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5 Ways to Raise Your Vibration and Manifest What You Want

5 Ways to Raise Your Vibration and Manifest What You Want

Everything in the Universe is made up of energy. From our thoughts and feelings to the food we eat, everything vibrates at its own frequency. Joy, happiness, and love all fall on the higher end of the vibrational scale and since most of us want more of those things, we have to raise our vibration to match.

Here are 5 ways to raise your vibration so you can attract more of what you want.

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1. Write Out Your Ideal Day

This is a great starting point because it not only helps you get clear on what you want to manifest, it also allows you to feel the emotions that the experience will bring you. Let’s say you want to attract a new romantic relationship. Imagine you and your ideal partner spending the day together. Now grab your journal and start writing out the details of that day. What are the two of you doing together, what are you wearing, how are you feeling? Visualize the two of you holding hands or going on date and capture as much detail as you can as you write it out. By doing this you’re basically writing the script for your life. While you don’t need to know who the exact person is you’re attracting (it’s best to leave this open to the Universe), you are getting clear on how you want to feel and what you want that experience to be like for you.

2. Create Empowering Affirmations That Support Your Ideal Vision

Now that you know what you want, create affirmations or mantras that you can repeat to yourself that support your desired outcome. This is going to train your mind to seek out opportunities that will bring you the experience you want. Also, what we focus on expands, so the more positive our thoughts are, the easier it will be to attract more positive experiences. Using our example of attracting a new relationship, you might want to use affirmations like “I am worthy to receive love, I am ready for my new partner to appear, or I radiate love and attract love every day”. Write these affirmations out daily in your journal or put them on post-it notes around your house as reminders.

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3. Make a Vision Board

Vision boards (or dream boards) are great because they help us see what’s possible for us. A vision board is a collage of pictures and/or quotes that give you a visual representation of what you want. Having pictures of what you’re manifesting will raise your vibration because when you look at it, you’re putting your mind in the state where it already has those things. To attract a new partner, you can use images of places you’d like travel together, pictures of happy couples, or quotes about love. You can easily create one online by collecting images and putting them together in a collage, or you can print out images or find them in magazines and glue them onto a larger piece of cardboard to keep in your home.

4. Practice Gratitude

Being grateful for what you already have is a sure-fire way to attract more good things into your life. Take a few minutes each day to focus on the people, things and experiences you’re grateful for and write them out in your journal. This might be a list of 10, 50 or even 100 things. The key is to get into the mindset of gratitude because it’s that feeling that will signal to the Universe that you want more of the same. When you’re attracting a new relationship, you can write out what you’ll be grateful for once that person shows up, but make sure to write it in the present tense. For example, “I am so happy and grateful for the delicious dinner my wife and I just had at our favourite restaurant”.

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5. Laugh and Have Fun

This might seem obvious, but being happy is one of the easiest ways to raise your vibration. When we’re laughing, playing and having fun we’re in the present moment and not thinking about what we don’t have. We can even trick ourselves into being happy by smiling and changing our physiology, or by watching silly cat videos online. Being in a place of joy will also make you a magnet for more joy to be attracted to you – people love to be around happy people because it makes them feel better. Going back to our example of attracting a romantic partner, a great thing to do is to simply smile at people and be kind. Say hello to people, wish the guy at the coffee shop a good day, or hold the door open for someone. All of these simple things can spark a conversation that might lead you towards the relationship you’re seeking.

Attracting what you want in life involves aligning your thoughts beliefs and energy with your desired outcome. Applying these 5 tips to help you raise your vibration will help you manifest what you want by training your subconscious mind to seek out opportunities and will signal to the Universe that you’re open to receiving the experiences you want.

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Last Updated on October 14, 2020

The Art of Humble Confidence

The Art of Humble Confidence

To be confident or not to be confident, that is the question. I’m not sure about you, but I’ve been a bit confused about all this discussion about the subject of confidence. Do you really need to be more confident or should you try to be more humble? I think the answer is both – you just have to know where to use it.

