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If There’s A Constant Joker Around You, Never Let Him/Her Go

If There’s A Constant Joker Around You, Never Let Him/Her Go

Do you have a friend who is always cracking jokes and making everyone laugh?

Do you love to spend time with them because they always make you feel happy?

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If this is you, then you are a very lucky person. Constant jokers are often seen as the clown of the group, who is always laughing and joking. Some people might think they don’t have much depth, but often the funny friends are the wisest. They focus on making the people around them happy, and digging out the funniest parts in daily life.

It is reassuring to know that whatever is going on in your life, your friend will always make laughing easy. They deserve your appreciation and thanks – it is important to acknowledge the wonderful people who make you smile. Here are 8 things that you should thank the constant joker in your group for.

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1. The joker will make you smile every day

Every time you see the constant joker you laugh. They always know exactly what to say to make you smile, and every conversation is filled with funny jokes and comments. You love having a friend that you know you will always have fun with, no matter what happens.

2. The joker is creative and witty

If you ask most writers which genre is hardest to write, most will say comedy. It takes a combination of creativity, wit and timing to make you laugh until your stomach hurts. The funny friend knows hundreds of fun, quirky facts, and often you find that you are learning while you are laughing.

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3. The joker can handle awkward social situations

Most people hate awkward situations, but the joker always knows how to handle them. The funny friend knows that part of being funny is being able to see where other people are coming from. With a few good-hearted jokes, the whole group will start to relax and feel more confident.

4. The joker will calm you down when you are upset

If you are upset, the first person you ring is your funny friend. They are the only person who can make you smile while you are upset, and they always show you that the sadness will pass and that you will be happy again.

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5. The joker is able to make you laugh when you are furious

When you are furious there are few people who you like to be around. Most people just make you feel angrier, but your funny friend has the ability to make you see sense. You appreciate that (and you know that they will crack a great joke about the person who has made you so angry.)

6. The joker is observant

They’re always looking out for funny things that they can poke fun at – for instance, your old Disney themed bed sheets. They have a keen sense of their surroundings and they are always looking out for absurdities in day-to-day life.

7. The joker helps you to believe in your future

Whenever you start to doubt yourself, the joker is there to reassure you. They may mostly make jokes, but they also have a serious side. They let you know that some mistakes might make you feel bad at the time, but within a few days you will both be laughing about it.

8. The joker helps you to grow as a person

Spending time with such a light-hearted, positive person has made you a better person. You are better at dealing with problems and being self-reliant, and you are eternally thankful to your friend for making your life even better.

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Last Updated on December 2, 2018

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

When giving a presentation or speech, you have to engage your audience effectively in order to truly get your point across. Unlike a written editorial or newsletter, your speech is fleeting; once you’ve said everything you set out to say, you don’t get a second chance to have your voice heard in that specific arena.

You need to make sure your audience hangs on to every word you say, from your introduction to your wrap-up. You can do so by:

1. Connecting them with each other

Picture your typical rock concert. What’s the first thing the singer says to the crowd after jumping out on stage? “Hello (insert city name here)!” Just acknowledging that he’s coherent enough to know where he is is enough for the audience to go wild and get into the show.

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It makes each individual feel as if they’re a part of something bigger. The same goes for any public speaking event. When an audience hears, “You’re all here because you care deeply about wildlife preservation,” it gives them a sense that they’re not just there to listen, but they’re there to connect with the like-minded people all around them.

2. Connect with their emotions

Speakers always try to get their audience emotionally involved in whatever topic they’re discussing. There are a variety of ways in which to do this, such as using statistics, stories, pictures or videos that really show the importance of the topic at hand.

For example, showing pictures of the aftermath of an accident related to drunk driving will certainly send a specific message to an audience of teenagers and young adults. While doing so might be emotionally nerve-racking to the crowd, it may be necessary to get your point across and engage them fully.

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3. Keep going back to the beginning

Revisit your theme throughout your presentation. Although you should give your audience the credit they deserve and know that they can follow along, linking back to your initial thesis can act as a subconscious reminder of why what you’re currently telling them is important.

On the other hand, if you simply mention your theme or the point of your speech at the beginning and never mention it again, it gives your audience the impression that it’s not really that important.

4. Link to your audience’s motivation

After you’ve acknowledged your audience’s common interests in being present, discuss their motivation for being there. Be specific. Using the previous example, if your audience clearly cares about wildlife preservation, discuss what can be done to help save endangered species’ from extinction.

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Don’t just give them cold, hard facts; use the facts to make a point that they can use to better themselves or the world in some way.

5. Entertain them

While not all speeches or presentations are meant to be entertaining in a comedic way, audiences will become thoroughly engaged in anecdotes that relate to the overall theme of the speech. We discussed appealing to emotions, and that’s exactly what a speaker sets out to do when he tells a story from his past or that of a well-known historical figure.

Speakers usually tell more than one story in order to show that the first one they told isn’t simply an anomaly, and that whatever outcome they’re attempting to prove will consistently reoccur, given certain circumstances.

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6. Appeal to loyalty

Just like the musician mentioning the town he’s playing in will get the audience ready to rock, speakers need to appeal to their audience’s loyalty to their country, company, product or cause. Show them how important it is that they’re present and listening to your speech by making your words hit home to each individual.

In doing so, the members of your audience will feel as if you’re speaking directly to them while you’re addressing the entire crowd.

7. Tell them the benefits of the presentation

Early on in your presentation, you should tell your audience exactly what they’ll learn, and exactly how they’ll learn it. Don’t expect them to listen if they don’t have clear-cut information to listen for. On the other hand, if they know what to listen for, they’ll be more apt to stay engaged throughout your entire presentation so they don’t miss anything.

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