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Vaginal Birth After Cesarean (VBAC)

Vaginal Birth After Cesarean (VBAC)

Many people view the act of giving birth as being just about the baby. But it is not! Childbirth is as much about the new life as it is about you, the mother. Your desires and your wishes do matter. So, if you want to give birth naturally though your previous was a cesarean birth, you have the right to plan and hope for a VBAC.

A c-section can be a lifesaver, but for some people, it can also leave that personal touch out of childbirth. There are many reasons women need surgery to give birth, and none of them are trivial.

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If you had a cesarean but now want to opt for a VBAC, your work is cut out for you! Let us give you all the scoop on VBAC.

Why should you even try for a VBAC?

You had a Cesarean last time, and your baby came out healthy and happy. So, why rock the boat this time around? There are many reasons you and so many other women worldwide contemplate a VBAC. Here are some of the major reasons:

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  • Faster recovery is one of the biggest reasons women opt for VBAC. With a little one at home already and another one about to make their entry into the world, the last thing you need is to hobble around in pain.
  • For many women, a cesarean birth feels impersonal and takes away some of the early chances for bonding with their newborn. If that is how you felt about your previous delivery, VBAC may be right up your alley.
  • Breastfeeding is one of the most beautiful aspects of giving birth. But a c-section can make breastfeeding difficult. A VBAC can help you establish an early breastfeeding bond with your newborn.
  • Once a c-section, always a c-section! For a long time now, a cesarean birth marked the end of any possibility of a natural delivery in the future. If you are planning to have more than two kids, remember that each c-section makes the chance of a VBAC dimmer.
  • It may feel irrational to others, but how you want to give birth is entirely your choice. So, a VBAC is a good idea just because you want to experience a natural birth!

What are the risks associated with VBAC that you should know about?

A natural birth may be your dream, but the ultimate aim of childbirth remains a healthy baby and a healthy mother! That is why it is important that you know about all the risks associated with VBAC before you jump on the bandwagon.

  • The biggest reason doctors are wary of encouraging a VBAC is a uterine rupture. If you had a uterine rupture during your previous delivery, you should not even attempt a VBAC this time around – yes, it is that risky. But if you had a relatively healthy, low transverse (bikini) cut cesarean, your chance of getting a uterine rupture is as low as 0.5% to 1% (depending on other health issues).
  • A uterine rupture can cause infection and brain damage to the baby.
  • In some extreme cases, a uterine rupture can also necessitate a hysterectomy (removal of the uterus). Remember that a partial hysterectomy does not cause immediate menopause but will leave you infertile.
  • In most cases, the worst that can happen during a VBAC is a failed labor process and an emergency c-section.

What different factors determine the success rate of a VBAC?

You’ve seriously considered the risk factors as they relate to your specific circumstances and still want to opt for VBAC? Good for you! In fact, studies show that a good percentage of women (60% to 80%) go on to have a successful vaginal delivery via VBAC. Some of the factors that determine the success rate of a VBAC attempt include:

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  • Check your previous c-section scar. If you had a low transverse uterine incision last time, you have a good chance of having a successful VBAC. But if you have had more than one c-section, your chances will go down.
  • If your pregnancy is progressing smoothly and none of the factors that led to a cesarean last time exist during your current pregnancy, a vaginal birth is no longer a dream for you.
  • If you go into labor without assistance before or on your due date, you are on track for a VBAC. But if you are already past your due date, the chance of a natural delivery will dip.
  • Another factor that can make VBAC difficult is macrosomia; that is, if your child is larger than usual.
  • According to studies, your age too can play a significant role in VBAC. Younger mothers are more likely to come out of a VBAC successful and without complications. But if you are 35 or above, you are 39% more likely to experience complications and a failed labor trial during VBAC.
  • Your race is also a factor that determines the success rate of a VBAC. White women are more likely to have successful VBACs than women of other races. But the good news is that non-white women are 40% less likely to experience uterine rupture during a VBAC.
  • Obese women are 50% more likely to have a failed VBAC when compared to underweight women.

How can you prepare for a successful VBAC?

If your heart is set for a VBAC, start planning for it. There are things you can do to increase your odds of a successful VBAC.

