“Anyone can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad.”
Raising children requires time and commitment, but it is definitely rewarding. Dads are unique when it comes to how they deal with their children—there is no perfect recipe for being a great dad—and that’s what makes them special. Here are 10 signs you have a super dad.Advertising
1. He supports you all the way.
A supportive dad is one who recognizes your abilities, and believes that you can go further. He’s proud of you, he respects your rights as a person, and he is always there for you.
2. He makes time for the family.
He may be extremely busy, but he never fails to participate in events where his family is involved. He tries to cook for the family on Sundays, and sometimes sets dinner dates on Fridays. He is fun, and his jokes make the whole family laugh.
3. He inspires and motivates you.
It brings happiness to have a special dad who empowers you, who builds you up with his compliments, and who challenges you. Perhaps he has the qualities you want to have yourself!Advertising
4. He is your best friend.
Your dad is your closest friend. You both have strong trust for one another. There will be times when he is the only person who truly understands you. He is always there for you when you need his help, and he tries to give the best advice he’s got. He accepts your whimsical personality and terrible jokes. And most of all, he learns to forgive you.
5. He encourages you to be just the way you are.
We are all imperfect human beings, but we learn and grow. The good thing about having a special dad is that he embraces your flaws. He does not take advantage of your weaknesses. He lets you discover the best in you instead.
6. He makes you feel secure in your own skin.
Body insecurity is one of the biggest issues commonly faced by children and teenagers at this present time. In fact, 90% of teens are unhappy with their body shapes. It is unusual to have a dad who makes sure his children feel confident in their own skin. Confidence might be difficult to achieve, but it is possible, especially when you know your dad is there to protect you and back you up.Advertising
7. He listens to you.
It’s such a good feeling when your dad tries to listen and to understand you, and he gives no judgement prior to you explaining yourself. Common dads fail to perform such acts, but super-dads are kind enough to respect your opinion and point of view.
8. He has an amazing sense of humor.
Actually, there is a difference between being funny and having a good sense of humor. Your dad has an amazing sense of humor because he directs his attention more on having fun than being funny. He develops it by learning to enjoy the things that make both of you smile.
9. He knows how to fix everything.
Your dad is your all-time favorite superhero. And guess what? He makes everything pretty cool through his invented parenting hacks. And whenever your dryer breaks or you get a flat tire, he is there to help you out in an instant.Advertising
10. He lets you be responsible for your decisions.
When your dad personally teaches you how to be responsible for the consequences of your decisions, accept it. He is teaching you values. It is all about values. He wants you to learn to pick the best decisions in life. Life is not an easy battle, after all.
Last Updated on January 18, 2019
7 Ways To Deal With Negative People
Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.
But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.
If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.
1. Limit the time you spend with them.
First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.
In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.
Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.
2. Speak up for yourself.
Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.
3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”
This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.
But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.
4. Don’t make their problems your problems.
Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.
This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.
Why else would they be sharing this with you?
5. Change the subject.
When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.
Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.
6. Talk about solutions, not problems.
Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.
I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.
You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”
Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.
7. Leave them behind.
Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.
If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.
That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.
You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.