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30 Quotes On How To Care Less About What Others Think

30 Quotes On How To Care Less About What Others Think

You really cannot please anyone. You are only going to get exhausted and burnt out in the process. Yet, in a world where everyone wants to get a piece of you, it is very difficult to say no to a lot of things. But at the end of the day, what does it do to your self-esteem and personality? We tend to dress, talk and pursue our goals based on what is the conventional and what is termed to be the “popular opinion.” And thus we miss out on doing the one thing that makes us unique. We have to live and give ourselves that treatment we deserve and ignore all that noise that is trying to take that piece of us. If we could shut the world out and listen to our innermost voice, imagine the possibilities of steering ourselves to the goals we so cherish. We can be happy and discover ourselves. Besides we will be more valuable to the world around us. Here are 30 quotes that will give us the inspiration to satisfactorily embrace ourselves.

1. “Accept who you are; and revel in it.” – Mitch Albom

2. “I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet.” – Mahatma Gandhi

3. “Wanting to be someone else is a waste of who you are.” – Kurt Cobain

4. “Just be yourself, there is no one better.” – Taylor Swift

5. “Never dull your shine for somebody else.” ― Tyra Banks

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6. “And no one will listen to us until we listen to ourselves.” ― Marianne Williamson

7. “I feel that the simplicity of life is just being yourself.” – Bobby Brown

8. “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.” – Steve Jobs

9. “The better you feel about yourself, the less you feel the need to show off.”― Robert Hand

10. “One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself.” ― Shannon L. Alder

11. “Don’t worry about who doesn’t like you, who has more, or who’s doing what.”― Erma Bombeck

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12. “You see, the point is that the strongest man in the world is he who stands most alone.” ― Henrk Ibsen

13. “Imitation is suicide.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

14. “Your self-worth is determined by you. You don’t have to depend on someone telling you who you are.” – Beyoncé

15. “Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.” – Lao Tzu

16. “Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else’s opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.” – Oscar Wilde

17. “You are not what others think you are. You are what God knows you are.” – Shannon L.Alder

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18. “Most people just want to see you fall, that’s more reason to stand tall.” ― Emma Michelle

19. “My dear, I don’t give a damn.” – Margaret Mitchell

20. “Live life as though nobody is watching, and express yourself as though everyone is listening.”
― Nelson Mandela

21. “Happiness and confidence are the prettiest things you can wear” ― Taylor Swift

22. “They can’t scare me, if I scare them first.” – Lady Gaga

“23. If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?” – RuPaul

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24. “I think the reward for conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself.” – Rita Mae Brown

25. “Self respect, self worth and self love, all start with self. Stop looking outside of yourself for your value.”― Rob Liano

26. “Health is the greatest possession. Contentment is the greatest treasure. Confidence is the greatest friend.” ―Lao Tzu

27. “If You believe in yourself you can reach everything you want.” – Kees Broos

28. “Always be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone else.” – Judy Garland

29. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” – Oscar Wilde

30. “Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.” – Mark Twain

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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