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15 Reasons Your Mom Is Always Incomparable

15 Reasons Your Mom Is Always Incomparable

Mothers have an everlasting impact in our lives. And it goes beyond just keeping us in their womb for 9 months. You only start understanding how important the role they have played in your life is when they are not around. Understanding the relationship between a mother and a child can be pretty difficult as there are adorable and annoying times. Yet your mother is incomparable to any other being that will be in your life.

1. She made you learn from your mistakes

Those years when you were a toddler trying to walk, your mom was there to encourage to make progress. She taught you not to be afraid to fall down as she placed you on that new bike. It was all about learning and she offered you the best education possible.

2. She entered the rain with you

When the tides of life seemed overwhelming, your mom was willing to get wet with you. She wouldn’t let you go to school alone when you were sick. She was more afraid of the damages that could inflict you more than of those which might inflict herself.

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3. She was patient with you

You made mistakes but your mother was the most patient and tolerant person in your life. She was patient with you and wouldn’t punish you for mistakes but offered you the opportunity to try to fix your wrongs.

4. She adjusted with your flaws

We all have flaws, but who knows and can adapt to them better than your mother? She was quick to identify your flaws and treat you with respect regardless of them.

5. She knew how to brighten you up

After a tough and horrible day your mother was the best person to talk to. She knew how to cheer you up and make you stay positive after an awful day.

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6. She was blunt with you

Your mom would be the most honest person in your life. She was direct and told you the truth. If you were becoming an idiot, she was sure to let you know.

7. She provided the best solace for you

You felt most at home with your mom. You could tell her almost anything and were sure she would always look after your interest.

8. She knew how to laugh at your jokes

While others may never get the sense of what you were saying, your mom always understands your humor. She took it in and never considered your jokes stupid but brilliant.

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9. She supported you during your trying times

Whenever you failed that test, were bullied or got ditched by that stupid lover and your ego was crushed, your mom was always there to stand by your side. She never deserted you to the harsh realities of life.

10. She pushed you to try new things

Telling your mom you wanted to become a guitarist didn’t count against you as your mom wanted you to always try new things and become a more skilled person. Most times she gave you the “you can do it” feeling.

11. She never forgot your birthdays

Your dad might forget your birthday, your brother and relatives might forget it, but never your mother.

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12. She offered you advice

Whenever you needed to have her opinion on a subject, she was there to offer it. She would give you an honest advice whether you wanted to hear it or not.

13. She treated you like a special person

She offered you the best diet and got you the best clothes. She treated you more special than every other person in her world.

14. She never held a grudge

There were times when you had battles and argued over little things. All it took was an “I am sorry” and everything was gone. She never held a grudge.

15. She watched your favorite movies with you

Whether it was an exciting movie to her or not, or it made her want to fall asleep in the process, she was always happy to be at your side watching your favorite movies with you.

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

An Inspirational Story…

For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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