“Anyone can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad.”
Raising children requires time and commitment, but it is definitely rewarding. Dads are unique when it comes to how they deal with their children—there is no perfect recipe for being a great dad—and that’s what makes them special. Here are 10 signs you have a super dad.Advertising
1. He supports you all the way.
A supportive dad is one who recognizes your abilities, and believes that you can go further. He’s proud of you, he respects your rights as a person, and he is always there for you.
2. He makes time for the family.
He may be extremely busy, but he never fails to participate in events where his family is involved. He tries to cook for the family on Sundays, and sometimes sets dinner dates on Fridays. He is fun, and his jokes make the whole family laugh.
3. He inspires and motivates you.
It brings happiness to have a special dad who empowers you, who builds you up with his compliments, and who challenges you. Perhaps he has the qualities you want to have yourself!Advertising
4. He is your best friend.
Your dad is your closest friend. You both have strong trust for one another. There will be times when he is the only person who truly understands you. He is always there for you when you need his help, and he tries to give the best advice he’s got. He accepts your whimsical personality and terrible jokes. And most of all, he learns to forgive you.
5. He encourages you to be just the way you are.
We are all imperfect human beings, but we learn and grow. The good thing about having a special dad is that he embraces your flaws. He does not take advantage of your weaknesses. He lets you discover the best in you instead.
6. He makes you feel secure in your own skin.
Body insecurity is one of the biggest issues commonly faced by children and teenagers at this present time. In fact, 90% of teens are unhappy with their body shapes. It is unusual to have a dad who makes sure his children feel confident in their own skin. Confidence might be difficult to achieve, but it is possible, especially when you know your dad is there to protect you and back you up.Advertising
7. He listens to you.
It’s such a good feeling when your dad tries to listen and to understand you, and he gives no judgement prior to you explaining yourself. Common dads fail to perform such acts, but super-dads are kind enough to respect your opinion and point of view.
8. He has an amazing sense of humor.
Actually, there is a difference between being funny and having a good sense of humor. Your dad has an amazing sense of humor because he directs his attention more on having fun than being funny. He develops it by learning to enjoy the things that make both of you smile.
9. He knows how to fix everything.
Your dad is your all-time favorite superhero. And guess what? He makes everything pretty cool through his invented parenting hacks. And whenever your dryer breaks or you get a flat tire, he is there to help you out in an instant.Advertising
10. He lets you be responsible for your decisions.
When your dad personally teaches you how to be responsible for the consequences of your decisions, accept it. He is teaching you values. It is all about values. He wants you to learn to pick the best decisions in life. Life is not an easy battle, after all.
Last Updated on May 17, 2019
This Is What Happens When You Move Out Of the Comfort Zone
The pursuit of worthwhile goals is a part of what makes life enjoyable. Being able to set a goal, then see yourself progress towards achieving that goal is an amazing feeling.
But do you know the biggest obstacle for most people trying to achieve their goals, the silent dream killer that stops people before they ever even get started? That obstacle is the comfort zone, and getting stuck there is bound to derail any efforts you make towards achieving the goals you’ve set for yourself.
If you want to achieve those goals, you’ll have to break free from your comfort zone. Let’s take a look at how your life will change once you build up the courage to leave your comfort zone.
What Is the Comfort Zone?
The comfort zone is defined as “a behavioural state within which a person operates in an anxiety-neutral condition, using a limited set of behaviours to deliver a steady level of performance.”
What stands out to me the most about that definition is the last part: “using a limited set of behaviours to deliver a steady level of performance.” How many successful people do you know who deliver a steady level of performance?
The goal in life is to continually challenge yourself, and continually improve yourself. And in order to do that, you have move out of your comfort zone. But once you do, your life will start to change in ways you could never have imagined. I know because it’s happening right now in my own life.
Here’s what I’ve learned.
1. You will be scared
Leaving your comfort zone isn’t easy. In fact, in can be downright terrifying at times, and that’s okay. It’s perfectly normal to feel a little trepidation when you’re embarking on a journey that forces you to try new things.
So don’t freak out or get overwhelmed when you feel yourself getting a little scared. It’s perfectly normal and all part of the process. What’s important is that you don’t let that fear hold you back. You must continue to take action in the face of fear.
That’s what separates winners from losers.
2. You will fail
Stepping out of your comfort zone means you’re moving into uncharted territory. You’re trying things that you’ve never tried before, and learning things you’ve never learned before.
That steep learning curve means you’re not going to get everything right the first time, and you will eventually fail when you move out of your comfort zone. But as long as the failures aren’t catastrophic, it can actually be a good thing to fail because …
3. You will learn
Failure is the best teacher. I’ve learned more from each one of my failures than I have from each one of my successes. When you fail small, and fail often, you rapidly increase the rate at which you learn new insights and skills. And that new knowledge, if applied correctly, will eventually lead to your success.
4. You will see yourself in a different way
Once you move out of your comfort zone, you immediately prove to yourself that you’re capable of achieving more than you thought was possible. And that will change the way you see yourself.
Moving forward, you’ll have more confidence in yourself whenever you step out of your comfort zone, and that increased confidence will make it more likely that you continue to step outside your comfort zone. And each time you do, you’ll prove to yourself again and again what you’re really capable of.
5. Your peers will see you in a different way
Whether we want to admit or not, people judge other people. And right now, people view you in a certain way, and they have a certain idea of what you’re capable of. That’s because they’ve become accustomed to seeing you operate in your comfort zone.
But once you move out of your comfort zone, you’ll prove to other people, as well, that you’re capable of much more than you’ve shown in the past.
The increased confidence other people place in you will bring about more opportunities than ever before.
6. Your comfort zone will expand
The good thing about the comfort zone is that it’s flexible and malleable. With each action you take outside of your comfort zone, it expands. And once you master that new skill or action, it eventually becomes part of your comfort zone.
This is great news for you because it means that you can constantly increase and improve upon the behaviors that you’re comfortable with. And the more tools and skills you have at your disposal, the easier it will be to achieve your goals.
7. You will increase your concentration and focus
When you’re living inside of your comfort zone, the bulk of your actions are habitual: automatic, subconscious, and requiring limited focus.
But once you move out of your comfort zone, you no longer rely on those habitual responses. You’re forced to concentrate and focus on the new action in a way you never do in your comfort zone.
8. You will develop new skills
Moving out of your comfort zone requires that you develop new skills. One of the many benefits you’ll experience is that you’ll be stepping away from the “limited set of behaviors” and start to develop your ability and expertise in new areas.
Living inside of your comfort zone only requires a limited skill set, and those skills won’t contribute much to your success. Once you can confidently step outside of your comfort zone and learn a new skill, there’s no limit to how much you can achieve.
9. You will achieve more than before
With everything that happens once you move out of your comfort zone, you’re naturally going to achieve more than ever before.
Your increased concentration and focus will help you develop new skills. Those new skills will change the way you see yourself, encouraging you to step even further out of your comfort zone.
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