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People With Tattoos Are Not Necessarily Bad People

People With Tattoos Are Not Necessarily Bad People

Many think that those people that have tattoos around the skin of their bodies are extremely “bad” or “awful.” However, this is not true at all. Instead, people with tattoos can be some of the nicest people out there. Many people consider someone with a tattoo to be “taboo” but the truth is that they are normal people just like anybody else.

Here is why these individuals are truly great. You can learn a lot from them.

1. They are strong from the heart.

These people have gone through a lot in life. They have passed ordeal after ordeal. Tattoos are a gateway or an expression of the pain they have gone through and embalmed in themselves. Next time, don’t think just because someone has a tattoo, that they are bad. Think that they may have gone through some painful time in their life that they want to keep close to them and never forget about.

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I know someone very close who has a tattoo on her wrist after losing her brother. She is the strongest female I know. Know that these people are genuinely nice and strong and resilient from the heart.

2. They embrace themselves and what life throws at them.

Because these people have gone through so much as stated in the previous subheading, they embrace everything that life chooses to throw at them. When they do this, they may feel that they are at loss with life or maybe they can control a bit of things around them, and tattoos are a portal to this thought process. They are not afraid and this leads us to our next topic of interest. Life is not black and white any longer for such individuals; life is about the grey, the in between colors and arrays also. So, these tattooed individuals have learn to embrace not only themselves, but people everywhere around them.

Life truly is about accepting and individuals with tattoos have done exactly that.

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    3. They are fearless.

    It is painful to make a tattoo. However, these people have embraced both pain and fear and can take whatever you throw at them. They are not scared of being hurt or getting hurt because they have gone through the ordeals and dealt with them already. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Those with tattoos no longer have fear because it is extremely painful to get a tattoo. Those who agree to get them have an endurance to pain, so you can count on them to no longer be afraid. Even if they are a little bit, they have learned to tame it to a great degree. This is something that can also be learned form those people who have tattoos.

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      4. They express themselves through art.

      Instead of keeping all the turmoil and pain inside of them, people with tattoos have learnt to express their emotions through their art. Expression is the best form of art and we must embrace people with tattoos. They are beautiful people and we need to realize and understand that. Expression is a form of stress release. People with tattoos are wonderful at releasing their tension their getting tattoos.

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        5. They value life.

        These people significantly value what life is about! Something that holds special places inside of their hearts, they usually engrave on their skins, so they will always remember something to their heart, forever close to themselves. I think that is one of the most beautiful things possible. Wow, these people are truly wonderful. They are genuinely honest and have come to terms with nature and life. Life should be valued and that is something I have learned through them.

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        22 Tips for Effective Deadlines

        22 Tips for Effective Deadlines

        Unless you’re infinitely rich or prepared to rack up major debt, you need to budget your income. Setting limits on how much you are willing to spend helps control expenses. But what about your time? Do you budget your time or spend it carelessly?

        Deadlines are the chronological equivalent of a budget. By setting aside a portion of time to complete a task, goal or project in advance you avoid over-spending. Deadlines can be helpful but they can also be a source of frustration if set improperly. Here are some tips for making deadlines work:

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        1. Use Parkinson’s Law – Parkinson’s Law states that tasks expand to fill the time given to them. By setting a strict deadline in advance you can cut off this expansion and focus on what is most important.
        2. Timebox – Set small deadlines of 60-90 minutes to work on a specific task. After the time is up you finish. This cuts procrastinating and forces you to use your time wisely.
        3. 80/20 – The Pareto Principle suggests that 80% of the value is contained in 20% of the input. Apply this rule to projects to focus on that critical 20% first and fill out the other 80% if you still have time.
        4. Project VS Deadline – The more flexible your project, the stricter your deadline. If a task has relatively little flexibility in completion a softer deadline will keep you sane. If the task can grow easily, keep a tight deadline to prevent waste.
        5. Break it Down – Any deadline over one day should be broken down into smaller units. Long deadlines fail to motivate if they aren’t applied to manageable units.
        6. Hofstadter’s Law – Basically this law states that it always takes longer than you think. A rule I’ve heard in software development is to double the time you think you need. Then add six months. Be patient and give yourself ample time for complex projects.
        7. Backwards Planning – Set the deadline first and then decide how you will achieve it. This approach is great when choices are abundant and projects could go on indefinitely.
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        9. Find the Weak Link – Figure out what could ruin your plans and accomplish it first. Knowing the unknown can help you format your deadlines.
        10. No Robot Deadlines – Robots can work without sleep, relaxation or distractions. You aren’t a robot. Don’t schedule your deadline with the expectation you can work sixteen hour days to complete it. Deathmarches aren’t healthy.
        11. Get Feedback – Get a realistic picture from people working with you. Giving impossible deadlines to contractors or employees will only build resentment.
        12. Continuous Planning – If you use a backwards planning model, you need to constantly be updating plans to fit your deadline. This means making cuts, additions or refinements so the project will fit into the expected timeframe.
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        14. Review – For deadlines over a month long take a weekly review to track your progress. This will help you identify methods you can use to speed up work and help you plan more efficiently for the future.
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        22. Be Patient – Using a deadline may seem to be the complete opposite of patience. But being patient with inflexible tasks is necessary to focus on their completion. The paradox is that the more patient you are, the more you can focus. The more you can focus the quicker the results will come!

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