  • Research, research, and research some more! If you are going for a VBAC, make sure you know the ins and outs of it. You can even take VBAC childbirth classes along with your partner.
  • Talk to your doctor about your wish for a vaginal delivery and discuss your complete medical history with him. Many doctors try to talk women out of a VBAC. But unless there is a good reason, hold your ground. If your health care provider is not supportive of a VBAC, look for someone who is!
  • Look for a hospital that is not just supportive of a VBAC but also has a high success rate in it. The hospital should also be well-equipped to handle any emergency situation.
  • Despite popular belief, your doctor can induce labor during a VBAC. But it will be best if things kick-start naturally. So, allow your body to go into labor naturally.
  • If you are obese, talk to your doctor about the risks while opting for a VBAC. In fact, it will be a great idea to lose some weight before you become pregnant!
  • Eat well and exercise regularly. A healthy pregnancy is surely a plus if you are trying for a VBAC.
  • Most importantly, be ready for a c-section! No matter how perfect everything is moving, the slightest of problems may warrant an emergency cesarean.

“Birth is not only about making a baby. Birth is also about making mothers – strong, capable, competent mothers who trust themselves and know their inner strength”. Barbara Katz Rothman

Remember this beautiful quote whenever you find yourself doubting your body. Trust your body and your doctor.

A VBAC can make you feel powerful and strong, reaffirming your inner warrior! But even if you do end up with another cesarean, remember, being a mother itself is a victory. Giving birth is only the first step, you have a whole battle lined up. So, plan a VBAC if it’s right for you but don’t let it take over your life.

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Featured photo credit: VBAC via flickr.com

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Published on April 9, 2021

50 Single Mom Quotes On Staying Strong And Loving

50 Single Mom Quotes On Staying Strong And Loving

Being a mom is not easy. Being a single mom is even more challenging. Having children means you are on the job 24/7. Even while you are sleeping, you are still ready to wake at the slightest peep because that is what moms do.

Moms, especially single moms, need more people cheering them on. Your love and care matter to your kids. You are their superhero. I think single moms are superheroes, too.

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The quotes below are words of encouragement for all of the single moms out there. Keep up the great work! Your hard work will pay off. Someday, they will be grown up and living on their own. Your job will never truly be done as a mom, but you can pat yourself on the back today and every day for doing mom duty day in and day out.

Here are 50 single mom quotes to encourage all the single moms out there.

