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6 Ways to Negate Negative Effects of Video Games

6 Ways to Negate Negative Effects of Video Games

Playing video games is fun as it is one of the many recreational activities. You can enjoy playing with your friends. If you are playing the games for just fun it is not harmful but if it becomes an addiction than it can have adverse effects on your mental and physical health. These games can be tempting, and it is possible that a person finds it difficult to stop playing.

With the increased technology the video games are becoming more and more attractive. If you find it difficult to get away from the video games even for important things like your education or job, it is important to recognize such a situation as an addiction and look for solutions.

There is not much research on the video game addiction, so people often fail to see it as one. It is similar to the impulsive behavior that is the cause of all the other addictions. Certain habits or manners are clear signs of addiction like sacrificing time at school or work, playing in secret, using games as an escape from reality and becoming alienated.

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There are several steps you can take to deal with video game addiction.

1. Limiting the Time to just an Hour or Less Per Day

It is important to make sure that the video games are not consuming too much of a person’s time. The games are tempting with the new 3D models and lifelike animations. You should place a limit on the time your child is spending while playing video games. Try to indulge them in other activities. Encourage them to involve in physical activities. Let the game time be just an hour and make sure that you take a break so you can keep up the time limitation.

2. Keeping Track of Game Playing

Maintaining track of time that a person is dedicating to the games is vital. When you pay attention to the time, you will notice little things such as what motivates the person to play more games. You may find that they may do it when they are bored, depressed or sad. If that is the case, you should look for solutions to those problems.

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If you know what is motivating them to play them, you can solve the problem and deal with the addiction. If they are playing it to escape from reality and their problems, then it is important that you find a way to get rid of the dependency.

3. Paying Attention to Issues that May Arise from Excessive Gaming

If you observe that there are certain bad habits that the person is developing because of the games that they are playing, you should get rid of the game. It is possible that certain games hurt one’s attitude. They may show signs of a troubled personality or develop violent capacities if they play violent games for a long time.

If your child is playing video games, it is important that you not just keep an eye on how long they are playing it but also on the type of games they are playing. Make sure that they are playing games which are not excessively violent.

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4. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

Some of the more severe methods for dealing with the addiction is to make sure that the thinking process is retained from thinking about the games to thinking of other activities which are more productive. You can focus your thinking on fun things such as playing outside or indulging in games with your friends etc.

5. Building Trust

There are methods for trust building that can help people who are socially incompetent to restore confidence. These people prefer to spend time indoors because they are not confident enough to go out and build new relationships. Video games are a way of escaping and getting lost in the gaming world.

6. Encouraging Outdoor Activities

If your’re not going out and failing to enjoy the nature and outdoors, then you will find solace in technology. Technology seems to be an excellent alternative to going out. Try to plan more outdoor and wilderness activities such as camping, fishing, etc.

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These are good and valid ways of dealing with video game addiction.

Featured photo credit: CTV News via ctvnews.ca

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Last Updated on January 3, 2020

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

 I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

 2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

7. Positive people smile a lot!

When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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8. People who are positive are great communicators.

They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

Featured photo credit: Janaína Castelo Branco via flickr.com

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