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15 Parenting Tips for Looking After Your Newborn Baby

15 Parenting Tips for Looking After Your Newborn Baby

Before your first baby is born you really don’t have a clue what it is going to be like, and people tend to underestimate how challenging it really is. My mum laughed when I said I would be a lady-of-leisure after Coby was born, after six children she knew better. It is a full-time job looking after a baby, more like two jobs as the job is 24 hours a day. However, it is a job you cherish, and you don’t think about the sleep deprivation or feel hard-done-by, because you have the most beautiful baby in the world to spend quality time with. I am going to share some parenting tips that I wish I had known eight months ago, before my baby was born.

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    1. Prioritize your newborn

    It is incredible how quickly babies grow. Your newborn baby will be unrecognizable at six months old, so cherish every moment. It is a steep learning curve having your first baby and I think you need to focus on them to become the best parent possible. By prioritizing your newborn, hopefully, you nurture a more content baby.

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      2. Be flexible

      Having a set idea of how things are going to be once your newborn has finally arrived might not work; all babies are different and need slightly different approaches. Also, once you are relaxed in a certain routine, your baby’s routine can change. You need to be flexible to meet his specific needs.

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        3. Learn what your baby’s needs are

        The first few months are about learning what your baby needs at any one point. If your baby is upset you need to find out whether he is hungry, tired, too hot or cold, has a dirty nappy, overstimulated, bored, or simply afraid.

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          4. Relax, it gets easier

          Everyone told me that the first two months were the hardest, and they were right. After a couple of months it feels more comfortable as you get to understand and respond to your baby’s needs. And after six months, again, it feels even more comfortable. I remember at five weeks having no clue how to get my baby to fall asleep, and that was challenging as it could take up to four hours of trying to settle him. That was tough.

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            5. Ask for help

            Any help friends and family can provide in the first few months should be welcomed. Don’t be afraid to ask people if you need help; some people are just afraid to ask you if you need help.

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              6. Share the workload

              If you have a partner, try and share the workload as fairly as possible. Just because your partner is working during the day doesn’t mean they shouldn’t help out in the evenings.

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                7. Reach out to other mums

                Try and link up with other mums, as they can provide you with a huge wealth of practical information. Linking up with other new mums can also help prevent you from feeling isolated if you are home alone with a new baby.

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                  8. Try breastfeeding

                  Breastfeeding provides the best nutrition for your baby, but it can take up to six weeks to learn. It isn’t always as easy as it is made out to be. If you want to breastfeed but it isn’t working out, you can easily express milk from a breast pump. Some people want to breastfeed but can’t because their milk supply is too low. One way to prevent that happening is to breastfeed or pump many times during the day, ideally every 3-4 hours, to keep your milk supply up.

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                    9. Manage your baby’s sleep

                    I learned the hard way that it is best to have a sleeping routine for your baby. For the first six months my baby’s naps were only 30 minutes long, which isn’t long at all. After I took him on holiday we turned a corner as I was putting him in his cot for his naps, in his sleeping bag, and after a huge supply of milk. It worked. He now sleeps for an hour and a half, sometimes two full hours. It can be restrictive as you need to be at home and the naps happen at a specific time. If you miscalculate the timing, he can become overtired and unable to sleep. However, it is so important for him to sleep well, and it gives you a chance to recharge your batteries.

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                      10. Manage your sleep

                      It is equally important to ensure you get enough sleep so you have the energy to look after your baby. If have a late night you can no longer have a long lie-in, and it is difficult to entertain your baby for the entire morning with very little sleep. When your baby naps during the day, you can nap too. This is sensible because your baby might be up during the night several times, which is exhausting.

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                        11. Buy a baby monitor

                        Without a baby monitor, my baby would wake up and cry for many minutes before I would hear him, by which time he would be extremely distressed. Of course, this doesn’t lend itself to nurturing a happy baby. I would highly recommend buying a monitor if you don’t have one. If nothing else, it provides you with peace of mind.

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                          12. Get scratch mitts

                          Your baby might need scratch mitts for the first six months of his life to prevent him scratching his face whilst sleeping. It might be better to get babygros with scratch mitts built-in, as the mitts can be too big or small and fall off.

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                            13. A baby gym is useful

                            I bought a Fisher Price Neptune play gym and it has been the best investment. Coby played in his gym for the first six months daily, and would be happy playing in it for 30 minutes at a time. This gives you 30 minutes to wash and tidy up first thing in the morning, which is priceless. This particular gym is well-designed, as it has a black and white toy for newborns, and the other toys are primary colors. It also incorporates a teething toy and a musical slideshow.

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                              14. Find sensory play classes

                              Young babies learn through sensory play, so if you can find a sensory baby class near where you live it would be great for your baby. These classes also give you lots of ideas for toys and activities suitable for your baby.

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                                15. Simple toys are the best

                                Several people bought very sophisticated toys for Coby that were used briefly and then discarded. He seems to prefer simpler toys and regular household objects. For example, a good purchase was a foil blanket, which provided hours of fun. Before he was born I bought him some baby books but they were totally unsuitable as they were too wordy. If you buy books for your newborn, they should be in black and white and have one word per page.

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                                Last Updated on July 12, 2021

                                100 Incredible Life Hacks That Make Life So Much Easier

                                100 Incredible Life Hacks That Make Life So Much Easier

                                Want to learn some quick and easy life hacks that are easy to do, low cost and saves you time?

