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10 Things Mrs. Right Does To Make Mr. Right Commit To Her

10 Things Mrs. Right Does To Make Mr. Right Commit To Her

We all want to find that somebody who holds the key to our hearts. Everybody deserves a chance to love and to be loved. However, it is not easy to be committed to somebody. It takes hard work and effort on both sides for a relationship to work. Do you ever wonder — “how did that particular woman makes her man fall head over heels for her?” It’s not a mystery, she probably employed some useful tactics to get her man to commit to her. You deserve to have a committed partner and some of these things just might help.

Here are 10 things Mrs. Right does to make Mr. Right commit to her:

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1. She trusted him.

Trust is a simple but not easy word to carry on our shoulders. She is willing to put her doubts and uncertainty aside to fully give herself to him, in order to trust him. Sure, she might not know if he is definitely the man she can fully trust with her heart, but she is willing to take a chance with him.

2. She makes him smile.

A woman who knows how to make her man smile is surely a keeper. It doesn’t take a comedian to make a man smile. She is willing to show him every side of her without worrying of being judged. An authentic woman has a tendency to be funny and have the ability to relax enough to crack a joke or give a small gift. All she cares about is simply to see the smile on his face.

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3. She communicates with him.

The committed woman knows the importance of communication in a relationship. She doesn’t keep things to herself or expect her man to know exactly what she is thinking. She knows that he can’t read her mind, so she is willing to tell him what is in her mind. She talks to him about everything, from her favorite reality show to his favorite football games. A woman that wants her man to commit also delves into deeper topics like her feelings about her man.

4. She is supportive.

She might not fully understand all of his choices, but she is always there to support her man in all of his pursuits. She believes that he can achieve greatness. A dedicated woman supports her man especially at times when he is doubtful of himself. She makes sure he knows that she will always be there for him no matter what he chose to pursue.

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5. She encourages him.

It is easy for a man to find a woman when he has all the things in the world going his way. But a woman who sticks around through his thick and thins are not easy to find. She is not only staying when he is having a hard time, but she puts him back on track with her support when he is lost. She walks through the hardship together with him and assures him that things are going to work out for him eventually.

6. She is genuine.

She is not one to put out an act just to meet the expectations and standards of the society. A woman ready to commit is always true to herself. She is willing to show her man the good and bad side of her, even though she understands that not everybody will adore or like what she has to offer. She is happy to have him appreciating her for who she is.

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7. She is loyal.

She might have many other men she encounters in her life, but she chooses to stay faithful to him. He might not be the only man who wants her, but she knows that he is the one and only man she wants to be with. Faithfulness is the foundation of every committed relationship. She knows the boundaries she has to keep with her male friends, because she understands that if her closeness with her male friends bothers him, it is only because he cares. She makes sure she doesn’t step out of the line with her male friends because she respected her man.

8. She takes good care of him.

She makes sure he is well taken care of physically and emotionally. She makes sure he eats well, sleeps well and keeps track of his emotions. She knows what to say and when to say them. She understands that man doesn’t like to be nagged, so she keeps a good pace of telling him the right things when it is appropriate.

9. She is patient with him.

A committed woman is willing to wait patiently. She makes sure he is well taken care of by her, and she does everything in her power to make the relationship work. She knows that if he is the man she believes him to be, he will remain committed.

10. She connects with the people in his life.

She relates herself well with the people that matters to him. She understands that there are people in his life that he also cares about besides her. She connects well with the people around him, so that he doesn’t have to worry that she would feel neglected when he is around them.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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