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40 Motivational Quotes that Will Super-Boost Your Motivation

40 Motivational Quotes that Will Super-Boost Your Motivation

Sometimes all you need is a little boost, some extra motivation, to focus your mind and help you achieve your goals.

Below are 40 motivational quotes that will help you stay focused and motivated to continue on your journey toward accomplishing your goals.

1. “Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.” Thomas A Edison

2. “Get around the right people. Associate with positive, goal-oriented people who encourage and inspire you.” Brain Tracy

3. “Your success lies within you.” Zig Ziglar

4. “It always seems impossible until it is done.” Nelson Mandela

5. “Well done is better than well said.” Benjamin Franklin

6. “The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will.” Vince Lombardi

7. “If you are not willing to risk the usual you will have to settle for the ordinary.” Jim Rohn

8. “You have to be someone.” Bob Marley

9. “Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day-in and day-out.” Robert Collier

10. “We become what we think about most of the time, and that’s the strangest secret.” Earl Nightingale

11. “Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don’t lose faith.” Steve Jobs

12. “The creation of a thousand forests is in one acorn.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

13. “Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” Helen Keller

14. “Don’t give up. Don’t lose hope. Don’t sell out.” Christopher Reeve

15. “I’ve failed over and over and over again. And that is why I succeed.” Michael Jordan

16. “Only I can change my life. No one else can do it for me.” Carol Burnett

17. “Nothing big will happen in your life, until you build off of the many small things.” John Paul Aguiar

18. “A hard thing is done by figuring out how to start.” Rand Fishkin

19. “Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better.” Jim Rohn

20. “I do believe in fate.” Sir Alex Ferguson

21.”Its always too early to quit.” Norman Vincent Peale

22. “I want the world to be better because I was here.” Will Smith

23. “You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it.” Margaret Thatcher

24. “If you’re walking down the right path and you’re willing to keep walking, eventually you’ll make progress.” Barack Obama

25. “If you want something you’ve never had, you’ll have to do something you’ve never done.” Dave Ramsey

26. “Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens.” Kahlil Gibran

27. “The investor of today does not profit from yesterday’s growth.” Warren Buffet

28. “The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.” Winston Churchill

29. “Don’t be afraid of the space between your dreams and reality. If you can dream it, you can make it so.” Belva Davis

30. “To be successful you must accept all challenges that come your way. You can’t just accept the ones you like.” Mike Gafka

31. “The earlier you start, the more time you have to mess up.” Emil Motycka

32. “People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing.” Dale Carnegie

33. “I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions.” Stephen Covey

34. “Do what you can, where you are, with what you have.” Teddy Roosevelt

35. “If you fall behind, run faster. Never give up, never surrender, and rise up against the odds.” Jesse Jackson

36. “Never give up on something that you can’t go a day without thinking about.” Winston Churchill

37.”You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.” Wayne Gretzky

38. “Successful people do what unsuccessful people are not willing to do. Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better.” Jim Rohn

39. “Eighty percent of success is showing up.” Woody Allen

40. “Only I can change my life. No one else can do it for me.” Carol Burnett

Bonus: You have what it takes to achieve your goals.

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How to Communicate Effectively in Any Relationship

How to Communicate Effectively in Any Relationship

For all our social media bravado, we live in a society where communication is seen less as an art, and more as a perfunctory exercise. We spend so much time with people, yet we struggle with how to meaningfully communicate.

If you believe you have mastered effective communication, scan the list below and see whether you can see yourself in any of the examples:

Example 1

You are uncomfortable with a person’s actions or comments, and rather than telling the individual immediately, you sidestep the issue and attempt to move on as though the offending behavior or comment never happened.

You move on with the relationship and develop a pattern of not addressing challenging situations. Before long, the person with whom you are in relationship will say or do something that pushes you over the top and predictably, you explode or withdraw completely from the relationship.

In this example, hard-to-speak truths become never- expressed truths that turn into resentment and anger.

Example 2

You communicate from the head and without emotion. While what you communicate makes perfect sense to you, it comes across as cold because it lacks emotion.

People do not understand what motivates you to say what you say, and without sharing your feelings and emotions, others experience you as rude, cold or aggressive.

You will know this is a problem if people shy away from you, ignore your contributions in meetings or tell you your words hurt. You can also know you struggle in this area if you find yourself constantly apologizing for things you have said.

Example 3

You have an issue with one person, but you communicate your problem to an entirely different person.

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The person in whom you confide lacks the authority to resolve the matter troubling you, and while you have vented and expressed frustration, the underlying challenge is unresolved.

Example 4

You grew up in a family with destructive communication habits and those habits play out in your current relationships.

