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Master These 6 Mindsets To Get One Step Closer To Success

Master These 6 Mindsets To Get One Step Closer To Success

Sometimes it is not about strategy or “how to.” To become successful or take a step closer to it you have to understand the importance of your mindset. Even when a groundbreaking idea comes along or you are super talented, success may not come. While many have underestimated the efficacy of what role your mindset has to play when it comes to success, you should not count yourself amongst the many that ignored such to their peril. You should start learning what mindsets you have to work on to inch you further to your goals and to determine your success. Here are six mindsets that will take you one step closer to success.

A growth mindset

Mastering the growth mindset makes you more adaptable on your way to success. People who have a growth mindset are flexible and do not see things in the short term, but are focused on the long term and adapting to the journey and the process. They know that there will be failures, but they do not consider this to be disappointing or discouraging or the end point to their journey, rather they see failures as a starting point for experimentation and testing of ideas. People who are willing to be successful should not see failure as a reflection or a proof of their ability; they should see it as a platform they can build on.

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A possibility mindset

You cannot really accomplish much if you limit yourself with the “impossibility factor.” Because it has not been done before or doesn’t have any concrete antecedence of success doesn’t mean it is doomed for failure and it won’t simply work. Success requires that you should have an open and positive mindset that things will work out even when the odds seem to be against you.

An active mindset

People, who are highly successful and keep on striving for success, do not just talk or dream about becoming successful. They pursue and chase after success with every fiber in their bones. They dream it, sleep it, eat it and walk it. Their mindset in getting what they want is active and above the passive. They have the desire that they want it, but they go further by taking action and proving how much they want to be successful.

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A people mindset

Sometimes what matters very much to success is not your talent or your product, rather how much you focus on people and stirring them to giving you what you want. Focusing on people means that you do not develop relationships with those who will divert you from your goals, but will motivate and inspire you to getting to where you want to be. You can communicate, learn and be inspired in such relationships. Learn to connect with people if you want to become more successful.

A grateful mindset

Learn to say thank you often. Learn to appreciate wherever you are in the journey of becoming successful. Negativity sort of has a way of impeding your progress and debarring you from earning more opportunities. Focus on where you are and how far you have come. Your gratitude and such reminders show contentment, delight and positivity. Such attitude stirs you towards success rather than away from it.

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A responsible mindset

You understand that you are the one responsible for your success and not anyone else. you should take charge of whatever situation you are in and be willing to climb the ladder without making excuses. People who want to be successful are willing to be accountable for their actions and accept the responsibilities that will be placed before them in the process. They do not look for others to blame for their difficulties or expect them to be your driving force. You know what your future holds and you do not allow others to determine it.

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Last Updated on March 31, 2020

How To Break the Procrastination Cycle

How To Break the Procrastination Cycle

How often do you find yourself procrastinating? Do you wish you could procrastinate less? We all know how debilitating procrastination can make us feel, and it seems to be a challenge we all share. Procrastination is one of the biggest hindrances to moving forward and doing the things that we want to in life.

There are many reasons why you might be procrastinating, and sometimes, it is really difficult to pinpoint why. You might be procrastinating because of something related to the past, present, or future (they are all intertwined), or it could be as simple as biological factors. Whatever the reason, most of us follow a cycle when we procrastinate, from the moment we decide to do something to actually getting it done, or in this case, not getting it done.

The Vicious Procrastination Cycle

For some reason, it helps to understand that we all go through the same thing, even though we often feel like the only person in the world who struggles with this. Do you resonate with the cycle below?

1. Feeling Eager and Energized

This is when you commit to taking a new action or getting something done. You are feeling confident and optimistic that, this time round, you will do it!

2. Apprehension Starts to Come Up

The beginning stages of optimism are starting to fade. There is still time, but you haven’t done anything yet, and you start to feel uneasy. You realize that you actually have to do something to get it done, and that good intentions are not enough.

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3. Still No Action

More time has passed. You still haven’t taken any action and probably have a lot of excuses why. You start to panic a little and wish you had started sooner. Your panic starts to turn into frustration and perhaps even irritability.

4. Flicker of Hope Left

You can still make it; there is a little time left and you ponder how you are going to get it done. The rush you get from leaving your task until the last minute gives you a flicker of hope. There is still time; you can do this!

5. Fading Quickly

Your hope starts to quickly fade as you try desperately to understand why you just can’t do this. You may feel desperate and have thoughts like, “What is wrong with me?” and “Why do I ALWAYS do this?” You feel discouraged, or perhaps angry and resentful at yourself.

6. Vow to Yourself

Once the feeling of anger or disappointment disappears, you most likely swear to yourself that this will never happen again; that this was the last time and next time will be different.

Does this sound like you? Is the next time different? I understand the devastating effect that procrastination has on many lives, and for some, it is a really serious problem. You also have, on the other hand, those who procrastinate but it doesn’t affect them in any way. You know whether it is affecting you or not and whether it undermines your results.

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How to Break the Procrastination Cycle

Unless you break the cycle, you will keep reinforcing it!

To break the cycle, you need to change the sequence of events. Here is my suggestion on how you can effectively break the vicious cycle you are in!

1. Feeling Eager and Energized

This is when you commit to taking a new action or getting something done. You are feeling confident and optimistic that, this time round, you will do it! The first stage is always the same.

2. Plan

Thinking alone will not help; you need to plan your actions. I always put my deadlines one or two days in advance because you know Murphy’s Law! Take into consideration everything that you need to do, how long it will take you, and what you will need to get it done, then plan the individual steps.

3. Resistance

Just because you planned doesn’t mean that this time is guaranteed to be different. You will most likely still feel the resistance so expect this. This stage is key to identifying why you are procrastinating, so when you feel the resistance, try to identify it immediately.

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What is causing you to hesitate in this moment? What do you feel?  Write them down if it helps.

4. Confront Those Feelings

Once you have identified what could possibly be holding you back, for example, fear of failure, lack of motivation, etc. You need to work on lessening the resistance.

Ask yourself, “What do I need to do to move forward? What would make it easier?” If you find that you fear something, overcoming that fear is not something that will happen overnight — keep this in mind.

5. Put Results Before Comfort

You need to keep moving forward and put results before comfort. Take action, even if it is only for 10 minutes. The key is to break the cycle and not reinforce it. You have more control that you think.

6. Repeat

Repeat steps 3-5 until you achieve what you first set out to do.

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Final Thoughts

Change doesn’t happen overnight, and if you have some deeper underlying reasons why you procrastinate, it may take longer to finally break the cycle.

If procrastination is holding you back in life, it is better to deal with it now than to deal with the negative consequences later on. It is not a question of comfort anymore; it is a question of results. What is more important to you?

Learn more about how to stop procrastinating here: What Is Procrastination and How to Stop It (The Complete Guide)

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