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10 Things Only Healthy Couples Understand

10 Things Only Healthy Couples Understand

Being in a healthy, stable relationship involves work from both sides. Love and respect being the basis of all relationships, there are several other things that go into making a relationship healthy. Below are a list of things only healthy couples will really understand.

1. Communication is second nature.

You are so used to having constant communication with your partner, it has become routine. Communicating in relationship is so important because it’s a constant way of checking in and making sure the two of you are on the same page. This constant communication is what keeps the relationship healthy.

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2. Appreciating each other is a daily habit.

It’s important to feel like you are lucky to have the other person in your life. Healthy couples understand this and therefore never take each other for granted which makes for a happy relationship. They feel thankful for each other and show appreciation for each other for even the littlest things.

3. Compromise is an important tool.

It may seem redundant to hear that compromise makes for a good relationship, but that’s only because it’s true. Couples who compromise not only on the small things but the big things as well end up happier when they realize they can make decisions together amicably.

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4. Having arguments is normal.

People are bound to have differences of opinion or conflict that results in arguing. Healthy couples understand that having arguments isn’t the end of the world and are able to move passed their fights. Being able to argue with each other and move on is better than holding on to things, only healthy couples understand this.

5. Letting your guard down is a good thing.

Couples who can be themselves in a relationship and accept each other have the healthiest relationship. Being able to be yourself and feeling accepted is important because then you don’t feel like you have to change or that you’re disappointing your other half. You both can then be content with each other and yourselves allowing your relationship to flourish.

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6. Bad days are made better when you are together.

It doesn’t matter what happened or what mood your in, when you are with your partner you can relentlessly complain or just sit there in silence and you still feel a lot better. Finding solace just by being in each other’s presence is a sign that the two of you have a loving, healthy relationship.

7. You always have someone to rely on.

When something goes wrong, you always are always there for each other. Be it something small like a flat tire or something big like a death in the family you know that you can always rely on the other person no matter what.

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8. You can have fun doing absolutely nothing.

The two of you could be sitting at home watching the weather channel not speaking for hours and still have a good time. Healthy couples are able to enjoy the sweetness of doing nothing with each other. Couples who understand that it really isn’t about what you do but who you’re with have a relationship everyone should envy.

9. Your priorities are different than when you were single.

Healthy couples understand that when they are in a relationship they are integrating that person into their lives. Because they understand this they rearrange their lives to place the other person at the very top. This is important for maintaining a relationship where both people make time for each other.

10. Happiness is a shared event.

When something good happens, healthy couples always want to share the news with each other first. This is because they know that their partner will share their happiness. Being in a healthy relationship means that your happiness becomes your partner’s happiness and only truly healthy couples really understand this.

Featured photo credit: Young couple in love walking in the autumn park holding hands via shutterstock.com

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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