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Last Updated on June 18, 2020

15 Ways to Boost Your Motivation for Success

15 Ways to Boost Your Motivation for Success

If you get stuck feeling unmotivated, you’ll breathe a sigh of relief to learn that there are simple, yet high-impact changes that will steer you back on track.

Here are 15 tips that will not only restore your motivation for success but also raise it so you can pursue your personal definition of a successful and happier life.

1. Practice Looking at the Glass Being Half Full When Life Is Challenging

This is not as easy to do if you feel like you’re unsuccessfully playing dodgeball in most areas of your life. Practice short bursts of radical acceptance[1], and look for fine threads in your day that you are grateful for and that bring you happiness.

It will feel strange at first but with time, your brain’s neuro-circuitry will start focusing on what motivates and inspires you.

Start practicing this exercise at times during the day when you feel okay, so then when rough times hit, your ability to rebound will be more automatic. However, you need to practice if you want to effectively regain your motivation for success.

Before you know it, your battles will become like a walk in the park!

2. Review the Happiness Level of Your Everyday Social Network

Jim Rohn famously said:

“You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”

It is not gospel. But in examining whether or not your relationships support, encourage, inspire, educate and nurture you, you actually need to look beyond those five people.

Social science professors James Fowler and Nicholas Christakis explain how we need to look at our third degree of separation to identify those who influence our happiness in our social relationships.[2]

People are generally happier because their first-level friends are also central to having a happy network of people. To increase your motivation and happiness, don’t just look at your friends. Look at your friends’ friends!

3. Clean up Your Relationships – Work and Personal

Do you ever ask yourself what aspects of your relationships are healthy for you and bring you happiness? Do you also consider what you contribute to those and whether doing so also brings you happiness?

It’s time to not only reflect on what you gain from relationships but also what contributions you can make to help them further flourish.

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Caution! Over-helping is not the answer here. Sometimes you need to cull the time you spend with certain people. However, it’s about being more accountable and choosing to improve how you want to show up for people in your life, work-wise and personally.

Set yourself some personal goals and get to the task. Cleaning up and stepping up will help improve your motivation for success. You’ll heighten that positive vibration of your everyday existence.

4. Create a Personal Development Plan for Your Definition of Success and Happiness

Goal-setting isn’t just for helping us attain better cars, houses, or greater income. When you change your goal to focus on becoming the person required to obtain those things, your goals expand beyond tangible limits. Having a personal development plan is essential.

Draw a circle and divide it up into pie segments (like having spokes on a wheel) that represent the following areas of your life:

  • Finances and money
  • Intimate relationships
  • Friends and social relationships
  • Health and wellbeing
  • Spirituality and religion
  • Hobbies, leisure, and fun activities
  • Vocation, career, and work

The center point of your circle represents zero. Zero means you are least satisfied. The outer circumference of your circle is ten. Ten means you are most satisfied and contented.

For each area, plot on the spoke your current rating of satisfaction. Then, review each area again and denote on the spoke what level of satisfaction you desire.

See where the differences between your current and desired satisfaction levels are the smallest. These may be the easiest areas to so solve and you can start brainstorming the changes you want to experience.

Some areas won’t be as important to you to make changes. Others will be. Working with an impartial coach can greatly help to flesh out clarity.

Regularly doing this exercise (e.g. every quarter) will reignite your motivation and keep you on the path to reach greater success and happiness.

5. Invest in Personal Development

Your personal development plan will give you strong clues as to what programs, books, podcasts, networking groups, and social activities to tap into. But be wary of the bright, shiny object syndrome and well-meaning friends and family projecting their countless recommendations on to you!

Be gracious and thankful for their advice and guidance (even though it can often be uninvited!), choose wisely, and make your own decisions.

Focus on the challenges you face now. Are you experiencing problems with your significant other? Are your children suffering from bullying at school and you’re unsure how to help them?

Perhaps you are experiencing a plateau in work satisfaction, or your business is experiencing a slump. Whatever problems are present for you now, explore activities and education that will help you solve those.

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6. Invest in Experiences, Not Material Things

Splashing your cash on physical possessions to reward yourself won’t just send you to bankruptcy. When you constantly rely on external things to motivate you, you’re in real danger of never being satisfied.

Instead, ignite your motivation internally by investing in experiences that allow you to feel those feelings you believe you will have when you’re successful.

If becoming a public speaker is a dream you have, invest in Toastmasters or a public speaking program. If whisking you and your partner away for a luxury weekend at a second’s notice fits your definition of success, save over time to do this.

