromise makes for a good relationship, but that’s only because it’s true. Couples who compromise not only on the small things but the big things as well end up happier when they realize they can make decisions together amicably.

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4. Having arguments is normal.

People are bound to have differences of opinion or conflict that results in arguing. Healthy couples understand that having arguments isn’t the end of the world and are able to move passed their fights. Being able to argue with each other and move on is better than holding on to things, only healthy couples understand this.

5. Letting your guard down is a good thing.

Couples who can be themselves in a relationship and accept each other have the healthiest relationship. Being able to be yourself and feeling accepted is important because then you don’t feel like you have to change or that you’re disappointing your other half. You both can then be content with each other and yourselves allowing your relationship to flourish.

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6. Bad days are made better when you are together.

It doesn’t matter what happened or what mood your in, when you are with your partner you can relentlessly complain or just sit there in silence and you still feel a lot better. Finding solace just by being in each other’s presence is a sign that the two of you have a loving, healthy relationship.

7. You always have someone to rely on.

When something goes wrong, you always are always there for each other. Be it something small like a flat tire or something big like a death in the family you know that you can always rely on the other person no matter what.

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8. You can have fun doing absolutely nothing.

The two of you could be sitting at home watching the weather channel not speaking for hours and still have a good time. Healthy couples are able to enjoy the sweetness of doing nothing with each other. Couples who understand that it really isn’t about what you do but who you’re with have a relationship everyone should envy.

9. Your priorities are different than when you were single.

Healthy couples understand that when they are in a relationship they are integrating that person into their lives. Because they understand this they rearrange their lives to place the other person at the very top. This is important for maintaining a relationship where both people make time for each other.

10. Happiness is a shared event.

When something good happens, healthy couples always want to share the news with each other first. This is because they know that their partner will share their happiness. Being in a healthy relationship means that your happiness becomes your partner’s happiness and only truly healthy couples really understand this.

Featured photo credit: Young couple in love walking in the autumn park holding hands via shutterstock.com

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Last Updated on October 18, 2018

50+ Best Motivational Quotes To Prepare You For Any Challenges In Life

50+ Best Motivational Quotes To Prepare You For Any Challenges In Life

Life is filled with highs and lows —happiness and struggles that will test your resilience and integrity, push you to overcome challenges and leave you with lessons that will make you even stronger on your way up.

It’s the way you feel and think about yourself, including your expectations and beliefs about what is possible to you, greatly determines everything that happens to you.

It all starts with your thoughts. When you change your thoughts, you transform the quality of your life. (Right, Nancy’s story is a typical example!)

Below is a list of the best motivational quotes to inspire you to start your day with a blast:

Quotes for self-assurance

1. Don’t downgrade your dream just to fit your reality, upgrade your conviction to match your destiny.

    2. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.

      3. You are confined only by the walls you build yourself.

        4. The man who has confidence in himself gains the confidence of others

          5. You attract what you are, not what you want. If you want great, then be great.

            6. It’s not who you are that holds you behind, it’s who you think your are not.

              Quotes about positivity

              7. Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and think of what could go right.

                8. You should never regret anything in life. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it is experience.

                  9. Falling down is an accident, staying down is a choice.

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                    10. If you have the power to make someone happy, do it. The world needs more of that.

                      11. Always believe that something wonderful is about to happen.

                        12. Don’t be afraid to give up the good and go for great.

                          13. Remember that life’s greatest lessons are usually learned from worst times and from the worst mistakes.

                            Quotes for work and success

                            14. Don’t talk, just act. Don’t say, just show. Don’t promise, just prove.

                              15. Never stop doing great just because someone doesn’t give you credit.

                                16. Discipline is doing what needs to be done, even if you don’t want to.

                                  17. Work while they sleep. Learn while they party. Save while they spend. Live like they dream.

                                    18. The key to success is to focus our conscious mind on things we desire, not things we fear.

                                      19. Never apologize for having high standards, people who really want to be in your life will rise to meet them.

                                        20. If it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you.

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                                          21. Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it, time will pass anyway.

                                            22. Don’t fear failure. Fear being in the exact same place next year as you are today.

                                              23. A hill is just another opportunity to leave your competition behind.

                                                24. Don’t quit. You’re already in pain. You’re already hurt. Get a reward from it.

                                                  25. Hustle until you no longer need to introduce yourself.

                                                    26. You didn’t come this far only to come this far.

                                                      27. Be selective in your battles for sometimes peace is better than being right.

                                                        28 If we keep doing what we are doing, we’re going to keep getting what we’re getting.

                                                          29. You will never know your limits until you push yourself to them.

                                                            30. Do what you have to do until you can do what you want to do.

                                                              31. The man on top of the mountain didn’t fall there.

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                                                                32. If your dreams don’t scare you, they are not big enough.

                                                                  33. If you can’t handle stress, you won’t manage success.

                                                                    34. Don’t be pushed by your problems, be led by your dreams.

                                                                      35. Don’t mistake silence for weakness. Smart people don’t plan big moves out loud.

                                                                        36. Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.

                                                                          37. Obsessed is the word the lazy use to describe dedicated.

                                                                            38. You become who you spend your time with.

                                                                              39. Be stubborn about your goals and flexible about your methods.

                                                                                40. Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard.

                                                                                  41. If you don’t build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs.

                                                                                    42. Between stimulus and response is our greatest power –the freedom to choose.

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                                                                                      43. What comes easy won’t last, what lasts won’t come easy.

                                                                                        44. Don’t limit your challenges, challenge your limits.

                                                                                          45. Work until your idols become your rivals.

                                                                                            Quotes about money

                                                                                            46. Formal education will make you a living. Self-education will make you a fortune.

                                                                                              47. I create new enemies every day, it’s called business.

                                                                                                48. When you have a Million Dollar vision, don’t surround yourself with 1 cent minds.

                                                                                                  49. You can’t get rich thinking poor.

                                                                                                    50. Doing what is comfortable is rarely profitable.

                                                                                                      51. If you can count your money, work harder.

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