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Walt Disney Lessons: 10 Magical Ways To Make Your Dreams Come True

Walt Disney Lessons: 10 Magical Ways To Make Your Dreams Come True

Walt Disney was a showman. According to Time, he “received received more Academy Awards and nominations than any other person in history.” The Disneyland theme parks are truly magical kingdoms, for adults, as well as for children.

Here are some Walt Disney lessons in making your dreams come true, courtesy of the master of imagination, dreaming, and achievement himself.

1. Dream Big.

“If you can dream it, you can do it.”

– Walt Disney

Dream big

    What if money, time, looks, and gender were no object? What would your biggest dream be? Often we short-change ourselves. We listen to others’ put-downs, and internalize them. It’s hard to remember our dreams. Harder still, to imagine that we could achieve a dream. Take Walt Disney’s words to heart. Start dreaming. Then believe that you can achieve your dream.

    2. Be Courageous.

    “All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.”

    – Walt Disney

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    Courage

      It takes courage to step outside your comfort zone. However, achieving your dreams always means that you’re doing things you’ve never done before. Practice being courageous. Today, do something you haven’t done before. Propose a new project to your boss. Send your crush some flowers. Being courageous doesn’t mean that you’re unafraid. It means acting in spite of your fear.

      3. Be Yourself.

      “The more you like yourself, the less you are like anyone else, which makes you unique.”

      – Walt Disney

      Be yourself

        We all wear masks. We try to be what we think people want us to be. We try to emulate role models. What if you were just yourself? Discovering who you are underneath all the masks is challenging. It’s hard to be authentic if you’re not sure who you are. Just for today, do what pleases you. Say what you mean, rather than saying what you think someone wants to hear. However, be appropriate—being “like yourself” isn’t a license to be outrageous, or to say hurtful things.

        4. Stop Talking. Start Doing.

        “The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.”

        – Walt Disney

        Doing

          You’re dreaming big. You’re inspired. You tell everyone about your dream. Stop! Keep it to yourself. Work quietly towards your dream. You don’t need validation from anyone, nor do you need permission. Be authentic, and do something today, which will help you to achieve your dream.

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          5. Embrace Competition.

          “I have been up against tough competition all my life. I wouldn’t know how to get along without it.”

          – Walt Disney

          competition

            Competition is essential to help you to achieve your dreams. If there were no competition, you’d have nothing against which to measure yourself. Competition makes you better and stronger than you might otherwise be. In business, competition fosters innovation. If you’re uncomfortable with competition, or envious of competitors, ask yourself why. Then do the best you can.

            6. Go and Get What You Want. Don’t Wait.

            “Cinderella believed in dreams, all right, but she also believed in doing something about them. When Prince Charming didn’t come along, she went over to the palace and got him.”

            – Walt Disney

            Act

              Forget wishing. No one is handed his dreams for free. You have to fight to achieve a dream. Expect to struggle. Ask yourself what price you’re will to pay—dreams always have a price. However, it’s not all doom and gloom. Setting goals, making plans, and working toward your dream is wonderful. Enjoy the journey. When you’ve achieved a long-held dream, you find that while you appreciate the achievement, the memories of the journey are what make you smile.

              7. Do Your Best Work. Don’t Worry About Money.

              “Do a good job. You don’t have to worry about the money; it will take care of itself. Just do your best work—then try to trump it.”

              – Walt Disney

              Do your best

                You’re poor. You can’t afford to take time off to get another degree so you can get a better job. The answer is to do the best you can, right where you are, and cling onto your dream. Life will give you what you want, when you least expect it: do your best work, every day. Then better your best. As Walt Disney says, “you don’t have to worry about the money.” Results will come.

                8. Don’t Quit.

                “The difference in winning and losing is most often… not quitting.”

                – Walt Disney

                Don't quit

                  You can’t succeed at anything without failing, and failing a lot. Failure is the way we learn. Here’s what Thomas Edison said: “The three great essentials to achieve anything worthwhile are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense.” Everyone fails his way to success. Look on your failures as speed bumps in your success journey, and keep going. Don’t quit.