Don’t just set your sights on the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Your motivation for success will improve when you practice feeling successful at each step in your journey.

7. Create or Join a Mastermind Group

Napoleon Hill created the concept in his book Think and Grow Rich, first published in 1937. Yet today, being an entrepreneur is still often a terribly lonely existence.

Joining a mastermind group, your motivation is fueled by the collective genius of others also wanting to collaborate, solve problems, cross-promote, network, and learn new things. Not only is keeping motivated easier in itself, but your thinking also grows exponentially.

Choose your group wisely and collectively; your contributions will escalate you all to refreshing new heights.

8. Work With a Coach

We have personal training coaches, health and wellbeing coaches, and career coaches, yet we rarely engage a coach to help us with two of the most significant factors influencing our success and happiness: money and our psychological well-being.

Our approach is often remedial, and it’s not until we’re in dire straits that we call in the emergency services.

Money may not buy us happiness, but financial freedom is having freedom of choice, and freedom of choice means wider opportunities for greater happiness. Risks and growth always pose a threat to our mental and emotional stability.

By learning proactive skills that strengthen your resilience in your personal and working life, you can lift your motivation to tackle challenges with greater courage. You have a backup plan and safety nets to catch you when you fall.

We are not alone in this world, and we can always seek support from others to help us regain our motivation for success. Whether it’s a money mindset coach, a performance coach, a business coach, or a relationship coach, open up the conversation. Get to know yourself better, make plans to clear the hurdles, and get ready to sprint!

9. Focus Your Conversations on Your Ideas and Goals

When you increase emphasis and focus on certain things, feelings, and thoughts, you are telling your brain these things are important. The feelings and thoughts will become more easily amplified and neural pathways that access similar feelings and thoughts become activated.

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Given this, be strategic. Deliberately reframe the conversations you have to discuss ideas, plans, and progress to take you toward where you want to go.

Stimulate and train your brain to increase its stretch. Direct it to dwell on positive experiences and results you have had, and deliberately share in conversations that you want more of these feelings and results.

Not only are you training yourself to feel happier for greater parts of your day, but you are also communicating your true desires and wishes for a more successful and happier life to the wider community.

Share with them more of what you desire to experience and achieve. You create a greater likelihood of receiving favorable surprises in answer to your requests.

10. Have Goals to Become a Better Friend, Partner, or Work Associate

Examine your relationships by asking yourself which aspects are healthy for you and bring you happiness. Also, consider what you contribute to that relationship and whether doing so brings you happiness.

Think about not just what you gain from the relationship but also what you can do to help make that relationship flourish more. Can you improve how you show up for people in your life, work-wise and personally? Set yourself some personal goals and get to the task.

Do you need to organize a get together instead of waiting for your friend to organize the rendezvous yet again? You might put the garbage out without being asked by your partner from now on. Stepping up and stepping into healthier and happier relationships will only heighten the positive vibration of your everyday existence.

11. Learn How to Lead Better by Encouraging Others to Become Better Leaders

If you’re a leader, it can be really hard to resist the urge to take the steering wheel when you can see others are about to drive off a cliff. However, stepping out of the limelight to let others have their fifteen minutes of fame is the sign of a true leader.

Supporting and coaching others to develop confidence and stay in the driver’s seat on their journey is truly soul-enriching. Stay beside them when they drive into the fog and be persistent with your encouragement to keep them focused and on track.

You have greater purposefulness to others when you empower them to work through their own trials and tribulations and help them build greater resilience in the process. Your self-esteem and internal happiness will deepen on a richer level and stay with you for far, far longer.

12. Embrace Negative Feedback and Criticism

We don’t actually learn best when people agree and applaud us. We learn best when we make mistakes and experience the intense emotions connected with failures and rejections.

Invite yourself to look for the lesson in every perceived misfortune. There is always a golden nugget for growth; we just have to practice looking for it.

Lick your wounds only for so long and move quickly to look for the lesson. When you can do so, you can charge your internal motivation from within and still experience happiness even in the darkest of times.

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Learn about Why Every Successful Person Thrives on Negative Feedback.

13. Exercise a Sense of Adventure Every Day

To increase your motivation for success, you don’t always have to focus on your large goals. When you set small goals to do things slightly differently each day, you can entirely reshape the level of happiness you experience.

