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Four Reasons Why You Should Embrace Your Disability

Four Reasons Why You Should Embrace Your Disability

Disabilities are tied to struggles and setbacks, sending false messages that disabled individuals are incompetent and incapable. Those struggles are real, but can be overcome by embracing your disability. That means, learning to look squarely at success as a product of struggle, which can make a significant difference in your education, career and personal life. When you love yourself, disability and all, no one can deny you your power, passion and influence. It’s all about perspective!

Here are four positive products of embracing your disability.

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1. You become a teacher

It’s natural for people to have misconceptions of disabilities and individuals that have them.  When you embrace your disability you begin to become an expert of it.  Therefore, you can enlighten others in a way that produces awareness and breakdown myths about disabled individuals. When a person asks about your disability, your experience, or expresses any inkling of curiosity, you have an opportunity to educate and share your personal and inspirational story of disability, struggle and success. Embracing your disability is more evidence that people with disabilities are not limited in what they can achieve.

2. You become a beacon of inspiration

Inspiration can come in many different forms. Disabilities can be a significant source for inspiration, although it can be fairly easy to feel alone or discouraged. Through your success over disability, whether in your work, school or even relationships, you can empower others to overcome their struggle. You never know the impact you have when you share your triumphs and tribulations. Perseverance inspires perseverance. In a sense, you can give others incentive to believe in themselves. Perhaps they, too, will learn to embrace their disability. When you embrace your unique challenges and win, you inspire greater human potential.

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3. You become the owner

When you own your disability, you become proud. You regain your self-confidence and don’t waste any time trying to pretend or hide (your disability); you value your time and make the most of it. You become less interested in pity and more attuned to self-reflection and self-approval. Complaints and feelings of inadequacy cease. You become kind to yourself and rejoice in your individuality. You rise into the understanding that having a disability means that you are competent and not incompetent. Self-gratitude becomes a daily and natural practice. When you embrace your disability, comparisons end, enhancing your focus and enabling you to function at your best. Your disability becomes simply a merit badge of challenges overcome and the ability to succeed

4. You become an advocate

When you have a disability, you are a part of exceptional community, a lively community of extraordinary individuals with special gifts, skills and talents. Unfortunately, this same community continues to suffer misconception, mistreatment, misrepresentation and stigma.  When you love and embrace your disability, you stand proudly for a larger group of people. Educators, parents and people with disabilities will look towards you for advice, guidance, and most importantly for hope. You become a lifelong crusader for the disabled community. Thus, you are an ally, an advocate, a hero, and a friend.  You are a voice for the world to hear and the change the world needs to see.

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The reasons you should embrace your disability far exceeds the above four points. In fact, there are an abundant of other reasons you should embrace your disability. Therefore, I want to encourage you to find more reasons to embrace your own disability. They are right in front of you. Ultimately, by embracing your disability, you can produce rewarding results for yourself, your family and your community. So make embracing your disability a lifetime and healthy habit!

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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