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  1. “Being raised by a single mother, I learned to appreciate and value independent women.”—Kenny Conley
  2. “As a single mum you’ll discover inner strengths and capabilities you never knew you had.”—Emma-Louise Smith
  3. “One thing I know for sure – this motherhood thing is not for sissies.”—Jennifer Nettles
  4. “Mothers and their children are in a category all their own. There’s no bond so strong in the entire world. No love so instantaneous and forgiving.”—Gail Tsukiyama
  5. “And one day she discovered that she was fierce and strong, and full of fire and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears.”—Mark Anthony
  6. “She never quite leaves her children at home, even when she doesn’t take them along.”—Margaret Culkin Banning
  7. “The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.”—Alice Walker
  8. “Everyone has inside of her a piece of good news. The good news is that you don’t know how great you can be, how much you can love, what you can accomplish, and what your potential is.”—Anne Frank
  9. “Doubt is a killer. You just have to know who you are and what you stand for.”—Jennifer Lopez
  10. “You are more powerful than you know; you are beautiful just as you are.”—Melissa Etheridge
  11. “Motherhood is the greatest thing and the hardest thing.”—Ricki Lake
  12. “You don’t take a class; you’re thrown into motherhood and learn from experience.”—Jennie Finch
  13. “If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough.”—Oprah Winfrey
  14. “I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.”—Charlotte Brontë
  15. “Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.”—Nora Ephron
  16. “When a woman becomes her own best friend life is easier.”—Diane Von Furstenberg
  17. “If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman.”—Margaret Thatcher
  18. “Women have discovered that they cannot rely on men’s chivalry to give them justice.”—Helen Keller
  19. “Successful mothers are not the ones that have never struggled. They are the ones that never give up, despite the struggles.”—Sharon Jaynes
  20. “Success, they taught me, is built on the foundation of courage, hard work, and individual responsibility. Despite what some would have us believe, success is not built on resentment and fears.”—Susana Martinez
  21. “You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”—Maya Angelou
  22. “The question isn’t who’s going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me.”—Ayn Rand
  23. “God could not be everywhere, and therefore he made mothers.”—Rudyard Kipling
  24. “The women whom I love and admire for their strength and grace did not get that way because stuff worked out. They got that way because stuff went wrong, and they handled it. They handled it in a thousand different ways on a thousand different days, but they handled it. Those women are my superheroes.”—Elizabeth Gilbert
  25. “There will be so many times you feel like you failed. But in the eyes, ears, and mind of your child, you are a SUPER MOM.”—Stephanie Precourt
  26. “Motherhood is the ultimate call to sacrifice.”—Wangechi Mutu
  27. “We may encounter many defeats but we must not be defeated.”—Maya Angelou
  28. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.”—Princess Diana
  29. “There’s no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one.”—Jill Churchill
  30. “There’s no doubt that motherhood is the best thing in my life. It’s all that really matters.”—Courtney Cox
  31. “I realized when you look at your mother, you are looking at the purest love you will ever know.”—Mitch Albom
  32. “I have found being a mother has made me emotionally raw in many situations. Your heart is beating outside your body when you have a baby.”—Kate Beckinsale
  33. “Single moms, you are a doctor, a teacher, a nurse, a maid, a cook, a referee, a heroine, a provider, a defender, a protector, a true Superwoman. Wear your cape proudly.”—Mandy Hale
  34. “I’m not really single. I mean, I am, but I have a son. Being a single mother is different from being a single woman.”—Kate Hudson
  35. “Being a single parent is twice the work, twice the stress, and twice the tears but also twice the hugs, twice the love, and twice the pride.”—Unknown
  36. “For me, motherhood is learning about the strengths I didn’t know I had, and dealing with the fears I didn’t know existed.”—Halle Berry
  37. “A single mom tries when things are hard. She never gives up. She believes in her family, even when things are tough. She knows that above all things… a mother’s love is more than enough.”—Denice Williams
  38. “You do the best you can. Some days you feel really good about yourself and some days you don’t.”—Katie Holmes
  39. “I would say to any single parent currently feeling the weight of stereotype or stigmatization that I am prouder of my years as a single mother than of any other part of my life.”JK Rowling
  40. “Just because I am a single mother doesn’t mean I cannot be a success.”—Yvonne Kaloki
  41. “I didn’t plan on being a single mom, but you have to deal with the cards you are dealt the best way you can.”—Tichina Arnold
  42. “Nothing you do for children is ever wasted.”—Garrison Keillor
  43. “A single mom tries when things are hard. She never gives up. She believes in her family, even when things are tough. She knows that above all things, a mother’s love is more than enough.”—Deniece Williams
  44. “Motherhood has a very humanizing effect. Everything gets reduced to essentials.”—Meryl Streep
  45. “Having kids—the responsibility of rearing good, kind, ethical, responsible human beings—is the biggest job anyone can embark on.”—Maria Shriver
  46. “Mother is a verb. It’s something you do. Not just who you are.”—Cheryl Lacey Donovan
  47. “A mother’s love for her child is like nothing else in the world. It knows no law, no pity, it dates all things and crushes down remorselessly all that stands in its path.”—Agatha Christie
  48. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.”—Princess Diana
  49. “The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world.”—W.R. Wallace
  50. “Being a mother is the greatest blessing and the hardest challenge in all of life.”—Dr. Magdalena Battles

Final Thoughts

Single moms are remarkable women. They are to be respected and honored for all that they do. If you know a single mom, then share this article with them. Tell them “you are doing a great job as a single mom.” They need our encouragement and support.

They may be parenting alone, but it is good to let them know that there are people in their life who care for them. We can all be there for the single moms out there. Even if it is just to say, “keep up the great work, you are an amazing woman!”

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If you are a single mom, keep up the good work! You are amazing, and your kids are lucky to have you!

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