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4 Ways Learning to Drive Strengthens Your Personality

4 Ways Learning to Drive Strengthens Your Personality

In high school, I recall that having a driving license or the fact that you’re choosing a driving school puts you in the popular group. Your friends look up to you as if you’re Wonder Woman or Superman, while your nemesis becomes your best friend. It’s become a rite of passage and a form of responsibility, which symbolizes adulthood and independence. Being able to drive actually defines many aspects of one’s life whilst transcending to adulthood.

Here are 4 ways in which learning to drive can strengthen your personality.

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1. Adapting and Improvising at A Very Young Age.

Adapting and improvising is an important life skill that many fail to understand. We move past life so swiftly with responsibilities and innovation that we fail to focus on developing certain life skills. Therefore, upon facing certain adverse situations, they stammer, panic and forget to improvise. In some ways, adapting to changes or new situations becomes a challenge too.

How do you cater to change or how does one actually develop such life skills without having to read about it in “Life Skills for Dummies”? Perfecting the art of driving is the best way to learn this. In many ways a new age driving school caters to this aspect. Performance driving schools usually helps student adapt to real life challenges. For example, learning in an open space and having to test our unpredictable streets gives the drivers a quick thinking to adapt and improvise.

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2. Defines Your Own Confidence and Identity.

Growing up the biggest problem I failed was forming my own identity and self – confidence. As a writer, I had a problem of understanding my style and being confident in my words. However, over time and with lot’s of hard work, my perspective changed. However, my self-discovery took me through many detours.

When I observed my friends who actually learned driving, their personalities were different. They were more assured and confident about their identity, which got me wondering whether that was their pivotal point of change. Needless to say it was. This is because when you’re a driver, you need to trust your instincts and your own style of driving. Criticism and complaints are often left out of the window, when you’re in the driver’s seat. After a certain point, you develop a confident attitude and your own identity.

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3. Gives You a Sense of Self Reliance and Independence.

Being self-reliant is an amazing feeling, as you finally feel liberated and the guilt of troubling someone doesn’t bother you. To be able to do what you want when you want is an amazing feeling which somewhat represents the feeling of soaring to the sky. Independence and freedom is often times what we fight for, hence having that eventually gives us a weapon to face life’s adversities.

However, some might argue that due to technology development, we are self-reliant in different ways. Uber and cab drivers seems to come to our aid anytime we want, but the amount we spend on such necessities can be solved in the simplest way. Therefore, when you notice teenagers getting their license you’ll sense the independence and the charisma they possess. They tend to rely on themselves more. Years later it makes them extremely vocal and gives them the courage to stand up from themselves. Hence, portraying themselves are extremely reliable individuals

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4. Teaches You The Importance of Responsibility.

Being in a stage, the midst of a kid and an adult we often times enjoy indulging in recklessness. We enjoy being at parties and we enjoy being the center of attention. Responsibility seems to be a boring and annoying word. Our parents seem irritating when they stress on the importance of being responsible. However, one of the first rules of driving always revolves upon being a responsible driver, which means never drink and drive, and never text and drive. This form of responsibility becomes a deterrence for unworthy risk taking and becomes an anchor towards self-control. This early education of responsibility allows transition into adulthood easier which makes the later life easier.

Being able to have self-control guarantees that you will never fall easily towards egocentric challenges and unnecessary financial commitments. Over the years this will develop as part of your character which creates a happy and successful ambience around you. A responsible drives keeps themselves alive and others safe too. In a nutshell, learning how to drive at a young age gives you the opportunity to explore yourself and discover your identity. Over the years, this becomes the pivotal point of change and defines your character. Hence, if you have to chance to drive, take it and don’t think twice, because that will be one of the best decisions in your life.

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Last Updated on June 13, 2019

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

Think you have a boring life?

The definition of boring is dull or not interesting. Maybe you’ve been doing the same thing and living the same life for too long, or maybe your daily routine is limiting your growth and happiness. Whatever your reason is, the following list of 20 things can definitely make any day more interesting. Some of them are silly, while some are more meaningful, so hopefully just reading the list makes your life less boring and sparks your creativity.

Let’s dive in the list to quit your boring life and start living an interesting (and meaning) one!

