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7 Things That All The Best Leaders Do

7 Things That All The Best Leaders Do

There are many qualities and traits that make up a good leader. What separates the best leaders from the rest?

1. They take initiative on their own

The best leaders take initiative and get things done without anyone having to tell them to do it. They know what they want to achieve and think about it all the time. John Quincy Adams said “If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.” The best leaders are always taking action towards something significant, and you should too. Don’t procrastinate and try to pace yourself along when it comes to achieving goals that matter to you.

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2. They exercise self-discipline

The best leaders are disciplined. They know how their minds work. They know what motivates them and how to form new habits. They are productive when they need to be. They avoid doing things they know will slow them down in the long term. Andrew Carnegie said “The man who cannot or will not control himself never can control others.” This is by far one of the most important qualities of leadership. Don’t let negative habits run your life into a downward spiral.

3. They mastermind and create plans

The best leaders have masterminds of other people thinking out plans with them. They know what motivates other people and how to do it. They know they can’t accomplish everything alone and they can reach their goals much faster with the help of other people. This is a fact. Earl Nightingale said “No man can get rich himself, unless he enriches others.” Find like minded people with similar goals whom you respect to mastermind, form plans, and have regular meetings with.

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4. They have the courage to step into their fears

Nelson Mandela said “I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.” We could all draw some inspiration from Nelson Mandela’s story. Giving his autobiography a thorough read would probably put your life into perspective. There is always someone who has been through worse than you. The best leaders are not afraid to experience fear and unpleasant emotions if that’s what it takes to achieve their goals.

5. They learn all the time

The best leaders learn everything they can about their field and their position. They constantly look for ways things can be done more efficiently or effectively. They learn from their mistakes and the mistakes of others. They listen more than they talk. John F. Kennedy put it best “Leadership and learning are indispensable to each other.” Make learning a habit.

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6. They give more than they take

The best leaders are givers. They aren’t out to take advantage of other people. They are in the habit of offering more value than they take. They understand and appreciate others. This creates happiness and peace of mind for them, and makes people want to serve them. As Dwight D. Eisenhower put it “Leadership is the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it.” Become a peaceful caring person and you’ll have all the cooperation you need.

7. They show persistent continuous action towards definite goals

Everyone respects persistence in the face of adversity. The best leaders know that defeat and failure are only temporary setbacks. They will make the necessary adjustments to their plans and move on. As Napoleon Hill says “Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit.” Calvin Coolidge said “Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not, nothing is more common. Genius will not, unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not, the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.” Steve Jobs said “You have to be burning with an idea, or a problem, or a wrong that you want to right. If you’re not passionate enough from the start, you’ll never stick it out.” Know what you want and constantly move towards it through persistent continuous action until you attain it.

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Last Updated on December 10, 2019

5 Smart Reasons to Start Journal Writing Today

5 Smart Reasons to Start Journal Writing Today

Here’s the truth: your effectiveness at life is not what it could be. You’re missing out.

Each day passes by and you have nothing to prove that it even happened. Did you achieve something? Go on a date? Have an emotional breakthrough? Who knows?

But what you do know is that you don’t want to make the same mistakes that you’ve made in the past.

Our lives are full of hidden gems of knowledge and insight, and the most recent events in our lives contain the most useful gems of all. Do you know why? It’s simple, those hidden lessons are the most up to date, meaning they have the largest impact on what we’re doing right now.

But the question is, how do you get those lessons? There’s a simple way to do it, and it doesn’t involve time machines:

Journal writing.

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Improved mental clarity, the ability to see our lives in the big picture, as well as serving as a piece of evidence cataloguing every success we’ve ever had; we are provided all of the above and more by doing some journal writing.

Journal writing is a useful and flexible tool to help shed light on achieving your goals.

Here’s 5 smart reasons why you should do journal writing:

1. Journals Help You Have a Better Connection with Your Values, Emotions, and Goals

By journaling about what you believe in, why you believe it, how you feel, and what your goals are, you understand your relationships with these things better. This is because you must sort through the mental clutter and provide details on why you do what you do and feel what you feel.

Consider this:

Perhaps you’ve spent the last year or so working at a job you don’t like. It would be easy to just suck it up and keep working with your head down, going on as if it’s supposed to be normal to not like your job. Nobody else is complaining, so why should you, right?

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But a little journal writing will set things straight for you. You don’t like your job. You feel like it’s robbing you of happiness and satisfaction, and you don’t see yourself better there in the future.

The other workers? Maybe they don’t know, maybe they don’t care. But you do, you know and care enough to do something about it. And you’re capable of fixing this problem because your journal writing allows you to finally be honest with yourself about it.

2. Journals Improve Mental Clarity and Help Improve Your Focus

If there’s one thing journal writing is good for, it’s clearing the mental clutter.

How does it work? Simply, whenever you have a problem and write about it in a journal, you transfer the problem from your head to the paper. This empties the mind, allowing allocation of precious resources to problem-solving rather than problem-storing.

Let’s say you’ve been juggling several tasks at work. You’ve got data entry, testing, e-mails, problems with the boss, and so on—enough to overwhelm you—but as you start journal writing, things become clearer and easier to understand: Data entry can actually wait till Thursday; Bill kindly offered earlier to do my testing; For e-mails, I can check them now; the boss is just upset because Becky called in sick, etc.

You become better able to focus and reason your tasks out, and this is an indispensable and useful skill to have.

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3. Journals Improve Insight and Understanding

As a positive consequence of improving your mental clarity, you become more open to insights you may have missed before. As you write your notes out, you’re essentially having a dialogue with yourself. This draws out insights that you would have missed otherwise; it’s almost as if two people are working together to better understand each other. This kind of insight is only available to the person who has taken the time to connect with and understand themselves in the form of writing.

Once you’ve gotten a few entries written down, new insights can be gleaned from reading over them. What themes do you see in your life? Do you keep switching goals halfway through? Are you constantly dating the same type of people who aren’t good for you? Have you slowly but surely pushed people out of your life for fear of being hurt?

All of these questions can be answered by simply self-reflecting, but you can only discover the answers if you’ve captured them in writing. These questions are going to be tough to answer without a journal of your actions and experiences.

4. Journals Track Your Overall Development

Life happens, and it can happen fast. Sometimes we don’t take the time to stop and look around at what’s happening to us at each moment. We don’t get to see the step-by-step progress that we’re making in our own lives. So what happens? One day it’s the future, and you have no idea how you’ve gotten there.

Journal writing allows you to see how you’ve changed over time, so you can see where you did things right, and you can see where you took a misstep and fell.

The great thing about journals is that you’ll know what that misstep was, and you can make sure it doesn’t happen again—all because you made sure to log it, allowing yourself to learn from your mistakes.

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5. Journals Facilitate Personal Growth

The best thing about journal writing is that no matter what you end up writing about, it’s hard to not grow from it. You can’t just look at a past entry in which you acted shamefully and say “that was dumb, anyway!” No, we say “I will never make a dumb choice like that again!”

It’s impossible not to grow when it comes to journal writing. That’s what makes journal writing such a powerful tool, whether it’s about achieving goals, becoming a better person, or just general personal-development. No matter what you use it for, you’ll eventually see yourself growing as a person.

Kickstart Journaling

How can journaling best be of use to you? To vent your emotions? To help achieve your goals? To help clear your mind? What do you think makes journaling such a useful life skill?

Know the answer? Then it’s about time you reap the benefits of journal writing and start putting pen to paper.

Here’s what you can do to start journaling:

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