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10 Signs Of Good Tempered People

10 Signs Of Good Tempered People

The world is full of terrible people, people who will hurt us without looking back or making a stutter at the process of damaging our souls. If only we had more good tempered people that will shower us with life, and bathe us with hope and affection. Good tempered people add a spark, brightening up a darkened world. Yet there are ways to make them feel appreciated. That is to say, if we know what good tempered means. By the end of this list, you’ll know what good tempered means.

1. They manage their temper

They are not impulsive or irrational. They act candidly to ensure that they and others around them are treated with respect. It really is about staying above a situation and showing that they can be in control of their emotions, by dealing with every negative emotion with something pure and real.

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2. They are considerate

They are meticulous about what they say or do. They wouldn’t lie or or search for negative qualities to make you feel gloom. They want every person around them to be happy. They do not want to make others feel ashamed, embarrassed, or hurt because of an action they have taken. Thus, they take care to be tender and loving rather than being belligerent or insolent.

3. They are not spiteful

They do not hold grudges. They find ways to pay you back for every coin you have doled out to them. They are not resentful. Instead, they are kind and find ways to better a situation rather than to make it worse or to hurt more people.

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4. They do not take themselves too seriously

Rather than become beat up over personal mistakes or errors, they focus on the high points of a terrible situation. They treat every negative situation with a positive cheer and look ahead at better times. They know that they are not perfect and others won’t be perfect either.  In effect, they are not consumed in getting perfect results from every relationship and activity.

5. They are kind

Good tempered people want to give to others and help them out of their difficulties. They see themselves as a light and an illumination to the world. They will continue to create a flow of energy, rather than store or keep everything to themselves. They see themselves as a river, rather than a reservoir of everything positive and good.

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6. They are patient

They expect things to work out positively regardless of the obstacles and challenges attached to it. They can wait and can be calm even during tense situations. They understand that great things would come to them if they wait. They don’t have to fight it, they just have to wait for it.

7. They are accommodating

Good tempered people are accommodating. They appreciate others and can tolerate them. When others are not approachable, a good tempered person is. They want to hear whatever you have to say. Furthermore, they not only listen, but also help when asked to.

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8. They don’t want a fight

Wars are terrible for a good tempered person because they really cannot handle or manage it. Instead, they will focus on attaining a peace and finding a way to make you at ease with your surroundings. They want to make every situation one of gladness, rather than bitterness.

9. They look for the good in others

They don’t see you for your horrors. They don’t see you for your nightmares. They see you for the best you can be. They believe that you can make the world a better place. They want to help you attain your goals and better the person you are on the inside.

10. They are full of love

Many people want to pay tit for tat and avenge every wrong. However, what we all need in our lives and emptiness is some love and hope. Good tempered people offer this. They offer you brightness. They offer a spark of truth and affection that will see you fulfill your purpose in the world.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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