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The Ultimate Gentleman Cheat Sheet Every Man Needs

The Ultimate Gentleman Cheat Sheet Every Man Needs

Have you ever been out for the evening and witnessed a classy-looking man who was well put together and knew all the right things to say and do? Almost like he knew what to do or was prepared in every way for anything coming his way? Well, let me be the one to tell you, you were witness to the rare and illusive gentleman. Some women think seeing a true gentleman is like seeing a unicorn or having a leprechaun hand you a map to his pot of gold.

Having the male gene does not mean you are a gentleman. In fact, not every guy has it in him to be a gentleman. Part of being a gentleman can be taught while other parts seem like they are ingrained into the man. The list of infographics below is a gentleman cheat sheet. A gentleman is not always the good guy. A gentleman is usually the best suited up, smoothest talking, single malt whiskey drinker in the building.

Take a look at the information in them. I have no doubt may know some of the information. Here is a good reason you might consider learning to be a gentleman: A woman sees a man in a perfectly tailored suit in much the same way as a man looks at a women in lingerie. There is a reason Frank Sinatra and the fictional Don Draper had ladies swooning when they entered a room… they were gentlemen.

Some people say the clothes make the man. An air of sophistication, the allure of manners and possibly a better life are all part of the mystique. Being a true gent is truly a combination of many things and that’s what this ultimate gentleman cheat sheet is all about.

Evening Etiquette for the True Gentleman

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    Guide to Wearing a Suit like a Real Gentleman

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      Tying a Scarf for Style and Warmth

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        Gentleman’s Guide to Shoes. Because Women Look at your Shoes. Yes Really.

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          Complete Gentleman’s Guide

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            Suit Tailoring for the Beginner Gentleman

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              Guide to Choosing the Correct Belt for the Occasion

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                You’re not in College Anymore. Your Clothes Should Fit Properly

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                  Bourbon vs. Whiskey Read Carefully.

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                    Buying (Pre-owned) Rolex Watches

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                      Pairing the Correct Wine with Food is a Sexy Skill

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                        Gentlemen are Remembered for How Well They Entertain

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                          Guide to Wet Shaving (The Lost Art)

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                            Buying an Engagement Ring Like a Knowledgeable Gent

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                              Gentlemen Don’t Need a Guide, Just Dating Reminders

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                                Regional Food Knowledge for the Carnivorous Gents

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                                  Rockin’ a Mustache Like a Gent

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                                    Choose the Right Color Clothes to Fit Your Personality

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                                      Gentlemen Know How to Drink Whiskey

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                                        Valentine’s Day is a Real Gent’s Time to Shine

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                                          Gentleman’s Neckwear Flow Chart

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                                            Gents Wear Tuxedos and Tie Their Own Bow Tie

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                                              Gentleman’s Etiquette Mantra

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                                                Be a Gentleman, Not a Saint

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                                                  That’s a Great Head of Hair Sir

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                                                    Last Updated on January 21, 2020

                                                    The Best Way to Create a Vision for the Life You Want

                                                    The Best Way to Create a Vision for the Life You Want

                                                    Creating a vision for your life might seem like a frivolous, fantastical waste of time, but it’s not: creating a compelling vision of the life you want is actually one of the most effective strategies for achieving the life of your dreams. Perhaps the best way to look at the concept of a life vision is as a compass to help guide you to take the best actions and make the right choices that help propel you toward your best life.

                                                    your vision of where or who you want to be is the greatest asset you have

                                                      Why You Need a Vision

                                                      Experts and life success stories support the idea that with a vision in mind, you are more likely to succeed far beyond what you could otherwise achieve without a clear vision. Think of crafting your life vision as mapping a path to your personal and professional dreams. Life satisfaction and personal happiness are within reach. The harsh reality is that if you don’t develop your own vision, you’ll allow other people and circumstances to direct the course of your life.

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                                                      How to Create Your Life Vision

                                                      Don’t expect a clear and well-defined vision overnight—envisioning your life and determining the course you will follow requires time, and reflection. You need to cultivate vision and perspective, and you also need to apply logic and planning for the practical application of your vision. Your best vision blossoms from your dreams, hopes, and aspirations. It will resonate with your values and ideals, and will generate energy and enthusiasm to help strengthen your commitment to explore the possibilities of your life.

                                                      What Do You Want?

