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If There’s A Constant Joker Around You, Never Let Him/Her Go

If There’s A Constant Joker Around You, Never Let Him/Her Go

Do you have a friend who is always cracking jokes and making everyone laugh?

Do you love to spend time with them because they always make you feel happy?

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If this is you, then you are a very lucky person. Constant jokers are often seen as the clown of the group, who is always laughing and joking. Some people might think they don’t have much depth, but often the funny friends are the wisest. They focus on making the people around them happy, and digging out the funniest parts in daily life.

It is reassuring to know that whatever is going on in your life, your friend will always make laughing easy. They deserve your appreciation and thanks – it is important to acknowledge the wonderful people who make you smile. Here are 8 things that you should thank the constant joker in your group for.

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1. The joker will make you smile every day

Every time you see the constant joker you laugh. They always know exactly what to say to make you smile, and every conversation is filled with funny jokes and comments. You love having a friend that you know you will always have fun with, no matter what happens.

2. The joker is creative and witty

If you ask most writers which genre is hardest to write, most will say comedy. It takes a combination of creativity, wit and timing to make you laugh until your stomach hurts. The funny friend knows hundreds of fun, quirky facts, and often you find that you are learning while you are laughing.

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3. The joker can handle awkward social situations

Most people hate awkward situations, but the joker always knows how to handle them. The funny friend knows that part of being funny is being able to see where other people are coming from. With a few good-hearted jokes, the whole group will start to relax and feel more confident.

4. The joker will calm you down when you are upset

If you are upset, the first person you ring is your funny friend. They are the only person who can make you smile while you are upset, and they always show you that the sadness will pass and that you will be happy again.

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5. The joker is able to make you laugh when you are furious

When you are furious there are few people who you like to be around. Most people just make you feel angrier, but your funny friend has the ability to make you see sense. You appreciate that (and you know that they will crack a great joke about the person who has made you so angry.)

6. The joker is observant

They’re always looking out for funny things that they can poke fun at – for instance, your old Disney themed bed sheets. They have a keen sense of their surroundings and they are always looking out for absurdities in day-to-day life.

7. The joker helps you to believe in your future

Whenever you start to doubt yourself, the joker is there to reassure you. They may mostly make jokes, but they also have a serious side. They let you know that some mistakes might make you feel bad at the time, but within a few days you will both be laughing about it.

8. The joker helps you to grow as a person

Spending time with such a light-hearted, positive person has made you a better person. You are better at dealing with problems and being self-reliant, and you are eternally thankful to your friend for making your life even better.

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Amy Johnson

Amy is a writer who blogs about relationships and lifestyle advice.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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