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10 Signs You’ve Made The Right Choice To End That Relationship

10 Signs You’ve Made The Right Choice To End That Relationship

When you are in a wrong relationship, it is as if you are in a haze. Everything is a blur and undefined. You don’t like yourself because who is meant to like you doesn’t even like you. You go through a series of pains as you debate what could really change everything. It’s difficult for you to end the relationship and move on. If you choose to end the relationship, you may find you chose for the better. Here is a list of beneficial things that will happen next.

1. You have more self esteem

All those times he or she made you feel bad and incomplete are gone. You don’t feel lonely or ask yourself so many questions. Instead, you can manage yourself better and be organized again. You can have your thoughts in place. Now, you are a leader of yourself.

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2. You have the right people coming into your life

People that may have been estranged from your world because you were trying to make the best of your relationship can now enter your world again. Even new friends who want to be a part of the new you will have the opportunity to become friends with you.

3. You can discover yourself

All that potential and ability that was stored within but were untapped can now be accessed. You can fall in love and act stupid all you want. You don’t have anyone criticizing you or making you feel empty and unaware of your goodness. Now you can search and find those passions that you may have thought were lost.

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4. You have a clear vision of where you are headed

Although the future could be far away, you know that there is so much more in store. You are not tied to anyone that will make a mess of your future. Instead, you have limitless possibilities of great things that will make your future happy and certain.

5. You can deal with yourself

You won’t need to take yourself too seriously. You understand your flaws and mistakes. You can deal with it and be happy. In the past, when you were not sure about what was right or wrong, or why you were not simply good enough, evolves into an acceptance of your true being.

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6. You can have a good laugh

Laughter is great for the soul. It’s much better than the constant bickering and arguments you were used to. You have a good laugh because, for the first time, you are happy. You are contented with what you have, what you own, and who you are.

7. You are free

You are all for the taking. Who doesn’t want to be free? With a wrong relationship, you are stuck. You feel like you are on a tight leash or trapped in a box. Right now, you are free to be who you are and to go where you want to go instead. No one questions you or assaults your space.

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8. You have an identity

No one sees you as an attached or engaged person. They see you as you. You become what you have always wanted to be without adjusting your standards to suit another person. Rather than being what you are not, or attached to what you shouldn’t attach yourself to, you can now have an identity of your own.

9. You are mentally tough

You must have gone through situations that made you realize a lot of things. Now that you are in the clear horizon, you understand a lot of things and are more experienced. You can handle bad relationships in the future, if there is ever another like that. Being in the wrong relationship has strengthened you. Remember, taking that step to end it has made you mentally tough.

10. You are happy

How can you be happy when everything is wrong around you? If your relationship is wrong, you are challenged and questioned, rather than complimented or consolidated. Happiness is a state of consistency and completeness. When you are not satisfied with a situation, you are anxious, worried, and constantly in a state of flux.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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