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7 Things That All The Best Leaders Do

7 Things That All The Best Leaders Do

There are many qualities and traits that make up a good leader. What separates the best leaders from the rest?

1. They take initiative on their own

The best leaders take initiative and get things done without anyone having to tell them to do it. They know what they want to achieve and think about it all the time. John Quincy Adams said “If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.” The best leaders are always taking action towards something significant, and you should too. Don’t procrastinate and try to pace yourself along when it comes to achieving goals that matter to you.

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2. They exercise self-discipline

The best leaders are disciplined. They know how their minds work. They know what motivates them and how to form new habits. They are productive when they need to be. They avoid doing things they know will slow them down in the long term. Andrew Carnegie said “The man who cannot or will not control himself never can control others.” This is by far one of the most important qualities of leadership. Don’t let negative habits run your life into a downward spiral.

3. They mastermind and create plans

The best leaders have masterminds of other people thinking out plans with them. They know what motivates other people and how to do it. They know they can’t accomplish everything alone and they can reach their goals much faster with the help of other people. This is a fact. Earl Nightingale said “No man can get rich himself, unless he enriches others.” Find like minded people with similar goals whom you respect to mastermind, form plans, and have regular meetings with.

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4. They have the courage to step into their fears

Nelson Mandela said “I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.” We could all draw some inspiration from Nelson Mandela’s story. Giving his autobiography a thorough read would probably put your life into perspective. There is always someone who has been through worse than you. The best leaders are not afraid to experience fear and unpleasant emotions if that’s what it takes to achieve their goals.

5. They learn all the time

The best leaders learn everything they can about their field and their position. They constantly look for ways things can be done more efficiently or effectively. They learn from their mistakes and the mistakes of others. They listen more than they talk. John F. Kennedy put it best “Leadership and learning are indispensable to each other.” Make learning a habit.

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6. They give more than they take

The best leaders are givers. They aren’t out to take advantage of other people. They are in the habit of offering more value than they take. They understand and appreciate others. This creates happiness and peace of mind for them, and makes people want to serve them. As Dwight D. Eisenhower put it “Leadership is the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it.” Become a peaceful caring person and you’ll have all the cooperation you need.

7. They show persistent continuous action towards definite goals

Everyone respects persistence in the face of adversity. The best leaders know that defeat and failure are only temporary setbacks. They will make the necessary adjustments to their plans and move on. As Napoleon Hill says “Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit.” Calvin Coolidge said “Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not, nothing is more common. Genius will not, unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not, the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.” Steve Jobs said “You have to be burning with an idea, or a problem, or a wrong that you want to right. If you’re not passionate enough from the start, you’ll never stick it out.” Know what you want and constantly move towards it through persistent continuous action until you attain it.

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Last Updated on August 16, 2018

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step.

In truth, comfort zones are not really about comfort, they are about fear. Break the chains of fear to get outside. Once you do, you will learn to enjoy the process of taking risks and growing in the process.

Here are 10 ways to help you step out of your comfort zone and get closer to success:

1. Become aware of what’s outside of your comfort zone

What are the things that you believe are worth doing but are afraid of doing yourself because of the potential for disappointment or failure?

Draw a circle and write those things down outside the circle. This process will not only allow you to clearly identify your discomforts, but your comforts. Write identified comforts inside the circle.

2. Become clear about what you are aiming to overcome

Take the list of discomforts and go deeper. Remember, the primary emotion you are trying to overcome is fear.

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How does this fear apply uniquely to each situation? Be very specific.

Are you afraid of walking up to people and introducing yourself in social situations? Why? Is it because you are insecure about the sound of your voice? Are you insecure about your looks?

Or, are you afraid of being ignored?

3. Get comfortable with discomfort

One way to get outside of your comfort zone is to literally expand it. Make it a goal to avoid running away from discomfort.

Let’s stay with the theme of meeting people in social settings. If you start feeling a little panicked when talking to someone you’ve just met, try to stay with it a little longer than you normally would before retreating to comfort. If you stay long enough and practice often enough, it will start to become less uncomfortable.

4. See failure as a teacher

Many of us are so afraid of failure that we would rather do nothing than take a shot at our dreams.

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Begin to treat failure as a teacher. What did you learn from the experience? How can you take that lesson to your next adventure to increase your chance of success?

Many highly successful people failed plenty of times before they succeeded. Here’re some examples:

10 Famous Failures to Success Stories That Will Inspire You to Carry On

5. Take baby steps

Don’t try to jump outside your comfort zone, you will likely become overwhelmed and jump right back in.

Take small steps toward the fear you are trying to overcome. If you want to do public speaking, start by taking every opportunity to speak to small groups of people. You can even practice with family and friends.

Take a look at this article on how you can start taking baby steps:

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The Number One Secret to Life Success: Baby Steps

6. Hang out with risk takers

There is no substitute for this step. If you want to become better at something, you must start hanging out with the people who are doing what you want to do and start emulating them. (Here’re 8 Reasons Why Risk Takers Are More Likely To Be Successful).

Almost inevitably, their influence will start have an effect on your behavior.

7. Be honest with yourself when you are trying to make excuses

Don’t say “Oh, I just don’t have the time for this right now.” Instead, be honest and say “I am afraid to do this.”

Don’t make excuses, just be honest. You will be in a better place to confront what is truly bothering you and increase your chance of moving forward.

8. Identify how stepping out will benefit you

What will the ability to engage in public speaking do for your personal and professional growth? Keep these potential benefits in mind as motivations to push through fear.

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9. Don’t take yourself too seriously

Learn to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes. Risk taking will inevitably involve failure and setbacks that will sometimes make you look foolish to others. Be happy to roll with the punches when others poke fun.

If you aren’t convinced yet, check out these 6 Reasons Not to Take Life So Seriously.

10. Focus on the fun

Enjoy the process of stepping outside your safe boundaries. Enjoy the fun of discovering things about yourself that you may not have been aware of previously.

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