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Should I Eat My Afterbirth? The Science Against Testimonials

Should I Eat My Afterbirth? The Science Against Testimonials

What is an Afterbirth (Placenta)?

The placenta or a more euphemistic term, afterbirth, is an organ that is usually attached on the upper part of the uterus (sometimes lower), as it connects the unborn baby through the umbilical cord. It acts as the ultimate source of supply and a filter for the baby as oxygen, blood, hormones and nutrients are passed through the umbilical cord from the placenta. Therefore it is absolutely crucial for the mother to watch her health so it can maintain a healthy placenta.

The placenta is fully formed by 18 to 20 weeks, but continues to develop with the baby until birth, but just because it’s the end of the placenta doesn’t mean it’s the end of the process of supplementing. Although there hasn’t been a strong case of scientific evidence to prove “consuming” one’s own placenta is beneficial, there is a culture that has grown to stand firm by this practice generating a trend and a market.

Placentophagy:  Eating of the Placenta After Giving Birth

Although this term is generally directed towards animals, the motive behind the animals is similar for the people accepting placentophagy:

  • The nutrients supplying the baby in the womb still remains after birth, therefore it can be seen as a natural way to help mothers with postpartum pregnancy.

Taking this statement at a face value makes perfect sense where many cultures in various parts of the world have or had taken such practice to account. With TV shows and celebrities bringing up the idea of placentophagy which the western culture deems afterbirths as byproducts, this practice has now generated a trend that has divided the public opinion with scientific reason.

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Different Ways to Consume Afterbirth

It is imperative that no mother eat another mother’s placenta due to health hazards. Many hospitals consider placentas as bio-hazard so if you’re considering on taking the afterbirth home, plan ahead by contacting your hospital.

Now, things can get bit disturbing when it comes to different methods of eating a placenta. Just finding an image online of eating placentas can ruin a days worth of appetites, but this popular trend has opened the refrigerator door to create interesting ways to eat placentas.

  • Make a smoothie with fruits and juices
  • Placenta Lasagna
  • Placenta Truffles
  • Go raw. Eat it raw with seasoning
  • Placenta pills

One mother decided to share her process of “How to eat your placenta” with photos. (Warning: Some of the photos may contain some graphic images. Viewer discretion advised)

Benefits of Eating Afterbirth

Here are some of the attractive benefits that are claimed from eating a placenta:

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  • Reduces postpartum pregnancy depression
  • Supports lactation
  • Control postpartum pain
  • Helps with iron deficiency anemia
  • Nutritious

Placenta Benefits.info is an organization that was launched back in 2006 by Jodi Selander, and to this day it has taken strong measures to educate and help women who are interested with placentophagy. They have serviced women all over America with testimonials posted online that shares in-dept views of positive results.

Scientific and Medical View

To see how popular the trend was, researchers looked into the Google Trend, and to their surprise there was a surprising find on how prevalent the idea of eating a placenta was due to the benefits that came with it. However as advocates lay out their facts and scientific research on supporting the cause, there seems to be a whole different result from the other side that shows no evidence on any health benefits for humans to perform placentophagy.

“The bottom line is that there are no human studies that show a benefit to eating the placenta.” – Cynthia Coyle, a clinical psychologist at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine in Chicago.

To this day, there hasn’t been a case to end the debate because many of the testimonies and studies were subjective, which causes the whole argument of whether if this could be a placebo effect. Many of the positive experiences are from anecdotal experiences which makes it uncertain and unlikely for anyone in the field of science to accept it as hard fact.

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As proponents state eating their own placenta is safe and natural, placenta pills that are the popular choice, are not regulated by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration therefore people who buy placenta capsule should consult with their doctors or even take the time to research the ingredients inside. Another note to keep in mind is placenta tissues have been found to have bacteria which can be harmful if consumed.

To Eat or Not To Eat?

Although many of placentophagy experiences are positive, some people have shared negative results.

One mother had trouble sleeping and was hyper-stimulated as she took placenta capsules. Another mother has posted a YouTube video on her experience with eating placenta and she found her mood to swing up and down, a contradiction to the benefits of placentophagy. On 2012, one mother posted a thoroughly documented experience of her own attempt with placenta pills on The New York Times titled “I Regret Eating My Placenta”

Although the internet has an anecdotal trove of success stories, the evidence through scientific research for humans practicing placentophagia is little to none. However as mentioned from previous studies, the bottom line to placentophagy is it is neither beneficial nor harmful for mothers undergoing this practice.

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Until there is a scientific evidence with clinical tests and trials to determine if eating one’s own afterbirth is beneficial or not, it will be a personal choice for now, but if your appetite craves for placenta after labor, please eat it with precaution.

Featured photo credit: Didriks via flickr.com

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Published on December 20, 2019

Is Authoritarian Parenting Good or Bad for Your Child?

