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20 Thoughts About Happiness That Will Improve Your Mood

20 Thoughts About Happiness That Will Improve Your Mood

Your happiness should not be dependent on any person but yourself. If you’re feeling down, these twenty thoughts about happiness should improve your mood.

“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.” ― Dr. Seuss

Memories will forever live in your heart, no matter how brief the experience might have been, so be thankful that you can reminisce at any time you choose.

“Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.” ― Dalai Lama

Complaining is a fool’s errand, because you can’t expect your dreams to come true if you’re not willing to pursue them relentlessly.

“To be happy, we must not be too concerned with others.” ― Albert Camus

The secret to happiness is to appreciate the people who “get” you, while having no concern with the rest.

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“Caring about others, running the risk of feeling, and leaving an impact on people, brings happiness.” ― Harold Kushner

It is understandable to be afraid of opening up if you’ve been hurt in the past, but authentic connection cannot be established if you’re not willing to be vulnerable.

“Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be.” ― Abraham Lincoln

Happiness isn’t a destination, but rather a choice.

“It’s so hard to forget pain, but it’s even harder to remember sweetness. We have no scar to show for happiness. We learn so little from peace.” ― Chuck Palahniuk

Painful experiences tend to stick out more vividly than peaceful ones, so pursue an art or craft that allows you to release your pain in a productive way.

“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.” ― Mahatma Gandhi

Strive for harmony in your thoughts and actions, because behaving in a way that opposes our beliefs can produce a hell of an identity crisis.

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“Happiness in intelligent people is the rarest thing I know.” ― Ernest Hemingway

I often wish I could forget about injustices and troubling facts about the society we live in… when thinking about this makes me depressed, I remind myself of this affirmation: positive actions trump negative thoughts every time.

“I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstance but by our disposition.” ― Martha Washington

When it seems like a dark cloud is overhead, remember that even the most severe storms are temporary.

“Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city.” ― George Burns

Appreciating your family is essential, but it is also wise to distance yourself as necessary for your mental health and sanity.

“Everything has its wonders, even darkness and silence, and I learn, whatever state I may be in, therein to be content.” ― Helen Keller

Before you complain about first world problems, consider that many people living in third world countries are more satisfied with their life than you are.

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“The moments of happiness we enjoy take us by surprise. It is not that we seize them, but that they seize us.” ― Ashley Montagu

Life is not meant to be a choreographed routine, but rather an exciting adventure.

“You can’t be happy unless you’re unhappy sometimes.” ― Lauren Oliver

How do you propose you would appreciate the emotional “highs” of your life without some “lows” to put them in perspective?

“Don’t underestimate the value of doing nothing, of just going along, listening to all the things you can’t hear, and not bothering.” ― Winnie the Pooh

If you feel like you always have to be doing something, then you will never comprehend how freeing silence can be.

“Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.” ― Thich Nhat Hanh

Smile (even if you don’t feel like it), because it is scientifically proven to make you feel better.

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“Happy people plan actions, they don’t plan results.” ― Dennis Waitley

The result of your work will never reflect your expectations, so it is better to focus on enjoying the process than achieving a specific result.

“The best way to cheer yourself is to try to cheer somebody else up.” ― Mark Twain

Brightening another person’s day will make you feel infinitely better than wallowing in your own misery.

“Nobody really cares if you’re miserable, so you might as well be happy.” ― Cynthia Nelms

Letting people get to you will only encourage them to bother you, while smiling in the face of criticism will show them how powerful you really are.

“There is no cosmetic for beauty like happiness.” ― Lady Blessington

A loving spirit and positive attitude will make you more attractive than any amount of weight-loss ever could.

“A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery while on a detour.” ― Author Unknown

Don’t be afraid of the unexpected, because life comes equipped with twists and turns you will never be able to predict.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2019

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

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5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

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Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

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9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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