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10 Signs Of Good Tempered People

10 Signs Of Good Tempered People

The world is full of terrible people, people who will hurt us without looking back or making a stutter at the process of damaging our souls. If only we had more good tempered people that will shower us with life, and bathe us with hope and affection. Good tempered people add a spark, brightening up a darkened world. Yet there are ways to make them feel appreciated. That is to say, if we know what good tempered means. By the end of this list, you’ll know what good tempered means.

1. They manage their temper

They are not impulsive or irrational. They act candidly to ensure that they and others around them are treated with respect. It really is about staying above a situation and showing that they can be in control of their emotions, by dealing with every negative emotion with something pure and real.

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2. They are considerate

They are meticulous about what they say or do. They wouldn’t lie or or search for negative qualities to make you feel gloom. They want every person around them to be happy. They do not want to make others feel ashamed, embarrassed, or hurt because of an action they have taken. Thus, they take care to be tender and loving rather than being belligerent or insolent.

3. They are not spiteful

They do not hold grudges. They find ways to pay you back for every coin you have doled out to them. They are not resentful. Instead, they are kind and find ways to better a situation rather than to make it worse or to hurt more people.

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4. They do not take themselves too seriously

Rather than become beat up over personal mistakes or errors, they focus on the high points of a terrible situation. They treat every negative situation with a positive cheer and look ahead at better times. They know that they are not perfect and others won’t be perfect either.  In effect, they are not consumed in getting perfect results from every relationship and activity.

5. They are kind

Good tempered people want to give to others and help them out of their difficulties. They see themselves as a light and an illumination to the world. They will continue to create a flow of energy, rather than store or keep everything to themselves. They see themselves as a river, rather than a reservoir of everything positive and good.

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6. They are patient

They expect things to work out positively regardless of the obstacles and challenges attached to it. They can wait and can be calm even during tense situations. They understand that great things would come to them if they wait. They don’t have to fight it, they just have to wait for it.

7. They are accommodating

Good tempered people are accommodating. They appreciate others and can tolerate them. When others are not approachable, a good tempered person is. They want to hear whatever you have to say. Furthermore, they not only listen, but also help when asked to.

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8. They don’t want a fight

Wars are terrible for a good tempered person because they really cannot handle or manage it. Instead, they will focus on attaining a peace and finding a way to make you at ease with your surroundings. They want to make every situation one of gladness, rather than bitterness.

9. They look for the good in others

They don’t see you for your horrors. They don’t see you for your nightmares. They see you for the best you can be. They believe that you can make the world a better place. They want to help you attain your goals and better the person you are on the inside.

10. They are full of love

Many people want to pay tit for tat and avenge every wrong. However, what we all need in our lives and emptiness is some love and hope. Good tempered people offer this. They offer you brightness. They offer a spark of truth and affection that will see you fulfill your purpose in the world.

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Last Updated on July 3, 2020

30 Small Habits To Lead A More Peaceful Life

30 Small Habits To Lead A More Peaceful Life

In today’s world, true peace must come from within us and our own actions. Here are 30 small things you can do on a regular basis to increase your overall sense of harmony, peace, and well-being:

1. Don’t go to every fight you’re invited to

Particularly when you’re around those who thrive on chaos, be willing to decline the invitation to join in on the drama.

2. Focus on your breath

Throughout the day, stop to take a few deep breaths. Keep stress at bay with techniques such as “square breathing.” Breathe in for four counts, hold for four counts, then out for four counts, and hold again for four counts. Repeat this cycle four times.

3. Get organized and purge old items

A cluttered space often creates a cluttered spirit. Take the time to get rid of anything you haven’t used in a year and invest in organizational systems that help you sustain a level of neatness.

4. Stop yourself from being judgmental

Whenever you are tempted to have an opinion about someone else’s life, check your intentions. Judging others creates and promotes negative energy.

5. Say ‘thank you’ early and often

Start and end each day with an attitude of gratitude. Look for opportunities in your daily routine and interactions to express appreciation.

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6. Smile more

Even if you have to “fake it until you make it,” there are many scientific benefits of smiling and laughing. Also, pay attention to your facial expression when you are doing neutral activities such as driving and walking. Turn that frown upside down!

7. Don’t worry about the future

As difficult as this sounds, there is a direct connection between staying in the present and living a more peaceful life. You cannot control the future. As the old proverb goes, “Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but it won’t get you anywhere.” Practice gently bringing your thoughts back to the present.

8. Eat real food

The closer the food is to the state from which it came from the earth, the better you will feel in eating it. Choose foods that grew from a plant over food that was made in a plant.

9. Choose being happy over being right

Too often, we sacrifice inner peace in order to make a point. It’s rarely worth it.

10. Keep technology out of the bedroom

Many studies, such as one conducted by Brigham and Women’s Hospital, have connected blue light of electronic devices before bed to adverse sleep and overall health. To make matters worse, many people report that they cannot resist checking email and social media when their cell phone is in reach of their bed, regardless of the time.

11. Make use of filtering features on social media

You may not want to “unfriend” someone completely, however you can choose whether you want to follow their posts and/or the sources of information that they share.

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12. Get comfortable with silence

When you picture someone who is the ultimate state of peace, typically they aren’t talking.

13. Listen to understand, not to respond

So often in conversations, we use our ears to give us cues about when it is our turn to say what we want to say. Practice active listening, ask questions, process, then speak.

14. Put your troubles in a bubble

Whenever you start to feel anxious, visualize the situation being wrapped in a bubble and then picture that sphere floating away.

15. Speak more slowly

Often a lack of peace manifests itself in fast or clipped speech. Take a breath, slow down, and let your thoughtful consideration drive your words.

16. Don’t procrastinate

Nothing adds stress to our lives like waiting until the last minute.

17. Buy a coloring book

Mandala coloring books for adults are becoming more popular because of their connection to creating inner peace.

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18. Prioritize yourself

You are the only person who you are guaranteed to live with 24 hours a day for the rest of your life.

19. Forgive others

Holding a grudge is hurting you exponentially more than anyone else. Let it go.

20. Check your expectations

Presumption often leads to drama. Remember the old saying, “Expectations are premeditated resentments.”

21. Engage in active play

Let your inner child come out and have some fun. Jump, dance, play, and pretend!

22. Stop criticizing yourself

The world is a hard enough place with more than enough critics. Your life is not served well by being one of them.

23. Focus your energy and attention on what you want

Thoughts, words, and actions all create energy. Energy attracts like energy. Put out what you want to get back.

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24. Assign yourself “complaint free” days.

Make a conscious decision not to complain about anything for a whole day. It might be harder than you think and the awareness will stick with you.

25. Surround yourself with people you truly enjoy being in the company of

Personalities tend to be contagious, and not everyone’s is worth catching. Be judicious in your choices.

26. Manage your money

Financial concerns rank top on the list of what causes people stress. Take the time each month to do a budget, calculate what you actually spend and sanity check that against the money you have coming in.

27. Stop trying to control everything

Not only is your inner control freak sabotaging your sense of peace, it is also likely getting in the way of external relationships as well.

28. Practice affirmations

Repeat positive phrases that depict the life and qualities you want to attract. It may not come naturally to you, but it works.

29. Get up before sunrise

Personally witnessing the dawn brings a unique sense of awe and appreciation for life.

30. Be yourself

Nothing creates more inner discord than trying to be something other than who we really are. Authenticity breeds happiness.

Featured photo credit: man watching sunrise via stokpic.com

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