Is Authoritarian Parenting Good or Bad for Your Child?

Kate sits down to the dinner table and is eager to be a good girl and eat her dinner like her Mom and Dad want her to do. She is a sweet girl who wants the approval of her parents very much. It is not always easy though. During dinner, she stands up and starts to leave the table because she has to use the bathroom. Her Dad yells at her to sit back down. He tells her “we don’t just get up from the dinner table, we wait and ask to be excused after everyone is finished eating.” She begins to protest, wanting to explain that she needs to use the bathroom. Her father becomes more upset with her and yells at her that she is now talking back and she is not allowed to say another word at the dinner table until everyone is finished eating and then she can be excused.

Unfortunately for Kate, she can’t hold it, and she has a little accident because she is too fearful to say a word to her Dad. She doesn’t want to get yelled at anymore. She also knows that in her home, kids don’t have a say. What Mom and Dad say is like words carved into stone. They are strict beyond reason and they will not bend their rules. Therefore, Kate felt that she had no choice in the matter and when she could no longer hold it. There was nothing she could do about it.

Kate’s parents are an example of authoritarian parenting. They are strict, they are not emotionally engaged with their children, and they have very high expectations for their children. This type of parenting style leaves children feeling disconnected from their parents.

Kate wanted to communicate to her parents that she had to use the restroom, but she couldn’t even get her words out because her parents have such strict rules and demands of her. They did not care to hear what she had to say, because upholding their rules was more important to them. In their household, a child’s opinions and feelings do not matter.

This kind of strict parenting is not helpful for children. It can damage a child and leave them with low self-esteem, mental health issues, and doing poor academically among other problems cited by research in Parenting Science.[1]

What Does Authoritarian Parenting Look Like?

In the 1960’s, a researcher and theorist by the name of Baumrind established the well known theory of parenting styles. Those four parenting styles, which are well known today, are authoritarian, authoritative, passive, and neglectful. For proactive parents that are trying hard to be good parents, they will usually lean toward either authoritarian or authoritative.

Authoritarian parenting involves strict parenting and high expectations for children. This can sound reasonable and even like good parenting. However, the strict parenting is often characterized by lack of compassion toward the child, little to no flexibility in rules, and complete control sought over the child’s behavior.

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Parents who use this parenting style believe it is their job to control the will and behavior of their children. An article in Psychology Today explains how authoritarian parents operate:[2]

Authoritarian parents believe that children are, by nature, strong-willed and self-indulgent. They value obedience to higher authority as a virtue unto itself. Authoritarian parents see their primary job to be bending the will of the child to that of authority—the parent, the church, the teacher. Willfulness is seen to be the root of unhappiness, bad behavior, and sin. Thus, a loving parent is one who tries to break the will of the child.

For example, Jake has authoritarian parents. He wants to stay out past curfew on a school night because he has an opportunity to play in a jazz ensemble. He has been playing the saxophone for years and his ambition is to play in a college jazz ensemble.

With Jake still being in high school, his parents have a curfew. On school nights, it is 8:00 pm. This rule is instituted because his parents believe they need to ensure that Jake gets his school work done each night and that he needs to be well rested for school the next day. However, they don’t explain the why of their rules to him, they simply tell him that those are their rules. The jazz ensemble is practicing at 8:00 pm on a Thursday night and they have invited Jake to come play with them. It is a well known group and a huge opportunity for Jake.

Unfortunately, his parents say no. Their authoritarian parenting style is unwavering. He wants to discuss the opportunity and its importance, but his parents will not even entertain the conversation. They stop him mid-sentence and go over their rules again. There is no flexibility.

If Jake’s parents had been authoritative, they would have taken the time to hear out his case and would likely have granted him a later curfew for that one instance. They would see that, although they have a curfew, there are some instances when an opportunity is worth bending the rules. They would ask that he has his homework done before going to play with the group, and that he come home as soon as the practice was finished.

Authoritative parents have rules, but they are also flexible based on reasonable requests for exceptions. The authoritative parents are interested in how their children are thinking and feeling. Conversely, authoritarian parents are not likely to be interested in hearing their child’s thoughts and feelings, because they want to control the will of their child, not come to some middle ground.

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Here are some characteristics of authoritarian parenting:

  • They have strict rules that are unyielding and unwavering. This is often called “heavy handed parenting.”
  • They do not want input from the child about rules. They also feel that the child’s opinion does not matter, because they are the parent thus are the supreme authority over the child.
  • There are severe punishments when rules are broken.
  • There is an emotional disconnection between parent and child, because the parent is not interested in what the child thinks or feels. They are more interested in controlling the behavior of the child and having the child be compliant to their rules.
  • Children are expected to listen to their parents and follow the rules, there are no exceptions. A child that voices their objections will likely be punished for doing so.
  • The parents have high expectations, especially when it comes to compliance of their rules.
  • Parents expect that their child will be obedient and they do not need to explain the “why” of their rules and expectations. Compliance is expected out of sheer obedience, not because the child understands the reasons why the rules are set. Parents do not feel the need to explain why they set their rules.
  • There is a failure to have attached relationships between parent and child because of the overly dominant nature of authoritarian parents and their unwillingness to allow their children to have their own voice or free will.

