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10 Habits You Should Take Up To Stay Positive

10 Habits You Should Take Up To Stay Positive

Every now and then we are exposed to the negative energy around us. What makes it sad was we couldn’t protect ourselves from these sources of negativity. But, with the below way, we can practice it and stay positive.

1. Positivity in negativity

Negativity, if implied properly, could turn into a form of positive energy to push you further. Look out for any optimistic point in the negative comments. Deep inside every negativity contains some forms of positivity for each of us to find. After all, we learn from the bad things that happened to ourselves.

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2. Take your time

Whenever something negative falls upon you, take your time to let it pass. It helps to practice self-control and it plays a part of building up the positive energy in you. The time heals and it can build up your confidence to go against the negative remarks thrown upon you.

3. Don’t fear

Never show your fear of the negative forces. Like a prey, when fear is shown, they will surround you and captivate you in their dark energy. Be brave and continue doing what you believe in. You will see how the negative energy will be replaced by the positive aura.

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4. Sharing the positivity

To keep the positive energy intact with you, spread the energy out. Add it in someone else’s life and let them recharge with that energy. Share this happiness and confidence with them and in turn it can build up positive thoughts and feelings in your own life. Let everyone be happy together!

5. Accepting criticism

Criticism actually helps in creating a positive value in yourself. Learn to take critiques in a healthy way. Take them as a way to make room for improvement, an idea of how to strive higher and better. Another way of taking criticism is implementing the thought that you are good enough to be noticed and lucky enough to be given a chance to do better.

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6. Walk away

Walking away is not always bad. Take a headstart and walk away from the negative energy. You will start feeling as if you were dragged into the negative circle after staying in that circle for too long. Look out for a source of positive energy and stay there, inhale the good air instead.

7. Self-hypnotising

Whenever you feel the negativity starting to cloud you, try self-hypnotising. List all of the good values in yourself, the achievements that you had made and the praises that were showered onto you. Believing in yourself is essential to being positive. Self-confidence is always the key to success.

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8. Talk to someone positive

What you give you often get in return. If you talk positively to other people, it’s likely they will do the same for you. Spend time with a positive person. Let them share with you the positive values that they have in them and share your positive energy with them in return.

9. Read positive quotes

Find inspirational quotes and keep them in your journal or notepad. Whenever you start feeling down, flip through those quotes and slowly relate them to yourself. These quotes can eventually transmit the positive energy to yourself and keep you energized. Besides the quotes, inspirational videos or articles can be your medium to gain positive energy.

10. Exercise

Exercising can help you stay positive. It can also help in removing stress. Exert yourself by running or spending time at the gym. With all the toxins leaving your body, you will find that the negative energy too running out from yourself. Not only can you stay positive, you can also stay healthy! How wonderful will that be?

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Last Updated on December 3, 2019

10 Life Lessons You’d Better Learn Early on in Life

10 Life Lessons You’d Better Learn Early on in Life

There are so many lessons I wish I had learned while I was young enough to appreciate and apply them. The thing with wisdom, and often with life lessons in general, is that they’re learned in retrospect, long after we needed them. The good news is that other people can benefit from our experiences and the lessons we’ve learned.

Here’re 10 important life lessons you should learn early on:

1. Money Will Never Solve Your Real Problems

Money is a tool; a commodity that buys you necessities and some nice “wants,” but it is not the panacea to your problems.

There are a great many people who are living on very little, yet have wonderfully full and happy lives… and there are sadly a great many people are living on quite a lot, yet have terribly miserable lives.

Money can buy a nice home, a great car, fabulous shoes, even a bit of security and some creature comforts, but it cannot fix a broken relationship, or cure loneliness, and the “happiness” it brings is only fleeting and not the kind that really and truly matters. Happiness is not for sale. If you’re expecting the “stuff” you can buy to “make it better,” you will never be happy.

2. Pace Yourself

Often when we’re young, just beginning our adult journey we feel as though we have to do everything at once. We need to decide everything, plan out our lives, experience everything, get to the top, find true love, figure out our life’s purpose, and do it all at the same time.

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Slow down—don’t rush into things. Let your life unfold. Wait a bit to see where it takes you, and take time to weigh your options. Enjoy every bite of food, take time to look around you, let the other person finish their side of the conversation. Allow yourself time to think, to mull a bit.