                                By tweaking little things in your daily life, it can make your life much more convenient!

                                Here’re 100 of the most practical life hacks so you can just pick up any of them right away!

                                83 tie a small piece of bright colored fabric

                                  84 write random letter

                                    85 use a rubberband

                                      86 dorm smell bad

                                        87 lean your phone on your sunglassess

                                          89 how to waterproof your shoes

                                            90 take a picture of the name card

                                              91 iron inside out

                                                92 old newspaper

                                                  93 tumble try shoes

                                                    keep a card like this

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                                                        94 soap bar

                                                          95 make a hole

                                                            96 drop the battery

                                                              97 use a coozie

                                                                98 when taking a picture

                                                                  use a clean dust pan

                                                                    try a pants hanger

                                                                      use your cellphone light

                                                                        use a spring from an old pen

                                                                          quick and easy iphone speaker

                                                                            user binder clips

                                                                              wrap a wet paper towel around your beverage

                                                                                put pancake mix in a ketchup bottle

                                                                                  clean out an old lotion bottle for your beach

                                                                                    use a muffin tin to serve condiments at a bbq

                                                                                      doritos are great for kindling

                                                                                        use nail polish to identify different keys

                                                                                          use a hanging shoe rack to store cleaning supplies

                                                                                            freeze grapes to chill white wine without

                                                                                              use paper clips to organize your cables

                                                                                                almost finished your jar of nutella

                                                                                                  sick of having a box full of tangled

                                                                                                    unroll the rim to increase the capacity

                                                                                                      cut open toilet paper rolls and use as a cuff

                                                                                                        remove the stem from strawberries

                                                                                                          turn an old bottle into a simple little cord holder

                                                                                                            for iced coffee and iced cappuccino, use frozen coffee cubes

                                                                                                              how to fold a fitted bed sheet

                                                                                                                tired of snoozing past your alarm

                                                                                                                  place a rubber band around an open paint can to wipe your brush on

                                                                                                                    ut a wooden spoon across a boiling pot

                                                                                                                      use bread clips to save flip-flops

                                                                                                                        take pictures of friends holding items

                                                                                                                          how i always know which headphone is the left one

                                                                                                                            put a stocking over the end of a vacuum

                                                                                                                              How to make sure you drink enough water

                                                                                                                                user a can opener to open blister

                                                                                                                                  good sandwich guide

                                                                                                                                    turn your muffin pans upside down

                                                                                                                                      50 pounds of groceries and living on the 5th floor

                                                                                                                                        the right way to make a blt

                                                                                                                                          add one teaspoon of baking soda

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                                                                                                                                              hair straighteners equals to collar irons

                                                                                                                                                stack your clothes vertically to see them all

                                                                                                                                                  the right way to make cookies in the summer

                                                                                                                                                    how to clean a blender

                                                                                                                                                      the right way to eat a popsicle

                                                                                                                                                        use bread clips to label and organize power cords

                                                                                                                                                          to get the built up residue off of your shower head

                                                                                                                                                            user a hair clip to orgainize long wires

                                                                                                                                                              a frozen saturated sponge in a bag

                                                                                                                                                                rub stuck zipper teeth with a graphite pencil

                                                                                                                                                                  use a soda pop tab

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                                                                                                                                                                      51 How to multiply large numbers in your head.

                                                                                                                                                                        52 How to open a bottle if you dont have a corkscrew.

                                                                                                                                                                          rub a walnut on damaged wooden furniture

                                                                                                                                                                            kids fall out of bed

                                                                                                                                                                              use toothpaste to clear up hazy car

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                                                                                                                                                                                  59 keep pizza out while driving home

                                                                                                                                                                                    60 put your straw through the tab to keep it from rising

                                                                                                                                                                                      hold oreos with a fork so your fingers

                                                                                                                                                                                        Never lose your remotes again

                                                                                                                                                                                          hiding your emergency money

                                                                                                                                                                                            use a bread tab to hold your spot on a roll

                                                                                                                                                                                              if you are at a hotel and run out of chargers

                                                                                                                                                                                                keep a square of cardboard in a ziplock bag

                                                                                                                                                                                                  If you need to pee or smoke at a bar

                                                                                                                                                                                                    drill holes in the bottom of your garbage

                                                                                                                                                                                                      use an accented letter as your passcode

                                                                                                                                                                                                        use a squeeze ketchup bottle top with your shopvac

                                                                                                                                                                                                          do something unusual when locking the door

                                                                                                                                                                                                            when heating leftovers space out a circle in the middle

                                                                                                                                                                                                              dont burn yourself in those hard to reach candles

                                                                                                                                                                                                                put a small amount of water in a glass when you microwave your pizza

                                                                                                                                                                                                                  75 use a piece of paper to organize

                                                                                                                                                                                                                    use half a pool noodle

                                                                                                                                                                                                                      pencil case to store cables

                                                                                                                                                                                                                        78 clothespin to hold nail

                                                                                                                                                                                                                          79 make blts

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            80 take a picture of your fridge

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              81 fill plastic water bottles

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                82 right ways to eat chips

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  99 if your plug keeps failing

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    100 put the banana on the wire

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      88 before you throw away a post it

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Source: Reddit LifeProTips

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        There you go, 100 awesome life hacks that you can try right now to make your life a lot easier!

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