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3 Ways To Use Traveling As A Self Coaching Session

3 Ways To Use Traveling As A Self Coaching Session

There are numerous articles on traveling to find yourself, and the internet is flooded with different life coaches guiding you find the real “you”, however personal experience and scientific research proves that traveling is one of the best self coaching tools. To put travel and coaching into the same space came from my insights, extensive practice and was inspired by recent studies on health and behavior change.

Traveling as a process has positive effects on the self, and can be very rewarding! You can travel in a group or with another person, but it is even more rewarding if you travel by yourself. For some folks such experiences become business opportunities, to transfer the message and content of the travelling lifestyle. For others, there may be a breakthrough in discovering inner capabilities and thoughts.

When you travel by yourself and learn self reliance, the following factors will be developed:

Self confidence

The number one thing to be developed when pushing your boundaries – traveling, tripping, climbing, you name it! Pushing beyond your comfort zone begins with fear, strange feelings in the stomach and ends with discovery as you face people, situations and the most importantly yourself.

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Personal development

This covers activities that improve awareness and identity, develop talent and potential, enhance quality of life and contribute to the realization of dreams and aspirations. It’s all about who you choose to be during your travels.

Presence and Gratitude

Bring to the forefront your ability to appreciate where you are and what you have. Builds and strengthen your personality first, and strengthen your capacity to enjoy every experience.

Solo travelers become explorers who feel, taste, touche, experience and reflect. The transformation behind the journey will result in life changing virtue – once you leave, you’ll never be the same. Similar to coaching – it opens up the senses, increases awareness and most of all: it changes perspective, alters your points of view and conception of your own self. When you walk to your destination the process itself gives extra benefits to your productivity and happiness, and therefore it is every bit as effective an experience as life-coaching!

The research undertaken by Dr. Julia Zimmermann and Researcher Franz Neyer found long-term adventures can actually alter your personality. Prior to traveling, each and every participant was required to take a test that measured the “Big Five” personality aspects: openness to experience, agreeableness, extraversion, emotional stability and conscientiousness.

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In comparison to those who did not travel, those who did scored higher in conscientiousness, openness to experience, emotional stability and agreeableness.

Here are a few questions and affirmations I came across in my journeys that I would like to share.

Questions:

–          What makes me feel happy here?

–          What can I do for you?

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–          What is the best thing I can do today?

Affirmations for anywhere you go:

–          Open your heart and mind to give and receive.

–          Appreciate, accept, and acknowledge what comes your way.

Traveling – whether an inner journey or actual trip, brings practical benefit to the self. The purpose of life coaching is to bring a sense of inner peace to the participant – a state of being mentally and spiritually at peace, with enough knowledge and understanding to keep oneself strong in the face of discord or stress. This state can be measured and brings the following results according to the research. To summarize, participants were more self-sufficient and self-reliant, they sounded more upbeat and flexible, felt healthy, relaxed and more enthusiastic.

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Whether you go for a short or long journey, even a brief walk from point A to B – maintaining and connecting to the self may give tremendous boons and inspiration. Go for it!

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7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

What do I want to do with my life? It’s a question all of us think about at one point or another.

For some, the answer comes easily. For others, it takes a lifetime to figure out.

It’s easy to just go through the motions and continue to do what’s comfortable and familiar. But for those of you who seek fulfillment, who want to do more, these questions will help you paint a clearer picture of what you want to do with your life.

1. What are the things I’m most passionate about?

The first step to living a more fulfilling life is to think about the things that you’re passionate about.

What do you love? What fulfills you? What “work” do you do that doesn’t feel like work? Maybe you enjoy writing, maybe you love working with animals or maybe you have a knack for photography.

The point is, figure out what you love doing, then do more of it.

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2. What are my greatest accomplishments in life so far?

Think about your past experiences and the things in your life you’re most proud of.

How did those accomplishments make you feel? Pretty darn good, right? So why not try and emulate those experiences and feelings?

If you ran a marathon once and loved the feeling you had afterwards, start training for another one. If your child grew up to be a star athlete or musician because of your teachings, then be a coach or mentor for other kids.

Continue to do the things that have been most fulfilling for you.

3. If my life had absolutely no limits, what would I choose to have and what would I choose to do?

Here’s a cool exercise: Think about what you would do if you had no limits.

If you had all the money and time in the world, where would you go? What would you do? Who would you spend time with?

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These answers can help you figure out what you want to do with your life. It doesn’t mean you need millions of dollars to be happy though.

What it does mean is answering these questions will help you set goals to reach certain milestones and create a path toward happiness and fulfillment. Which leads to our next question …

4. What are my goals in life?

Goals are a necessary component to set you up for a happy future. So answer these questions:

Once you figure out the answers to each of these, you’ll have a much better idea of what you should do with your life.

5. Whom do I admire most in the world?

Following the path of successful people can set you up for success.

Think about the people you respect and admire most. What are their best qualities? Why do you respect them? What can you learn from them?

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You’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.[1] So don’t waste your time with people who hold you back from achieving your dreams.

Spend more time with happy, successful, optimistic people and you’ll become one of them.

6. What do I not like to do?

An important part of figuring out what you want to do with your life is honestly assessing what you don’t want to do.

What are the things you despise? What bugs you the most about your current job?

Maybe you hate meetings even though you sit through 6 hours of them every day. If that’s the case, find a job where you can work more independently.

The point is, if you want something to change in your life, you need to take action. Which leads to our final question …

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7. How hard am I willing to work to get what I want?

Great accomplishments never come easy. If you want to do great things with your life, you’re going to have to make a great effort. That will probably mean putting in more hours the average person, getting outside your comfort zone and learning as much as you can to achieve as much as you can.

But here’s the cool part: it’s often the journey that is the most fulfilling part. It’s during these seemingly small, insignificant moments that you’ll often find that “aha” moments that helps you answer the question,

“What do I want to do with my life?”

So take the first step toward improving your life. You won’t regret it.

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