Taking action is critical. Working towards your goals and making plans for the future is commendable and often very useful, but rushing full-speed ahead towards anything is a one-way ticket to burnout and a good way to miss your life as it passes you by.

3. You Can’t Please Everyone

“I don’t know the secret to success, but the secret to failure is trying to please everyone” – Bill Cosby.

You don’t need everyone to agree with you or even like you. It’s human nature to want to belong, to be liked, respected and valued, but not at the expense of your integrity and happiness. Other people cannot give you the validation you seek. That has to come from inside.

Speak up, stick to your guns, assert yourself when you need to, demand respect, stay true to your values.

4. Your Health Is Your Most Valuable Asset

Health is an invaluable treasure—always appreciate, nurture, and protect it. Good health is often wasted on the young before they have a chance to appreciate it for what it’s worth.

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We tend to take our good health for granted, because it’s just there. We don’t have to worry about it, so we don’t really pay attention to it… until we have to.

Heart disease, bone density, stroke, many cancers—the list of many largely preventable diseases is long, so take care of your health now, or you’ll regret it later on.

5. You Don’t Always Get What You Want

“Life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans.” – John Lennon

No matter how carefully you plan and how hard you work, sometimes things just don’t work out the way you want them to… and that’s okay.

We have all of these expectations; predetermined visions of what our “ideal” life will look like, but all too often, that’s not the reality of the life we end up with. Sometimes our dreams fail and sometimes we just change our minds mid-course. Sometimes we have to flop to find the right course and sometimes we just have to try a few things before we find the right direction.

6. It’s Not All About You

You are not the epicenter of the universe. It’s very difficult to view the world from a perspective outside of your own, since we are always so focused on what’s happening in our own lives. What do I have to do today? What will this mean for me, for my career, for my life? What do I want?

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It’s normal to be intensely aware of everything that’s going on in your own life, but you need to pay as much attention to what’s happening around you, and how things affect other people in the world as you do to your own life. It helps to keep things in perspective.

7. There’s No Shame in Not Knowing

No one has it all figured out. Nobody has all the answers. There’s no shame in saying “I don’t know.” Pretending to be perfect doesn’t make you perfect. It just makes you neurotic to keep up the pretense of manufactured perfection.

We have this idea that there is some kind of stigma or shame in admitting our limitations or uncertainly, but we can’t possibly know everything. We all make mistakes and mess up occasionally. We learn as we go, that’s life.

Besides—nobody likes a know-it-all. A little vulnerability makes you human and oh so much more relatable.

8. Love Is More Than a Feeling; It’s a Choice

That burst of initial exhilaration, pulse quickening love and passion does not last long. But that doesn’t mean long-lasting love is not possible.

Love is not just a feeling; it’s a choice that you make every day. We have to choose to let annoyances pass, to forgive, to be kind, to respect, to support, to be faithful.

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Relationships take work. Sometimes it’s easy and sometimes it’s incredibly hard. It is up to us to choose how we want to act, think and speak in a relationship.

9. Perspective Is a Beautiful Thing

Typically, when we’re worried or upset, it’s because we’ve lost perspective. Everything that is happening in our lives seems so big, so important, so do or die, but in the grand picture, this single hiccup often means next to nothing.

The fight we’re having, the job we didn’t get, the real or imagined slight, the unexpected need to shift course, the thing we wanted, but didn’t get. Most of it won’t matter 20, 30, 40 years from now. It’s hard to see long term when all you know is short term, but unless it’s life-threatening, let it go, and move on.

10. Don’t Take Anything for Granted

We often don’t appreciate what we have until it’s gone: that includes your health, your family and friends, your job, the money you have or think you will have tomorrow.

When you’re young, it seems that your parents will always be there, but they won’t. You think you have plenty of time to get back in touch with your old friends or spend time with new ones, but you don’t. You have the money to spend, or you think you’ll have it next month, but you might not.

Nothing in your life is not guaranteed to be there tomorrow, including those you love.

This is a hard life lesson to learn, but it may be the most important of all: Life can change in an instant. Make sure you appreciate what you have, while you still have it.

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