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Ten Awesome Hobbies with Unusual Benefits for Retirees

Ten Awesome Hobbies with Unusual Benefits for Retirees

After a lifetime of work, you’d think that you can enjoy a long vacation and have days filled with simple small things like having a cup of tea with your granddaughter. If you’re not already there, I should warn you about what’s coming. You’ll eventually get bored.

If you don’t have a hobby of your own, this would be a nice chance to mark the new era of your life with a new activity. However, you should take other things into consideration, because there are hobbies you can pick up that are not just entertaining, but highly beneficial in different areas of life.

1. Fishing

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    A healthy dose of sun exposure will get you some vitamin D that keeps your bones healthy and what better way to sunbathe than to go fishing. Besides this, you should also know that fishing helps with stress relief; being in nature far from the toxic city air and traffic noise will help you calm down and clear your thoughts. Spending time in nature will significantly improve your focus, and depending on the success of your adventure you might end up with a nutritious meal.

    2. Knitting

    The dynamic, repetitive movements necessary for you to create a knit piece place you in the present moment which means your mind isn’t concerned about what will happen in the future. This kind of relaxation helps lower your heart rate and blood pressure so that your stress levels will be significantly decreased. The equipment necessary for knitting is inexpensive, so if you decide to go with knitting you’ll have a cheap way to express your creativity and perhaps discover a hidden talent.

    3. Blogging

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      Years of life experience imply you have something to share with the world and you definitely should. Your words of wisdom will find those who need guidance. The whole starting process isn’t at all difficult. You need to find a nice website template that’s in harmony with your niche and the topics you write about, so read up on different hosting options and get good support to begin your writing. If you stick to blogging you can even earn some extra cash. Just be persistent.

      4. Astronomy

      Now you have enough time to learn everything you always wanted, and learning about the mysteries of our world and our universe might just be the most interesting subject you could find. Considering the fact that astronomy requires only observation and patience, you’ll be able to spend some quiet time in nature while learning about the constellations and their secrets.

      5. Pottery

      The great thing about this creative hobby is that it is a form of exercise requiring you to move your hands, arms, and joints in a gentle way. Also, it’s a great way to socialize as you can meet interesting people in these classes, yet there’s no pressure for you to make small talk; you can just enjoy a few blissful moments of silence. Besides, pottery is very useful if you are any good at it; you can create various objects for your home and for your loved ones.

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      6. Dancing

      Active retired people having fun, happy old man and woman dancing latin american dance in patio

        You’re never too old for a good dance. You’ll have a lot of fun and I’m sure it will remind you of your vibrant and colorful twenties. So, sign up for a class you find suitable and I’m sure you’ll share some laughs.

        7. Restoring Furniture

        If carpentry is among your areas of expertise, I think it’s time to invest your time into this fulfilling hobby. My suggestion is to start learning about it by restoring pieces of furniture around the house and then move on to more difficult projects. Take your time, work at your own pace, and I’m sure you’ll be able to earn some money along the way.

        8. Animal Care

        Taking care of any kind of animal will fulfill you and make you feel loved and needed. Pets do provide a source of unconditional love and you can have a lot of fun with them. If you’re up for something a bit more exciting, you should go with an exotic animal. You’ll be eager to learn about it and it’s a great conversation starter.

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        9. Travel

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          Getting to know other cultures and learning about ways of foreign nations is a type of soul food that can’t be replaced with watching documentaries and reading. It’s not even close. Money shouldn’t be a concern if you plan everything in advance and do some serious research. You will be able to create travel arrangements that fit your budget and your preferences.

          10. Volunteering

          Fighting for an important cause is a powerful source of inspiration and your retirement is a great time to give something back to the world. I’m sure you’ll be able to find an organization that’s in need of assistance in no time. Volunteers are always needed, so go out there and make our world a better place!
          I’m sure you’d enjoy several of these options, but it’s up to you and your areas of interest to make the final decision. Have in mind that none of these are obligatory, so you can be preoccupied with one hobby until you get saturated and then move on to the next one.

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          Last Updated on July 10, 2020

          How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

          How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

          We all have them—those hurtful, frustrating, offensive, manipulative people in our lives. No matter how hard we try to surround ourselves with positive and kind people, there will always be those who will disrespect, insult, berate, and misuse you if we allow them to.

          We may, for a variety of reasons, not be able to avoid them, but we can determine how we interact with them and how we allow them to interact with us.

          So, how to take control of your life and stop being pushed around?

          Learning to set clear firm boundaries with the people in our lives at work and in our personal lives is the best way to protect ourselves from the negative effects of this kind of behavior.

