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Little Boy Is Waken Up By Darth Vader (His Dad) And How He Reacts Is Inspirational

Little Boy Is Waken Up By Darth Vader (His Dad) And How He Reacts Is Inspirational

Rob Lopez is a YouTube vlogger who posts videos every week showcasing his family life, complete with heartwarming messages. Earlier this summer, he decided to set up a special surprise for his two-year-old son, Sebastian, that included his son’s favorite “Star Wars” character: Darth Vader.

Lopez built his costume, got the very important written permission from his wife for the surprise, set up cameras in his little boy’s room, and put his plan into action. But the surprise quickly became an inspirational message on the compassionate nature of children. Now it’s gone viral.

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Rob Lopez unveiling his sweet surprise for his son.

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    Lopez even DIYed his own Darth Vader costume… and got written permission from his wife for the surprise.

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      The moment of truth… Darth Vader wakes up the sleeping 2-year-old, Sebastian.

      Rob Lopez wakes up son as Darth Vader

        Sebastian’s first reaction? Reach for the lightsaber by his bed, which is always at the ready. That’s courage.

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        Rob Lopez son ready for Star Wars Battle

          But then…

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            … He presents him with a book.

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            Rob Lopez as Darth Vader

              What this little boy showed is that violence is never the answer to any solution, Instead of fighting, he chose to show compassion and even shares his own belongings with this “Star Wars” villain.

              Rob Lopez son lesson from star wars

                It’s such an inspiring message from a young child, and it serves to show us that violence is learned, not a natural way of life. I know it’s something we’ll all be thinking about for a while.

                Take a look at the video in full here:

                Featured photo credit: Rob Lopez via Youtube via youtube.com

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                Last Updated on January 18, 2019

                7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

                7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

                Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

                But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

                If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

                1. Limit the time you spend with them.

                First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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                In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

                Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

                2. Speak up for yourself.

                Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

                3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

                This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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                But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

                4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

                Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

                This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

                Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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                5. Change the subject.

                When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

                Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

                6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

                Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

                I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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                You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

                Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

                7. Leave them behind.

                Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

                If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

                That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

                You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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