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These 6 Amazing Things Will Happen When You Embrace Your Weaknesses

These 6 Amazing Things Will Happen When You Embrace Your Weaknesses

Let’s be honest: whether we want to admit it or not, there are many things in life that we aren’t good at doing. Even so, it’s not easy to embrace your weaknesses and accept the fact that there are some things you aren’t good at.

There are several things that can make it difficult to recognize your weaknesses. Excessive pride, low-self esteem, or fears that you’re fundamentally not good enough can get in the way. On the other hand, you might genuinely believe that you’re good at a particular thing until the truth punches you in the face.

In this article, I would like to share the amazing things that can happen when you actually decide to fully embrace your weaknesses:

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1. You’ll unlock great opportunities

Fully embracing your weaknesses is the only way to work on them. Doing so allows you to make positive changes in your life and creates opportunities for growth. Will you make peace with your weaknesses or will you work to only conceal them? Regardless of your choice, fully acknowledging them is the first step.

Working on your weaknesses can yield amazing results. For instance, low self-confidence might be hindering your ability to attain success and happiness. In this case, focusing on that particular weakness and taking full responsibility for it would produce several positive changes. It would likely unveil hidden potential and create significant momentum in your life.

Of course, trying to get rid of a certain weakness isn’t always the best idea. Not every weakness can or should be changed. Sometimes, all you need is the courage to recognize it and accept that you can’t or shouldn’t do anything about it. After all, imperfections are part of being human. You aren’t a superhero, and no one is asking you to be.

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2. You’ll uncover your fears

Fears can masquerade as weaknesses, which means that finding the courage to acknowledge your shortcomings may be the first step in facing your fears. Ask yourself the following question: “Am I genuinely bad at this particular thing, or am I just scared of doing it?”

Many of us think we’re genuinely bad at something when we actually aren’t. In many cases, we’re only bad at it because we’re running away from it or failed to face it properly in the past. Are your shortcomings disguises for fears you’re trying to avoid, or are they “legitimate” flaws that you can accept and move on from? The answer is within, and you’ll find out if you’re fully honest with yourself. In any case, allow your weaknesses to guide you.

3. You’ll reduce your ego

For many of us, pride stops us from fully acknowledging our flaws. We’re afraid of being seen as weak or we’re scared of showing our vulnerability to others. This causes us to become defensive whenever someone points out our shortcomings or threatens our self-image. Have you noticed that defensiveness is usually a sign of denial? When someone points out a weakness that you have not yet accepted, it hurts your feelings. By learning to embrace your flaws, however, you’ll reduce your ego and diminish your fears. You’ll be happier with yourself, which will allow you to drop the defensiveness and accept constructive criticism without feeling hurt.

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4. You’ll develop self-compassion

Have you ever felt inadequate because of a weakness? If so, you may feel ashamed and try to hide it. You may even feel that people would no longer accept you if they discovered your little secret. Well, it’s more likely than not that there are millions of people who have the same secret.

Maybe you have trouble remembering people’s names, or perhaps you aren’t good at socializing during events. Whatever your weakness may be, why not embrace it or work on it rather than trying to hide it? You could even try taking it less seriously and laughing about it. Accepting your shortcomings will foster self-compassion and allow you to stop beating yourself up.

5. You’ll accept help from others

When you embrace your weaknesses, you can welcome the help and input of others without getting defensive. You can take their opinions into consideration and be willing to change or accept criticism without feeling the need to react. You simply own your weaknesses and see others as part of your growth, rather than potential threats.

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6. You’ll build deeper and more meaningful connections with people

Embracing your weaknesses allows you to build stronger connections with others. People will appreciate the fact that you’re willing to show your vulnerability. They’ll also value your authenticity and admire the fact that you have the courage to be yourself.

Embracing your weaknesses and sharing your true self will make others feel comfortable doing the same with you. You’ll start to see the people around you opening up and sharing their own weaknesses and struggles with you. This will allow you to build stronger, deeper, and more meaningful connections with them.

So what are you waiting for? Start embracing your weaknesses today! Whether you choose to work on your flaws or accept them, don’t be afraid to share more of yourself with the world.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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