          What Boundaries Are (And What They’re Not)

          Boundaries are limits

          —they are not threats or ultimatums. Boundaries inform or teach. They are not a form of punishment.

          Boundaries are firm lines—determined by you—which cannot be crossed by those around you. They are guidelines for how you will allow others to treat you and what kind of behaviors you will expect.

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          Healthy personal boundaries help protect you from physical or emotional pain. You may also need to set firm boundaries at work to ensure you and your time are not disrespected. Don’t allow others to take advantage of your kindness and generosity.

          Clear boundaries communicate to others that you demand respect and consideration—that you are willing to stand up for yourself and that you will not be a doormat for anyone. They are a “no trespassing” sign that makes it very clear when a line has been crossed and that there will be consequences for doing so.

          Boundaries are not set with the intention of changing other people. They may change how people interact with you, but they are more about enforcing your needs than attempting to change the general behavior and attitude of others.

          How to Establish Boundaries and Take Control of Your Life

          Here are some ways that you can establish boundaries and take control of your life.

          1. Self-Awareness Comes First

          Before you can establish boundaries with others, you first need to understand what your needs are.

          You are entitled to respect. You have the right to protect yourself from inappropriate or offensive behavior. Setting boundaries is a way of honoring your needs.

          To set appropriate boundaries, you need to be clear about what healthy behaviors look like—what healthy relationships look like.

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          You first have to become more aware of your feelings and honest with yourself about your expectations and what you feel is appropriate behavior:

          • Where do you need to establish better boundaries?
          • When do you feel disrespected?
          • When do you feel violated, frustrated, or angered by the behavior of others?
          • In what situations do you feel you are being mistreated or taken advantage of?
          • When do you want to be alone?
          • How much space do you need?

          You need to honor your own needs and boundaries before you can expect others to honor them. This allows you to take control of your life.

          2. Clear Communication Is Essential

          Inform others clearly and directly what your expectations are. It is essential to have clear communication if you want others to respect your boundaries. Explain in an honest and respectful tone what you find offensive or unacceptable.

          Many people simply aren’t aware that they are behaving inappropriately. They may never have been taught proper manners or consideration for others.

          3. Be Specific but Don’t Blame

          Taking a blaming or punishing attitude automatically puts people on the defensive. People will not listen when they feel attacked. It’s part of human nature.

          That said, you do not need to overexplain or defend yourself. Boundaries are not open to compromise.

          Sample language:

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          • “You may not…yell or raise your voice to me…”
          • “I need…to be treated with respect…”
          • “It’s not okay when…you take things from my desk without asking…”
          • “I won’t…do your work…cover for you anymore…”
          • “It’s not acceptable when…you ridicule or insult me…”
          • “I am uncomfortable when…you use offensive language”
          • “I will no longer be able to…lend you money…”

          Being able to communicate these without sounding accusatory is essential if you want others to respect your boundaries so you can take control of your life.

          4. Consequences Are Often Necessary

          Determine what the appropriate consequences will be when boundaries are crossed. If it’s appropriate, be clear about those consequences upfront when communicating those boundaries to others.

          Follow through. People won’t respect your boundaries if you don’t enforce them.

          Standing our ground and forcing consequences doesn’t come easily to us. We want to be nice. We want people to like us, but we shouldn’t have to trade our self-respect to gain friends or to achieve success.

          We may be tempted to let minor disrespect slide to avoid conflict, but as the familiar saying goes, “if you give people an inch, they’ll take a mile.”

          It’s much easier to address offensive or inappropriate behavior now than to wait until that behavior has gotten completely out of hand.

          It’s also important to remember that positive reinforcement is even more powerful than negative consequences. When people do alter the way they treat you, acknowledge it. Let people know that you notice and appreciate their efforts.

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          Final Thoughts

          Respect is always a valid reason for setting a boundary. Don’t defend yourself or your needs. Boundaries are often necessary to protect your time, your space, and your feelings. And these are essential if you want to take control of your life.

          Start with the easiest boundaries first. Setting boundaries is a skill that needs to be practiced. Enlist support from others if necessary. Inform people immediately when they have crossed the line.

          Don’t wait. Communicate politely and directly. Be clear about the consequences and follow them through.

          The better you become at setting your own boundaries, the better you become at recognizing and respecting the boundaries of others.

          Remember that establishing boundaries is your right. You are entitled to respect. You can’t control how other people behave, but you do have control over the way you allow people to treat you.

          Learning to set boundaries is not always easy, but with time, it will become more comfortable. You may eventually find that boundaries become automatic and you no longer need to consciously set them.

          They will simply become a natural extension of your self-respect.

          Featured photo credit: Thomas Kelley via unsplash.com

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