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10 Reasons Military Men Make the Best Boyfriends

10 Reasons Military Men Make the Best Boyfriends

When it comes to dating military men, the long-distance relationship aspect might be the first thing to come to your mind. Being separated for months away from the person you love and want to be with sucks. The goodbyes that you need to tell time and again are heartbreaking.

However, remember all of the hellos, and that tight hug or sweet kiss that comes with meeting the one who is yours after a long time. Think of the times you get to ride on an emotional roller coaster and the surprises that you get time and again.

Dating a man in the military is bliss! Here are 10 reasons why military men make the best boyfriends.

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1. They love deeply and forever

Remember that 10-minute short phone call he’d make when they are out doing their duty and protecting the nation, or the texts he keeps sending you, or a bouquet with a note saying “I love you”. A military boyfriend is a keeper. He’ll keep thinking about you all of the time and share stories of how you two met with his friends. You are in his mind all of the time and he’s going to do everything possible to love you and be with you, forever.

2. They are stylish

Men in military know how to look great and stylish. Short-trimmed hair, clean and tidy living, and socially constructed men in uniform look hot and stylish. Not just that, they are always in great physical shape and are always well-groomed. Meanwhile, their sexual appeal is way higher than normal men — by leaps and bounds.

3. They are protective

Men in military know their responsibilities and understand how to react quickly. There’s nothing sexier than having someone who loves you and has your back all the time. If someone’s bugging you, he knows how to kick some ass — and why shouldn’t he? Military boyfriends put their life on the line to protect people they’ve never known. Even if it’s a zombie apocalypse, he’ll be there to defend with hand-to-hand combat if necessary.

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4. They’re modest and cocky

Men in the military have confidence even during the times they’re brought down. When it comes to being in a romantic relationship, it is what shines in them and makes you feel that your relationship is the sweetest. Shout at him or push him off when you are angry, he’ll never be stressed about it, and will always look for his chances to make you smile. He’ll tell you how beautiful you are and will stand up against all the odds to be in your heart.

5. They’re great team players

People in the military fight for the nation, together and hand in hand with everyone. They stand by the country and they never let go of their buddies or families. They always stick around to solve problems. They’re really good at making conversations too.

6. They bring you opportunities and benefits

While you might be only thinking about a perfect relationship and a jolly life, you get a lot of additional benefits when you date someone in the military. They get support from the nation and can enjoy several benefits including low cost education, health insurances, and even military travel benefits (which are received by families involving someone in the military).

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7. They give you freedom

There is no one who knows better what “freedom” reallt means other than someone in the military. A military boyfriend lets you have your time and enjoy your life, your way. While he’s out and is often surrounded by an unfamiliar milieu, he also knows how to take care of himself and his team.

Love can be a battlefield sometimes. He knows how to assess such situations and figure out in favor of both.

8. They are great in bed

Strong body, perfect physique, and a good libido, provide military men with everything that is required to have a great sexual life. They are absolutely hot in bed and have a sex drive that gives you all the joy to make you feel happy, satisfied, and complete.

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9. They are adventurous

Men in military know to play with guns and bombs, which means they are familiar with working in a highly difficult environment that includes danger. When it comes to adventure, they are always enthusiastic. They know how to enjoy every moment. They also are perfect planners and creative about their future.

Nothing can be more exciting than planning early and this is what comes with having a military boyfriend.

10. They are patient and kind

People in the military witness a lot of suffering, so they know the value of kindness. He is always patient and will always treat everyone kindly. While serving for the nation, you are the first one who comes to his mind. He understands the pain of being away from you and is always patient about waiting for the day he’ll see you again.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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