The world is full of terrible people, people who will hurt us without looking back or making a stutter at the process of damaging our souls. If only we had more good tempered people that will shower us with life, and bathe us with hope and affection. Good tempered people add a spark, brightening up a darkened world. Yet there are ways to make them feel appreciated. That is to say, if we know what good tempered means. By the end of this list, you’ll know what good tempered means.
1. They manage their temper
They are not impulsive or irrational. They act candidly to ensure that they and others around them are treated with respect. It really is about staying above a situation and showing that they can be in control of their emotions, by dealing with every negative emotion with something pure and real.
2. They are considerate
They are meticulous about what they say or do. They wouldn’t lie or or search for negative qualities to make you feel gloom. They want every person around them to be happy. They do not want to make others feel ashamed, embarrassed, or hurt because of an action they have taken. Thus, they take care to be tender and loving rather than being belligerent or insolent.
3. They are not spiteful
They do not hold grudges. They find ways to pay you back for every coin you have doled out to them. They are not resentful. Instead, they are kind and find ways to better a situation rather than to make it worse or to hurt more people.
4. They do not take themselves too seriously
Rather than become beat up over personal mistakes or errors, they focus on the high points of a terrible situation. They treat every negative situation with a positive cheer and look ahead at better times. They know that they are not perfect and others won’t be perfect either. In effect, they are not consumed in getting perfect results from every relationship and activity.
5. They are kind
Good tempered people want to give to others and help them out of their difficulties. They see themselves as a light and an illumination to the world. They will continue to create a flow of energy, rather than store or keep everything to themselves. They see themselves as a river, rather than a reservoir of everything positive and good.
6. They are patient
They expect things to work out positively regardless of the obstacles and challenges attached to it. They can wait and can be calm even during tense situations. They understand that great things would come to them if they wait. They don’t have to fight it, they just have to wait for it.
7. They are accommodating
Good tempered people are accommodating. They appreciate others and can tolerate them. When others are not approachable, a good tempered person is. They want to hear whatever you have to say. Furthermore, they not only listen, but also help when asked to.
8. They don’t want a fight
Wars are terrible for a good tempered person because they really cannot handle or manage it. Instead, they will focus on attaining a peace and finding a way to make you at ease with your surroundings. They want to make every situation one of gladness, rather than bitterness.
9. They look for the good in others
They don’t see you for your horrors. They don’t see you for your nightmares. They see you for the best you can be. They believe that you can make the world a better place. They want to help you attain your goals and better the person you are on the inside.
10. They are full of love
Many people want to pay tit for tat and avenge every wrong. However, what we all need in our lives and emptiness is some love and hope. Good tempered people offer this. They offer you brightness. They offer a spark of truth and affection that will see you fulfill your purpose in the world.
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