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How To Mend Broken Relationships And Build Anew

How To Mend Broken Relationships And Build Anew

Sometimes our relationships take a turn for the worse. We say things we shouldn’t say, or carry out actions that hurt the other person. In doing so, we may risk losing vital relationships; but there are ways to repair these relationships and make them stronger than before.

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    1. Forget the Past

    In forgetting the past, all of the negative emotions are washed away. Any toxic feelings, moments, and memories are burned away, leaving one refreshed. It is hard, but it can help you feel better about the situation. When we forgive, and forget the past, we start with a clean slate. Who doesn’t want to start life with a fresh, clean, and new slate?

    2. Apologize

    If there was a fight or complication, regardless of the perpetrator, apologize. Apologies are always accepted regardless of how big the situation.

    Yes, it takes time but it is completely worth every bit of waiting. There is no shame in apologizing; the apologizer and the forgiver both come to a consensus of beginning anew once more. That is the primary thought that counts and is helpful in any given situation, and begins the healing process.

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    3. Make Sure There Is Trust

    All relationships require trust. If there isn’t trust, the foundation may not last. Trust is the starting point of every relationship. It can create or destroy them.

    When you trust someone, you put your faith in them no matter what may happen, and you choose to stay by their side. In mending relationships, this is important. You should demonstrate that you trust the other person completely before the new start of your relationship with them.

    It is beautiful to see faith in any relationship because it is essential in both maintaining and mending relationships.

    4. Be Focused

    There is nothing greater than focus. Try and focus on what needs to be fixed before delving too far in the situation.

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    Try to see where the differences lie. This will allow you to tread carefully and cautiously without hurting the other person. Trying to keep everyone’s feelings in place allows for ease in relationships and makes everyone feel wanted. Make sure you know what you want in the relationship.

    Knowing what you want in the distant future makes things a lot easier in the near future. Just make sure to have faith in yourself. Know who you are and who the other person is, and together you can figure out how to re-start.

    5. Build Anew

    Let bygones be bygones.

    Don’t stay where you were yesterday in the argument. Try to move on, and if you try, you eventually will be able to move on. If you live the same life for 75 years, that is not a life.

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    People change, and so do times and circumstances. People are a result of these changes.

    Don’t let little things get to you, and just move on. It will make you feel better in the long run. That is a guarantee. Who doesn’t like change? Now that we have a clean slate, we can write whatever we want to on it. It doesn’t matter. It is new.

    6. Start With Love

    There is nothing greater than love. Go with a clean heart and tell the other person what you truly feel.

    Love is essential in healing. Love can prevent further damage.

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    Love mends everything. It is something that we all crave more than anything in this world. It beats money, honor, or gratitude.

    Love is something that when given can only increase. It is unconditional and something so majestic and pure that it cannot be described fully in words.

    We build trust, faith, and confidence with love.

    Love has such strength; far greater than the greatest wonders of the world.

    Make sure your new relationship has love because it is truly unbeatable. It can outwit, outlast, anything in this world!

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      What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

      What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

      Some people just seem to float through life with a relentless sense of happiness – through the toughest of times, they’re unfazed and aloof, stopping to smell the roses and drinking out of a glass half full.

      They may not have much to be happy about, but the simplicity behind that fact itself may make them happy.

      It’s all a matter of perspective, conscious effort and self-awareness. Listed below are a number of reasons why some people are always happy.

      1. They Manage Their Expectations

      They’re not crushed when they don’t get what they want – or misled into expecting to get the most out of every situation. They approach every situation pragmatically, hoping for the best but being prepared for the worst.

      2. They Don’t Set Unrealistic Standards

      Similar to the last point, they don’t live their lives in a constant pursuit towards impossible visions of perfection, only to always find themselves falling short of what they want.

      3. They Don’t Take Anything for Granted

      Happiness rests with feeling fulfilled – those who fail to stop and appreciate what they have every now and again will never experience true fulfillment.

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      4. They’re Not Materialistic

      There are arguing viewpoints on whether or not money can really buy happiness; if it can, then we know from experience that we can never be satisfied because there will always be something newer or better that we want. Who has ever had enough money?

      5. They Don’t Dwell

      They don’t sweat the small things or waste time worrying about things that don’t really matter at the end of the day. They don’t let negative thoughts latch onto them and drain them or distract them. Life’s too short to worry.

      6. They Care About Themselves First

      They’re independent, care for themselves and understand that they must put their needs first in order to accommodate the needs of others.

      They indulge, aim to get what they want, make time for themselves and are extremely self-reliant.

      7. They Enjoy the Little Things

      They stop to smell the roses. They’re accustomed to find serenity when it’s available, to welcome entertainment or a stimulating discussion with a stranger when it crosses their path. They don’t overlook the small things in life that can be just as important.

      8. They Can Adapt

      They’re not afraid of change and they work to make the most out of new circumstances, good or bad. They thrive under pressure, are not overwhelmed easily and always embrace a change of pace.

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      9. They Experiment

      They try new things, experience new flavors and never shy away from something they have yet to experience. They never order twice from the same menu.

      10. They Take Their Time

      They don’t unnecessarily rush through life. They work on their own schedule to the extent that they can and maneuver through life at their own relaxing pace.

      11. They Employ Different Perspectives

      They’re not stuck in one perspective; a loss can result in a new opportunity, hitting rock bottom can mean that there’s no where to go but up.

      12. They Seek to Learn

      Their constant pursuit of knowledge keeps them inspired and interested in life. They cherish information and are on a life-long quest to learn as much as they can.

      13. They Always Have a Plan

      They don’t find themselves drifting without purpose. When something doesn’t go as planned, they have a plan for every letter in the alphabet to fall back on.

      14. They Give Respect to Get It

      They are respectful and, in turn, are seen as respectable; the respect they exude earns them the respect they deserve.

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      15. They Consider Every Opportunity

      They always have their eyes open for a new road, a new avenue worth exploring. They know how to recognize opportune moments and pounce on them to make the most of every situation. Success is inevitable for them.

      16. They Always Seek to Improve

      Perpetual self-improvement is the key towards their ongoing thirst for success. Whatever it is they do, they take pride in getting better and better, from social interactions to mundane tasks. Their pursuit at being the best eventually materializes.

      17. They Don’t Take Life Too Seriously

      They’re not ones to get offended easily over-analyze or complicate matters. They laugh at their own faults and misfortunes.

      18. They Live in the Moment

      They don’t live for tomorrow or dwell on what may have happened yesterday. Every day is a new opportunity, a new chapter. They live in the now, and in doing so, get the most out of every moment.

      You can learn how to do so too: How to Live in the Moment and Stop Worrying About the Past or Future

      19. They Say Yes

      Much more often than they say no. They don’t have to be badgered to go out, don’t shy away from new opportunities or anything that may seem inconvenient.

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      20. They’re Self-Aware

      Most important, they’re wholly aware of themselves. They self-reflect and are conscious of their states of mind. If somethings bothering them, they fix it.

      We’re all susceptible to feeling down every now and again, but we are all equipped with the necessary solutions that just have to be discovered.

      Lack of confidence, inability to feel fulfilled, and susceptibility to stress are all matters that can be controlled through the way we handle our lives and perceive our circumstances.

      Learn about How Self-Reflection Gives You a Happier and More Successful Life.

      Final Thoughts

      The main philosophy employed by the happiest includes the idea that life’s simply too short: life’s too short to let things get you down, to take things for granted, to pursue absolute and unrealistic perfection.

      For some, employing these characteristics is a second nature – they do it without knowing. For others, a conscious effort must be put forth every now and again. Self-Awareness is key.

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