                  9. Be Grateful.

                  “The more you are in a state of gratitude, the more you will attract things to be grateful for.”

                  – Walt Disney

                  grateful

                    What are you grateful for? We all have endless reasons to be grateful. What do you take for granted? Chances are that you’re blasé about your health, your comfortable home, your loving family, and about your job. Even if you have none of those things, you can be grateful for being alive. Studies have shown that gratitude improves your health, your relationships, and makes you happier.

                    10. Do Your Best.

                    “Why worry? If you’ve done the very best you can, worrying won’t make it better.”

                    – Walt Disney

                    Why worry

                      Worry is anticipation; worry can help you to improve and do your best. However, once something is done, distract yourself from concern about the results. If you’ve gone through three interviews for a job, there’s nothing else you can do. Worrying about whether you get the job is pointless at that stage. Only worry when it serves a useful purpose.

                      So, there you have ten Walt Disney lessons. Apply them to your life. They’ll help you to make your dreams come true.

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                      Last Updated on June 26, 2019

                      13 Ways Happy People Think and Feel Differently

                      13 Ways Happy People Think and Feel Differently

                      Let me begin by being 100% frank with you – everyone is capable of happiness.

                      Happiness is first a choice but it also takes persistence to maintain. Happiness is our birth right and my mission is to help as many people as I can live their happiest life.

                      My mission is to spread the message that everyone deserves happiness.

                      To live a happy life; however, you must do the work, gain the necessary knowledge, and increase your awareness.

                      You must fully embody this state and begin to think and feel happiness on every level of your being.

                      Often times, excuses present themselves and our mind gives us the reasons why we can’t be happy:

                      “I am too busy right now to focus on happiness”

                      “I will be happy when I finish school, when I have the money, when I am in the right relationship, when I have kids, when my children are older….”

                      “I would have had a happy life if this traumatic event had never happened”

                      “I don’t deserve happiness”

                      EVERYONE deserves happiness. The reason that you are here right now is because you have a purpose and you are on the earth to enjoy your journey.

                      Think BIGGER than your excuses. Push FARTHER than your complaints.

                      Don’t be pulled away from greatness. Get uncomfortable. At least these are what happy and successful people do on a daily basis.

                      If you would like to begin embodying this life-changing state, then… Here are the 13 ways happy people think and feel differently:

                      1. Happy People Put Happiness First

                      Happy people have made the decision that their end goal is happiness.

                      Every situation, event, bad day ultimately ends with happiness.

                      To them, happiness is equivalent to sleep and water – it is a necessity to their life. To live an unhappy life is to have never lived at all.

                      The happy person asks,

                      “What would be the point of living if every day and moment were filled with negativity?”

                      “Why would I deplete my energy on negativity when I expend less to be positive?”

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                      They make happy-based decisions which means in EVERY MOMENT they choose happiness.

                      If their circumstances can’t change then they instead change their perspective, they look for the silver lining in the negative.

                      Happy people don’t let negativity steal their moments away – a positive mindset always prevails.

                      If you ask a happy person how their day was, they will always answer your question with a highlight or a lesson learned.

                      2. Happy People Embrace Pain

                      I know what you are thinking –

                      “No one is ALWAYS happy”

                      or …

                      “Even happy people get in bad moods”

                      and …

                      These statements are absolutely accurate.

                      Happy people aren’t always happy and they DO get into bad moods. They get overwhelmed, they feel defeated, and their feelings get hurt.

                      Happy people aren’t invincible and they feel pain just like everyone else. The only difference between happy people and people who let negativity run their lives is that…

                      Happy people quickly acknowledge their pain and they make a decision to find a way to transform their pain into something greater. They also use these 13 simple ways to shake off the sadness.

                      Happy people admit the negativity they feel and they do what it takes to get back into their natural state: happiness.

                      When your end goal is happiness, then you will find a way to achieve it no matter how much strength you have to muster.

