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7 Forms of Real Wealth that Everyone Should Build to Lead a Meaningful Life

7 Forms of Real Wealth that Everyone Should Build to Lead a Meaningful Life

“Some people are so poor, all they have is money.” – Patrick Meagher

Wealth is about so much more than money. Yes, money can give you opportunities, no doubt about that, but there’s so much more to a meaningful life than just making an income.

Here are 7 forms of real wealth to build to lead a rich life and build real wealth.

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1. Authenticity

It can be difficult to be completely genuine, especially when there are pressures from society to fit your personality and life into a little predetermined box. You can have a truly meaningful life when you have the bravery to truly be yourself. You are one-of-a-kind. Act like it.

2. Wholehearted Relationships

One of the best parts of life is developing strong, loving relationships with your life partner, family members, and friends. Having relationships where you can be honest and vulnerable and are loved unconditionally is one of the most awesome things to experience. Connection with others makes life amazing.

3. Courage to Find and Do the Work You Love

If you feel stuck and frustrated at work, chances are things aren’t going to magically improve for you. Think ahead and imagine your life if you stay at your current job for 10 more years. Does that make you feel excited? If so, awesome. If it makes you feel sick, start taking steps today to find work you love.

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Start becoming a self-expert. Learn everything you can about what excites you, what you can’t stand, what kind of schedule you want, and what kind of impact you want to make on the world.

Take time to find your passion – the thing that completely ignites you – and do more of it. By living passionately, you will inspire others. You will give the people around you hope and permission to also do work they love, and this ripple effect will change the world.

4. Focus

Part of living a meaningful life is focusing. Streamlining your schedule and getting rid of the unimportant junk that sucks your time is important. When you spend your time doing what you love, and get rid of meaningless activities, your life becomes more worthwhile.

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2014 study found that the average adult ages 35-49 watches more than 33 hours of TV per week. That’s almost a full-time job’s worth of TV every single week. Investing some (or all) of that time into doing something you love can drastically improve your life satisfaction.

5. A Long List of Places You Have Visited

“The world is a book, and those who don’t travel only read one page.” – Augustine of Hippo. I absolutely love to travel. It makes me feel incredibly alive. Getting to see amazing places and meet people from a wide variety of backgrounds and cultures enriches your life.

6. A Healthy Mind and Body

Having a healthy mind, free from chronic negativity and void of constant destructive thoughts, is one of the keys to a happy life. Having a healthy body is also incredibly helpful. Your body is your vehicle to carry you on all kinds of awesome adventures. We are only given one body in our lifetime. This world is a huge, amazing place to explore, and taking care of your body allows you to do many more activities.

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7. A Meaningful Legacy

Creating something that lasts beyond your lifetime is a very important life stage, according to psychoanalyst Erik Erikson’s theory of psycho-social development. There are millions of options of things you can do to leave a lasting impact on the world. Giving back to the world and building a meaningful legacy is very fulfilling. Think about what you want your footprint to be on this earth, and leave this world a better place because you were here.

Your time here is limited. Be intentional about how you’re spending your time, and who you’re spending it with. There is so much more to a good life than collecting money.

Featured photo credit: Laughing at the Beach / Craig Cochrane via flickr.com

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Last Updated on November 5, 2018

8 Powerful Reasons to Love Your Enemies

8 Powerful Reasons to Love Your Enemies

We’ve all got our enemies; people who take pleasure in causing us pain and misery. Sometimes, the development of an enemy is due to certain differences in your characters and events have led to that. Other times, some people end up hating you for apparently no reason at all.

Regardless of how you got this enemy, as opposed to the paradigm of fighting fire with fire, consider the following reasons and see why you should actually appreciate your enemies. This article will show you not only how to not be bothered by your enemies, but how to actually foster love for them.

Read on to learn the secret.

1. It’s a practical lesson in anger management

To be honest, your enemies are the best people to help you understand your sense of anger management. When it might be true that your enemies have a way of bringing out the worst in you as regards anger, it is also true that they can help you in your quest to have that anger managed. You can’t get truly angry at someone you love and it is only in that time when you get truly annoyed that you learn how to manage it.

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Anger management is more effective when it is in practice and not in theory

Your enemies are like the therapists who you need, but actually don’t want. Inasmuch as you might want to hate them, they provide you an opportunity to control the anger impulse that you have.

2. It’s an opportunity for healthy competition

You might not know it, but your enemies make for great rivals as they help harness the competitor in you (sometimes, you might not even know or bee conversant with this competitive side until you come across an adversary). You get the right motivation to compete and this can go a long way to spur you to victory.

However, while doing so, it is also essential that you remember not to become a worse version of yourself while competing. Working against an adversary is tricky, and you need to ensure that you don’t cause harm to yourself or your morals in the process. Healthy competition is all you need to get out of this.

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3. Their negative comments can help you make a breakthrough

It is true that your enemies never really have much good to say about you. However, in as much as they might be talking out of a place of hate, there might be some truth to what they’re saying.

To wit, whenever you hear something mean or nasty from an enemy, you might want to take a step back and evaluate yourself. There is a chance that what this enemy is saying is true and coming to face that fact is a major step in helping you to become a better person overall. This is another testament to the fact that enemies can be therapists in their own way.

4. Enemies can also be powerful allies

Loving your enemies can also mean making an effort to interact and make peace with them. In the end, if you are able to establish some common ground and patch things up, you’ll have succeeded in making another friend. And who doesn’t need friends?

This can also help you in working with people in the long run. You get to hone your inter-personal skills, and that can be a big plus to your ledger.

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5. It gives you the ability to realize positivity

In a multitude of negativity, a speck of positivity always seems to find its way through.

Sometimes, a knowledge of the fact that you have enemies will also help you to focus on the many positives and good things that are in your life. A lot of times, we neglect what really matters in life. This can be due to being overly concerned with the enemies we have.

However, it is also possible for this acknowledgement to spur you to take a step back and appreciate the goo things (and people who surround you).

6. There might just be a misunderstanding

Sometimes, the reason why you have an enemy might be something very innocuous. You might not have known the cause of this fractured relationship and your enemy will help complete the picture.

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Simply approaching them will help you to understand the reason for the fracture. This, in turn, can help you to work towards healing your relationship moving forward. Misunderstandings happen, and you need to be able to work around them.

7. You learn to appreciate love as well

A constant reminder of the fact that there are enemies will also help you not to take those who love you for granted. Love and hate are two opposing emotions and it is possible for one to momentarily overshadow the other.

However, while you’ll always have enemies, there will also always be people who love you. These people need to be appreciated for what they do for you. Never let the hate projected to you from your enemies take the place of that.

8. Do you really need the hate?

The truth is that enemies bring only toxic emotions and generate bad reactions from you. If you’re truly to live a prosperous life, you can’t really be carrying all this baggage around.

Hate is bad and you should try all you can to get rid of it. It is a well-known fact that nobody can get really far in life while carrying a lot of emotional baggage. Well, hate is the biggest form of emotional baggage there is.

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