East VS West – Confidence, It’s a Cultural Thing

In typical Western countries, the answer to the confidence debate is obvious – more is better. Our heros are rebellious, independent and shoot first, ask questions later. I think this snippet of dialog from The Matrix sums it up best:

Agent Smith – “We’re willing to wipe the slate clean, give you a fresh start. All that we’re asking in return is your cooperation in bringing a known terrorist to justice.”
Neo – “Yeah. Well, that sounds like a pretty good deal. But I think I may have a better one. How about, I give you the finger”
[He does]
Neo -“ …and you give me my phone call.”

In Eastern countries, the tone is often considerably different. Elders are supposed to be revered not dismissed. The words ‘guru,’ meaning a teacher, and the philosophy of dharma, loosely translated to mean ‘duty,’ come from here. In Eastern cultures humility and respect are more important than confidence.

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These perspectives are generalizations, but it shows how the confidence debate goes back deep into our culture. I think that both extremes of pure confidence or pure humility are misguided. Instead of rectifying this situation by simply blending the two: becoming somewhat humble, somewhat confident all the time, I believe the answer is to know when to be confident and when to be humble.

Humble Confidence – Know When to Use It

I’m going to make another broad generalization. I believe that virtually every relationship you are going to have is going to fit into one of two major archetypes, either master or student. In peer relationships this master/student role may switch frequently, but it is extremely rare that the relationship never leans to one side.

In the master role, you are displaying confidence to get what you want. This is public speaker, leader or seducer. Being the master has advantages. You have more control and ability to influence from this role.

The student role is the opposite. You are intentionally displaying humility. This is the student, disciple or follower. Being the student has advantages too. You can learn a lot more in this role and are more likely to win the trust of the other person.

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Know When to Shut Up and Learn

If you are a typical Westerner, you are probably already thinking about which role you prefer. Being the leader is great. You get respect and a higher status. Most of all you get a greater degree of control.

But the problem is that you can’t and shouldn’t always try to be the leader. Trying to assume that role without the skills, resources or status to back it up will lead to conflict. More importantly, there are many times when you purposely want to display humility. Some of the benefits to the student role include:

  • You learn more.
  • Smooths relationships.
  • Makes others more willing to lend a helping hand.

Knowing when taking the humble route is to your advantage. It is far easier to get mentors and advisors if you use humility rather than arrogance. A small sacrifice to your ego can open up the potential to learn a lot.

Confidence to Persuade, Humility to Learn

In reality almost no relationship is as clearly defined as master/student. Within our connections, people have overlapping areas of expertise. I might be an expert in blogging to a non-blogger, but they might be an expert in finance. In each area there are different roles to take.

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Before any interaction ask yourself what the purpose is. Are you trying to learn or persuade?

Persuasion requires confidence. If you are trying to sell, instruct or lead you need to display the confidence to match your message. But learning requires humility. You won’t learn anything if you are constantly arguing with your professors, mentors or employers. Taking a dose of humility and temporarily making yourself a student gives you the opportunity to absorb.

Persuade Less, Learn More

Persuasion is great for immediate effect, but learning matters over the long-haul. Instead of washing over all your communication with pure confidence, look for opportunities to learn. Persuading someone to follow you may give you an immediate boost of satisfaction, but it doesn’t last. Learning, however, is an investment for the future.

Whenever I make a connection with someone and realize they have a skill or understanding I want, I am careful to express humility in that area. That means listening with what they say even if I don’t immediately agree and being patient with their response. This method often drastically cuts down the time I need to spend on trial and error to learn by myself.

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Confidence/Humility Doesn’t Replace Communication Skills

This approach of selectively using confidence and humility for different purposes doesn’t replace communication skills. Humility isn’t going to work if the other person thinks you’re an irritating whiner. Confidence won’t work if the entire room thinks you are an arrogant jerk. Knowing how to display these two qualities takes practice.

The next time you are about to enter into an interaction ask yourself why you are doing it. Are you trying to persuade or learn? Depending on which you can take a completely different tact for far better results.

Featured photo credit: BBH Singapore via unsplash.com

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