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4 Ways Learning to Drive Strengthens Your Personality

4 Ways Learning to Drive Strengthens Your Personality

In high school, I recall that having a driving license or the fact that you’re choosing a driving school puts you in the popular group. Your friends look up to you as if you’re Wonder Woman or Superman, while your nemesis becomes your best friend. It’s become a rite of passage and a form of responsibility, which symbolizes adulthood and independence. Being able to drive actually defines many aspects of one’s life whilst transcending to adulthood.

Here are 4 ways in which learning to drive can strengthen your personality.

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1. Adapting and Improvising at A Very Young Age.

Adapting and improvising is an important life skill that many fail to understand. We move past life so swiftly with responsibilities and innovation that we fail to focus on developing certain life skills. Therefore, upon facing certain adverse situations, they stammer, panic and forget to improvise. In some ways, adapting to changes or new situations becomes a challenge too.

How do you cater to change or how does one actually develop such life skills without having to read about it in “Life Skills for Dummies”? Perfecting the art of driving is the best way to learn this. In many ways a new age driving school caters to this aspect. Performance driving schools usually helps student adapt to real life challenges. For example, learning in an open space and having to test our unpredictable streets gives the drivers a quick thinking to adapt and improvise.

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2. Defines Your Own Confidence and Identity.

Growing up the biggest problem I failed was forming my own identity and self – confidence. As a writer, I had a problem of understanding my style and being confident in my words. However, over time and with lot’s of hard work, my perspective changed. However, my self-discovery took me through many detours.

When I observed my friends who actually learned driving, their personalities were different. They were more assured and confident about their identity, which got me wondering whether that was their pivotal point of change. Needless to say it was. This is because when you’re a driver, you need to trust your instincts and your own style of driving. Criticism and complaints are often left out of the window, when you’re in the driver’s seat. After a certain point, you develop a confident attitude and your own identity.

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3. Gives You a Sense of Self Reliance and Independence.

Being self-reliant is an amazing feeling, as you finally feel liberated and the guilt of troubling someone doesn’t bother you. To be able to do what you want when you want is an amazing feeling which somewhat represents the feeling of soaring to the sky. Independence and freedom is often times what we fight for, hence having that eventually gives us a weapon to face life’s adversities.

However, some might argue that due to technology development, we are self-reliant in different ways. Uber and cab drivers seems to come to our aid anytime we want, but the amount we spend on such necessities can be solved in the simplest way. Therefore, when you notice teenagers getting their license you’ll sense the independence and the charisma they possess. They tend to rely on themselves more. Years later it makes them extremely vocal and gives them the courage to stand up from themselves. Hence, portraying themselves are extremely reliable individuals

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4. Teaches You The Importance of Responsibility.

Being in a stage, the midst of a kid and an adult we often times enjoy indulging in recklessness. We enjoy being at parties and we enjoy being the center of attention. Responsibility seems to be a boring and annoying word. Our parents seem irritating when they stress on the importance of being responsible. However, one of the first rules of driving always revolves upon being a responsible driver, which means never drink and drive, and never text and drive. This form of responsibility becomes a deterrence for unworthy risk taking and becomes an anchor towards self-control. This early education of responsibility allows transition into adulthood easier which makes the later life easier.

Being able to have self-control guarantees that you will never fall easily towards egocentric challenges and unnecessary financial commitments. Over the years this will develop as part of your character which creates a happy and successful ambience around you. A responsible drives keeps themselves alive and others safe too. In a nutshell, learning how to drive at a young age gives you the opportunity to explore yourself and discover your identity. Over the years, this becomes the pivotal point of change and defines your character. Hence, if you have to chance to drive, take it and don’t think twice, because that will be one of the best decisions in your life.

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Last Updated on February 18, 2019

Why It’s Never Too Late To Redefine Yourself

Why It’s Never Too Late To Redefine Yourself

The ability to reinvent and redefine yourself is a bold, daring and purposeful choice. It doesn’t just happen. You have to make a conscious, intentional choice and then follow through.

If the thought of forging a new path, changing habits, thought patterns and your inner circle of friends scares you – you’re not alone. Change can be a very scary thing. It takes courage, fortitude and a bit of faith to decide to shed your old self and don a new persona. However, it is one of the most critical processes one must repeatedly endure in the pursuit of destiny. Change unlocks new levels of potential.

The Need for Change

Everyday when we wake up, we make a decision. We decide to follow our routine or we decide to go off script and shake things up a bit. For those who are creatures of habit, routine is comfortable, easy and produces very little stress. The problem with this is, after a while you stop growing.

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We all reinvent ourselves at some point in our lives. It is absolutely necessary to achieve certain levels of success.

Reflect back on who you were as a teenager and then who you were at 25. Those are two very different people. Most of us are completely different. Your thought patterns changed, your appearance, job, level of education and even your friends– changed. We like to refer to this as “growing up” or maturing and consider it to be one of life’s natural progressions. However the changes you made were purposeful and deliberate.

This process must be a lifelong and continuous cycle. You are never too old to refresh yourself.

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    Signs It’s Time to Redefine

    “Just as established products and brands need updating to stay alive and vibrant, you periodically need to refresh or reinvent yourself.”– Mireille Guiliano

    So how do you know when it’s time for a system upgrade? There are signs along the way that alert you that it is time for an overhaul. The first sign is the feeling of being stuck. If you feel like you are in a rut, you’re bored with life or you need some newness and excitement, a self reinvention may be in order. Re-evaluate your life vision and your goals. Is that vision still valid and are your goals consistent with your vision and–are they achievable? If you are off course, it’s time for a change. If you are not moving forward and making progress, it’s time for a change.

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    In life, there’s no such thing as neutrality–you’re either moving forward or you are moving backward. Time constantly moves forward and if you are standing still, you are actually losing ground. No matter your age or stage in life– there is always room for improvement.

    “You’re never too old to set another goal or dream a new dream.” ~C. S. Lewis

    The second sign that you are due for a change is the occurrence of major life events in which change is forced upon you. Getting married, starting a new job, being promoted, ending a relationship, becoming a parenting or relocating are all prime opportunities to completely overhaul your life.

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    When these major shifts occur in your life–you have to shift with them. You can’t have a single mentality and have a successful marriage. You can’t remain selfish and irresponsible, and raise a healthy, well-adjusted child. You can’t be promoted to a supervisory position and keep the same subordinate attitude. Each level of success requires something different from you.

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      Consider, for a moment, Arnold Schwarzenegger. People may have different opinions about his character and some of his life choices, but he is a master at reinventing himself. He achieved the ultimate success as a professional body builder by earning the title “Mr. Universe” three times. He then earned a tremendous amount of fame and fortune in the entertainment industry making action/adventure films. And in his latest role, he served two terms as the Governor of California. He succeeded as a professional body builder, a film star and a politician. Each role required massive amounts of change, commitment, strength and hard work.

      And if Arnold can do it…so can you!

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