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4 Insightful Tips to Control Your Spending Habits

4 Insightful Tips to Control Your Spending Habits

Are you in debt? Are you always struggling to save money for the things you really want? Well, you’re not alone, many people all over the world are facing the same issues right now. No matter how hard they try, it’s never enough.

What’s curious is that even when they get a promotion (and earn more) and come across a big sum of money, they quickly return to the same situation. Why is that? The problem is not how much money you have, it’s your spending habits. It’s easy to think you’ll fix your problems by earning more money, but the truth is that you just have to spend wisely.

It’s easier said than done, I know, but if you’re reading this you’re willing to change and that’s the first step. I wish I could give you a quick, simple and easy solution, but there’s no such thing. It’s hard work, but it’s not impossible.

1. Ask Yourself Why

To be fair, you always should be assessing your purchases, but it’s even more important to do it when you’re about to buy something. You see, impulse can make us do things we’ll regret as we only think about the consequences afterwards.

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When you ask yourself why you’re buying something, you’re immediately reflecting about it. “Why am I buying a new (insert item/experience)?” The majority of the times you won’t find a decent reason for this question.

Why are you buying a new smartphone? Is there something wrong with the one you have right now? Why are you buying a new pair of jeans? Are the old ones broken? Or are you worried about what others might think if you repeat an outfit? Why are you going out (again)? Are you really going to have a nice time or are you afraid of being lonely? And not finding Mr/Miss right?

The point is: once you understand the underlying reason for your spending habits you’ll see that nothing will change by buying something. There are other ways to “solve” your problems without breaking the bank.

2. Have a Budget

Whether you have a daily or weekly budget, it doesn’t matter, as long as you have one. Ideally, you should never go over budget, but if you do, it’s not a problem, as it’s hardly the reason for having one in the first place. When you have a budget you’re forced to think about every purchase you make. So all of a sudden it’s not a matter of choosing, picking, paying and leaving – it’s a decision that’s going to affect something else.

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It’s even better to tie this budget to something that’s meaningful to you. It could be a long due trip to an exotic place, a replacement of the malfunctioning car or to reduce your ever increasing debt. When you start looking at the broad picture, you’ll stop your meaningless purchases in order to keep within budget and achieve whatever your goal is.

3. Don’t Spend Money That’s Not Yours

How many people do you know with massive credit card debts? Or people who ask for a bank loan as soon as they finish paying the last one off? It’s hard to say “no” to money that’s readily available, but it’s a mistake to believe that money is yours.

Credit is great if it’s used with a purpose and a well-defined plan – like starting a business for instance. It’s also a cushion to fall back on in case of an expected emergency. However, if you’re not in dire need, you should never use credit cards and overdrafts frivolously, or you end up paying the (hefty) consequences.

So if you’re getting to the end of the week or month and you feel you might not have enough money for rent, is it wise to buy a new top/t-shirt on your credit card? Shouldn’t you wait until you have the money to pay for it? The concept is simple: if you don’t have the money, don’t spend it. The more you get yourself in debt, the harder it is to get out. And when you add up all the money you’re paying in interest throughout the year, you’ll quickly see the problem you have.

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4. Be Willing to Change

One of the main reasons why people carry on with their financial problems is because they don’t want to change their lifestyle. You know that one of the definitions of insanity is: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

How many times do you eat out a month? How many times do you order a takeaway? Do you know how much money you could save by cooking at home? And before you say you cannot cook, remember that with practice you can achieve (nearly) everything. Do you drive to work? Do you need to? Have you considered selling your car and cycling to work? With services like Uber, Blablacar or Co-wheels/Turo, you’ll always have a car available to you.

People always dread a change of lifestyle; it seems like it’s not only a matter of comfort, but it’s also related to pride. A person might choose to get in debt and go to the gym with their friends, instead of exercising at home and looking like they don’t have money.

At the end of the day, you and you only know the problems you have. If you think your spending habits are not really affecting your life, I suppose there’s not much to worry. However, if it’s getting to a point where if you don’t take action things might start to fall apart, then you have to take it seriously.

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Do you have problems managing your money? Have you found a solution? Share in the comments below.

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How to Develop a Millionaire Mindset in 6 Simple Steps

How to Develop a Millionaire Mindset in 6 Simple Steps

We all like to dream about being financially wealthy. For most people though, it remains a dream and nothing more. Why is that?

