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The Next Stage: 4 Tips For Successfully Navigating Retired Life

The Next Stage: 4 Tips For Successfully Navigating Retired Life

Retirement will be here before you know it. For some of you, it may have already come. This is definitely a huge transition period in your life, and it will take a lot of preparation and thought. How well do you think you will be able to handle retirement? How well are you handling it now? Whether you are already retired or are planning to retire soon, you can start working now to make your retirement an extremely pleasant experience. You want to make sure that you will enjoy your senior years to their fullest and live life the way you have always dreamed of. The following tips can help you get ready to get the most from your senior years.

Set up a financial plan.

Retirement comes with a new way of life. Most people no longer have the job-based income they lived on for many years. They now become dependent on pensions, savings, and Social Security. Before giving up full-time employment permanently, it is important to work out a practical budget that takes into account your retirement income and expenses. You want to make sure that you have enough money and savings to live and have fun once you retire. Being financially smart now can really help make a different for you in the future. A financial adviser can help advise you on how to prepare for the financial changes that occur following retirement. Seeking help from a professional can really help you find the best plan for your situation so that you will be as prepared as possible for retirement.

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Maintain or increase social connections.

Leaving a full-time job does not mean you have to let go of workplace friendships. Although you may see coworkers less than you did when you were employed, you can still make plans to spend time together. Retirement is a great time to forge new relationships through activities like hobbies and community gatherings. Catching up with old friends on social media and with relatives you haven’t seen in a while are also ways of having fun and making memories with people you care about. You want to make sure that you don’t let any of your previous relationships die just because you are retired. Retirement is a perfect time to connect with old friends and even build new connections. For advice on making new connections, consult a professional with a Master’s degree in gerontology or similar expertise.

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Work on your bucket list.

Rather than seeing this as a morbid list for the golden years, consider a bucket list an opportunity to do the things you’ve always dreamed of but previously lacked time or money to pursue. Start a small side business or travel to exotic locales. You might eventually decide to update your bucket list or throw it away and enjoy a spontaneous life on a day-by-day basis. This is the perfect time to chase your dreams and make them real. Retirement is definitely a great time to travel and to try to accomplish life goals. You will have so much extra time and will be able to work on your goals. There is definitely no better time for this than retirement.

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Be open to new experiences.

With your hard-won experience and newfound insight, your senior years can also be a time to try new things. Take an art class or enroll in a dance class. You can learn a different language or volunteer at a nearby school. Write a book or become an amateur photographer. Whatever your passion in life, explore it now and possibly share it with others.

Retirement is the beginning of the rest of your life, so make it count. The above useful strategies and tips for experiencing this exciting new stage will make the golden years even more meaningful.

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Published on July 22, 2019

The Secret to Success Is Failure

The Secret to Success Is Failure

You see a job that you’d love to do; and, you decide to go for it.

You submit your application, and then are pleased to find a few days later that you’re invited for an interview. This goes well, and you begin to have quiet optimism that a job offer will be coming your way soon…

It doesn’t.

Instead, you receive a letter saying thank you — but, they’ve decided to go with another candidate.

At this point, you could allow yourself to feel defeated, sad, and perhaps even a little angry. These are normal responses to bad news. Yet, it’s not wise to let them fester and disrupt your goals. Successful people don’t let failures kill their dreams.

Sure, they might temporarily feel deflated. But, very quickly, they pick themselves back up again and begin planning their next steps towards success.

How about you? Do you currently feel embarrassed or guilty about failing?

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Don’t worry if you do, as most of us have been programmed since childhood to see failure as a bad thing. Yet, as I’m going to show you in the next few minutes, this programming is dead wrong — failure is actually an essential part of success.

Don’t Be Tempted by Perfection

The first thing I want you to think about is this:

Resisting failure is, at its core, seeking perfection. And, perfection doesn’t exist.

That’s why perfectionists are also likely to be chronic procrastinators.

As Psychology Today noted in their article Pitfalls of Perfectionism, people who constantly seek for perfection stop themselves from engaging in challenging experiences.[1] That’s because these perfectionists are less creative and innovative than the average person — plus they’re less likely to take risks. Add these factors together, and you have someone who is overly focused on their own performance and is always quick to defend themselves. Unfortunately, these traits prevent them from having the necessary focus when it comes to learning new tasks.

Let me be clear: Striving for perfection is not the same as striving for excellence.

The former is a fool’s quest for the unattainable; while the latter is really just about doing our very best (which we can all obtain).

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And, there’s another problem that perfectionists have to deal with. Namely, when they fail to reach their ideal, they feel dejected and defeated. And — as you can imagine — repeat this often enough, and these people can end up feeling bitter and depressed about their lives.

So, forget about seeking perfection, and instead, focus on always doing your very best.

Why Failure Is Good

I recently came across a Forbes article Failing Your Way To Success: Why Failure Is A Crucial Ingredient For Success[2] that helped explain why most people are opposed to failure.

The article referenced the work of two world-renowned psychologists (Daniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky), who were awarded a Nobel Prize for their work. They discovered something very interesting: the effect of a loss is twice as great as the gain from a win.

Have you ever thought about that before?

What it means is that failure has a far greater negative impact on us than the positive impact of an equivalent win. It’s no wonder then that most people are afraid to fail.

And, here’s where it gets interesting…

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Amazon (which along with Apple, Facebook and Google, is considered one of the Big Four technology companies) has a culture that is tolerant of failure. And Jeff Bezos — Amazon’s founder and CEO — believes that this culture is one of the main reasons for the company’s big achievements over the last 25 years. In a letter to shareholders, he said:

“Failure comes part and parcel with invention. It’s not optional. We understand that and believe in failing early and iterating until we get it right.” 

The truth is, failure can open up a world of exciting opportunities for you.

How does it do this?

By constantly showing you new avenues to travel on. And, by helping you learn from your mistakes — so you can be better next time around. It also helps you identify what’s not working for your life, and what is.

So instead of seeing something as detrimental to success, you should see it as a tool FOR success. A tool that will help you to continually refine your journey in life.

If you still need some convincing that the secret to success is failure, then take a look at the following excerpts from our article 10 Famous Failures to Success Stories That Will Inspire You to Carry On:

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• J.K. Rowling encountered a catalog of failures shortly after graduating from college, including: being jobless, the breakdown of her marriage, and living as a lone parent. However, instead of giving up on life, she used these failures to propel her to write the Harry Potter fantasy series — the best-selling book series in history.

• Walt Disney didn’t have an easy start either. He dropped out of school at a young age in a failed attempt to join the army. Later, one of his early business ventures, Laugh-o-Gram Studios, went bankrupt. He was also fired from a Missouri newspaper for “not being creative enough.” (Yes, you read that correctly.) Was he defeated by these failures? Just ask Mickey Mouse.

• Michael Jordan had this to say about the power of failure: “I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

Embrace Failure, and Prepare for Success

I hope this has been an eye-opener for you.

Failure has long been branded a leper; but in reality, it’s a healthy, essential component of success.

The trick of course is to develop the mindset of a winner. Someone who sees failures as stepping stones to success — and defeats as important learning experiences.

So, are you ready to embrace your failures and take the proud road to success?

I sincerely hope so.

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