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50 Things Only People Who Are In True Love Would Understand

50 Things Only People Who Are In True Love Would Understand

There is something that comes with loving someone. You are ready to put up with all the dramas you will never have put up with ordinarily. You are happy for the first time in your life, I mean really happy despite all these struggles in the following list.

1. You always think of him/her when walking in the street seeing many different things.

2. You appreciate every lyric of your favorite love song and you believe so much in the exact words.

3. There is power in every look at your significant other.

4. You can appreciate the other person’s flaws and still be madly in love.

5. You will argue a lot, but you know that no one is perfect and you are cool with that.

6. You are not complete until the other is around.

7. You want to be there until the end of the other person’s life.

8. You do not see commitment; rather you see safety and security in being with the other person.

9. You become sad too when he/she is depressed.

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10. You become an addict of every soap opera you see.

11. You are not afraid of losing it all to love – rather you are courageous and want to risk it all.

12. You can wait; yes you can, because emotions that wait run deeper.

13. You are not heads over heels in love, rather you are standing tall.

14. You can’t explain to anyone how you feel.

15. You spend special moments in a hot tub with him/her and it is like a period of forever bliss.

16. You are happy when the other person is happy.

17. You make sacrifices for the other person’s well-being.

18. You want to make the other person feel person special, despite the effort it will take.

19. You hurt them and you feel bad, you can’t pay the other person back for a wrong. You simply are stuck sometimes, sorry.

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20. You make promises to them…

21. …And you can keep those promises no matter what.

22. It is not “me” anymore. Rather it is “we”. Everything you think of is not about you but about us.

23. You are ready to work as a team to make each other happy.

24. You are scared of losing the other person.

25. You go for long walks along the beach anytime you are together.

26. He/she is worth everything you can give to them.

27. You can’t understand your feelings and no other person will also.

28. You are not jealous; rather you are proud of whatever the other person accomplishes even if the other person excels at something you failed at.

29. You are willing to suffer just to make the other person happy.

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30. You now appreciate “good nights” because it could mean a kiss a hug or saying something assuring.

31. You experience their pain and it is simply a part of you when he/she is experiencing a suffering.

32. You suddenly become an optimist as you believe everything will turn out well.

33. You wear his/her clothes and you are as comfortable in them as in your own.

34. You find out he/she is more important than the meals you eat.

35. Well, sometimes you can get jealous in mini-doses.

36. Kinky might be too far, but blindfolds are good.

37. Every day you wake up to promises and possibilities.

38. You learn new activities just because you want to please the other person.

39. You suddenly become a poet.

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40. You want to be the best husband/wife.

41. You write poetry for each other

42. You both wear the same cologne anytime you are together.

43. You piss off some friends in the process of being together all the time.

44. You have incense, backlights, candles and music for cuddling anytime you are together.

45. You only feel great when you are with him/her, so you leave parties early.

46. You love celebrity couples and it drives you nuts when one of them cheats.

47. People start asking you when you will be getting married and have kids.

48. You now start hating the idea of being alone wherever you go.

49. You have an incredibly new Facebook status which tells everyone else to back off.

50. You flirt with each other when you are in public and sometimes forget the existence of passers-by.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2019

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

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5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

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Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

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9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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