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5 Amazing Things That Happen When You Stop Caring About Missing Out

5 Amazing Things That Happen When You Stop Caring About Missing Out

We’ve all been there: said no to an invite to a night out with friends only to stay home and wonder if we’re missing out on something important. We wanted to stay home and relax, but we kept thinking about what our friends are doing or if something awesome is happening when we’re not there with them. We felt left out and didn’t relax at all. We felt as if they were happier than us, doing much more interesting stuff.

The truth is that we’ve never been more wrong. There are plenty of things that we can do when we are all by ourselves that will make us enjoy our free time and never again think about feeling left out and missing out on new updates and conversations. We can be so much happier if we stop caring about those trivial things and concentrate on ourselves. Here is a list of 5 amazing things that will happen if you simply stop caring about missing out.

1. You’ll Focus On Your Work

When you stop thinking about what everyone else is doing and stop scrolling through Facebook and Instagram updates, you’ll find that you have so much more time for other things. You can focus on your work and get things done before your deadlines. You will raise your productivity and feel much better and more accomplished. The fear of missing out on some social event is stopping you from being as successful at your job as you could be.

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Stop looking at your friends’ pictures and updates and thinking about how they have it much better than you – they have better clothes, they travel around the world, they eat the best food. Those things are not important and you shouldn’t waste your precious time thinking about them.

When you realize that missing out is not as important as you thought, you’ll be able to do some actual work, which will make your productivity and creativity go up. You’ll be amazed with how much happier you will be, since there’s nothing that can make you feel more accomplished and successful than getting your own work done.

2. You’ll Feel Better About Yourself

When you stop caring and stressing about what is going on at some social event when you’re not there, you’ll find that you’re actually happy, even though you didn’t realize it before. It doesn’t matter if you’re home alone — you’re doing stuff that you love and that makes you feel excited.

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Whether you’re reading a book or binge-watching your favorite TV show, you are happy and there’s nothing more important than that. You should spend your time doing the things you love, the things that fulfill you, not worrying about what other people are doing. You should be at the top of your list and do everything in your power to make yourself happy. You can spend more time with your family and enjoy the comforts of your home even more.

You can spend some quality time with your significant other and make your relationship stronger. You will not believe how much better you will feel about yourself if you stop caring about everyone else and how they spend their time. Focus on yourself and your time, and you will surely thrive.

3. You’ll Get Rid of Stress

Do you realize how much stress constant worrying is causing? You should ask yourself if worrying about being left out of a couple of social events is really worth the trouble. When you take just a second to think about it, you’ll realize it’s not worth it at all. Why would you stress over unimportant things and risk your health when you can easily just stop caring?

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It’s as simple as that. Stress can be dangerous for your health and you need to learn to get rid of it. Choose not to care about trivial things, such as missing out, and you can focus on your mind and body. You can start exercising, since that will also relieve you of stress. Physical exercise positively affects your nerves and can improve your overall mood. You can focus on your hobbies, which will definitely leave no room for stress. Find the things that make you feel better and you will never again stress over things that are not worth wasting your time on.

4. You’ll Have More Time For Self-Reflection

When you stop caring about others and focus on yourself, you will have more time for self-reflection. You’ll have more time to think about your goals and priorities in life and come up with more effective ways of achieving them. You’ll get to see what your place in the world is and where you are in your plans for the future. You’ll find out more about yourself and discover the things that truly matter to you.

Self-reflection is one of the most important things you can do for yourself and, once you get to know yourself to the core, you will be the happiest you’ve ever been. You’ll be free to do anything you want to and choose to go for whatever adventure comes to your mind.

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5. You’ll Relish In The Present

When you stop caring about missing out, you will appreciate the present more. You can look around you and pay attention to the stuff that really matters. You will seize every moment and make the best of it if you simply choose not to worry about being left out of some events that may not even be as interesting as you might think. You will cherish your time more, which will eventually lead to you feeling better about yourself and your life in general. You will be happy and fulfilled at every moment of your life, and nothing is more important than that. When you feel mentally better, that will result in you feeling physically better. You can achieve all that by learning to enjoy every single moment of your life and not waste your time thinking about missing out.

Constantly caring about missing out on something can suck your energy and make you feel bad about yourself. Stop caring about unimportant things and you will be filled with positive energy that will also reflect on everyone around you. Live your life to the fullest and amazing things will happen to you.

