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12 Life Lessons From Albus Dumbledore

12 Life Lessons From Albus Dumbledore

There are a lot of quotes from Dumbledore that demonstrate his immense wisdom and ability to love. It’s hard to choose favorites, but I did it anyway, choosing things he’s said that really spoke to me. Here are 12 particularly inspiring quotes from Dumbledore.

1. “Welcome to a new year at Hogwarts! Before we begin our banquet, I would like to say a few words. And here they are: Nitwit! Blubber! Oddment! Tweak!”

This first quote from Dumbledore is silly, sure, but it’s also very astute. He recognizes that words don’t matter; only actions do. As long as you do what is expected of you, you can be as ridiculous as you want.

2. “The consequences of our actions are always so complicated, so diverse, that predicting the future is a very difficult business indeed.”

Dumbledore would probably agree that planning too far ahead in too much detail is a fruitless endeavor. Our lives are full of surprises, and we’ll never predict all the obstacles and opportunities that come our way.

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3. “Clever as I am, I remain just as big a fool as anyone else.”

It’s hard to think of Dumbledore as foolish, but he understands that sometimes the cleverest people among us can also be the most dim when it comes to certain matters. After all, Dumbledore was entranced by the Resurrection Stone that led to his demise, even though he knew better than to meddle with it.

4. “It matters not what someone is born, but what they grow up to be.”

One of my favorite quotes from Dumbledore. He knows that birthright is in many ways a myth. What you become is all that matters in the end.

5. “Happiness can be found, even the darkest of times, if only one remembers to turn on the light.”

This is one of the quotes from Dumbledore that has been expressed by other characters and other authors, but not quite the way he said it. Even if it’s hard to find in the dark, there’s always a light switch somewhere. All you have to do is find it and have the willingness to flip it on.

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6. “The truth is a beautiful and terrible thing, and should therefore be treated with great caution.”

The truth is important, but it shouldn’t be taken lightly. Quotes from Dumbledore like this show his wisdom. Here he understands that the lies and the truth are not black and white.

7. “It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live.”

When Harry Potter was obsessed with the Erised mirror, Dumbledore was wise enough to find him and inform him that you can’t let fantasies get in the way of real life.

8. “Mysterious thing, Time. Powerful, and when meddled with, dangerous.”

Whether you’re time traveling with the Time-Turner or just growing older, time is a very fantastical concept. No one completely understands it, but Dumbledore knows that doing anything to mess with it is dangerous. That includes going backwards in time or trying to rush through life without taking the time to smell the roses.

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9. “Do not pity the dead, Harry. Pity the living and above all, those who live without love.”

Death is sad, but a lack of love in your life is the biggest tragedy of all. Quotes from Dumbledore like this remind us of what really matters in the world.

10. “Dark times are ahead and there will be a time when we must choose between what is easy and what is right.”

The easy path is almost never the right one. Dumbledore knows you should never skate by when you can soar.

11. “Maybe a man in a million could unite the Hallows, Harry. I was fit only to possess the meanest of them, the least extraordinary. I was fit to own the Elder Wand, and not to boast of it, and not to kill with it. I was permitted to tame and to use it, because I took it, not for gain, but to save others from it.”

Quotes from Dumbledore such as this illustrate how his immense compassion enabled him to keep control of the Elder Wand. It perfectly demonstrates that people in power, whether that power be political, social, or something else, should be compassionate.

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12. “Of course it is happening inside your head, Harry, but why on Earth should it mean it is not real?”

Things are exactly as real as we let them be. One of the last quotes from Dumbledore is also one of the most memorable, as he reminds us of the staggering power of belief.

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Last Updated on October 22, 2019

How to Get “I Can’t Do It” Out of Your Vocabulary

How to Get “I Can’t Do It” Out of Your Vocabulary

When someone says, “I can’t do it” . . . I say to myself, “What do you mean you can’t do it?” Maybe you don’t want to do it, but saying you “can’t” do it is a completely different story.

With the right mindset, positive attitude, and a clear vision of what you want to accomplish, the only thing that is holding you back is yourself.

Can’t is a terrible word and it has to be taken out of your vocabulary.

By saying you can’t do something, you’re already doubting yourself, submitting to defeat, and you’re making that barrier around your life tighter.

So today, right now, we are going to remove this word for good.

From now on there is nothing we can’t do.

“Attitude is Tattoo”

Your attitude is everything; it’s your reason, your why and how, your facial expression, emotions, body language, and potentially the end result. How you approach an opportunity, and the result of it, is solely based on you — not your boss or your co-worker or friend.

