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10 Signs You’ve Made The Right Choice To End That Relationship

10 Signs You’ve Made The Right Choice To End That Relationship

When you are in a wrong relationship, it is as if you are in a haze. Everything is a blur and undefined. You don’t like yourself because who is meant to like you doesn’t even like you. You go through a series of pains as you debate what could really change everything. It’s difficult for you to end the relationship and move on. If you choose to end the relationship, you may find you chose for the better. Here is a list of beneficial things that will happen next.

1. You have more self esteem

All those times he or she made you feel bad and incomplete are gone. You don’t feel lonely or ask yourself so many questions. Instead, you can manage yourself better and be organized again. You can have your thoughts in place. Now, you are a leader of yourself.

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2. You have the right people coming into your life

People that may have been estranged from your world because you were trying to make the best of your relationship can now enter your world again. Even new friends who want to be a part of the new you will have the opportunity to become friends with you.

3. You can discover yourself

All that potential and ability that was stored within but were untapped can now be accessed. You can fall in love and act stupid all you want. You don’t have anyone criticizing you or making you feel empty and unaware of your goodness. Now you can search and find those passions that you may have thought were lost.

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4. You have a clear vision of where you are headed

Although the future could be far away, you know that there is so much more in store. You are not tied to anyone that will make a mess of your future. Instead, you have limitless possibilities of great things that will make your future happy and certain.

5. You can deal with yourself

You won’t need to take yourself too seriously. You understand your flaws and mistakes. You can deal with it and be happy. In the past, when you were not sure about what was right or wrong, or why you were not simply good enough, evolves into an acceptance of your true being.

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6. You can have a good laugh

Laughter is great for the soul. It’s much better than the constant bickering and arguments you were used to. You have a good laugh because, for the first time, you are happy. You are contented with what you have, what you own, and who you are.

7. You are free

You are all for the taking. Who doesn’t want to be free? With a wrong relationship, you are stuck. You feel like you are on a tight leash or trapped in a box. Right now, you are free to be who you are and to go where you want to go instead. No one questions you or assaults your space.

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8. You have an identity

No one sees you as an attached or engaged person. They see you as you. You become what you have always wanted to be without adjusting your standards to suit another person. Rather than being what you are not, or attached to what you shouldn’t attach yourself to, you can now have an identity of your own.

9. You are mentally tough

You must have gone through situations that made you realize a lot of things. Now that you are in the clear horizon, you understand a lot of things and are more experienced. You can handle bad relationships in the future, if there is ever another like that. Being in the wrong relationship has strengthened you. Remember, taking that step to end it has made you mentally tough.

10. You are happy

How can you be happy when everything is wrong around you? If your relationship is wrong, you are challenged and questioned, rather than complimented or consolidated. Happiness is a state of consistency and completeness. When you are not satisfied with a situation, you are anxious, worried, and constantly in a state of flux.

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Last Updated on April 9, 2020

How to Think Positive Thoughts When Feeling Negative

How to Think Positive Thoughts When Feeling Negative

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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Learn How to Surround Yourself With Positive People.

2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

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4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

Some recommendations for you:

5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

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6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

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8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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