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Last Updated on September 28, 2020

How To Study Effectively: 7 Simple Tips

How To Study Effectively: 7 Simple Tips

The brain is a tangled web of information. We don’t remember single facts, but instead we interlink everything by association. Anytime we experience a new event, our brains tie the sights, smells, sounds and our own impressions together into a new relationship.

Our brain remembers things by repetition, association, visual imagery, and all five senses. By knowing a bit about how the brain works, we can become better learners, absorbing new information faster than ever.

Here are some study tips to help get you started:

1. Use Flashcards

Our brains create engrained memories through repetition. The more times we hear, see, or repeat something to ourselves, the more likely we are to remember it.

Flashcards can help you learn new subjects quickly and efficiently. Flashcards allow you to study anywhere at any time. Their portable nature lends them to quick study sessions on the bus, in traffic, at lunch, or in the doctor’s office. You can always whip out your flashcards for a quick 2 to 3 minute study session.

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To create effective flashcards, you need to put one point on each flashcard. Don’t load up the entire card with information. That’s just overload. Instead, you should dedicate one concept to each card.

One of the best ways to make flashcards is to put 1 question on the front and one answer on the back. This way, you can repeatedly quiz yourself into you have mastered any topic of your choice.

Commit to reading through your flash cards at least 3 times a day and you will be amazed at how quickly you pick up new information.

As Tony Robbins says,

“Repetition is the mother of skill”.

2. Create the Right Environment

Often times, where you study can be just as important as how you study. For an optimum learning environment, you’ll want to find a nice spot that is fairly peaceful. Some people can’t stand a deafening silence, but you certainly don’t want to study near constant distractions.

Find a spot that you can call your own, with plenty of room to spread out your stuff. Go there each time you study and you will find yourself adapting to a productive study schedule. When you study in the same place each time, you become more productive in that spot because you associate it with studying.

3. Use Acronyms to Remember Information

In your quest for knowledge, you may have once heard of an odd term called “mnemonics”. However, even if you haven’t heard of this word, you have certainly heard of its many applications. One of the most popular mnemonic examples is “Every Good Boy Does Fine”. This is an acronym used to help musicians and students to remember the notes on a treble clef stave.

An acronym is simply an abbreviation formed using the intial letters of a word. These types of memory aids can help you to learn large quantities of information in a short period of time.

4. Listen to Music

Research has long shown that certain types of music help you to recall information. Information learned while listening to a particular song can often be remembered simply by “playing” the songs mentally in your head.

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5. Rewrite Your Notes

This can be done by hand or on the computer. However, you should keep in mind that writing by hand can often stimulate more neural activity than when writing on the computer.

Everyone should study their notes at home but often times, simply re-reading them is too passive. Re-reading your notes can cause you to become disengaged and distracted.

To get the most out of your study time, make sure that it is active. Rewriting your notes turns a passive study time into an active and engaging learning tool. You can begin using this technique by buying two notebooks for each of your classes. Dedicate one of the notebooks for making notes during each class. Dedicate the other notebook to rewriting your notes outside of class.

6. Engage Your Emotions

Emotions play a very important part in your memory. Think about it. The last time you went to a party, which people did you remember? The lady who made you laugh, the man who hurt your feelings, and the kid who went screaming through the halls are the ones you will remember. They are the ones who had an emotional impact.

Fortunately, you can use the power of emotion in your own study sessions. Enhance your memory by using your five senses. Don’t just memorize facts. Don’t just see and hear the words in your mind. Create a vivid visual picture of what you are trying to learn.

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For example, if you are trying to learn the many parts of a human cell, begin physically rotating the cell in your minds eye. Imagine what each part might feel like. Begin to take the cell apart piece by piece and then reconstruct it. Paint the human cell with vivid colors. Enlarge the cell in your mind’s eye so that it is now six feet tall and putting on your own personal comedy show. This visual and emotional mind play will help deeply encode information into your memory.

7. Make Associations

One of the best ways to learn new things is to relate what you want to learn with something you already know. This is known as association, and it is the mental glue that drives your brain.

Have you ever listened to a song and been flooded by memories that were connected to it? Have you ever seen an old friend that triggered memories from childhood? This is the power of association.

To maximize our mental powers, we must constantly be looking for ways to relate new information with old ideas and concepts that we are already familiar with.

You can do this with the use of mindmapping. A mind map is used to diagram words, pictures, thoughts, and ideas into a an interconnected web of information. This simple practice will help you to connect everything you learn into a global network of knowledge that can be pulled from at any moment.

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Learn more about mindmapping here: How to Mind Map to Visualize Your Thoughts (With Mind Map Examples)

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