It’s because most people don’t set their mind to achieving that goal. They might not be happy in their current situation but they’re comfortable – and comfort is one of the biggest enemies of growth.

How do you go about developing that millionaire mindset? By following these simple steps:

1. Focus On What You Want – And Take It!

So many people are too timid to admit they want something and go for it. When there is something that you want to accomplish don’t think “I could never actually do that”, think “I could do that and I WILL do that”.

Millionaires play to win, not to avoid defeat.

This doesn’t mean to have to become a selfish jerk. What it means is becoming more assertive and honest with yourself. You don’t have to grab off other people. There is a big pot of unclaimed gold in the middle of the table — why shouldn’t you be the one to claim it? You deserve it!

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2. Become Goal-Orientated

It’s almost impossible to achieve anything if you don’t set firm goals. Only lottery winners become millionaires overnight. By setting yourself attainable goals, you will get there eventually. Don’t try to get rich quickly — get rich slowly.

Let’s take the idea of making your first million dollars and expand on what kind of goals you might set to get there. Let’s also say you’re starting at a break-even position – you’re making enough to get by with a few luxuries, but nothing more.

Your goal for the first year can be having $10,000 in the bank within a year. It won’t be easy but it is doable. Next, you need to figure out the steps you need to take to achieve that goal.

Always look at ways to make growth before cutbacks. With that in mind, you might want to see if you can negotiate a pay rise with your boss, or if there’s another job out there that will pay better. You might be comfortable in your old job but remember, comfort stunts growth.

You may also have other skills outside of your workplace that you can monetize to boost your bank balance. Maybe you can design websites for people, at a fee of course, or make alterations to clothes.

If this is still not enough to make the money you need to save $10,000 in a year, then it’s time to look at cutbacks. Do you have a bunch of old junk that someone else might love? Sell it! Do you really need to spend $10 on your lunch everyday when you could make your own for a fraction of the cost?

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If you are to become a millionaire, you need to start accumulating money.

Here’re some tips to help you: How to Become Goal Oriented and Achieve More in Life

3. Don’t Spend Your Money – Invest It

The reason you need to accumulate money is for step three. Millionaires tend to be frugal people, and that’s because they know the true value of money is in investing. Being your own boss goes hand-in-hand with becoming a millionaire. You’ll want to quit your regular job at some point.

Stop working for your money and make your money work for you.

Rather than buying yourself a new iPad, that $500 could be used to invest in the stock market. Find the right shares (more on that later), and that money could easily double within a year.

There’s not just the stock market — there’s also property, and your own education.

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4. Never Stop Learning

The best thing you can invest in is yourself.

Once most people leave the education system, they think their learning days are over. Well theirs might be, but yours shouldn’t be. Successful people continually learn and adapt.

Billionaire Warren Buffet estimates that he read at least 100 books on investing before he turned twenty. Most people never read another book after they’ve left school. Who would you rather be?

Learn everything you can about how economics works, how the stocks markets work, how they trend.

Learn new skills. If you have an interest in it, learn everything you can about it. You’d be surprised at how often, seemingly useless skills, can become extremely useful in the right situation.

Start developing the habit of learning continuously: How to Create a Habit of Continuous Learning for a Better You

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5. Think Big

While I advise to start off with small goals, you absolutely should have a big goal in mind. If you have a business idea, then that is your ultimate goal – to start that business and make a success of it. If you want to invest your way to millions of dollars and do little work other than research, then that is your big goal.

There is no shame in not achieving a big goal. If you run a business and aim to make $1 million profit in a year and “only” make $200,000, then you’re still significantly ahead of most people.

Aim for the stars, if you fail you’ll still be over the moon.

6. Enjoy the Attention

To be successful, you have to be willing to promote yourself and enjoy the attention to a certain extent. Now the attention doesn’t need to be on yourself, it could be on your brand, but attention definitely attracts money.

Never be embarrassed to get your name out there. That means finding a spotlight and being brave enough to step right up underneath it.

If you run a business, try contacting the local papers. You’d be surprised at how amenable they often are to running a story about you and your business, and it’s all free publicity.

Above all, remember: You control your own destiny. Push hard enough for anything and you’ll get it.

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