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9 Qualities Every Woman Looks For In A Husband

9 Qualities Every Woman Looks For In A Husband

As a matter of fact, we aren’t perfect; we all have both good qualities as well as bad qualities. But, when it comes to marrying, what are the qualities that women want in their partners? Here, in this article, I’ve compiled a list of some essential qualities a woman looks for in a man. Let’s have a glance!

1. Honesty

The first quality that a man should have is the ‘honesty.’ It is what that no women can sacrifice. When I use the word ‘honest’; that’s being honest about each and everything. For instance, if your spouse asks ‘do you like my hair,’ then the answer should be ‘yeah, I like it, but I would love it when it becomes a little longer.’ When you share small things honestly, then it will create your reputation of being honest and the level of respect and trust raises in a woman’s eyes’.

For instance, if your spouse asks ‘do you like my hair,’ then the answer should be ‘yeah, I like it, but I would love it when it becomes a little longer.’ When you share small things honestly, then it will create your reputation of being honest and the level of respect and trust raises in a woman’s eyes.

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2. To be Able to Protect

The next thing that women would love to have in their partner is their ability to protect them physically in times of trouble or danger. It’s a universal fact that women are weak, and they want their husbands to protect them at all cost. It will give them a sense security and peace of mind.

3. Get up and go

Another thing that women like to see in their husbands is to the ‘get up and go’ attitude. They don’t like men who are not motivated to do something in their lives. A woman wants her man to be passionate and career oriented and he must have the motivation to chase his dreams.

4. Belief

A woman wants her husband to be supportive in all fields of life. He must have a firm believe in his wife that what she’s doing is right, and that’s genuinely for the sake of the family.

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5. Sense of Humor

The truth be told, every couple is different and has a different sense of humor, but women are highly attracted towards men who make them laugh. I’m not asking you to be same like Robin Williams but be someone who has a good sense of humor and a mind like social encyclopedia.

6. Reliability

It is another important aspect that women keep high up on the list. Women want their husbands to be reliable as it’s the key to long term relationships.

If your spouse has planned a dinner date and asks you to come home at 7 pm, then it should be sharp 7 pm. It shows the level of reliability in you. I know, work is important, but take out some quality time for your wife as well.

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7. Commitment

If you want to build a long-term relationship with your spouse, then commitment is a must. Women like men who are committed, as they don’t have the doubt at the back of their minds that their partner isn’t taking their relationship seriously.

8. Love & Respect

There’s no exception when it comes to love and respect in a relationship. If you don’t love her, then what is the point of staying together. And, in the meantime, if you’re disrespecting her, then you’re killing the relationship with your attitude.

It’s equally important that you respect your wife and yourself too. As a woman, she doesn’t like other people disrespecting you. So, be careful. Otherwise, it’s a turn off for a woman.

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9. Stay Attuned To Her Feelings

It’s a warning sign for old-fashioned men out there who remain unaware of their partner’s feelings. It’s quite important to stay attuned to your spouse feelings. It shows love, care, and respect. I’m not saying that you should let them walk all over you, but try to stay connected with her and be aware how to handle her excitement, emotions, and sorrows.

Featured photo credit: Strata Clean via strataclean.com

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Last Updated on March 13, 2019

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

Have you gotten into a rut before? Or are you in a rut right now?

You know you’re in a rut when you run out of ideas and inspiration. I personally see a rut as a productivity vacuum. It might very well be a reason why you aren’t getting results. Even as you spend more time on your work, you can’t seem to get anything constructive done. While I’m normally productive, I get into occasional ruts (especially when I’ve been working back-to-back without rest). During those times, I can spend an entire day in front of the computer and get nothing done. It can be quite frustrating.

Over time, I have tried and found several methods that are helpful to pull me out of a rut. If you experience ruts too, whether as a working professional, a writer, a blogger, a student or other work, you will find these useful. Here are 12 of my personal tips to get out of ruts:

1. Work on the small tasks.

When you are in a rut, tackle it by starting small. Clear away your smaller tasks which have been piling up. Reply to your emails, organize your documents, declutter your work space, and reply to private messages.

Whenever I finish doing that, I generate a positive momentum which I bring forward to my work.

2. Take a break from your work desk.

Get yourself away from your desk and go take a walk. Go to the washroom, walk around the office, go out and get a snack.

Your mind is too bogged down and needs some airing. Sometimes I get new ideas right after I walk away from my computer.

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3. Upgrade yourself

Take the down time to upgrade yourself. Go to a seminar. Read up on new materials (#7). Pick up a new language. Or any of the 42 ways here to improve yourself.

The modern computer uses different typefaces because Steve Jobs dropped in on a calligraphy class back in college. How’s that for inspiration?

4. Talk to a friend.

Talk to someone and get your mind off work for a while.

Talk about anything, from casual chatting to a deep conversation about something you really care about. You will be surprised at how the short encounter can be rejuvenating in its own way.

5. Forget about trying to be perfect.

If you are in a rut, the last thing you want to do is step on your own toes with perfectionist tendencies.

Just start small. Do what you can, at your own pace. Let yourself make mistakes.

Soon, a little trickle of inspiration will come. And then it’ll build up with more trickles. Before you know it, you have a whole stream of ideas.

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6. Paint a vision to work towards.

If you are continuously getting in a rut with your work, maybe there’s no vision inspiring you to move forward.

Think about why you are doing this, and what you are doing it for. What is the end vision in mind?

Make it as vivid as possible. Make sure it’s a vision that inspires you and use that to trigger you to action.

7. Read a book (or blog).

The things we read are like food to our brain. If you are out of ideas, it’s time to feed your brain with great materials.

Here’s a list of 40 books you can start off with. Stock your browser with only the feeds of high quality blogs, such as Lifehack.org, DumbLittleMan, Seth Godin’s Blog, Tim Ferris’ Blog, Zen Habits or The Personal Excellence Blog.

Check out the best selling books; those are generally packed with great wisdom.

8. Have a quick nap.

If you are at home, take a quick nap for about 20-30 minutes. This clears up your mind and gives you a quick boost. Nothing quite like starting off on a fresh start after catching up on sleep.

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9. Remember why you are doing this.

Sometimes we lose sight of why we do what we do, and after a while we become jaded. A quick refresher on why you even started on this project will help.

What were you thinking when you thought of doing this? Retrace your thoughts back to that moment. Recall why you are doing this. Then reconnect with your muse.

10. Find some competition.

Nothing quite like healthy competition to spur us forward. If you are out of ideas, then check up on what people are doing in your space.

Colleagues at work, competitors in the industry, competitors’ products and websites, networking conventions.. you get the drill.

11. Go exercise.

Since you are not making headway at work, might as well spend the time shaping yourself up.

Sometimes we work so much that we neglect our health and fitness. Go jog, swim, cycle, whichever exercise you prefer.

As you improve your physical health, your mental health will improve, too. The different facets of ourselves are all interlinked.

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Here’re 15 Tips to Restart the Exercise Habit (and How to Keep It).

12. Take a good break.

Ruts are usually signs that you have been working too long and too hard. It’s time to get a break.

Beyond the quick tips above, arrange for a 1-day or 2-days of break from your work. Don’t check your (work) emails or do anything work-related. Relax and do your favorite activities. You will return to your work recharged and ready to start.

Contrary to popular belief, the world will not end from taking a break from your work. In fact, you will be much more ready to make an impact after proper rest. My best ideas and inspiration always hit me whenever I’m away from my work.

Take a look at this to learn the importance of rest: The Importance of Scheduling Downtime

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