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10 Things Mrs. Right Does To Make Mr. Right Commit To Her

10 Things Mrs. Right Does To Make Mr. Right Commit To Her

We all want to find that somebody who holds the key to our hearts. Everybody deserves a chance to love and to be loved. However, it is not easy to be committed to somebody. It takes hard work and effort on both sides for a relationship to work. Do you ever wonder — “how did that particular woman makes her man fall head over heels for her?” It’s not a mystery, she probably employed some useful tactics to get her man to commit to her. You deserve to have a committed partner and some of these things just might help.

Here are 10 things Mrs. Right does to make Mr. Right commit to her:

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1. She trusted him.

Trust is a simple but not easy word to carry on our shoulders. She is willing to put her doubts and uncertainty aside to fully give herself to him, in order to trust him. Sure, she might not know if he is definitely the man she can fully trust with her heart, but she is willing to take a chance with him.

2. She makes him smile.

A woman who knows how to make her man smile is surely a keeper. It doesn’t take a comedian to make a man smile. She is willing to show him every side of her without worrying of being judged. An authentic woman has a tendency to be funny and have the ability to relax enough to crack a joke or give a small gift. All she cares about is simply to see the smile on his face.

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3. She communicates with him.

The committed woman knows the importance of communication in a relationship. She doesn’t keep things to herself or expect her man to know exactly what she is thinking. She knows that he can’t read her mind, so she is willing to tell him what is in her mind. She talks to him about everything, from her favorite reality show to his favorite football games. A woman that wants her man to commit also delves into deeper topics like her feelings about her man.

4. She is supportive.

She might not fully understand all of his choices, but she is always there to support her man in all of his pursuits. She believes that he can achieve greatness. A dedicated woman supports her man especially at times when he is doubtful of himself. She makes sure he knows that she will always be there for him no matter what he chose to pursue.

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5. She encourages him.

It is easy for a man to find a woman when he has all the things in the world going his way. But a woman who sticks around through his thick and thins are not easy to find. She is not only staying when he is having a hard time, but she puts him back on track with her support when he is lost. She walks through the hardship together with him and assures him that things are going to work out for him eventually.

6. She is genuine.

She is not one to put out an act just to meet the expectations and standards of the society. A woman ready to commit is always true to herself. She is willing to show her man the good and bad side of her, even though she understands that not everybody will adore or like what she has to offer. She is happy to have him appreciating her for who she is.

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7. She is loyal.

She might have many other men she encounters in her life, but she chooses to stay faithful to him. He might not be the only man who wants her, but she knows that he is the one and only man she wants to be with. Faithfulness is the foundation of every committed relationship. She knows the boundaries she has to keep with her male friends, because she understands that if her closeness with her male friends bothers him, it is only because he cares. She makes sure she doesn’t step out of the line with her male friends because she respected her man.

8. She takes good care of him.

She makes sure he is well taken care of physically and emotionally. She makes sure he eats well, sleeps well and keeps track of his emotions. She knows what to say and when to say them. She understands that man doesn’t like to be nagged, so she keeps a good pace of telling him the right things when it is appropriate.

9. She is patient with him.

A committed woman is willing to wait patiently. She makes sure he is well taken care of by her, and she does everything in her power to make the relationship work. She knows that if he is the man she believes him to be, he will remain committed.

10. She connects with the people in his life.

She relates herself well with the people that matters to him. She understands that there are people in his life that he also cares about besides her. She connects well with the people around him, so that he doesn’t have to worry that she would feel neglected when he is around them.

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Last Updated on September 12, 2019

12 Things You Should Remember When Feeling Lost in Life

12 Things You Should Remember When Feeling Lost in Life

Even the most charismatic people you know, whether in person or celebrities of some sort, experience days where they feel lost in life and isolated from everyone else.

While it’s good to know we aren’t alone in this feeling, the question still remains:

What should we do when we feel lost and lonely?

Here are 12 things to remember:

1. Recognize That It’s Okay!

The truth is, there are times you need to be alone. If you’ve always been accustomed to being in contact with people, this may prove difficult.

However, learning how to be alone and comfortable in your own skin will give you confidence and a sense of self reliance.

We cheat ourselves out of the opportunity to become self reliant when we look for constant companionship.

