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Master These 6 Mindsets To Get One Step Closer To Success

Master These 6 Mindsets To Get One Step Closer To Success
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Sometimes it is not about strategy or “how to.” To become successful or take a step closer to it you have to understand the importance of your mindset. Even when a groundbreaking idea comes along or you are super talented, success may not come. While many have underestimated the efficacy of what role your mindset has to play when it comes to success, you should not count yourself amongst the many that ignored such to their peril. You should start learning what mindsets you have to work on to inch you further to your goals and to determine your success. Here are six mindsets that will take you one step closer to success.

A growth mindset

Mastering the growth mindset makes you more adaptable on your way to success. People who have a growth mindset are flexible and do not see things in the short term, but are focused on the long term and adapting to the journey and the process. They know that there will be failures, but they do not consider this to be disappointing or discouraging or the end point to their journey, rather they see failures as a starting point for experimentation and testing of ideas. People who are willing to be successful should not see failure as a reflection or a proof of their ability; they should see it as a platform they can build on.

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A possibility mindset

You cannot really accomplish much if you limit yourself with the “impossibility factor.” Because it has not been done before or doesn’t have any concrete antecedence of success doesn’t mean it is doomed for failure and it won’t simply work. Success requires that you should have an open and positive mindset that things will work out even when the odds seem to be against you.

An active mindset

People, who are highly successful and keep on striving for success, do not just talk or dream about becoming successful. They pursue and chase after success with every fiber in their bones. They dream it, sleep it, eat it and walk it. Their mindset in getting what they want is active and above the passive. They have the desire that they want it, but they go further by taking action and proving how much they want to be successful.

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A people mindset

Sometimes what matters very much to success is not your talent or your product, rather how much you focus on people and stirring them to giving you what you want. Focusing on people means that you do not develop relationships with those who will divert you from your goals, but will motivate and inspire you to getting to where you want to be. You can communicate, learn and be inspired in such relationships. Learn to connect with people if you want to become more successful.

A grateful mindset

Learn to say thank you often. Learn to appreciate wherever you are in the journey of becoming successful. Negativity sort of has a way of impeding your progress and debarring you from earning more opportunities. Focus on where you are and how far you have come. Your gratitude and such reminders show contentment, delight and positivity. Such attitude stirs you towards success rather than away from it.

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A responsible mindset

You understand that you are the one responsible for your success and not anyone else. you should take charge of whatever situation you are in and be willing to climb the ladder without making excuses. People who want to be successful are willing to be accountable for their actions and accept the responsibilities that will be placed before them in the process. They do not look for others to blame for their difficulties or expect them to be your driving force. You know what your future holds and you do not allow others to determine it.

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Casey Imafidon

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Last Updated on July 21, 2021

The Importance of Reminders (And How to Make a Reminder Work)

The Importance of Reminders (And How to Make a Reminder Work)
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No matter how well you set up your todo list and calendar, you aren’t going to get things done unless you have a reliable way of reminding yourself to actually do them.

Anyone who’s spent an hour writing up the perfect grocery list only to realize at the store that they forgot to bring the list understands the importance of reminders.

Reminders of some sort or another are what turn a collection of paper goods or web services into what David Allen calls a “trusted system.”[1]

A lot of people resist getting better organized. No matter what kind of chaotic mess, their lives are on a day-to-day basis because they know themselves well enough to know that there’s after all that work they’ll probably forget to take their lists with them when it matters most.

Fortunately, there are ways to make sure we remember to check our lists — and to remember to do the things we need to do, whether they’re on a list or not.

In most cases, we need a lot of pushing at first, for example by making a reminder, but eventually we build up enough momentum that doing what needs doing becomes a habit — not an exception.

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From Creating Reminders to Building Habits

A habit is any act we engage in automatically without thinking about it.

For example, when you brush your teeth, you don’t have to think about every single step from start to finish; once you stagger up to the sink, habit takes over (and, really, habit got you to the sink in the first place) and you find yourself putting toothpaste on your toothbrush, putting the toothbrush in your mouth (and never your ear!), spitting, rinsing, and so on without any conscious effort at all.

This is a good thing because if you’re anything like me, you’re not even capable of conscious thought when you’re brushing your teeth.

The good news is you already have a whole set of productivity habits you’ve built up over the course of your life. The bad news is, a lot of them aren’t very good habits.

That quick game Frogger to “loosen you up” before you get working, that always ends up being 6 hours of Frogger –– that’s a habit. And as you know, habits like that can be hard to break — which is one of the reasons why habits are so important in the first place.

Once you’ve replaced an unproductive habit with a more productive one, the new habit will be just as hard to break as the old one was. Getting there, though, can be a chore!

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The old saw about anything you do for 21 days becoming a habit has been pretty much discredited, but there is a kernel of truth there — anything you do long enough becomes an ingrained behavior, a habit. Some people pick up habits quickly, others over a longer time span, but eventually, the behaviors become automatic.

Building productive habits, then, is a matter of repeating a desired behavior over a long enough period of time that you start doing it without thinking.

But how do you remember to do that? And what about the things that don’t need to be habits — the one-off events, like taking your paycheck stubs to your mortgage banker or making a particular phone call?

The trick to reminding yourself often enough for something to become a habit, or just that one time that you need to do something, is to interrupt yourself in some way in a way that triggers the desired behavior.

The Wonderful Thing About Triggers — Reminders

A trigger is anything that you put “in your way” to remind you to do something. The best triggers are related in some way to the behavior you want to produce.

For instance, if you want to remember to take something to work that you wouldn’t normally take, you might place it in front of the door so you have to pick it up to get out of your house.

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But anything that catches your attention and reminds you to do something can be a trigger. An alarm clock or kitchen timer is a perfect example — when the bell rings, you know to wake up or take the quiche out of the oven. (Hopefully you remember which trigger goes with which behavior!)

If you want to instill a habit, the thing to do is to place a trigger in your path to remind you to do whatever it is you’re trying to make into a habit — and keep it there until you realize that you’ve already done the thing it’s supposed to remind you of.

For instance, a post-it saying “count your calories” placed on the refrigerator door (or maybe on your favorite sugary snack itself)  can help you remember that you’re supposed to be cutting back — until one day you realize that you don’t need to be reminded anymore.

These triggers all require a lot of forethought, though — you have to remember that you need to remember something in the first place.

For a lot of tasks, the best reminder is one that’s completely automated — you set it up and then forget about it, trusting the trigger to pop up when you need it.

How to Make a Reminder Works for You

Computers and ubiquity of mobile Internet-connected devices make it possible to set up automatic triggers for just about anything.

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Desktop software like Outlook will pop up reminders on your desktop screen, and most online services go an extra step and send reminders via email or SMS text message — just the thing to keep you on track. Sandy, for example, just does automatic reminders.

Automated reminders can help you build habits — but it can also help you remember things that are too important to be trusted even to habit. Diabetics who need to take their insulin, HIV patients whose medication must be taken at an exact time in a precise order, phone calls that have to be made exactly on time, and other crucial events require triggers even when the habit is already in place.

My advice is to set reminders for just about everything — have them sent to your mobile phone in some way (either through a built-in calendar or an online service that sends updates) so you never have to think about it — and never have to worry about forgetting.

Your weekly review is a good time to enter new reminders for the coming weeks or months. I simply don’t want to think about what I’m supposed to be doing; I want to be reminded so I can think just about actually doing it.

I tend to use my calendar for reminders, mostly, though I do like Sandy quite a bit.

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Reference

[1] Getting Things Done: Trusted System

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