Here’s a list to play with:

  • Try a different coffee brew to start your day.
  • Dress in work attire even if you are working from home today.
  • Walk a different route from your final subway stop to the office.
  • Smile at a stranger as you make eye contact passing them on the street.
  • Pay a compliment to one of your work colleagues when you notice they are feeling stressed.
  • Go out walking during your break if you usually eat lunch at your desk or inside.

Spice up small changes in the brief moments of your daily living. Small shifts not only lift your motivation but also shed light and happy vibes to those around you.

14. Orchestrate Your Destiny Using Daily Imagery

Take advantage of the fact that your brain does not know the difference between what’s real and what’s imagined when it comes to imagery. Instruct your day-dreaming activity to envisage what happiness and success look like, feel like, smell like, taste like, and sound like.

When you daily rehearse your mini-movies of your success and happiness goals, your brain’s reticular activating system will begin filtering information to help you reach these.

Before too long, your plans, actions, and decisions will increasingly honor these. Keep your eyes on the prize and you are more likely to reach success sooner than you might think.

15. Become an Expert Researcher of Your Own Challenges

While we have all the resources within us, we don’t necessarily have all the answers. However, when knowing more, we feel (and are) more in control.

Look further afield and gain from the knowledge, experience, and insights of the qualified experts in those areas. However, be aware of ulterior agendas being pushed upon you.

Sifting through the information relevant to you and following your gut instinct will only spark your motivation. The considered decisions you make at the moment will always be the right ones.

Final Thoughts

Everyone will lose motivation at some point in their lives, no matter how passionate they were before being unmotivated. The key is to accept this reality and do something about it. You can start with these 15 tips to restore your motivation for success.

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10 Reasons Why You Should Chase Your Dreams

10 Reasons Why You Should Chase Your Dreams

Contemplating chasing your dreams? This is a little reminder why you shouldn’t.

After reading this article, you’ll say “Why not?” and will go after your dreams. Here are 10 reasons why you should chase yourr dreams.

1. Develop a Sense of Empowerment

The key to a healthy self-esteem is the ability to feel empowered. I am not talking about a power trip here; it’s all about believing in one’s ability to accomplish great things. In the willpower of the individual to reach and surpass their true potential.

2. Create a Legacy for Yourself

Who doesn’t want to be remembered? Let’s face it, deep down we all care about what others think of us. We may not show it, we may never admit to it, but we do. So why not create a legacy for yourself?

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Creating a reputation that will follow you through life and beyond is important, no matter how much value to put to it.

3. Make Your Family and Friends Proud of You

This is self-explanatory and as important as creating a legacy.

Yes, making people proud of you matters; you know it, I know it and for some of us more than others. It may or may not be the driving force behind what we do, but it’s definitely a factor.

4. Challenge Yourself

Prove to yourself that you can do a) whatever you put your mind to do and b) prove people who convinced you that you can’t do something wrong.

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The bottom line is that everyone likes to be challenged. You don’t have to be a hard core competitive personality to appreciate a good challenge, so dream it, and then go for it. Whatever it may be, just chase it.

5. Learn New Things and Acquire New Skills

There is nothing more dangerous for the human kind or our health than a dull mind.

Learning new things keeps us healthy, and stronger mentally, emotionally, and physically. Whether it’s a new language, a new hobby, past time, or a craft. Learn how to sail, knit, speak Japanese, learn Excel, write a book, take cooking classes, run a marathon.

6. The Rewarding Results

There is nothing more rewarding that achieving your goals, setting new records and looking back to the hard work and where it lead you. You will become a mentor to someone that has the same or similar dreams and aspirations as you.

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The best part? The credit for whatever you achieve can never be taken from you. Word of advice: don’t forget to pat yourself on the back every once in a while.

7. Your Life Will Change

No matter what the goal is, no matter what you have dreamed of and achieved, your life will change. You will change.

You will evolve and become more versatile, more intuitive, flexible, and stronger. You will never be the same person you were before you started on your pursuit of your dreams; you will discover abilities about yourself you didn’t know you had.

8. No Regrets

Some people regret the things they do, but almost everyone regrets the things they don’t do. So if you don’t want to live in the limelight of a life not lived, of a dreamed not chased, or a what if state of mind, then go for it!

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9. People Will Look up to You

In the end, it doesn’t even matter if you achieve the goal. The important part is to try. To dream it, to plan it, to try it out.

The goal may and will change, as long as you don’t sit idle you will be looked upon.

Davey Anderson once said:

“No matter how slow you run, you’re lapping everyone on the couch.”

10. If You Don’t, Who Will?

Exactly my point! Good Luck!

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