If you enter a business meeting with a sour attitude, that negative energy can spread like wildfire. People can also feel it — maybe even taste it. This is not an impression you want to leave.

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Now imagine you enter a business meeting with a positive attitude, that whatever happens in here is going to be your result, in your control, not someone else’s. Of course, we can’t always win, but even if the outcome is negative, your attitude and perception can turn it into a positive. The question is: can you do it?

Of course you can, because there is nothing in this world you can’t do.

It’s much better to be known for your positive attitude — your poise, your energy, the reason why things go so well because you are able to maintain such character. A negative attitude is easy. It’s easy to complain, it’s easy to be mad, and it’s even easier to do nothing to change it.

When I say your “attitude is tattoo”, it sounds permanent. Tattoos can be removed, but that’s not the point. Your attitude is like a tattoo because you wear it. People can see it and sometimes, they will judge you on it. If you maintain a negative attitude, then it is permanent until you change it.

Change your attitude and I guarantee the results change as well.

Believe You Can Do It

Do you know why most people say “can’t” and doubt themselves before trying anything?

It’s our lack of self-confidence and fear on many different levels. The one thing we have to purge from ourselves is fear — fear of bad results, fear of change, fear of denial, fear of loss, the fear that makes us worry and lose sleep. Worrying is the same as going outside with an umbrella, waiting for rain to hit it. Stop worrying and move on.

Confidence is fragile: It builds up slowly, but can shatter like glass. Project your confidence and energy into believing in yourself. This is a very important and groundbreaking step — one that is usually the hardest to take. Start telling yourself you can do something, anything, and you will do it the best to your ability. Remove doubt, remove fear, and stick with positive energy.

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Embrace Failure

Do not fear failure. Do not run away from it. Face it, learn from it, grow, and take action. Just remember: You will never know success if you have never failed.

Your confidence will bolster after embracing these facts. You will be immune to demoralizing results, and instead you will find ways to fix it, improve upon it, and make it better than before. You will learn to never say “can’t,” and will realize how many more opportunities you can create by removing that one word.

Don’t let one simple and ugly word plague your confidence. You’re better and stronger than that.

Start Making the Change

But to actually start the process of change is very challenging.

Why is that?

Fear? Time? Don’t know how — or where — to start?

It’s hard because what we’re doing is unlearning what we know. We are used to doing things a certain way, and chances are we’ve been doing them for years.

So here are some ways that I avoid using the word “can’t”, and actually take the steps to put forth the change that I wish to see. I hope you can incorporate these methods into your life.

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Write down What You Want to Change

Write it on post-its, notecards, whatever makes you comfortable — something you will always see. I usually write mine on post-its and put them all over the wall behind my monitor so I always see them.

Tell a Friend and Talk About It

Discussing your goals, what you want to change, is very effective when you say it out loud and tell another person other than yourself. It’s almost like saying, hey, I bet I can do it — watch me.

When you fulfill that goal and tell your friend, it feels rewarding and will motivate you to do it again in a different aspect. Who knows? Maybe your friend adopts the same mindset as you.

Stop Yourself from Saying the Forbidden Word

Sometimes,I can’t control myself in public when I’m with friends, so I have to be careful with the words I use so I don’t embarrass or insult anyone.

Treat the word “can’t” as the worst word you can possibly use. Stop yourself from saying it, mid-sentence if you must, and turn your whole perspective around — you can do it, you will do it, and nothing is impossible!

Repetition, Repetition, Repetition

You think this change will be overnight? No way. This is a practice. Something you’re going to be doing for the rest of your life from now until forever.

As I said earlier, you are unlearning what you know. You know how easy it is to say you can’t do something, so by unlearning this easy practice, you’re self-disciplining yourself to live without boundaries.

Practice this everyday, a little at a time, and before you know it, the word can’t will not be part of your language.

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Do Anything That Can Relieve Your Uncertainty

When I catch myself saying I can’t do something or I don’t know something, looking up information on that action or subject, doing research, educating yourself, relieves that uncertainty.

Sometimes, we think we can’t do something because the whole idea of it seems too large. We skip the small steps in our head and only focus on the end.

Before you say you can’t do something, rewind and slow down a little bit. Focus on what the first step is, then the next. Take it a step at a time, and before you know it you will have done something you previously thought you couldn’t do.

Final Thoughts

You know what you must do. The first step is right now. Once you begin this habit, and really start noticing some change, you’ll realize the door to opportunity is everywhere.

The funny thing is: Those doors have always been there. The evil word that we no longer use put a veil over our eyes because that’s how powerful that word is.

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