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5 Amazing Things That Happen When You Stop Caring About Missing Out

5 Amazing Things That Happen When You Stop Caring About Missing Out

We’ve all been there: said no to an invite to a night out with friends only to stay home and wonder if we’re missing out on something important. We wanted to stay home and relax, but we kept thinking about what our friends are doing or if something awesome is happening when we’re not there with them. We felt left out and didn’t relax at all. We felt as if they were happier than us, doing much more interesting stuff.

The truth is that we’ve never been more wrong. There are plenty of things that we can do when we are all by ourselves that will make us enjoy our free time and never again think about feeling left out and missing out on new updates and conversations. We can be so much happier if we stop caring about those trivial things and concentrate on ourselves. Here is a list of 5 amazing things that will happen if you simply stop caring about missing out.

1. You’ll Focus On Your Work

When you stop thinking about what everyone else is doing and stop scrolling through Facebook and Instagram updates, you’ll find that you have so much more time for other things. You can focus on your work and get things done before your deadlines. You will raise your productivity and feel much better and more accomplished. The fear of missing out on some social event is stopping you from being as successful at your job as you could be.

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Stop looking at your friends’ pictures and updates and thinking about how they have it much better than you – they have better clothes, they travel around the world, they eat the best food. Those things are not important and you shouldn’t waste your precious time thinking about them.

When you realize that missing out is not as important as you thought, you’ll be able to do some actual work, which will make your productivity and creativity go up. You’ll be amazed with how much happier you will be, since there’s nothing that can make you feel more accomplished and successful than getting your own work done.

2. You’ll Feel Better About Yourself

When you stop caring and stressing about what is going on at some social event when you’re not there, you’ll find that you’re actually happy, even though you didn’t realize it before. It doesn’t matter if you’re home alone — you’re doing stuff that you love and that makes you feel excited.

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Whether you’re reading a book or binge-watching your favorite TV show, you are happy and there’s nothing more important than that. You should spend your time doing the things you love, the things that fulfill you, not worrying about what other people are doing. You should be at the top of your list and do everything in your power to make yourself happy. You can spend more time with your family and enjoy the comforts of your home even more.

You can spend some quality time with your significant other and make your relationship stronger. You will not believe how much better you will feel about yourself if you stop caring about everyone else and how they spend their time. Focus on yourself and your time, and you will surely thrive.

3. You’ll Get Rid of Stress

Do you realize how much stress constant worrying is causing? You should ask yourself if worrying about being left out of a couple of social events is really worth the trouble. When you take just a second to think about it, you’ll realize it’s not worth it at all. Why would you stress over unimportant things and risk your health when you can easily just stop caring?

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It’s as simple as that. Stress can be dangerous for your health and you need to learn to get rid of it. Choose not to care about trivial things, such as missing out, and you can focus on your mind and body. You can start exercising, since that will also relieve you of stress. Physical exercise positively affects your nerves and can improve your overall mood. You can focus on your hobbies, which will definitely leave no room for stress. Find the things that make you feel better and you will never again stress over things that are not worth wasting your time on.

4. You’ll Have More Time For Self-Reflection

When you stop caring about others and focus on yourself, you will have more time for self-reflection. You’ll have more time to think about your goals and priorities in life and come up with more effective ways of achieving them. You’ll get to see what your place in the world is and where you are in your plans for the future. You’ll find out more about yourself and discover the things that truly matter to you.

Self-reflection is one of the most important things you can do for yourself and, once you get to know yourself to the core, you will be the happiest you’ve ever been. You’ll be free to do anything you want to and choose to go for whatever adventure comes to your mind.

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5. You’ll Relish In The Present

When you stop caring about missing out, you will appreciate the present more. You can look around you and pay attention to the stuff that really matters. You will seize every moment and make the best of it if you simply choose not to worry about being left out of some events that may not even be as interesting as you might think. You will cherish your time more, which will eventually lead to you feeling better about yourself and your life in general. You will be happy and fulfilled at every moment of your life, and nothing is more important than that. When you feel mentally better, that will result in you feeling physically better. You can achieve all that by learning to enjoy every single moment of your life and not waste your time thinking about missing out.

Constantly caring about missing out on something can suck your energy and make you feel bad about yourself. Stop caring about unimportant things and you will be filled with positive energy that will also reflect on everyone around you. Live your life to the fullest and amazing things will happen to you.

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Last Updated on June 13, 2019

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

Think you have a boring life?