Because you have never stopped to ask why you communicate the way you do and whether your communication style still works, you may lack understanding of how your words impact others and how to implement positive change.

If you find yourself in any of the situations described above, this article is for you.

Communication can build or decimate worlds and it is important we get it right. Regardless of your professional aspirations or personal goals, you can improve your communication skills if you:

  • Understand your own communication style
  • Tailor your style depending on the needs of the audience
  • Communicate with precision and care
  • Be mindful of your delivery, timing and messenger

1. Understand Your Communication Style

To communicate effectively, you must understand the communication legacy passed down from our parents, grandparents or caregivers. Each of us grew up with spoken and unspoken rules about communication.

In some families, direct communication is practiced and honored. In other families, family members are encouraged to shy away from difficult conversations. Some families appreciate open and frank dialogue and others do not. Other families practice silence about substantive matters, that is, they seldom or rarely broach difficult conversations at all.

Before you can appreciate the nuance required in communication, it helps to know the familial patterns you grew up with.

2. Learn Others Communication Styles

Communicating effectively requires you to take a step back, assess the intended recipient of your communication and think through how the individual prefers to be communicated with. Once you know this, you can tailor your message in a way that increases the likelihood of being heard. This also prevents you from assuming the way you communicate with one group is appropriate or right for all groups or people.

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If you are unsure how to determine the styles of the groups or persons with whom you are interacting, you can always ask them:

“How do you prefer to receive information?”

This approach requires listening, both to what the individuals say as well as what is unspoken. Virgin Group CEO Richard Branson noted that the best communicators are also great listeners.

To communicate effectively from relationship to relationship and situation to situation, you must understand the communication needs of others.

3. Exercise Precision and Care

A recent engagement underscored for me the importance of exercising care when communicating.

On a recent trip to Ohio, I decided to meet up with an old friend to go for a walk. As we strolled through the soccer park, my friend gently announced that he had something to talk about, he was upset with me. His introduction to the problem allowed me to mentally shift gears and prepare for the conversation.

Shortly after introducing the shift in conversation, my friend asked me why I didn’t invite him to the launch party for my business. He lives in Ohio and I live in the D.C. area.

I explained that the event snuck up on me, and I only started planning the invite list three weeks before the event. Due to the last-minute nature of the gathering, I opted to invite people in the DMV area versus my friends from outside the area – I didn’t want to be disrespectful by asking them to travel on such short notice.

I also noted that I didn’t want to be disappointed if he and others declined to come to the event. So I played it safe in terms of inviting people who were local.

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In the moment, I felt the conversation went very well. I also checked in with my friend a few days after our walk, affirmed my appreciation for his willingness to communicate his upset and our ability to work through it.

The way this conversation unfolded exemplified effective communication. My friend approached me with grace and vulnerability. He approached me with a level of curiosity that didn’t put me on my heels — I was able to really listen to what he was saying, apologize for how my decision impacted him and vow that going forward, I would always ask rather than making decisions for him and others.

Our relationship is intact, and I now have information that will help me become a better friend to him and others.

4. Be Mindful of Delivery, Timing and Messenger

Communicating effectively also requires thinking through the delivery of the message one intends to communicate as well as the appropriate time for the discussion.

In an Entrepreneur.com column, VIP Contributor Deep Patel, noted that persons interested in communicating well need to master the art of timing. Patel noted,[1]

“Great comedians, like all great communicators, are able to feel out their audience to determine when to move on to a new topic or when to reiterate an idea.”

Communicating effectively also requires thoughtfulness about the messenger. A person prone to dramatic, angry outbursts should never be called upon to deliver constructive feedback, especially to people whom they do not know. The immediate aftermath of a mass shooting is not the ideal time to talk about the importance of the Second Amendment rights.

Like everyone else, I must work to ensure my communication is layered with precision and care.

It requires precision because words must be carefully tailored to the person with whom you are speaking.

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It requires intentionality because before one communicates, one should think about the audience and what the audience needs in order to hear your message the way you intended it to be communicated.

It requires active listening which is about hearing verbal and nonverbal messages.

Even though we may be right in what we say, how we say it could derail the impact of the message and the other parties’ ability to hear the message.

Communicating with care is also about saying things that the people in our life need to hear and doing so with love.

The Bottom Line

When I left the meeting with my dear friend, I wondered if I was replicating or modeling this level of openness and transparency in the rest of my relationships.

I was intrigued and appreciative. He’d clearly thought about what he wanted to say to me, picked the appropriate time to share his feedback and then delivered it with care. He hit the ball out of the park and I’m hopeful we all do the same.

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