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5 Top Things To Experience In Life (To Have No Regrets)

5 Top Things To Experience In Life (To Have No Regrets)

We all want to live our lives to the fullest, have meaningful and fulfilling experiences, meet great people, learn useful things and ultimately die without any regrets. But of course, our dreams rarely ever match reality and most of us simply and passively accept what we get, without pushing ourselves out of our comfort zones and ‘Carpe Diem’-ing the day.

But it doesn’t have to be that way. You don’t have to settle for a 9 to 5 workaholic lifestyle, you don’t have to keep adding items in your bucket list without crossing them out. Your life is in YOUR hands and you can turn it around any time you want, by the power of your will.

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Here’s a small list of 5 must-do things before you die.

1. Travel to 4 places that none of your friends have been to, and travel like a local instead of a tourist

We all would like to travel, but we keep making excuses. Either we don’t have time or we convince ourselves that we can’t afford it. The truth is travel doesn’t have to mean expensive cruises, luxury hotels and the standard sightseeing spots. You don’t need to vacation where your friends just did. You don’t need to book flight tickets halfway across the world.

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No matter where you live, there’s always places to see, things to do. Explore some offbeat places near your place and where no one you know has been to. And once you’re there, don’t book the most pricey hotel rooms and throw tantrums like a spoilt child. Instead, try to see it from the perspective of the natives and mingle among them. Not only will it save you from over-spending, it will offer a refreshing and vastly different point-of-view and teach you some invaluable life lessons.

2. Read 5 books you can comprehend but aren’t highly interested in within a year

Don’t stick to your favourite genres, but branch out. Say you’ve always had a vague passing interest in astronomy and the nature of the universe. Instead of turning to science fiction, try Stephen Hawking’s A Brief History of Time.

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Similarly, let’s suppose you love going to art galleries but don’t really understand the hype about avante garde art. In that case, pick up an encyclopedia on art history. Not only will you find that these topics can be quite interesting but this will also push you out of your comfort zone and expand your interests, thereby enriching your life.

3. Live abroad alone for at least 3 months

Sign up for an exchange programme or summer school or if you’re really up for it, rent a place like it’s something out of Eat Pray Love. It’ll work wonders. You’ll know more about yourself, have different world views, be exposed to varied cultures and understand how people are simultaneously so similar and different from each other.

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4. Make friends with someone you’ve never expected to be friends with

If you’ve always admired or liked someone from afar, now’s the time to show it. Instead of being afraid, do little things to befriend them. Offer to buy them coffee, say a few nice words and if it’s online, go ahead and send a friend request. You can even take it a step further and a send a message about what it is it about them that impressed you the most and how it helped you. Here’s a secret: people love sincere compliments!

5. Remove someone toxic from your life completely, with great determination

We all have negative people in our lives, who suck our energies like vampires. But really, it’s OUR fault for putting up with them. If you’re facing troubled times, it’s time to say goodbye to those toxic people and assert yourself. Once you cut them off from your life you’ll discover an exhilarating kind of freedom – like you’re the boss of your own life and can do anything you choose. And that’s exactly the life you deserve to live.

So what are you waiting for? Change your life NOW!

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Last Updated on September 20, 2018

7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

What do I want to do with my life? It’s a question all of us think about at one point or another.

For some, the answer comes easily. For others, it takes a lifetime to figure out.

It’s easy to just go through the motions and continue to do what’s comfortable and familiar. But for those of you who seek fulfillment, who want to do more, these questions will help you paint a clearer picture of what you want to do with your life.

1. What are the things I’m most passionate about?

The first step to living a more fulfilling life is to think about the things that you’re passionate about.

What do you love? What fulfills you? What “work” do you do that doesn’t feel like work? Maybe you enjoy writing, maybe you love working with animals or maybe you have a knack for photography.

The point is, figure out what you love doing, then do more of it.

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2. What are my greatest accomplishments in life so far?

Think about your past experiences and the things in your life you’re most proud of.

How did those accomplishments make you feel? Pretty darn good, right? So why not try and emulate those experiences and feelings?

If you ran a marathon once and loved the feeling you had afterwards, start training for another one. If your child grew up to be a star athlete or musician because of your teachings, then be a coach or mentor for other kids.

Continue to do the things that have been most fulfilling for you.

3. If my life had absolutely no limits, what would I choose to have and what would I choose to do?

Here’s a cool exercise: Think about what you would do if you had no limits.

If you had all the money and time in the world, where would you go? What would you do? Who would you spend time with?

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These answers can help you figure out what you want to do with your life. It doesn’t mean you need millions of dollars to be happy though.

What it does mean is answering these questions will help you set goals to reach certain milestones and create a path toward happiness and fulfillment. Which leads to our next question …

4. What are my goals in life?

Goals are a necessary component to set you up for a happy future. So answer these questions:

Once you figure out the answers to each of these, you’ll have a much better idea of what you should do with your life.

5. Whom do I admire most in the world?

Following the path of successful people can set you up for success.

Think about the people you respect and admire most. What are their best qualities? Why do you respect them? What can you learn from them?

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You’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.[1] So don’t waste your time with people who hold you back from achieving your dreams.

Spend more time with happy, successful, optimistic people and you’ll become one of them.

6. What do I not like to do?

An important part of figuring out what you want to do with your life is honestly assessing what you don’t want to do.

What are the things you despise? What bugs you the most about your current job?

Maybe you hate meetings even though you sit through 6 hours of them every day. If that’s the case, find a job where you can work more independently.

The point is, if you want something to change in your life, you need to take action. Which leads to our final question …

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7. How hard am I willing to work to get what I want?

Great accomplishments never come easy. If you want to do great things with your life, you’re going to have to make a great effort. That will probably mean putting in more hours the average person, getting outside your comfort zone and learning as much as you can to achieve as much as you can.

But here’s the cool part: it’s often the journey that is the most fulfilling part. It’s during these seemingly small, insignificant moments that you’ll often find that “aha” moments that helps you answer the question,

“What do I want to do with my life?”

So take the first step toward improving your life. You won’t regret it.

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