The definition of boring is dull or not interesting. Maybe you’ve been doing the same thing and living the same life for too long, or maybe your daily routine is limiting your growth and happiness. Whatever your reason is, the following list of 20 things can definitely make any day more interesting. Some of them are silly, while some are more meaningful, so hopefully just reading the list makes your life less boring and sparks your creativity.

Let’s dive in the list to quit your boring life and start living an interesting (and meaning) one!

1. Channel Your 7-Year-Old Self

What would he or she want to do right now? Color? Paint? Run around outside? Play dress up? Eat with your hands? Play that instrument hiding in the back of your closet that you haven’t touched in years?

Just because you’re a grown up doesn’t mean any of this stuff will be less enjoyable than you remember it. Give yourself permission to play.

2. Go Play with Kids

Speaking of little kids, if you have your own or access to any (in a non-creepy way, like they’re your niece or your best friend’s kid, you get the idea) go play with them!

They didn’t create an entire show called Kids Say The Darndest Things because kids aren’t hilarious. They also keep things so simple, and we can really stand to be reminded of this and stop allowing ourselves to get bogged down in boring details.

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3. Order a Hot Dog

While you’re eating it, Google: “What’s in a hot dog?” You decide whether or not you want to finish it.

4. For the Ladies: Wear Your Sexiest Lingerie Under Your Work Clothes

Your “little secret” will leave you feeling anything but boring all day!

5. Play Cell Phone Roulette

You’ll need at least one buddy for this. Scroll through the contacts in your phone, stop on a random one and call the person.

You could spark an incredible catch up session or be incredibly awkward. Neither are boring.

6. Fill out a Pack of Thank-You Cards

Give them to random people who probably don’t get thanked too often for doing what they do ever day.

Ideas: police officers, librarians, servers, baristas, cab drivers, sanitation workers, teachers, people behind any check out counter, receptionists, your friends, the guy at the falafel stand, etc.

7. Sign up for a Class in Something You’ve “Always Wanted to Do”, or Something That Makes You Really Uncomfortable

Ideas: pole dancing, salsa lessons, improv, pottery, cooking, knitting (yup, there are classes for this, too!), karate, boxing, something techy like the workshops they run in Apple stores, get Rosetta Stone and learn that language you’ve always wanted to speak, etc.

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What’s good about joining an interest class is that you will also meet new people!

8. Interview Your Grandparents About Their Lives

You can bet they’ve had some crazy experiences you probably never knew about.

9. Get up on Stage at an Open Mic Night

Whether you’re funny or not, get up on stage and just talk funny. And if you’re not, memorize a few of your favorite jokes and tell those!

10. Do Something for Someone Else That You Wish Someone Would Do for You

We all have a few ideas on this list. I promise you will feel amazing after and anything but bored.

11. Start a DIY Project in Your Home

It doesn’t have to be super complicated. If you need ideas, there’re plenty on Pinterest. Or you can also check out these 30 Awesome DIY Projects that You’ve Never Heard of.

12. Plan a Weekend Trip or an All-Out Vacation

This will give you something to look forward to.

Even if you don’t have the time or money to go on a vacation, plan for a staycation, which is same fun and relaxing!

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13. People Watch

Find a bench in a crowded area (centers of transportation like airports, bus stops and train stations are great for this!) and just observe.

People are infinitely interesting.

14. Eat Something You’ve Never Eaten Before

Bonus points if it’s a random fruit or veggie.

15. Dance

You can get your friends together for a night on the town or just pull up a video on YouTube and bust a move from your own living room.

If you’re feeling extra brave, you can even dance in public and get other people involved.

16. Go to YOUTUBE and Search “Funny Pets” or “Funny Babies”

This is also a great quickie ab workout as you will be laughing hysterically.

17. Pick up a Book and Start Reading

Check out the NY Times Best Sellers lists and grab a new book you can get lost in.

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18. Step Away from the Computer and Go Get Some Time with People You Care About in Real Life

Facebook stalking doesn’t count as real social interaction. You can even share this post with your friends and vote on which one you’d like to do together!

19. Check out a Museum You’ve Never Been to Before

OK, depending on your interests, this one might actually be boring. If you love learning, art or different cultures though, this one is for you!

20. Write a List of Things You Desire and Truly Want

This is a great way to help you figure out the real reason why you’re feeling bored about your life. Maybe you haven’t really done things that you truly enjoy? Maybe what you’ve wanted to do all the time has been left behind?

Think about the list of things you really want to do, and ask yourself why you aren’t doing these things (yet). Then start taking your first step to make what you want happen.

Now go make your life interesting and live your dream life!

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