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2. Use Your Lost and Loneliness as a Self-Directing Guide

You’ve most likely heard the expression: “You have to know where you’ve been to know where you’re going.”

Loneliness also serves as a life signal to indicate you’re in search of something. It’s when we’re in the midst of solitude that answers come from true soul searching.

Remember, there is more to life than what you’re feeling.

3. Realize Loneliness Helps You Face the Truth

Being in the constant company of others, although comforting sometimes, can often serve as a distraction when we need to face the reality of a situation.

Solitude cuts straight to the chase and forces you to deal with the problem at hand. See it as a blessing that can serve as a catalyst to set things right!

4. Be Aware That You Have More Control Than You Think

Typically, when we see ourselves as being lost or lonely, it gives us an excuse to view everything we come in contact with in a negative light. It lends itself to putting ourselves in the victim mode, when the truth of the matter is that you choose your attitude in every situation.

No one can force a feeling upon you! It is YOU who has the ultimate say as to how you choose to react.

5. Embrace the Freedom That the Feeling of Being Alone Can Offer

Instead of wallowing in self pity, which many are prone to do because of loneliness, try looking at your circumstance as a new-found freedom.

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Most people are in constant need of approval of their viewpoints. Try enjoying the fact that  you don’t need everyone you care about to support your decisions.

6. Acknowledge the Person You Are Now

Perhaps you feel a sense of loneliness and confusion because your life circumstances have taken you away from the persona that others know to be you.

Perhaps the new you differs radically from the old. Realize that life is about change and how we react to that change. It’s okay that you’re not who you used to be.

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7. Keep Striving to Do Your Best

Often those who are feeling isolated and unto themselves will develop a defeatist attitude. They’ll do substandard work because their self esteem is low and they don’t care.

Never let this feeling take away your sense of worth! Do your best always and when you come through this dark time, others will admire how you stayed determined in spite of the obstacles you had to overcome.

And to live your best life, you must do this ONE thing: step out of your comfort zone.

8. Don’t Forget That Time Is Precious

When we’re lost in a sea of loneliness and depression, it’s all too easy to reflect on regrets of past life events. This does nothing but feed negativity and perpetuate the situation.

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Instead of falling prey to this common pitfall, put one foot in front of the other and acknowledge every positive step you take. By doing this, you can celebrate the struggles you overcome at the end of the day.

9. Remember, Things Happen for a Reason

Every circumstance we encounter in our life is designed to teach us and that lesson is in turn passed on to others.

Sometimes we’re fortunate enough to figure out the lesson to be learned, while other times, we simply need to have faith that if the lesson wasn’t meant directly for us to learn from, how we handled it was observed by someone who needed to learn.

Your solitude and feeling of lost, in this instance, although painful possibly, may be teaching someone else.

10. Journal During This Time

Record your thoughts when you’re at the height of loneliness and feeling lost. You’ll be amazed when you reflect back at how you viewed things at the time and how far you’ve come later.

This time (if recorded) can give you a keen insight into who you are and what makes you feel the way you feel.

11. Remember You Aren’t the First to Feel This Way

It’s quite common to feel as if we’re alone and no one else has ever felt this way before. We think this because at the time of our distress, we’re silently observing others around us who are seemingly fine in every way.

The truth is, we can’t possibly know the struggles of those around us unless they elect to share them. We ALL have known this pain!

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Try confiding in someone you trust and ask them how they deal with these feelings when they experienced it. You may be surprised at what you learn.

12. Ask for Help If the Problem Persists

The feeling of being lost and lonely is common to everyone, but typically it will last for a relatively short period of time.

Most people will confess to, at one time or another, being in a “funk.” But if the problem persists longer than you feel it should, don’t ignore it.

When your ability to reason and consider things rationally becomes impaired, do not poo poo the problem away and think it isn’t worthy of attention. Seek medical help.

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Final Thoughts

Loneliness and a sense of feeling lost can in many ways be extremely painful and difficult to deal with at best. However, these feelings can also serve as a catalyst for change in our lives if we acknowledge them and act.

Above anything, cherish your mental well being and don’t underestimate its worth. Seek professional guidance if you’re unable to distinguish between a sense of freedom for yourself and a sense of despair.

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