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8 Inspiring Life Lessons From A Navy SEAL

8 Inspiring Life Lessons From A Navy SEAL

Success requires discipline, hard work, resilience, and mental toughness. There is nowhere this is more emphasized than in being a member of the Navy SEALs (Sea, Air, Land Teams). This elite team of soldiers focuses on succeeding through arduous and unknown terrains. They take their pains as joys. They focus on resilience and proficiency in making maximum impact. On the pathways to success, you have to focus on elements that can drive you to success and redefinition. If you want to excel above average and become the success you desire to be, you should listen to these lessons learned by a member of the elite Navy SEALs.

1. You don’t quit

The Navy SEAL creed says, “I will not quit. I persevere and thrive in adversity. If knocked down, I will get back up. Every time. I am never out of the fight.” In life, you will face lots of challenges and obstacles. Sometimes this means you have to enter new waters that you really do not know about. What will push you over these challenges is persistence and determination.

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2. You always make your timing perfect

Timing is very much emphasized in the Navy SEALs. In life, timing could affect what goes into your bank account. The best way to make time count is to choose your priorities and expend your energy in such a way that you can execute your priorities accurately.

3. Always take every objective seriously

Navy SEALs emphasize three things: a goal, how to execute that goal, and what happens when the goal is reached. Success in life all boils down to how you commit yourselves to your goals. You have to make sure your decisions and actions are executed in such a way that you can succeed and move on to your next mission.

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4. Make sure you pay attention to everything you learn

Whether it is a mistake you made before, or what a mentor has told you, focus on your past experiences and use it to your advantage. In the Navy SEALs, you are taught leadership and learn from it. To be successful in life, you must learn to make corrections on your journey to success. You must be adaptable, move swiftly, and learn from your past success.

5. Destroy the competition

Learning from the Navy SEALs, you understand that you don’t have to tolerate competition. There will always be competition on the road to success. Communicate properly with your team and focus on bringing down the competition to your advantage.

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6. Be flexible and adapt

Navy SEALs are trained to adapt to their terrain and their environment. In the journey to success it is not about talent or knowledge, it is about flexibility and adaptation. Who succeeds best is not the one who is strongest or fastest, but the one who can adapt to change and be flexible enough to survive through the arduous terrain of life.

7. Always be disciplined

Whatever ambition you have, attaining them requires discipline. It takes discipline to work hard. It takes discipline to make progress. In the Navy SEALs, discipline is always emphasized. You can’t afford to succumb to distractions and disorganization. Sometimes this may require getting out of your comfort zone and pushing yourself to more practice. Try making an impact in every other area of life and you will attain success.

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8. Mere talent will not take you there

Many think that talent is enough. They think it can take you to wherever you want. However, this notion is wrong. Talent and skill will never be enough. This is why many of the elites in SEAL training do not succeed easier than others. Actually, a lot of the time such athletes are the first ones to quit. To be successful you need more than talent, you need hard work and persistence. You also need to learn from your mistakes and failures. There is a huge difference between skills and success. In the long run, you have to fight for what you want.

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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