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If You Suddenly Came into More Than One Million Dollars and Have Exactly 10 Years Left to Live?

If You Suddenly Came into More Than One Million Dollars and Have Exactly 10 Years Left to Live?

“If you suddenly came into $20,000,000 and the same day you found out you have exactly 10 years left to live, how would you begin living your life?”

This is called the “20/10 question” and it’s one of my all-time favorites when working with clients.

Most people say things like “I’d quit my job and go traveling,” or “I would take my family around the world” and one very amusing response “I would buy my own cruise ship.”  Unfortunately for the last girl, we ran the numbers and found that $20 Million was NOT enough for her to enjoy a private cruise ship, though for the next ten years she could cruise almost non-stop and be okay.

What’s odd is what people who find themselves in this situation ACTUALLY do.

When someone gets this kind of money, they are far more likely to KEEP working than QUIT working.  The reason is quite simple: sitting around on vacation all the time is boring.  Very, VERY boring.

Sure, enjoying a drink on the beach for a couple of days is nice, but there’s only so much sun, swimming, and Anne Rice novels you can read.  After a while, you need something to DO.

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The second part of the question “10 years to live” provides a sense of urgency to the equation.  This helps us get rid of safe answers like “I’d invest in real estate/gold/tulips” or “pay off my house and put it away for retirement.”

If we know that our life is short, we choose to live a little more recklessly because we understand we can’t take that money with us.

Now, you may be wondering “Trent, what does this question actually DO for people?”

Why Should I Ask Myself This?

The answer is simple: it’s the way truly successful people approach life.

The vast majority of us will go to work with the plan to earn a steady pay check every week for the next forty years so we can retire and enjoy our grand-kids for the last 25 years we’re alive.  We might retire in Florida with other people in their “young 60s” and relax, but that’s usually the most exciting decision we’ve made in a long time.

We operate on the premise of “save now, play later.”

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This is a broken idea because it’s based on two flawed assumptions:

1) it is difficult to amass enough income early in our working years to enjoy ourselves without working constantly

2) we will have a “later” to enjoy

Let’s tackle the first assumption: earning enough income to enjoy your life early is difficult.  This isn’t really true, depending on what you consider a comfortable life.  Many times, we associate material possessions with happiness, so we work to buy “stuff.”

John goes to work at a job he doesn’t really like but which pays $70k/year.  With that money, he, his wife, and their three boys share a nice 3400 sq/ft brick home in a nice neighborhood.  He drives a nice car and his wife has the SUV.  After all the bills for said house, cars, kids, and other various bills add up, John can put back $7,000 year into investments for retirement (10%).

Does John sound like someone you know?  Maybe someone you see every day?  He should: he represents 60% of the American population.

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The problem with John is that there will never be enough money or “stuff” to provide the happiness he wants.  There will always be a new car or some nice addition to the house to purchase, which keeps him working at his less-than-satisfying-though-well-paying job.

The sad fact is, research has shown John would be just as happy living in a much cheaper 1800 sq/ft home with much cheaper vehicles.  People aren’t happier based on what they own; they are happier based on what they DO.

The second assumption: when we retire we will enjoy the benefits of a lifetime of hard work.

This is also false: depression is one of the major issues facing retirees.  When you’ve spent 30 years in a routine, even one you hate, finding yourself with nothing to do will leave you feeling useless.  No amount of Bridge can make up for a lack of purpose.  If you wait until retirement to enjoy the “fruits of your labor” you will miss out on life’s most enjoyable moments.

What’s the Solution to Life Enjoyment?

Do what successful people do: find something you would do for free and get so good at it people will pay you for it.

I have two friends which are stark examples of the effects of these philosophies.

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James is a very successful salesman.  He works for a company he doesn’t really like, dealing with issues he doesn’t really care about, and makes a very lucrative income doing it.  He diligently goes to work every day and his first thought is about when he will get to leave.  He has a very large house and nice cars, and his kids are taken care of.  He feels he’s “doing what he should.” If a company offers him better pay and benefits, he will probably take it to make some upgrades to his house and cars.

Kevin is on the opposite end of the spectrum.  After graduating college, he couldn’t find a job easily.  He started building furniture and signs in his shop as a way to pass the time.  He sold a few to friends and neighbors, eventually deciding to create a business out of his hobby.  He wakes up every day with ideas on what he will make and goes to work with excitement.  His wife is a schoolteacher who loves her job as well.  They live in a modest house with their little dog.  They love cooking together and hanging out with friends.  They don’t have a lot of extra money, but they can afford to live comfortable and take vacations during the summer.

Who do you think is happier?  Who stays awake at night stressed about work and dreading the alarm clock?

Now, here’s the million-dollar-question: which one sounds more like you?

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Top 10 Recommendations on Money Management Apps

Top 10 Recommendations on Money Management Apps

Don’t want to overspend your budget, swipe your credit card too many times, and feel like a financial mess? Instead of beating yourself up for the bad financial decisions you’ve ever made, create a new plan!

The solution is simple, save more and spend less. But, we all know it’s easier said than done.

One problem is finding quality apps that save you time and money, and aren’t just hype.

Luckily, there’re many great money management apps available at your fingertips. Here are 10 reliable money management apps that can help you save money, and crush debt.

