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40 Things You’d Better Do Before 50

40 Things You’d Better Do Before 50

Everyone lives once only. Though all of us have plenty of dreams and goals, it usually ends up with nothing done. And a number of us end up just fulfilling what others want, but not what we truly enjoy. 50 is a critical age that we’re only left with half of the time, if we’re fortunate enough to live to 100. So why not do what you want and what can make you happy as soon as possible?

Here are 40 inspiring things that worth a try before you turn 50.

  1. Go to see your favorite band.
  2. Forgive someone from your past. Holding on to bitterness is like buying poison and taking it yourself, so forgive them – even if it is only for your benefit.
  3. Cut out any toxic friends you have. They will never change, and you don’t need that negativity.
  4. Go on holiday with your best friends. Even if it is just one night away in the country it will be memorable, hilarious and fun.
  5. Travel by yourself. You can spend the day doing exactly what you want, and you will fall in love with being alone all over again.
  6. Forgive your parents for any mistakes they made while raising you. No-one is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes.
  7. Book a massage after a stressful day. You deserve it!
  8. Buy coffee or lunch for someone who looks like they need it. You will both feel better afterwards.
  9. Read the books that everyone is always talking about.
  10. Go out for a meal by yourself. Wear an outfit you love, order your favorite meal and leave whenever you are ready – bliss.
  11. Volunteer for a good cause that is close to your heart.
  12. Watch your favorite movie once again.
  13. Complete a physical challenge, from a marathon to doing 10 push-ups.
  14. Quit the job you hate.
  15. Make something from scratch. It feels amazing to create something beautiful by yourself.
  16. Learn a foreign language. It will make traveling easier, and it will expand your world perspective.
  17. Find a phrase or quote that moves you and make it your personal mantra. Say it to yourself every day whenever you feel stressed or nervous.
  18. Watch the sunset. It may be a cliché, but it really is beautiful and awe-inspiring.
  19. Conquer a fear that you have struggled with for a long time. Fear only holds you back!
  20. Treat yourself to something you really want, like a pair of expensive shoes. It is okay once in a while – you deserve to own something that makes you feel happy!
  21. Send your parents flowers and tell them that you love them.
  22. Write a letter to your partner or child to tell them how much you love and care for them. Everyone deserves to feel loved sometimes, and they will keep the letter for years to come.
  23. Make the effort to like something you currently dislike, like a music genre or mushrooms – you could find out that you actually love it!
  24. Grow a plant from a seed.
  25. Visit all of your country’s historical landmarks. It will help you to learn more about your country, and you will be inspired by the beautiful things you see.
  26. Apply for your dream job. You never know what will happen!
  27. Be a mentor for someone you know. It could be a work college, a friend or someone in your family – there are people everywhere who are looking for help and advice.
  28. Go without technology for a week. You will enjoy a very peaceful and tranquil week.
  29. Do something that you may regret later. Sometimes the best things happen when we decide to take a risk.
  30. Spend a night camping under the stars.
  31. Start your own business.
  32. Live somewhere that is totally different to your home town. This will broaden your horizons and help you to understand alternative perspectives.
  33. Quit a bad habit, e.g. eating too much at a time.
  34. Email your hero to let them know how much they mean to you. Even if they never read it, you will feel better for writing it.
  35. Make a fool of yourself without feeling embarrassed.
  36. Go for a picnic on your own. You’ll learn to enjoy yourself.
  37. Read jokes and laugh until your ribs hurt.
  38. Print out your favorite photos and put them in frames around your home.
  39. Learn something you’ve never imagined before.
  40. Forgive yourself, for what you’ve regretted doing.

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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