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8 Reasons Why People Who Keep Diaries Are Good Lovers

8 Reasons Why People Who Keep Diaries Are Good Lovers

Keeping a diary is about celebrating moments and all of life; lovemaking is about two people fully engaged in a reciprocal moment.

People who keep diaries make great lovers for various reasons. Introspective, seeking answers and possessing profound knowledge of their complex minds, these life’s writers simply know how to make an intimate connection.

Making love and keeping a diary share certain similarities, primarily a creation of memories. Writing down thoughts may determine their true meaning. An act of lovemaking might establish a connection between two people. Already allowing them onto those pages, here are the reasons why people who keep diaries also offer plenty of lasting memories to their lovers.

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1. They’re curious.

Their curiosity for their lover is abundant which can only lead to ecstatic experiences in the bedroom. Curiosity is one of the most rewarding traits of the people who keep diaries as it nurtures their ability to make life interesting. They want to know everything about you. They want to know what turns you on. They’re curious about what you like and want to experience it with you.

2. They know themselves.

Knowing yourself is essential to being a great judge of character. People who keep diaries are in touch with their private thoughts, making it easy to understand their lover’s thought process. They know exactly who they are and want to know the same about you. They are aware that nobody’s perfect. They are likely to understand, accept and ultimately enjoy you just the way you are. They will expect the same from you.

3. They’re open to learning new things.

People who keep diaries tend to be fascinated by life which leads to an open-minded awareness. In the bedroom, this can only be a good thing. They can teach you something new or you can teach them – either way, they want to make you feel good. People who keep diaries seek new life experiences in a variety of ways, fun in the bedroom included.

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4. They love a good story.

And they’ll make sure your lovemaking provides plenty of those (not to imply they would ever share them outside their diary). People who keep diaries are unlikely to allow boredom into the bedroom. They appreciate great stories and want to give their lover many of them. They tend to revel in their passion and cast in the role of your lover, and will try their best every time. They want to give you a special memory with every single instance of lovemaking you two have together, even if they won’t admit it.

5. Their focus is unshakable.

People who keep diaries know how to make the most of any given moment. When engaged in something, they are fully present and in the bedroom, their sole focus is you. They want to live in the moment with you. In addition to other benefits, keeping a diary is about reliving and remembering those magical moments.

6. They’re comfortable with themselves.

They might not be exceptionally confident but are often very comfortable with their true selves. As a result, people who keep diaries are entirely comfortable in the presence of their lovers – and who doesn’t like that?

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7. They enjoy a low-stress existence.

Keeping a diary provides stress relief which allows for certain lightness in an intimate relationship. People who keep diaries experience emotional unburdening on a regular basis, as writing provides a positive outlet for it. They aren’t troubled by shame or fear and love coming up with new ideas. They want new experiences with you.

8. They have very little baggage.

Through writing, people who keep diaries are inclined to deal with the past. Archiving deep feelings about their former relationships usually leads to making peace with them. Void of emotional baggage, their level of attraction will increase. They seek full enjoyment with their current lover, allowing all the right things to happen.

What are some of your experiences with people who keep diaries?

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Last Updated on February 13, 2019

10 Things Happy People Do Differently

10 Things Happy People Do Differently

Think being happy is something that happens as a result of luck, circumstance, having money, etc.? Think again.

Happiness is a mindset. And if you’re looking to improve your ability to find happiness, then check out these 10 things happy people do differently.

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions. -Dalai Lama

1. Happy people find balance in their lives.

Folks who are happy have this in common: they’re content with what they have, and don’t waste a whole lot of time worrying and stressing over things they don’t. Unhappy people do the opposite: they spend too much time thinking about what they don’t have. Happy people lead balanced lives. This means they make time for all the things that are important to them, whether it’s family, friends, career, health, religion, etc.

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2. Happy people abide by the golden rule.

You know that saying you heard when you were a kid, “Do unto others as you would have them do to you.” Well, happy people truly embody this principle. They treat others with respect. They’re sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of other people. They’re compassionate. And they get treated this way (most of the time) in return.

3. Happy people don’t sweat the small stuff.

One of the biggest things happy people do differently compared to unhappy people is they let stuff go. Bad things happen to good people sometimes. Happy people realize this, are able to take things in stride, and move on. Unhappy people tend to dwell on minor inconveniences and issues, which can perpetuate feelings of sadness, guilt, resentment, greed, and anger.

4. Happy people take responsibility for their actions.

Happy people aren’t perfect, and they’re well aware of that. When they screw up, they admit it. They recognize their faults and work to improve on them. Unhappy people tend to blame others and always find an excuse why things aren’t going their way. Happy people, on the other hand, live by the mantra:

“There are two types of people in the world: those that do and those that make excuses why they don’t.”

5. Happy people surround themselves with other happy people.

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    One defining characteristic of happy people is they tend to hang out with other happy people. Misery loves company, and unhappy people gravitate toward others who share their negative sentiments. If you’re struggling with a bout of sadness, depression, worry, or anger, spend more time with your happiest friends or family members. Chances are, you’ll find that their positive attitude rubs off on you.

    6. Happy people are honest with themselves and others.

    People who are happy often exhibit the virtues of honesty and trustworthiness. They would rather give you candid feedback, even when the truth hurts, and they expect the same in return. Happy people respect people who give them an honest opinion.

    7. Happy people show signs of happiness.

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      This one may sound obvious but it’s a key differentiator between happy and unhappy people. Think about your happiest friends. Chances are, the mental image you form is of them smiling, laughing, and appearing genuinely happy. On the flip side, those who aren’t happy tend to look the part. Their posture may be slouched and you may perceive a lack of confidence.

      8. Happy people are passionate.

      Another thing happy people have in common is their ability to find their passions in life and pursue those passions to the fullest. Happy people have found what they’re looking for, and they spend their time doing what they love.

      9. Happy people see challenges as opportunities.

      Folks who are happy accept challenges and use them as opportunities to learn and grow. They turn negatives into positives and make the best out of seemingly bad situations. They don’t dwell on things that are out of their control; rather, they seek solutions and creative ways of overcoming obstacles.

      10. Happy people live in the present.

      While unhappy people tend to dwell on the past and worry about the future, happy people live in the moment. They are grateful for “the now” and focus their efforts on living life to the fullest in the present. Their philosophy is:

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      There’s a reason it’s called “the present.” Because life is a gift.

      So if you’d like to bring a little more happiness into your life, think about the 10 principles above and how you can use them to make yourself better.

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