1. Channel Your 7-Year-Old Self

What would he or she want to do right now? Color? Paint? Run around outside? Play dress up? Eat with your hands? Play that instrument hiding in the back of your closet that you haven’t touched in years?

Just because you’re a grown up doesn’t mean any of this stuff will be less enjoyable than you remember it. Give yourself permission to play.

2. Go Play with Kids

Speaking of little kids, if you have your own or access to any (in a non-creepy way, like they’re your niece or your best friend’s kid, you get the idea) go play with them!

They didn’t create an entire show called Kids Say The Darndest Things because kids aren’t hilarious. They also keep things so simple, and we can really stand to be reminded of this and stop allowing ourselves to get bogged down in boring details.

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3. Order a Hot Dog

While you’re eating it, Google: “What’s in a hot dog?” You decide whether or not you want to finish it.

4. For the Ladies: Wear Your Sexiest Lingerie Under Your Work Clothes

Your “little secret” will leave you feeling anything but boring all day!

5. Play Cell Phone Roulette

You’ll need at least one buddy for this. Scroll through the contacts in your phone, stop on a random one and call the person.

You could spark an incredible catch up session or be incredibly awkward. Neither are boring.

6. Fill out a Pack of Thank-You Cards

Give them to random people who probably don’t get thanked too often for doing what they do ever day.

Ideas: police officers, librarians, servers, baristas, cab drivers, sanitation workers, teachers, people behind any check out counter, receptionists, your friends, the guy at the falafel stand, etc.

7. Sign up for a Class in Something You’ve “Always Wanted to Do”, or Something That Makes You Really Uncomfortable

Ideas: pole dancing, salsa lessons, improv, pottery, cooking, knitting (yup, there are classes for this, too!), karate, boxing, something techy like the workshops they run in Apple stores, get Rosetta Stone and learn that language you’ve always wanted to speak, etc.

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What’s good about joining an interest class is that you will also meet new people!

8. Interview Your Grandparents About Their Lives

You can bet they’ve had some crazy experiences you probably never knew about.

9. Get up on Stage at an Open Mic Night

Whether you’re funny or not, get up on stage and just talk funny. And if you’re not, memorize a few of your favorite jokes and tell those!

10. Do Something for Someone Else That You Wish Someone Would Do for You

We all have a few ideas on this list. I promise you will feel amazing after and anything but bored.

11. Start a DIY Project in Your Home

It doesn’t have to be super complicated. If you need ideas, there’re plenty on Pinterest. Or you can also check out these 30 Awesome DIY Projects that You’ve Never Heard of.

12. Plan a Weekend Trip or an All-Out Vacation

This will give you something to look forward to.

Even if you don’t have the time or money to go on a vacation, plan for a staycation, which is same fun and relaxing!

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13. People Watch

Find a bench in a crowded area (centers of transportation like airports, bus stops and train stations are great for this!) and just observe.

People are infinitely interesting.

14. Eat Something You’ve Never Eaten Before

Bonus points if it’s a random fruit or veggie.

15. Dance

You can get your friends together for a night on the town or just pull up a video on YouTube and bust a move from your own living room.

If you’re feeling extra brave, you can even dance in public and get other people involved.

16. Go to YOUTUBE and Search “Funny Pets” or “Funny Babies”

This is also a great quickie ab workout as you will be laughing hysterically.

17. Pick up a Book and Start Reading

Check out the NY Times Best Sellers lists and grab a new book you can get lost in.

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18. Step Away from the Computer and Go Get Some Time with People You Care About in Real Life

Facebook stalking doesn’t count as real social interaction. You can even share this post with your friends and vote on which one you’d like to do together!

19. Check out a Museum You’ve Never Been to Before

OK, depending on your interests, this one might actually be boring. If you love learning, art or different cultures though, this one is for you!

20. Write a List of Things You Desire and Truly Want

This is a great way to help you figure out the real reason why you’re feeling bored about your life. Maybe you haven’t really done things that you truly enjoy? Maybe what you’ve wanted to do all the time has been left behind?

Think about the list of things you really want to do, and ask yourself why you aren’t doing these things (yet). Then start taking your first step to make what you want happen.

Now go make your life interesting and live your dream life!

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