                                                      The question sounds deceptively simple, but it’s often the most difficult to answer. Allowing yourself to explore your deepest desires can be very frightening. You may also not think you have the time to consider something as fanciful as what you want out of life, but it’s important to remind yourself that a life of fulfillment does not usually happen by chance, but by design.

                                                      It’s helpful to ask some thought-provoking questions to help you discover the possibilities of what you want out of life. Consider every aspect of your life, personal and professional, tangible and intangible. Contemplate all the important areas, family and friends, career and success, health and quality of life, spiritual connection and personal growth, and don’t forget about fun and enjoyment.

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                                                      Some tips to guide you:

                                                      • Remember to ask why you want certain things
                                                      • Think about what you want, not on what you don’t want.
                                                      • Give yourself permission to dream.
                                                      • Be creative. Consider ideas that you never thought possible.
                                                      • Focus on your wishes, not what others expect of you.

                                                      Some questions to start your exploration:

                                                      • What really matters to you in life? Not what should matter, what does matter.
                                                      • What would you like to have more of in your life?
                                                      • Set aside money for a moment; what do you want in your career?
                                                      • What are your secret passions and dreams?
                                                      • What would bring more joy and happiness into your life?
                                                      • What do you want your relationships to be like?
                                                      • What qualities would you like to develop?
                                                      • What are your values? What issues do you care about?
                                                      • What are your talents? What’s special about you?
                                                      • What would you most like to accomplish?
                                                      • What would legacy would you like to leave behind?

                                                      It may be helpful to write your thoughts down in a journal or creative vision board if you’re the creative type. Add your own questions, and ask others what they want out of life. Relax and make this exercise fun. You may want to set your answers aside for a while and come back to them later to see if any have changed or if you have anything to add.

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                                                      What Would Your Best Life Look Like?

                                                      Describe your ideal life in detail. Allow yourself to dream and imagine, and create a vivid picture. If you can’t visualize a picture, focus on how your best life would feel. If you find it difficult to envision your life 20 or 30 years from now, start with five years—even a few years into the future will give you a place to start. What you see may surprise you. Set aside preconceived notions. This is your chance to dream and fantasize.

                                                      A few prompts to get you started:

                                                      • What will you have accomplished already?
                                                      • How will you feel about yourself?
                                                      • What kind of people are in your life? How do you feel about them?
                                                      • What does your ideal day look like?
                                                      • Where are you? Where do you live? Think specifics, what city, state, or country, type of community, house or an apartment, style and atmosphere.
                                                      • What would you be doing?
                                                      • Are you with another person, a group of people, or are you by yourself?
                                                      • How are you dressed?
                                                      • What’s your state of mind? Happy or sad? Contented or frustrated?
                                                      • What does your physical body look like? How do you feel about that?
                                                      • Does your best life make you smile and make your heart sing? If it doesn’t, dig deeper, dream bigger.

                                                      It’s important to focus on the result, or at least a way-point in your life. Don’t think about the process for getting there yet—that’s the next stepGive yourself permission to revisit this vision every day, even if only for a few minutes. Keep your vision alive and in the front of your mind.

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                                                      Plan Backwards

                                                      It may sound counter-intuitive to plan backwards rather than forwards, but when you’re planning your life from the end result, it’s often more useful to consider the last step and work your way back to the first. This is actually a valuable and practical strategy for making your vision a reality.

                                                      • What’s the last thing that would’ve had to happen to achieve your best life?
                                                      • What’s the most important choice you would’ve had to make?
                                                      • What would you have needed to learn along the way?
                                                      • What important actions would you have had to take?
                                                      • What beliefs would you have needed to change?
                                                      • What habits or behaviors would you have had to cultivate?
                                                      • What type of support would you have had to enlist?
                                                      • How long will it have taken you to realize your best life?
                                                      • What steps or milestones would you have needed to reach along the way?

                                                      Now it’s time to think about your first step, and the next step after that. Ponder the gap between where you are now and where you want to be in the future. It may seem impossible, but it’s quite achievable if you take it step-by-step.

                                                      It’s important to revisit this vision from time to time. Don’t be surprised if your answers to the questions, your technicolor vision, and the resulting plans change. That can actually be a very good thing; as you change in unforeseeable ways, the best life you envision will change as well. For now, it’s important to use the process, create your vision, and take the first step towards making that vision a reality.

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