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8 Habits of Successful People That You Should Practice

8 Habits of Successful People That You Should Practice

Contrary to popular belief, success and happiness don’t simply show up at your doorstep one day, allowing you to live comfortably for the rest of your life. You have to earn your keep in life to deserve the great things it has to offer. The most successful people in the world have gotten where they are by practicing habits that allow them to live each and every moment of life to their fullest potential.

Heed the advice from some of the greatest minds of our time, and you’ll find yourself on the path to true success in life.

1. Take breaks

Author Alan Cohen once said, “There is virtue in work and there is virtue in rest. Use both and overlook neither.”

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In other words, you do not have to spend every single waking hour of your life working as hard as possible to be successful. Understand the importance of hard work, for sure. But also know that spending time on hobbies and other leisurely pursuits can be just as beneficial to your overall well-being.

2. Ask questions

The most philosophical humans throughout history lived their entire lives as skeptics, constantly asking probing questions in order to better understand everything they possibly could about our world. Scientists today are never quiet content when their questions and wonderings are answered. Rather than being satisfied with one piece of knowledge, they then use that information to formulate even more educated questions.

It’s through this constant cycle of questioning and discovery that we’ve grown as much as we have as a species.

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3. Laugh and enjoy life

Even those of us who have been through incredibly tough times need to remember to laugh once in a while. Maya Angelou, poet and author of some of the most somber literature of our time, once said: “I am serious, so I laugh a lot. You need to laugh. You don’t laugh enough.”

Those who can muster up the courage to laugh even when faced with adversity will ultimately appreciate life in a much greater way than those who fail to find humor throughout their daily lives.

4. Keep learning

We’re lucky enough to live during a time in which just about every piece of knowledge ever known to mankind is available at the click of a button. Unfortunately, so many of us waste the gift of intelligence we’ve been given, opting instead to spend hours every day consuming mind-numbing “entertainment” like TV and Candy Crush. According to Einstein, “Once you stop learning, you start dying.”

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Your brain is the most powerful muscle in your body; don’t let it atrophy.

5. Be thankful

As a society, we tend to be thankful for what we have only during the month of November (when we’re told to be thankful), and after tragedies strike (when we realize just how much we do have). We’re constantly fed the idea that we should never be happy with what we have, and always aim to get more, more, more. Oprah Winfrey advises, “Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.”

If you always want more, there will always be more to want. It’s when you value what you do have that you realize you don’t need anything else to be happy.

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6. Spend time with loved ones

The true measure of a person’s success is not in how much money he makes, or how big his house is, but how much time he is able to devote to his family. As A.D. Williams says, “Spending money on loved ones is thoughtful. Spending time with loved ones is divine.”

Of course, being able to provide for your family is important, but you should never live under the delusion that any monetary or tangible gift can substitute for the greatest gift you can give: your time.

Featured photo credit: Bbq steak dinner / Lars Plougmann via farm7.staticflickr.com

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How to Find Your Entrepreneurial Passion and Purpose

How to Find Your Entrepreneurial Passion and Purpose

I wrote a few articles about starting a business based on something you love doing and are passionate about. I received several responses from people saying they weren’t sure how to go about figuring out what they were most passionate about or how to find their true purpose. So I’m dedicating this article to these issues — how to find your entrepreneurial passion and purpose.

When I work with a new client, the first thing we talk about is lifestyle design. I ask each client, “What do you want your life to look like?” If you designed a business without answering this question, you could create a nice, profitable business that is completely incompatible with your goals in life. You’d be making money, but you’d probably be miserable.

When you’re looking for your life purpose, lifestyle design isn’t a crucial component. However, since we’re talking about entrepreneurial purpose, lifestyle design is indeed crucial to building a business that you’ll enjoy and truly be passionate about.

For example, say you want to spend more time at home with your family. Would you be happy with a business that kept you in an office or out of town much of the time? On the flip side, if you wanted to travel and see the world, how well could you accomplish that goal if your business required your presence, day in and day out, to survive? So start by getting some clarity on your personal goals and spend some time working on designing your life.

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At this point, you may need a little prodding, and you may want to hire a coach or mentor to work with you through this process. Many people are very used to the idea that there is a particular way a life “should” be. There are certain milestones most people tend to live by, and if you don’t meet those markers when or in the manner you’re “supposed” to meet them, that can cause some anxiety.

Here’s how to find your passion and purpose:

Give Yourself Permission to Dream a Little

Remember that this is your life and you can live it however you choose. Call it meditation or fantasy, but let your imagination run here. And answer this question:

“If you had no fears or financial limitations, what would your ideal life, one in which you could be totally content and happy, look like?”

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Once you’ve figured out your lifestyle design, it’s time to do a little more soul-searching to figure out what you’re truly passionate about. This is a time to really look within and look back.

Specifically, look back over your life history. When were you the happiest? What did you enjoy doing the most? Remember that what you’re looking for doesn’t necessarily have to be an entire job, but can actually be aspects of your past jobs or hobbies that you’ve really enjoyed.

Think About a Larger Life Purpose

Many successful entrepreneurs have earned their place in history by setting out to make a difference in the world. Is there a specific issue or cause that is important to you or that you’re particularly passionate about?

For some, this process of discovery may come easily. You may go through these questions and thought experiments and find the answers quickly. For others, it may be more difficult. In some cases, you may suffer from a generalized lack of passion and purpose in your life.

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Sometimes, this can come from having suppressed passion in your life for too long. Sometimes, it can come from eating poorly and lack of exercise. But occasionally, it may have something to do with your internal chemistry or programming. If the latter applies to you, it may be useful for you to seek help in the form of a coach, mentor, or counselor.

In other cases, not knowing your true purpose may be a matter of having not discovered it yet: you may not have found anything that makes your heart beat faster. If this is the case, now is the time to explore!

The Internet is a fantastic tool for learning and exploration. Search hobbies and careers and learn as much as you can about any topic that triggers your interest, then follow up at the library on the things that really intrigue you. Again, remember that this is your life and only you can give yourself permission to explore all that the world has available to you.

How Do You Know When You’ve Found Your True Entrepreneurial Purpose?

I can only tell you how I knew when I had discovered my own — it didn’t hit me like a ton of bricks. Rather, it settled over me, bringing a deep sense of peace and commitment. It felt like I had arrived home and knew exactly what to do and how to proceed.

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Everything flowed easily from that point forward. That’s not to say that I found success immediately after that moment. But rather, the path ahead of me was clear, so I knew what to do.

Decisions were easier and came faster to me. And success has come on MY terms, according to my own definitions of what success means to me in my own lifestyle design.

Dig deep, look within, and seek whatever help you need. Once you find that purpose and passion, your life — not just your entrepreneurial life, but your entire life — will never be the same.

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