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60 Things for Your Bucket List Other than Getting Married

60 Things for Your Bucket List Other than Getting Married

It seems like the dreams of many involve wanting to get a great job, get married, and have kids. We are so caught up in the many conventional tricks and doings of this world that we never stop to learn and discover through the simple and unconventional interests of our world. This is where a bucket list comes in. There is splendor in abundance only if we took the time to catch a breath and appreciate other pursuits and interests that could also fill us with happiness and excitement.

Our goals in life are mostly framed within a certain social context. However you can create or aspire to pursue things that can open up this context. It is simply in looking beyond the closest image and setting your sight at anything and everything you wanted to do.

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Open your heart to the joys and thrills that could be attained even in activities on your bucket list that have nothing to do with gaining a job or getting married. At the end of the day you can look back at the past and nurture a memorable thought when you go after these 60 things that have nothing to do with marriage and having kids (but you can do with or without these things).

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“Every man dies – Not every man really lives.” – William Ross

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  1. Learn a new language.
  2. Go skiing.
  3. Climb a mountain.
  4. Connect with past teachers and tutors.
  5. Go on a road trip with friends.
  6. Volunteer at a soup kitchen.
  7. Offer a heartfelt surprise to someone.
  8. Be a mentor someone.
  9. Do a kind deed and do not expect anything in return.
  10. Sing to an audience.
  11. Start your own business.
  12. Swim under a waterfall.
  13. Pursue your dream, whatever that may be.
  14. Fly in a hot air balloon.
  15. Volunteer in a way and give back to the world!
  16. Make a difference in someone’s life.
  17. Google yourself.
  18. Leave a note for a total stranger.
  19. Take a drive to an unplanned destination.
  20. Walk or dance barefoot in the rain.
  21. Experience a sunrise and a sunset — maybe in the same day.
  22. Plant a tree and either nurture it or watch it grow.
  23. Publish a book.
  24. Host a cocktail party.
  25. Befriend a stranger.
  26. Speak in front of a thousand people.
  27. Match-make for your friends.
  28. Learn how to dance.
  29. Learn how to play a violin, a guitar, a piano or any musical instrument.
  30. Give your lunch to someone who is homeless and hungry.
  31. Give blood to someone who needs it.
  32. Get a drink for a stranger.
  33. Witness a solar eclipse.
  34. Run barefoot.
  35. Have your fortune read.
  36. Backpack and set off to a location you have never visited.
  37. Be an actor, whether in a self-produced flick or otherwise.
  38. Live in another country for at least six months.
  39. Read a book on an abstract subject you’ve always wanted to know more about.
  40. Live through four seasons of the year in one particular location.
  41. Cook a meal for your loved ones.
  42. Take a walk into the heart of nature.
  43. Knit a scarf.
  44. Connect with an individual or company that you adore and thank them for their service/product/what they do.
  45. Reach out and volunteer at a hospice.
  46. Bake a cake for someone special.
  47. Fly a kite.
  48. Fall asleep on a grassy plain.
  49. Practice some meditation.
  50. Attempt a vegan diet.
  51. Get brave, prepare for, then face and conquer your biggest fear.
  52. Adopt a rescue pet.
  53. Donate some of your hair for cancer.
  54. Invest in the stock market.
  55. Teach kids.
  56. Learn a new skill.
  57. Disconnect from the world around you for a week. Switch off your phone and tablet and spend some quality time with yourself and the people around you.
  58. Do something that does not represent who you are, at least for once act stupid and don’t act too serious.
  59. Try a delicacy you have never eaten before.
  60. Go on a romantic getaway.

So here you have 60 things you can do apart from getting married and getting a good job. Now which one sounds most appealing to you? At least that could be worth a try in the next two days?

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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