                      3. Happy People Have a Happy Self-Image

                      We all have an image in our minds that we subconsciously live up to.

                      The reason that change is so hard is because our subconscious mind is programmed to live by how we define ourselves.

                      How are you currently defining yourself?

                      For happy people, they see themselves with a smile, positive outlook, and/or a bounce in their step. When an event or situation arises that brings in a negative emotion, they quickly change their state to resemble their natural self-image.

                      When happy people are in a bad mood, it feels unusual to them because feeling negative isn’t aligned with how they see themselves. When they feel upset, they acknowledge the negativity and look for a solution to bring their emotions to the level of how they perceive themselves.

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                      Look at how you define yourself today – your mind and body are always trying to live up to the definition it is taught to believe.

                      Your body’s job is to keep you in a “normal” state because this is where it feels most comfortable.

                      If your self-image is happy, then your mind and body will naturally be brought back to where it feels at home. Your actions will be a clue to how you define yourself.

                      Take a look at this guide and learn to build positive self-image: How to Build Self Esteem (A Guide to Realize Your Hidden Power)

                      4. Happy People Have a Strong Support System

                      The happiest people know that it takes a village and they lean on others for support.

                      Happy people feel comfortable reaching out for help when they feel that their resistances are overpowering them. They quickly sense their negativity and they tell somebody.

                      Happy people ask for assistance when they can’t figure out a problem. Seeking help takes strength and it never gets in the way of their self-worth. Happy people appreciate the wisdom that their support system provides.

                      They have strong connections with the people who are close to them. They never trudge through tough times alone because jeopardizing their happiness for too long would be detrimental to their well-being.

                      5. Happy People Safeguard Their Minds from Negative Triggers

                      Warding off negativity is almost impossible when we live in a society that lives by what went wrong and feeds off of what could go wrong. News travels instantaneously so it would be unrealistic to shut this out of your life completely.

                      However, one strategy that happy people use to safeguard their minds is regulating their environment.

                      We have a lot of control on how we allow our environments to affect us. We can control our social media feed, the television shows and movies we watch, the books that we read, the people that we spend our time with, and the places that we hang out.

                      If happiness is your end goal, then take a good look at what is bringing you down. What triggers your unhappiness? See if there is anything in your environment that can be changed……

                      What we listen to, read, and who we hang out with influence our mind, what we think about, what we worry about, our reactions, and behaviors.

                      Happy people know what triggers a feeling of negativity and it feels out of alignment for them so they do what it takes to avoid it.

                      They might regulate their social media news feed to reflect the information that brings them positive energy. They might regulate the people that they spend their time with. It is important to hang out with like-minded people.

                      What are your triggers? How can you avoid the negativity in your environment?

                      These are ways that happy people regulate their environment and safeguard their minds: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions

                      6. Happy People Know When to Say “No”

                      Happy people know when to sit one out and say “no.” They do this to protect their happiness and well-being.

                      Life gets overwhelming – a lot of people need our attention and the to do list can seem never ending.

                      Happy people give themselves permission to take the day off and they feel comfortable with saying “no” when their stress levels begin to climb. They understand that those around them aren’t benefiting from someone who is frazzled, overwhelmed, and tired.

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                      A happy person identifies their negative emotion and then they quickly treat it to bring themselves back to their “normal” state, so that they can be at their best for not only themselves but for those around them, too.

                      A simple “no” can ultimately mean many more “yes’s” in the future because happiness has a long battery life. You can take a look at Leo Babauta’s article The Gentle Art of Saying No and learn to say no.

                      7. Happy People Are Good Evaluators

                      Happy people can quickly sense when something is off with themselves or others. They are very intuitive to happiness levels. When someone isn’t quite right, they are the first ones to notice.

                      Being able to evaluate happiness means that you can identify when negativity is lingering around for too long.

                      We all have bad days; however, the happy person evaluates often and quickly intervenes.