1. Personal Capital

    When was the last time you’ve tracked your net worth? Probably months ago or maybe never. Personal Capital allows you to easily track your net worth and plan for retirement.

    Here are some of its main features:

    • Sync many investment accounts, and expenses (mortgage, credit cards, etc.) in one place
    • Discover hidden fees and how much they’re affecting your retirement plan
    • Wealth management for investors requiring a long-term strategy

    With Personal you’re free to track your expenses and net worth.

    Available for: iOS and Android

    2. Mint

      If your smartphone could only install a few apps, Mint would be one of them. Why? Because Mint tracks all your balances and bills in one place.

      Here are some of its main features:

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      • Effortlessly track all your bills and balances in one dashboard
      • Categorized expenses to understand where you spend your money
      • Uncover hidden fees, and determine your investment style with sophisticated retirement tools.

      Feel at ease with managing your money by a reputable company that isn’t going anywhere.

      Available for: iOS and Android

      3. YNAB

        Everyone needs a budget, there’s no way around it. YNAB (You Need A Budget) is an easy to use app that will change the way you think about money. Their motto is to “give every dollar a job”, and you’ll quickly discover why.

        Here are some of its main features:

        • Easily sync all bank accounts in one place
        • Visually see your debt paying progress with eye-catching charts and notifications
        • Customized categories setting saving goals

        The best part about YNAB is the community that comes along with it. You can hop on the YNAB forum to receive support, listen to the YNAB Podcast or stay tuned for their weekly videos.

        Available for: iOS and Android

        4. Wealthfront

          Albert Einstein once said “compound interest is the eight wonder in the world”, and for a very good reason. The problem is, most people are scared or unwilling to learn the basics of investing. This is why Wealthfront is the perfect solution for the hands-off investors.

          Here are some of its main features:

          • Variety of investment account options including IRA, Roth IRA, and more
          • Your portfolio composed of 7 different asset classes
          • Automatically rebalanced portfolio
          • Daily tax loss harvesting

          Wealthfront is perfect for people requiring investment guidance, or prefer a hands-off solution.

          Available for: iOS and Android

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          5. Clarity Money

            If you’re staying on top of your budget but want to take your finances to the next level, Clarity Money can help you. Clarity Money helps you stay under budget and build a personalized savings plan.

            Here are some of its main features:

            • Easily cancel subscriptions with one click
            • Synchronize bank accounts fast
            • Transfer money effortlessly between different accounts

            Clarity Money isn’t an app that does it all. But, it does make transferring money and canceling subscriptions fast and efficient.

            Available for: iOS and Android

            6. Acorns

              What if there was a way to quickly gain confidence in investing your money, without too much risk? There is, and Acorns is your solution. With Acorns’s technology, you’re able to make investments as small as $5.

              Here are some of its main features:

              • Automatic contribution option
              • Customized portfolio tailored to your needs
              • Low management fees ranging from $1-$2 per month

              Stop wasting dollars on expensive coffee. Instead, invest them towards a brighter financial future.

              Available for: iOS and Android

              7. Albert

                Do you budget by only subtracting your expenses from your income? If so, how would you discover any overpayments or extra money you could save? This is where Albert shines, and it does it all free.

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                Here are some of its main features:

                • Receive notifications for overpayments, hidden fees, and low balances
                • An Automatic budget that’s built around your spending and income
                • Easily track debt and set new financial goals

                While Albert does offer a paid option, most of its core features are FREE. So, what better option to save?

                Available for: iOS

                8. Prism

                  Have you recently forgot to pay a bill because life got in the way? Prism automatically tracks your bills and syncs your bank accounts in one place.

                  Here are some of its main features:

                  • View all your account balances in one glance
                  • Bill due dates are automatically pulled and tracked
                  • Receive early reminders for upcoming bills

                  If your budget is on “fleek” but can’t seem to stay on top of your bills, Prism is your go-to app.

                  Available for: iOS, Android, Windows, Amazon

                  9. Mvelopes

                    Remember hearing about people using envelopes to budget their money? Well, Mvelopes is the new envelope system for this generation. Easily create monthly budgets and track your saving goals.

                    Here are some of its main features:

                    • Connect unlimited bank accounts
                    • Real-time budgeting with auto transaction syncing
                    • Low monthly $4 fee or $40 annual

                    Mvelopes can help you crush debt, save more, and help you stop overspending. With its low monthly fee, it’s worth a try.

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                    Available for: iOS and Android

                    10. Wallaby

                      Most people don’t have time to track their credit card’s changing rewards and interest rates. Because of this, you need help reaping the most of your credit card’s rewards. Wallaby is the app that will help you do just that.

                      Here are some of its main features:

                      • Automatic recommendations for the best credit card to use for each transaction
                      • A friendly user interface, displaying credit cards with their corresponding images
                      • Free to use

                      If you’re using the same credit card to make your purchases, you may be leaving money on the table. Give Wallaby a try if you’re ready to maximize your credit card’s rewards.

                      Available for: iOS and Android

                      Take control of your finances and experience financial freedom

                      Picture yourself staying on budget and saving more money than you’d ever imagined.

                      It took hard work and dedication but you’d finally learned how to manage your money. You have to start taking control of your spending and saving habits.

                      You now have a list of reliable apps that can help you build better money habits, what are you waiting for?

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