Authoritarian parents are driven by a belief that they need to control their children. This means controlling their children’s behavior to an extreme. They are inflexible and don’t take into account the child’s desires, emotions, or well-being as being as important to enforcing rules to get the desired outcome. Authoritative parents on the other hand, seek to guide and direct their children instead of control. There is a distinction.

The Problems of Authoritarian Parenting

Authoritarian parenting has many negative consequences to children. Children who are raised in homes with extreme authoritarian parenting are more likely to become dependent on drugs and alcohol, have lower academic performance, and increased mental health issues according to Parenting for Brain.[3] Children who are raised with authoritarian parents are also more likely to have lower self esteem, inability to make decisive choices, and have social skills that are lacking.

When a child is raised to be taught day in and day out that their voice does not matter, then that child will likely be ingrained with that belief. They will not value their own opinions because they have been taught that what they think does not matter and is of no value. This leads to poor self-esteem and low self-worth.

If a child doesn’t believe that their thoughts matter, then what they think about themselves overall is going to be affected. They will not think highly of themselves or believe that what they think, say, or do is of value. This will contribute to low self-esteem long term.

Social skills will suffer because a child who comes from an authoritarian home will be trained to believe that nobody wants to hear their opinion and that relationships are based on compliance.

For example, Judy is raised in an authoritarian home. She is now 18 years old and has her first boyfriend. Anytime that he asks something of her, even if she internally disagrees, she feels that she is supposed to comply and do what he says in order for him to like her and continue wanting to be with her.

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He wants to have sex. She does not feel that she is ready, but she will not voice this to her boyfriend because she doesn’t think that her opinion will matter or that he will want to listen to what she is feeling. She goes along with sex in their relationship to be compliant. She doesn’t want to be punished by disagreeing with not having sex. He says that they are ready for that next step in the relationship and she fears that the consequence of saying no would be that he ends the relationship.

Therefore, she doesn’t even voice her thoughts or feelings on the situation because she doesn’t think they have value or will be heard anyway.

She has been taught by her parents that her opinions and feelings don’t matter. She has learned from the past 18 years with her parents that what matters most is that she is compliant. She gets along with her parents best when she is doing exactly what they want her to do. This is why she feels the need to do the same with her boyfriend.

Going along with his decisions, being compliant, and not voicing her feelings will keep the relationship going and avoid conflict or punishment. The ultimate punishment in her mind would be that he ends the relationship.

With her opinions never being valued by those who she has loved the most (her parents), she has learned that she should not voice her opinion if she wants to keep the other person in the relationship happy. In her mind, because of how she has been raised, compliance overrides all else, and her opinion is meaningless.

However, her boyfriend is not her parents. He is understanding and would want to know how she feels. He wants a long term relationship with her and he loves her so much. His true desire is for her to be happy. He would never want her to have sex if she wasn’t feeling the same way that he was feeling. He would gladly wait and would want to hear what she thinks and feels about taking their relationship to the next level.

Authoritarian parenting methods can inflict great harm on a child. The child becomes emotionally damaged because they grow up believing that their opinions, thoughts, and feelings do not matter. Instead they are taught that compliance and being obedient supersedes all else.

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The Solution

The solution is to move from authoritarian parenting methods to authoritative parenting practices.

Authoritative parenting has been deemed as the best parenting method by researchers, according to Psychology Today. Parents who use authoritative parenting methods have rules for their children, but they are not looking for blind compliance. They recognize that having a relationship with their child is of great importance and therefore valuing the child’s voice, opinions, and thoughts is important.

Authoritative parents seek to guide and direct their children, but they do not seek to control the will of their child.

Parenting Coach Plan explains the foundation of authoritative parenting as the following:[4]

Authoritative parenting can be described as a style of parenting that combines firm limits and clear boundaries with fair and consistent discipline. Authoritative parents are also nurturing, highly-involved, and willing to speak openly with their child regarding expectations and the consequences for failing to meet those expectations. Rules are enforced and fair consequences are put in place for when those rules are broken.

Children raised in authoritative homes follow the rules because they understand the “why” of the rules. They are also bonded to their parents because they are able to talk to their parents openly. This bond helps nurture a positive home environment and a two-way relationship that can last a lifetime.

To learn more about how to be an authoritative parent and how to discipline a child using this parenting method, check out my article:

How to Discipline a Child (The Complete Guide for Different Ages)

Featured photo credit: Xavier Mouton Photographie via unsplash.com

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