                      In other words, happy people frequently evaluate their state and immediately change when their pessimism is overshadowing their joy.

                      8. Happy People Bring Other People Up

                      What goes on inside of us is mirrored into our physical world.

                      What we think about literally consumes our life and is displayed in our work, relationships, and attitude.

                      Happy people naturally feel good inside and about themselves so they treat others the way that they treat themselves. It never feels forced to give a compliment or to help out a stranger.

                      When we are truly happy with ourselves, everyone around us has a better experience. Happy people are kind to themselves and because of this, it feels natural to them to want to make others’ happy, too.

                      9. Happy People Go After Their Dreams

                      Happy people are always following the joyful path. They make happy-based decisions and because of this, they always end up where they want to be.

                      It’s absolutely impossible to be happy by following an undesirable path, which is quite opposite for unhappy people.

                      Most people journey through life on a path they think they are “supposed” to be own. Warning signs (negativity) are often ignored because they truly believe that these feelings are a normal part of life.

                      Negativity is NOT normal.

                      The happiest people investigate the negativity in their life and quickly analyze the results. This process allows them to get back on the joyful path which ends in a desirable outcome.

                      Follow your happiness and your dreams will come true (If that isn’t motivation then I don’t know what is!)

                      In addition to happiness, here are 14 amazing things that happen when you live your passion.

                      10. Happy People Never Sweat the Small Stuff

                      The only expectation that the happy person has is that they remain in a joyful state.

                      They rarely have expectations for the events and people in their lives because they know that this is a sure way to get let down.

                      The happiest people take life as it comes – you could say that they roll with the punches. When you don’t have expectations, then you can just sit back and watch how beautifully life unfolds.

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                      Happy people understand that bad things are inevitable, they are a part of life – The car will break, the kids will make mistakes, people will be late, and dinner will burn.

                      If it’s not anything seriously affecting their lives, then they don’t give their energy to it.

                      11. Happy People Rarely Have to Prove That They Are Right

                      Happy people remember that it’s more important to live up to what they believe. When you live your life aligned with your belief system, then there is no need to explain or prove yourself to others.

                      Differences in opinions are inevitable, but the happiest of people know it’s wasted energy to defend their position.

                      It is more effective to simply show people, through actions, how you think, feel, and what you believe.

                      Energy is saved, arguments are diminished, and credibility/respect are gained when we live by what we believe.

                      12. Happy People Smile (Even When They Don’t Want To)

                      Smiling is one of the healthiest things we can do; and happy people use this simple trick quite often.

                      It has been proven that smiling has the ability to boost your immune system, decrease stress levels, and can even make you look younger. The benefits of smiling have even been backed up by science.[1]

                      Better yet, smiling is contagious. When you engage in a quick smile, you are likely to brighten someone else’s day along with your own. It is no wonder why happy people smile often!

                      13. Happy People Live Life in the Present Moment

                      When we are genuinely happy, we are living for the moment.

                      Happy people let go of the past, enjoy the present, and look forward to the future. They take the moments for what they are worth – they only invest their energy in what feels right to them.

                      These tips on How to Live in the Moment and Stop Worrying About the Past or Future maybe helpful for you.

                      Everyone is capable of living a happy-centered life. You deserve a life that you desire – your dream life. All you have to start doing is make happy-based decisions TODAY.

                      In every moment, decide on what makes you happy – decide on what gets you excited. Stop doing what you don’t love, don’t listen to the people that you dislike.

                      If you are engaging in something that isn’t bringing you joy, then quit doing it. Listen to your heart, stop ignoring the warning signs (negativity) because they are there for a reason.

                      Final Thoughts

                      I have observed, studied, and interviewed some of the happiest and most successful people along with some of the most miserable and self-loathing.

                      It starts with one decision – happiness.

                      The happiest, most successful people choose happiness with EACH and EVERY decision. And you can start doing this today.

                      Featured photo credit: Autumn Goodman via unsplash.com

                      Reference

                      [1] Harvard Business Review: The Science Behind the Smile

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